365 Ways to Reduce Stress: Everyday Tips to Help You Relax, Rejuvenate, and Refresh
By Eve Adamson
()
About this ebook
Eve Adamson
Eve Adamson is an eight-time New York Times bestselling author and multiple-award-winning freelance writer who has written or cowritten more than seventy-five books, including the #1 New York Times bestselling book The Fast Metabolism Diet.
Read more from Eve Adamson
A Place of Yes: 10 Rules for Getting Everything You Want Out of Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Cooking Basics For Dummies Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Naturally Thin: Unleash Your SkinnyGirl and Free Yourself from a Lifetime of Dieting Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5The Mediterranean Diet Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5The Skinnygirl Dish: Easy Recipes for Your Naturally Thin Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Southern Education of a Jersey Girl: Adventures in Life and Love in the Heart of Dixie Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Mediterranean Women Stay Slim, Too: Eating to Be Sexy, Fit, and Fabulous! Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Piper Protocol: The Insider's Secret to Weight Loss and Internal Fitness Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLabrador Retrievers For Dummies Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Everything Stress Management Book: Practical Ways to Relax, Be Healthy, and Maintain Your Sanity Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsPets Gone Green: Live a More Eco-Conscious Life with Your Pets Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Shih Tzu For Dummies Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Your Guide to Health: Stress Management: Practical Ways to Relax and Be Healthy Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Related to 365 Ways to Reduce Stress
Related ebooks
The Everything Guide to Stress Management: Step-by-step advice for eliminating stress and living a happy, healthy life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Everything Stress Management Book: Practical Ways to Relax, Be Healthy, and Maintain Your Sanity Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMy Pocket Meditations for Anxiety: Anytime Exercises to Reduce Stress, Ease Worry, and Invite Calm Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSuccess: Success Strategies: The Top 100 Best Ways To Be Successful Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMy Anti-Stress Year: 52 Weeks of Soothing Activities and Wellness Advice Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsStop Panic Attacks: Help Yourself Find Relief Without Medicine Pills; Attacking Anxiety Disorder Through Self Cures Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe 10-10-10 Journey: 10 Minutes To Happiness Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsURAWARRIOR 365 Ways to Challenge You to a Better Life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings365 Health & Happiness Boosters Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Ultimate Stress-Relief Plan for Women Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsStress and Anxiety Management: The CBT Solution for Stress Relief, Panic Attacks, and Anxiety Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsNew Year's Resolution Success - The Evidence-Based Approach (Workbook Included) Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsChange Your Mind, Change Your Body: How to Have Permanent Weight-Loss Success for a More Confident and Happier You! Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Everything Guide to Anger Management: Proven Techniques to Understand and Control Anger Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings5-Minute Energy: A More Vibrant, Engaged, and Purposeful You in Just 5 Minutes a Day Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsManage Stress at Home: Sleep Like a Baby Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Affirm, Believe and Succeed Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Prescription for Living with Purpose: Maintaining Hope, Healing, and Connection as You Create the Life You Were Destined to Live Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsPowerJournal Workbook #1: A 28-Day Challenge Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings100 Ways to Happy: Simple Activities to Help You Live Joyfully Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHug Therapy: A 21-Day Journey to Embracing Yourself, Your Life, and Everyone Around You Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWalking on Sunshine: 52 Small Steps to Happiness Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Lose Weight, Live Healthy: A Complete Guide to Designing Your Own Weight Loss Program Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings365 Ways to Feel Better: Self-Care Ideas for Embodied Wellbeing Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5100 Ways to Be Happy: Simple Tips and Tricks to Brighten Up Your Day Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Daily Happiness Multiplier: 52 Secret Habits to Discover Your True Hidden Potential in Life and Business Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Meditation and Stress Management For You
How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind: Dealing with Your House's Dirty Little Secrets Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Unfuck Your Anxiety: Using Science to Rewire Your Anxious Brain Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Highly Sensitive Person Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5How to Keep House While Drowning: A Gentle Approach to Cleaning and Organizing Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Winning the War in Your Mind: Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Laziness Does Not Exist Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Mindful As F*ck: 100 Simple Exercises to Let That Sh*t Go! Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Undistracted: Capture Your Purpose. Rediscover Your Joy. Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5We Need to Talk: How to Have Conversations That Matter Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Winning the War in Your Mind Workbook: Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life Better (updated with two new chapters) Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Think Like a Monk: Train Your Mind for Peace and Purpose Every Day Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Little Book of Hygge: Danish Secrets to Happy Living Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Buddha's Guide to Gratitude: The Life-changing Power of Everyday Mindfulness Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Summary of Ichiro Kishimi's and Fumitake Koga's book: The Courage to Be Disliked: Summary Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Silva Mind Control Method Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Overwhelmed Brain: Personal Growth for Critical Thinkers Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBreath as Prayer: Calm Your Anxiety, Focus Your Mind, and Renew Your Soul Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Do It Today: Overcome Procrastination, Improve Productivity, and Achieve More Meaningful Things Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Mindfulness in Plain English: 20th Anniversary Edition Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Invisible Toolbox: Coping Skills for Everyday Resilience Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Reviews for 365 Ways to Reduce Stress
0 ratings0 reviews
Book preview
365 Ways to Reduce Stress - Eve Adamson
365 WAYS TO
Reduce
Stress
Everyday
tips to help
you relax,
rejuvenate,
and refresh
EVE ADAMSON
Stress Management Consultant
1Copyright © 2009 Simon and Schuster
All rights reserved.
