Restored Marriage

RESTORED MARRIAGE

[Marital Bliss]

Charles Nakembetwa Shamsulla

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Restored Marriage, ISBN 9781370878116, Produced 2016. No part of this book can be reproduced, to be kept otherwise electronically, mechanically, photocopying, recording or otherwise without the written permission of the author. For information and permission of use, please contact the author by the following conducts:

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

INTRODUCTION

CHAPTER ONE: EXPOSSING SECRETS OF MARRIAGE

CHAPTER TWO: DISCOVER YOUR POSITION IN MARRIAGE

CHAPTER THREE: KNOW THE REAL ENEMIES OF YOUR MARRIAGE

CHAPTER FOUR: MAKING YOUR MARRIAGE

CHAPTER FIVE: WEALTH AND MONEY

CHAPTER SIX: MARRIAGE RESTORATION

CHAPTER SEVEN: PROTECTORS OF YOUR MARRIAGE

CHAPTER EIGHT: GET RID OF THE GREAT HARLOT

CHAPTER NINE: MINISTRY OF RECONCILIATION

CHAPTER TEN: THE BOND OF LOVE

CHAPTER ELEVEN: THE CHIEF EXERCUTIVE OF YOUR MARRIAGE

CHAPTER TWELVE: CALL THE PRODIGAL CHILDREN TO COME HOME

CHAPTER THIRTEEN: TRUST GOD FOR BETTER TOMORROW BUT LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR TODAY

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INTRODUCTION

Your marriage will never be the same. Your marriage is not a biological accident neither a sociological coincident, but rather a God divine arrangement. Your marriage is called the holiness of God which He loves. We can together stop the enemies which make your marriage a cheap meat to devour. The light has come through this book, darkness must flee away. Welcome to your marriage miracle manna.

The agony and anguish caused my marriage disintegration is growing day by day and giving the victims no rest. Many today are taking it as a normal way of life; therefore, it is common to tolerate the marriage difficulties they are passing through. Some Christians consider marriage difficulties as their cross to bear throughout their life time. But if you ask them where they are carrying that cross to, they will not give you the answer. The challenges come from all angles regardless of the life time of the marriage, both old and newly wedded couples suffer the same fate.

Some think that changing partners may bring a relief, but they end up being double disappointed. The biggest question today is how I can restore the former glory of my marriage. Can my marital life shine again as it was in the beginning? Why marriage is the most scourged institution in the world today. Who is bewitching the marriages of our people today? One could expect that with the modern science and technological achievements, the marriage institution could also improve significantly, but the opposite is the case.

Civilization today is measured in terms of material accumulation, hall of fame, political popularity and other glittering materials of this world at the expense of marital life. Many more people today are taking short term marriage contracts as a way of relieving the pressure, yet they find themselves not fulfilled as they purported. The more human being succeeds in other areas of life such as education, financial prosperity, political successes, the more they encounter more problems and obstacles in the area of marriage. The controversy is so eminent, should I not seek other prosperity so I can succeed in my marital life? How can one balance between the two.

Married couples today are under constant siege, they don’t know what will tomorrow bring in their marriage. The scourge of marital disintegration is taking toll to the children and the people around the victims, when it hits, you cannot escape her sweeping missile. Marriage is the first and the original institution of God. The designer and the founder is God himself. The marriage secretes are with God himself, no one can claim co-ownership or partnership.

God is the architect of marriage. This is the main reason why our marriage is receiving assault from the hand of our arch enemy, the devil himself and his agencies. The devil will oppose anything so long is from God. Look the undisputed proof that our marriage is engineered in the hands of God the Almighty. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and the two shall be one fresh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. [Ephesians 5:31, 32].

The achievement he made in his first career to go and begin a completely new one regardless of his age: the first incidence was the case of Abraham and the second is marriage career. First and foremost, you need to understand that your marriage is a mystery of God. No one should cheat you to know your marriage better than God. The devil and all his cohorts will never stand to know the secrets of marriage, no mortal man can claim to know secretes of the kingdom of God, unless it is revealed to him by God. The secret things belonging unto the Lord our God: but those things which are revealed belong unto us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law.[ Deuteronomy 29:29].

Let no devil deceive you to know marriage better than God the author of marriage. Marriage was and will remain a mystery of our God. Mystery means a secret, something concealed. Marriage is not an open book examination where anyone can go and make cut and pest. Until is revealed, the human race will continue to glow in darkness. Thank God he will not leave us in darkness. He says he will reveal his secrets to his servants so we cannot remain in darkness and be molested by our enemy. Remember darkness can destroy your life and gross darkness can scatter your marriage completely. God forbid. They know not, neither will they understand; they walk on in darkness: all the foundation of the earth one out of course. [Psalms 82:5].

