Trust Building in Relationships & Resolving Trust Issues: Your Morals and Character Are Not Enough
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Building trust in your relationship should not be left to chance or assumptions.
Trust in an intimate relationship is much too important to be left to casual interactions, chance, or assumptions. In this less than 2-hour read, you will come away with a different view of trust and how to really build it in a relationship.
Some of what is covered:
• Why you cannot just base your trust on character or morals.
• How the way we have been taught to build trust sets us up for disappointment in relationships.
• Why trust-building in an intimate relationship is different from trust-building in other relationships.
• Why you absolutely cannot be in fear of trusting too much in an intimate relationship.
• The importance of having trust in yourself.
• The one thing you to do if you are the victim of sexual infidelity and the one thing you cannot allow your partner to do.
• Why we tend to rush to trust and why we should not.
• Why you absolutely must see cheating for what it is and what it is not.
• Why conversational tone is so important in rebuilding trust.
• Why you should not be too quick to forgive someone who has violated your trust.
Take this new approach to building trust in your relationship and watch your relationship thrive.
Peta Jane Kayes
Relationship and spirituality aficionado. MBA - Human Resource Management.
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Trust Building in Relationships & Resolving Trust Issues - Peta Jane Kayes
Rescue Your Relationship
Trust Building In Relationships & Resolving Trust Issues – Your Morals And Character Are Not Enough
Building Trust To Completely Remove Doubt And Anxiety
Book 3 of the
Bikini Relationship Rescue
Series
Relationship Books For Extraordinary Relationships
By: Peta Jane Kayes
Copyright
First Original Edition, July 2015, Revised April 2022
Copyright © 2015, by Peta Jane Kayes, All rights reserved.
No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, or by any information storage and retrieval system without the prior written permission of the publisher, except in the case of very brief quotations embodied in critical reviews and certain other noncommercial uses permitted by copyright law.
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Disclaimer
I have tried to the best of my ability, to recreate events, places and conversations from my memories of them. In order to maintain anonymity in some instances I have changed the names of individuals and places; I may have changed some identifying characteristics and details such as physical properties, occupations and places of residence.
Some of the stories used in this book are for illustrative purposes and any resemblance to any particular situation or person is purely coincidental.
This book should not be seen as an attempt to dispense professional advice as I am not a professional counselor. The reader is encouraged to seek the services of a professional where such help is deemed appropriate. The information contained in this book is a reflection of my own personal experiences and should be viewed only as such.
About The Bikini Relationship Rescue Series – Book 3
Trust in an intimate relationship is trust unlike in any other form of relationship. That is because the trust that has to be experienced in an intimate relationship in order for it to be successful requires so much more than just our good ways, our good character, our nice personality, and even our strong morals.
In this book 3 of the Bikini Relationship Rescue series we examine why trust in an intimate relationship is first and foremost about one simple thing – comfort – and why it takes more than just morals, or good character to achieve a high level of comfort. A lack in the requisite level of comfort in that type of relationship leads to relationship dysfunction and ultimately even breakup.
The Bikini Relationship Rescue book series is one woman's true story of how she transformed her own marriage from mundane to extraordinary by addressing issues such as trust. Frustrated with the humdrum nature of her marriage, and driven by her own heart-felt aspirations and a determination to not let her marriage fall into mediocrity, she found a way to arrive at the answers to the issues that were plaguing her relationship.
Filled with unconventional insights, personal stories, amusing anecdotes, and compelling illustrations each book of the series covers different aspects of an intimate relationship and demonstrates strategies that can completely transform any relationship.
Book 3 in the series focuses on trust building strategies that go way beyond the normal conventional advice about building trust in an intimate relationship. Your view of what trust is in an intimate relationship and how it must be built will likely be completely revamped after reading book 3. You will gain invaluable insights towards building and rebuilding trust in your relationship - the type of trust that will make you want to turn up fully for your relationship every day, instead of being hesitant and fearful.
Dedication
This book is dedicated to all of you who are looking for the extraordinary intimate relationship; who refuse to tolerate mediocrity in your relationship, married or not.
As my appreciation for downloading this book, I am offering you a free gift:
The simple tool I used to help transform my own marriage.
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Other books in the Bikini Relationship Rescue series by Peta Jane Kayes
The Bikini Relationship Rescue – Book 1
What’s Behind Your Relationship Problems & Relationship Issues?
– The Answers
Actionable Relationship Advice For Couples With Relationship Issues
The Bikini Relationship Rescue – Book 2
Relationship Advice
6
Principles To Completely Transform Your Marriage Into Extraordinary
The Bikini Relationship Rescue – Book 4
Relationship Quiz:
The 33 Relationship Questions
Fun And Naughty Quiz To Unmask Your Relationship
The Bikini Relationship Rescue – Book 5
Rescue Your Relationship
Emotional Intimacy Issues and Emotional Intimacy in Marriage
Building Emotional Intimacy
And Overcoming The Fear of Intimacy
To Receive Free Updates on all of the above including free chapters, visit:
PetaJaneKayes.com
My Other Books
Radically Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity
Because Cheating Is A Fork In The Road
Odes To You My Love : From My Heart To Yours
Table of Contents
Introduction
Chapter 1: Understanding Trust In an Intimate Relationship
Chapter 2: Having Adequate Trust In Yourself
Chapter 3: Identifying Trust Blind-Spots
Chapter 4: When Trust Is Unintentionally Violated
Chapter 5: Setting The Environment For Trust To Thrive
Chapter 6: Seeing Cheating For What It Is
Chapter 7: Rebuilding Trust
Your FREE Rebuilding Trust Resources
Conclusion
About The Author
INTRODUCTION
What is trust really? What is trust really about? Why is trust so important in an intimate relationship? Here is the bottom-line on trust in an intimate relationship – it is first and foremost about comfort. Comfort that removes inhibitions, that makes it desirable to give fully, comfort that allows you to appreciate more, comfort to let you be your best in your relationship. That is the kind of trust and the only kind that is viable in an intimate relationship; that is the kind of trust you should want in your relationship. That is the kind of trust I want to speak to you about.
Thank you so much for downloading my book, the 3rd in the Bikini