How to Get Sober and Stay Sober: Steps 1 Through 5
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This step-by-step guide helps those new to recovery start building the foundation for a lifetime of sobriety. The workbook makes the powerful, healing concepts of Steps One through Five come alive through thought-provoking exercises, concise and simple language, and helpful illustrations. How to Get Sober and Stay Sober provides a thorough look at the first five Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous, which guides newcomers through the process of understanding chemical dependence, how it has affected them, and what they need to do to get help.
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CHEMICAL DEPENDENCE
I don’t smoke pot and drink to get high anymore. I do it just to get by.
What Is Chemical Dependence?
Chemical dependence is a disease that results in the compulsion to drink or use other drugs despite negative consequences. A chemically dependent person experiences a craving for a chemical. Chemicals can mean either alcohol or other mind-altering drugs. Chemical dependence affects the whole person — mind, feelings, body, values, and spirit.
For a chemically dependent person, the need for the chemical is always psychological but may be physical as well. Chemically dependent people use chemicals to feel good or avoid the discomfort of not using the chemical. As tolerance builds, the chemically dependent person must use more of the chemical to experience the high
he or she is looking for.
Chemical dependence is often referred to as a disease of feelings. Often, chemically dependent people have grown up in families in which feelings were not openly expressed. Many never learned how to express feelings honestly and instead learned to hide or manipulate feelings.
A chemical is a chemical is a chemical. To recover, chemically dependent people must abstain from all mind-altering drugs.
A Primary Disease
Chemical dependence is the primary disease — not the result of another problem. The disease of chemical dependence comes first: other consequences are caused by the dependence.
Physical consequences can include:
• Mental illness
• Heart disease
• Cancer
• Lung disease
• Malnutrition
• Hardening of the arteries
Social consequences can include:
• Dishonesty
• Loss of job
• Financial problems
• Spiritual loss
• Lying
• Family problems
• Hiding out
By focusing on recovery from chemical dependence, we can start changing the consequences or problems that have resulted from our primary disease.
A Chronic, Progressive, Fatal Disease
Chronic
Chemical dependence is a chronic disease. It progresses slowly, is constant, and lasts for a long period of time. Other chronic diseases include diabetes and heart disease.
The disease of chemical dependence is slow and subtle. Chemically dependent people and those close to them may not be aware of the changes the disease causes in the dependent person, the family, and other relationships.
Progressive
The disease of chemical dependence is relentless. If left unchecked, the chemically dependent person moves from an early stage in which the chemical appears helpful and seductive to an uncontrollable craving.
In the late stages of the disease, the chemically dependent person’s body starts to give up. Many physical problems arise. Mental, emotional, and spiritual strength is sapped. Problems become more severe over time.
Eventually Fatal
If the chemically dependent person continues to abuse alcohol or other drugs, the addiction will eventually lead to death due to:
• Liver, heart, kidney, pancreas, or lung failure
• Overdose
• Suicide
• Car, water, or fire-related accidents
• Violence
The Path to Addiction
Have you been on the path to addiction? Have you experienced problems caused by your use of alcohol or other drugs but been unable to change your behavior or use? Do you feel as if you move from one crisis to the next?
As chemically dependent people, we often do not connect our use of alcohol or other drugs with the problems which result from that use. For example, we might deny that our financial, family, health, or legal problems are a result of drinking or using chemicals.
The path of chemical dependence often includes problems in various areas of our lives. Though we may not connect these problems with our chemical use, we may find in the process of recovery that