Knowledge of the kingdom is what bails us from the destruction of darkness. When you know what God wants you to know you are sure that darkness will no longer gain dominion into your life. When you know and you take the necessary steps to come out of marriage darkness, we will no longer be a victim of ignorance. If you humble before him to receive his instructions, you will no longer glow in marriage darkness. Your marriage will shine more and more into a perfect light to the glory of God and to your amazement. Illumination and more insight of our God are needed to survive the assault of our arch-enemy the devil and his agents.

God said let us make man in our image and our likeness, then God said it is not good for a man to be alone because according to the formula of God, Adam was still deformed at the absence of Eve in all aspects no matter what. Until Eve was brought to the scene, Adam still looked half grounded in all aspects. He was half sound mind, to say the least; he could not reason properly, until the other half of Adam was presented in the form of Eve, he was not complete. You can have your own human ideas about marriage, but this is the mystery of God. It is not good for a man to be alone means it is not complete and not comprehensive.

Marriage is God’s comprehensiveness in human system. God said I shall make a helper meet for him, means to cover the areas of your human inadequate. Anything denying you to enjoy this mystery is the agent from the pit of hell no matter how he will camouflage himself. God will open your spiritual eyes through the pages in this book to see and grab your God given marital inheritance. And the Lord said, it is not good that the man should be alone; I shall make him a helper meet for him. [Genesis 2:18].

If it is not good with God it cannot get better with any human being no matter what. There are people who will say, okay, I don’t care whether I have a successful marriage or not but so longer as life continues, is better that way. Check out that could be the voice of the enemy trying to deceive you as he usually does best. Let God be true and all demons be liars. I mentioned early that marriage is God’s completeness and fulfillment in human system. If you encounter a doctrine that professing to deny you from enjoying your marital life, know straight forward that you are standing face to face with the anti-Christ.

You don’t need a prophet to tell you that is the messenger of doom. God says it is not good no power can challenge dead or alive. Remember Eve was deceived to eat the fruit of the forbidden tree and she came out worse simply because she challenged God. Forbidding marrying and commanding to abstain from meats, which God has created to be received with thanksgiving of them which believe and know the truth. [1Timothy 4:3].

Some are being deceived by the enemy to the extent of forbidding people to enjoy the gift of marriage among men and some folks have yielded to this type of negative doctrines. No wonder the enemy and his agents are still using deceit and corruption to make the act of marriage pervasive and sinful before God the author and the creator of marriage. God forbid your marriage will be healed. By the help of the Holy Spirit, we shall explore pertinent issues that make your marital life to look like ugly thing to behold.

It is the will of our God to make you enjoy your marriage so long as you are alive. God is willing to work with you to destroy any thing that is hanging around your marriage to make you look like a cheap meat to the devil. The devil is not the final authority in the affairs of your marriage, but God is. With devotion and prayer, let us go along the pages of this book and discover the mysteries of God about our marriage. You will discover the mysteries to make you sustain the heat that is scourging the world of marriage today.

If you trust God and you are born again you need to understand that your marriage is designed and engineered by God, your father. As a father can prepare marriage banquet for his son or daughter, so God prepares your marriage and he is aware of whatever situation you’re passing through. God is the great king and you’re his son/daughter and your marriage was prepared by him. The kingdom of heaven is like unto a certain king, which made a marriage for his son [Matthew 22:2].

I know some professional doubters will argue that, the above verse was just a parable Jesus used to illustrate his teachings. But the reality is, God is a great king and we are his sons and daughters in his kingdom. He engineers and makes our marriage a success if we follow his instructions. Look closely the following evidence to show that we are his sons and daughters. And Jesus himself began to be about thirty years of age, being(as was supposed) the son of Joseph, which was the son of Heli…..Which was the son of Enos, which was the son of Seth, which was the son of Adam, which was the son of God.[Luke 3:23-32].

If Adam was the son of God, there’s no doubt that his marriage was prepared and engineered by God himself. In that very same order of creation we have been redeemed and restored back to the former glory Adam had during creation, we have retained the son-ship which was lost by Adam at the Garden of Eden. You’re no longer an outsider as far God is concerned you belong to his royal priesthood. You need to see your marriage the way God sees it and not otherwise. He says we are his sons and daughters in his kingdom and we deserve the royal treatment. God himself is responsible and interested of what is going on in your marriage.