Contains material adapted and abridged from The Everything® Stress Management Book by
Eve Adamson, copyright © 2002 Simon and Schuster, ISBN 10: 1-58062-578-9, ISBN 13:
978-1-58062-578-4.
This book, or parts thereof, may not be reproduced in any
form without permission from the publisher; exceptions are
made for brief excerpts used in published reviews.
Published by
Adams Media, an imprint of Simon & Schuster, Inc.
57 Littlefield Street, Avon, MA 02322. U.S.A.
www.adamsmedia.com
ISBN 10: 1-4405-0025-8
ISBN 13: 978-1-4405-0025-1
eISBN: 978-1-44051-379-4
Printed in the United States of America.
J I H G F E D C B A
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
is available from the publisher.
This publication is designed to provide accurate and authoritative information with regard to the subject matter covered. It is sold with the understanding that the publisher is not engaged in rendering legal, accounting, or other professional advice. If legal advice or other expert assistance is required, the services of a competent professional person should be sought.
—From a Declaration of Principles jointly adopted by a Committee of the
American Bar Association and a Committee of Publishers and Associations
This book is available at quantity discounts for bulk purchases.
For information, please call 1-800-289-0963.
Contents
Your Stress-Free Life Starts Now
CHAPTER 1
What Causes Stress?
