Finding True Happiness
By Fulton Sheen
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Most people are still actively searching for true and lasting happiness, but are looking in the wrong places. It's easy to be misled into believing that happiness is found in money, rank, or renown. While these things are not inherently bad, and can, in fact, be used to do much good, they will, in the final analysis, not bring a happiness that endures.
Once we realize that nothing less than a complete union with God will satisfy our souls, we will not let transitory things distract or disappoint us. This is because then, according to Fulton Sheen, you put no more hope in things than they can bear. You cease looking for first-rate joys where there are only tenth-rate pleasures.
In addition to addressing the topic of joy vs. pleasure in Finding True Happiness, Fulton Sheen also helps us gain the right perspective on things such as loneliness and the secret of sanctity. This brings us to our ultimate purpose, which is found in God alone. Only by losing oneself in God, will we find our true selves—and true happiness along with it.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5"God will love you, of course, even though you do not love Him, but
remember, if you give Him only half your heart, He can make you only
50% happy." It is the synthesis of the book.
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Finding True Happiness - Fulton Sheen
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Introduction
Archbishop Fulton Sheen rescued me from misery when I was in college. I had been operating under the common misconception that happiness was to be found in possessing certain external things. When I failed to obtain those things, I was miserable. My happiness had been held back from me, I thought. Those things I had been so intent on obtaining--whether a grade in a class, a particular job, or a friendship--had power over me. What was I to do?
Archbishop Sheen told me just what to do through his writings. The first was to let go of the idea that happiness is to be found in things outside oneself. Happiness does not depend on accumulating more things, but on the mindset we have concerning the things we already do possess. Happiness does not consist in having more, but in appreciating more. As Sheen wrote, It is not so much what happens in your life that matters; it is rather how you react to it.
We oftentimes don’t have direct control over external things, but we do have control over our internal view of those things. What is important is not getting an external result, but putting our best effort forth in trying to do something good. The talents we have must be put to work, but if they yield only a certain return, we do not murmur because the return is not greater,
the great archbishop explained.
It’s not a matter of sloth, but of reasonable desires. We don’t expect what cannot be given, whether from an inherent possibility (getting water from a book) or from a particular situation (another baseball team playing better than our team on a given day). We’ll never get a drink from a book, but tomorrow our team may get a win over the team that beats us today.
The most important battle, however, is not external. It is the one that occurs in the soul.
He who does not find the enemy within will find the enemy without,
Sheen stated. He said everyone has a civil war
going on inside between the higher and lower self, but if the reality of this war is not accepted, we will end up bringing that war into the lives of those around us. The choice is between engaging in a battle within, or a battle without. If we don’t combat our own selfishness, we will selfishly combat other people.
It may seem at first glance that by simply opting out of the internal war, we can make everything okay. However, denying our selfishness doesn’t work. Doing so will only make us more selfish, and thus, more miserable. By contrast, when we admit our need for self-denial, we will be able to enjoy peace--a peace that emanates from the inside out. This brings us to a beautiful paradox regarding the very name, Fulton Sheen. In Gaelic, fulton
means war
and sheen
means peace.
In one person, there are two distinct names, and peace comes after (internal) war.
Fulton J. Sheen was born in El Paso, Illinois on May 8, 1895, the eldest of Delia and Newton Sheen’s four boys. After battling tuberculosis as an infant, he went on to become an excellent student. High school valedictorian honors were followed by degrees from St. Viator College in Illinois and St. Paul Seminary in Minnesota. After being ordained to the priesthood, Sheen pursued more degrees from The Catholic University of America in Washington, D.C., and the University of Louvain in Belgium. He then became the first American to earn an agrege en philosophie, a so-called super-doctorate
--and with highest honors at that.
Far from letting so much education prevent him from communicating with the average man, Sheen retained his ability to speak the truth in straightforward terms. Analogies, simple stories, and humor were tools he used to convey profound realities in plain language. His popularity was manifested in the fact that he had over 60 books published on topics ranging from St. Therese of Lisieux to Communism.
In this wide array of subjects, Sheen’s most needed and helpful seems to have been finding true happiness. So much sadness was prevalent in his time, which he attributed to increased selfishness and corresponding distance from God. If you do not worship God, you worship something, and nine times out of ten it will be yourself,
he stated bluntly.
You have a duty to worship God, not because He will be imperfect and unhappy if you do not, but because you will be imperfect and unhappy
if you do not.
By applying this principle to the Soviet Union, Sheen demonstrated the great destruction that atheistic regimes do to the human soul. At a time when some wanted to overlook the evils of Communism, Sheen was presenting them to the American public in books, and on the radio and television. One of the most memorable episodes of his popular television shows was one