Jesus said I and the children whom you have given me I have kept them and none of them was lost, and again he said, I go back to my father who is also your father. Jesus said to not hold on to me, for I have not yet ascended to the father. Go instead to my brothers and tell them, I am ascending to my father and your father [Luke 3:23, 38]. But you’re a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar peoples; that you should show forth the praises of him who has called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. [John 20:17].

You belong to his royal family; therefore you deserve a royal treatment, chief among which is the beautification of your marriage. Understanding this fact will give bountiful score in handling your marital life. God wants you to succeed and enjoy your marital life more than what you ever imaged or thought. God is not scared to fight and kill every enemy that is attacking your marriage. So many people take their marriage as a biological coincidence that it is common for a grownup man or woman to marry and get married because everybody else does so. Remember the bible says that as long as you live like common men, you will die like common men; if you think like common men you will perform and act like common men because by order of creation every seed will reproduce of its kind. I have said your gods; and all off are children of the most high. But you shall die like men, and fall like one of the princes. [Psalms 82:6.7].

This book will expose the fact that all the problems and the attacks you receive in your marital life are engineered by our arch enemy, the devil and his agents. You don’t need to focus your attention to your partner when things begin to get tough. God will not give you marriage and the same time gives you hurdles to put a stumbling block along the way. When God blesses he does not take back from you. Only the devil can give you from the right hand and collect from you from the left hand. The enemy wants to make your marriage look ugly and unpleasant. He wants you to regret and curse God who has prepared and given you that marriage for your fulfilment and accomplishment.

For the gifts and the calling of God are without repentance. [Romans 11:29].You should understand straight away that the doings and work of God is the direct opposite of the doing and the working of the devil and his cohorts. If the gifts and the calling of God are without repentance, then the gifts and the rewards of the devil come with revenge and payback. In the kingdom of darkness, you may be rewarded but you need to know for sure that you’re going to pay a heavy price. Do not envy the rewards from the kingdom of darkness.

The devil is directly responsible for the challenges you’re experiencing in your marriage. Unfortunately, many Christians do not see it this way; they always focus their attention to their partners as the cause of their marital problems. This was the case with Adam in the beautiful garden, when the devil attacked their marriage; he focused his attention to his wife. This is the biggest mistakes people are making today.

And the man said, the woman whom thou gave to be with me, she gave of the tree, and I did eat. [Genesis 3:12]. By the time you finish reading this book you will have enough understanding to know your real enemy of your marriage. You will no longer focus attention to your partner. You will know the defenders of your marriage and how to engage them to restore the former glory of your marriage.

CHAPTER ONE

EXPOSSING SECRETS OF MARRIAGE

The secret things belongs unto the Lord our God: but those things which are revealed belong unto us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law. [Deuteronomy 29:29] Secrets of marriage are with God, the design and the programming of marriage lies with the Almighty himself. We can see the intense preparation in the Garden of Eden before the first couple was brought to the scene. He made available all the provisions before introducing the first king and the queen. He created the beautiful flowers, the rivers, the animals and all the creatures just to prepare for the marriage of his son and daughter, Prince Adam and Princess Eve. And God said, let the earth bring forth grass, and the herb yielding seed, after its kind and the tree yielding fruit, whose seed was in itself, upon the earth: and it was so. [Genesis 1:11].

The preparation went on and on until all the materials were made perfect for the occasion. Immediately we see after the marriage banquet of the first precious couple, the devil was extremely angered and began to fight the plan of God right away. All other preparations and the creations did not anger Satan: but when the marriage of first couple was conducted we see the devil was furious and began to fight the plan of God. This should teach us a big lesson that, no matter the problems you face in your marriage the engineer and the architecture is the devil himself and his agents. The common mistakes many Christians make today is venting their anger, rant and directing accusative finger to their partners instead of facing their real enemy. The same mistake was committed by the first couple: Prince Adam and Princess Eve. And the man said, the woman whom though gives to be with me, she gave of the tree and I did eat. [Genesis 3:12].

Know that the chief engineer is the devil himself and his agents. Your partner is only used knowingly or unknowingly. For you to vent your anger and frustration towards him/her is a clear sign of spiritual immaturity. The bible admonishes us in [Romans 12 verse 2] not to conform to the pattern of this world. When you are born again you’re supposed to see life in a different perspective: the godly perspective as opposed to the pattern of the people of this world. God is ready to make amendment of what is happening in your marriage right now. Don’t concentrate on the magnitude of the problem; only look on God your creator, he will correct what seems uncorrectable.

In this chapter we shall unveil by the help of the Holy Spirit the secrets of marriage as ordained in God’s plan. If you are born again Christian you fit exactly on Gods agenda. God will not see his