1. Are You Under Stress?
2. Look Out for Change
3. Don’t Get So Wound Up!
4. Determine What Stress Means to You
5. Remember: You’re Not Alone
6. Don’t Give Up, Even if You’ve Been Here Before
7. Why Does Stress Happen?
8. The Fight-or-Flight Response
9. When Does Stress Happen?
10. Identify Environmental Stressors
11. Identify Physiological Stressors
12. Distinguish Between Direct and Indirect Stress
13. Pain Causes Indirect Stress
14. Be On Time
15. Tell the Truth
16. Decide When Enough Is Enough
CHAPTER 2
Different Types of Stress
17. Identify Your Stress Type
18. If Your Stress Is Acute, Identify the Cause
19. An Acute Stress Example
20. See What Works for You
21. If Your Stress Is Episodic, Identify the Cause
22. An Episodic Stress Example
23. Don’t Worry!
24. Are You a Worrywart?
25. If Your Stress Is Chronic, Identify the Cause
26. Another Way to Categorize Stress
27. Talk to Your Doctor
28. Take Steps to Get Enough Sleep
29. Make a Commitment to Yourself
30. Give Yourself a Bedtime
31. Don’t Stress When You Can’t Fall Asleep
32. Get Help for Insomnia
CHAPTER 3
Test Yourself
33. Take It Personal
34. When It Comes to Stress, Mean Business
35. The Four Parts of Your Personal Stress Profile
36. Remember: Some Stress Is Good
37. Where Is Your stress tolerance point?
38. Identify Your Stress Triggers
39. Calculate Your Stress Vulnerability Factor
40. What Are Your Stress Response Tendencies?
41. Learn about Yourself
42. Record the Results
43. Part I: Your stress tolerance point
44. Part II: Your Stress Triggers
45. Part III: Your Stress Vulnerability Factors
46. Part IV: Your Stress Response Tendencies
CHAPTER 4
Calculate Your Personal Stress Profile
47. Part I: Your stress tolerance point Analysis
48. If You Scored Just Right Low
49. If You Scored Just Right High
50. If You Scored Too Low
51. If You Scored Too High
52. Part II: Your Stress Triggers
53. Two or More As: Environmental Stress
54. Two or More Bs: Personal Stress
55. Two or More Cs: Physiological Stress
56. Two or More Ds: Social Stress
57. Part III: Your Stress Vulnerability Factors
58. Too Much Alone Time (11.A, 13.D)
59. Not Enough Alone Time (5.D, 11.B)
60. The Caretaker Conundrum (11.D)
61. Financial Pressure (12.A)
62. Family Dynamics (12.B)
63. Obsessive Worrying (12.C, 13.B)
64. Need for Validation (12.D, 15.B, 15.C)
65. Lack of Self-Control, Motivation, Organization (13.A, 13.B, 13.C, 13.D)
66. Need to Control (14.A, 15.A)
67. Your Job/Career (11.C, 14.A, 14.B, 14.D)
68. Low Self-Esteem (13.D, 14.D)
69. Part IV: Your Stress Response Tendencies Analysis
70. Ignore It
71. React to It
72. Attack It
73. Manage It
CHAPTER 5
How Stress Affects the Mind and Spirit
74. Strengthen Your Mind
75. Avoid the Classic Mental Stress Spiral
76. What the Spiral Looks Like
77. The Many Forms of Mental Stress
78. Avoid These Negative Effects of Mental Stress
79. Manage That Stress
80. Don’t Let the Mental Turn Physical
81. Find Your Spiritual Side
82. Identify Spiritual Stress
83. Nourish Your Spirit
84. Give Your Mind Positive Images to Focus On
85. How to Practice Imagery Meditation
86. How to Practice Visualization
87. Be Flexible with Visualization
88. Learn about Mindfulness Meditation
89. How to Practice Mindfulness Meditation
90. Open Your Mind to Prayer
91. Practice Prayer
CHAPTER 6
How Stress Affects the Body
92. Stress Comes from the Outside
93. Stress Comes from the Inside
94. Sleep Soundly with Serotonin
95. Survive with Noradrenaline
96. Deal with Pain with Dopamine
97. The Upside of the Stress Response
98. The Downside of the Stress Response
99. What Goes On in the Brain
100. Tummy Trouble
101. Keep Eating Well
102. The Cardiovascular Connection
103. Don’t Stress Out Your Skin
104. Chronic Pain
105. Protect Your Immune System
106. The Stress-Disease Connection
107. Keep Your Balance
CHAPTER 7
Beat Bad Habits
108. Sleep Away Your Stress
109. The Importance of Hydration
110. Stay Hydrated
111. Work More Water into Your Life
112. The Good, the Bad, and the Neutral
113. Habits Have a Direct Effect
114. Habits Have an Indirect Effect
115. Habits Have a Combination Effect
116. Steer Clear of a Drug Dilemma
117. Don’t Overeat
118. Watch Out for Workaholism
119. Moderate Your Media Intake
120. Quell Your Need for Noise
121. Hide Those Credit Cards
122. Quit Procrastinating
123. Practice the Pause
124. Get Rid of Habit Triggers
125. Replace Your Habits with Good Treats
126. Become a Connoisseur
127. Keep a Journal
CHAPTER 8
Eat Better
128. Move It or Lose It
129. Regular Fat versus Stress Fat
130. Educate Yourself
131. Beware of Miracle
Diets
132. Learn the Plus Sides of Diet
133. Go Natural
134. Choose Nutrients over Empty Calories
135. Complex Carbs versus Simple Carbs
136. Where Do Your Calories Come From?
137. Change Your Definition of Treating Yourself
138. If You Must Have Food Treats, Make Them Worth It
139. Start a Food Diary
140. Beat Stress with Supplements
141. Learn about Vitamins, Minerals, and Acids
142. Prevent Illness with a Vitamin Regimen
143. Experience the Power of Herbs
144. Where to Find Herbs
145. Get Educated about Homeopathy
146. Try a Safe Alternative
CHAPTER 9
Exercise More
147. Get to Know the Benefits of Exercise
148. Make the Fight-or-Flight Response Work for You
149. What Exercise Means to the Stress Response
150. Get Motivated
151. Take the Exercise Quiz
152. Calculate Your Score
153. Between 5 and 8 Points
154. Between 9 and 12 Points
155. Between 13 and 16 Points
156. Between 17 and 20 Points
157. Try Different Options Until You Find One That Fits
158. Get Outside and Move
159. Play Sports
160. Join a Gym
161. Breathe and Stretch with Yoga
162. Strengthen Your Core with Pilates
163. Flow with Tai Chi
164. Get Out on the Dance Floor
165. Mix It Up
166. Pump Some Iron
167. Don’t Overdo It
CHAPTER 10
Get a Massage
168. Massage Is for Exercisers
169. Massage Is for Nonexercisers, Too
170. Make a Habit of It
171. Experience Swedish Massage
172. Give Rolfing a Try
173. Feel the Pressure
174. Try Reflexology
175. Experience the Healing Power of Energy
176. Learn about Polarity Therapy
177. Release Stress through Movement
178. Get an All-Over Cure with Applied Kinesiology
179. Do It Yourself
180. Treat Yourself
181. Can I Afford This?
CHAPTER 11
Meditation
182. Why Meditate?
183. How Meditation Relieves Stress
184. Learn to Focus
185. Start a Meditation Practice
186. Learn about Zazen
187. Not as Easy as It Sounds, But Worth the Effort
188. Get on the Path to Enlightenment
189. How to Practice Zazen
190. Face the Challenges
191. If You Want to Move, Try Walking Meditation
192. Practice Walking Meditation
193. For How Long and How Often?
194. Learn about Yoga Meditation
195. Channels and Wheels
196. How Kundalini Energy Works
197. Prepare for Yoga Meditation
198. Practice Yoga Meditation
199. Enjoy Shavasana
200. Learn about Breathing Meditation
201. Practice Breathing Meditation
202. Learn about Mantra Meditation
203. Practice Mantra Meditation
204. Learn about Mandala Meditation
205. Choose a Mandala
206. Practice Mandala Meditation
207. What Are Chakras?
208. The Seven Major Chakras
209. Practice Chakra Meditation
CHAPTER 12
Alternative Therapies
210. Learn about Ayurveda
211. Try Ayurvedic Therapy
212. Know Thyself: Biofeedback
213. Get Creative
214. Give Creativity Therapy a Try
215. Follow These Helpful Tips
216. Learn about Dream Journaling
217. Start a Dream Journal
218. Learn about Flower Remedies
219. Try Flower Remedies
220. Get a Little Help from Your Friends
221. Take Initiative
222. Hypnosis: Hype or Help?
223. What Happens During Hypnosis?
224. Consider Hypnotherapy
225. Hypnotize Yourself
226. Hypnotize Yourself: Exercise 1
227. Hypnotize Yourself: Exercise 2
228. Hypnotize Yourself: Exercise 3
229. Consider Cognitive Therapy
230. Try Reward-based Self-Training
231. Create a Personal Treat List
CHAPTER 13
It’s All in the Attitude
232. Are You an Optimist or a Pessimist?
233. Try Optimism Therapy
234. See the Glass as Half Full
235. Are You in a Negative-Thinking Rut?
236. Identify Negativity Triggers
237. Kick the Negativity Habit
238. Consider Autogenic Training
239. Learn the Six Themes of Autogenics
240. Do It Yourself
241. Make a Tape
242. Are You Passive, Aggressive, or Passive-Aggressive?
243. If You’re Passive
244. If You’re Aggressive
245. If You’re Passive-Aggressive
246. Invoke the Relaxation Response
247. Just Say Oh Well
248. Try Some Relaxation Techniques
249. What Is a Body Scan?
250. Try a Body Scan
251. Breathe Away the Stress Response
252. Breathe from the Right Place
253. Harness Imagery Power
254. Stay Inspired
CHAPTER 14
No-Stress Money Management
255. How Does Money Cause Stress?
256. Take a Look at Your Past
257. Don’t Buy into the Stereotypes
258. De-Stress Your Financial Life
259. Ask Yourself Some Questions
260. Recognize Your Financial Preconceptions
261. Make Specific Financial Goals
262. Have a Plan
263. Simplify Your Financial Needs
264. Keep a Close Eye on Your Finances
265. Build a Financial Cushion
266. Get Started Today
267. Have a Cushion Goal
268. Conquer Your Debt
269. Simplify Your Finances
270. Plan for the Future
CHAPTER 15
Your Work Life
271. You’re Not Alone—Look at the Statistics
272. Why Does Work Cause Stress?
273. Decide If It’s Time for a Change
274. Get Job Stress Under Control
275. Manage Job Stressors
276. Don’t Seek to Eliminate All Work Stress
277. Make Changes Instead of Excuses
278. Manage Your Time at Work
279. Start Small
280. Identify Your Time Management Issues
281. Identify Your Time Management Priorities
282. Have a Strategy
283. Just Say No
284. Charge More
285. Do It Later
CHAPTER 16
Your Home Life
286. Build a Personal Sanctuary
287. Home Is a Metaphor for Life
288. Use the Metaphor to Change
289. Ready, Set, Simplify
290. Make More Space
291. De-clutter, De-stress
292. Are You a Pack Rat?
293. Get Organized at Home
294. Get a New Look
295. Stress-Free Feng Shui
296. Think of the Environment as a Metaphor
297. Consider the Bagua
298. Follow Some Feng Shui Tips
299. Make It Your Own
CHAPTER 17
Make Time for Stress Management
300. Act Now
301. Weave Stress Management into Your Life
302. Be Open to Change
303. De-Clutter Your Life
304. Go to the Spa
305. Make Time for Family
306. Make Time for Peace and Quiet
307. Be Your Own Best Friend
308. Take an Anti-Stress Vacation
309. Clear Out Unnecessary Stress
310. Get to Know Yourself
311. Stay True to Yourself and Keep It in Perspective
312. Control What You Can, Accept What You Can’t
313. Take Care of Yourself
CHAPTER 18
For Women
314. Why Stress Is Different for Women
315. Learn to Identify Female Stress Mismanagement Syndrome
316. Don’t Perpetuate the Stereotypes
317. Conquer Stressful Habits
318. Get to Know Your Hormones
319. Learn How Stress Affects Hormones
320. De-Stress During Your Period
321. Get Educated about Stress and Fertility
322. If You Have Fertility Obstacles
323. Keep Stress at Bay During Pregnancy
324. Get Support
325. Ten Ways to Ease the Stress of a Laboring Mother
326. Learn Postpartum Stress-Management Techniques
327. Deal with Parenthood Stressors
328. If You’re a Single Parent
329. If You’re Childless by Choice
330. Adjust to Menopause
331. Be a Stress-Free Senior Woman
332. Take Time for Yourself
CHAPTER 19
For Men
333. Yes, Men Have Stress
334. How Men Handle Stress
335. Follow Tips for Male Stress Management
336. Don’t Let Manliness
Get in the Way
337. Understand the Testosterone Connection
338. Break Free from Gender Roles
339. Be Aware of Dominance Issues
340. Stay Reproductively Fit
341. Don’t Let Stress Turn into Depression
342. When You See the Signs, Do Something about It
343. Be on the Lookout for Erectile Dysfunction
344. Other Causes of ED
345. Seek Treatment
346. What Is a Midlife Crisis, Really?
347. Fight Back
348. Stress Can Increase with Age
349. Be a Stress-Free Senior Man
CHAPTER 20
For Kids and Teens
350. Yes, Kids Experience Stress Too
351. What Causes Stress in Kids?
352. Don’t Forget about Young Kids
353. Teach Kids Stress Management Skills
354. Look Out for the Signs
355. Soothe Infant Stress
356. Pay Attention to Your Toddler
357. Let Your Youngster Explore
358. Help Kids De-Stress for School
359. Keep Teens Out of Trouble
360. Help Your Stressed-Out Teen
361. Be a Role Model
362. Make Time for Family
363. Encourage Communication
364. Follow the Seven Steps
365. Remember Your Role
Your Stress-Free Life Starts Now
Today is the first day of a new year in your life. It doesn’t matter if today isn’t December 31; it’s still the first day of a new year of beating stress! This book includes 365 ways that you can take control of the stress in your life, at home, at work, in relationships . . . everywhere! Stress can creep into all the areas of your world, but that doesn’t mean you have to tolerate it. From the yoga studio to