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    How To Get A Boyfriend: The Ultimate Guide on How to Attract Men, How to Flirt and Have a Fabulous Self-Esteem
    How To Get A Boyfriend: The Ultimate Guide on How to Attract Men, How to Flirt and Have a Fabulous Self-Esteem
    How To Get A Boyfriend: The Ultimate Guide on How to Attract Men, How to Flirt and Have a Fabulous Self-Esteem
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    How To Get A Boyfriend: The Ultimate Guide on How to Attract Men, How to Flirt and Have a Fabulous Self-Esteem

    By Victoria Alexander

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    Quite often I hear women complain that they just can't meet the one. They fall for the wrong kind of men (playboys, cheaters, emotionally unavailable, etc). Many have been troubled by the perceived emotional irresponsibility of their partner. Many have experienced heartbreaks.  In most cases we complain about men being the fault of our unhappiness, we position ourselves as victims and give the power away and see the wrong "out there"...

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherAmazing Publisher
    Release dateFeb 1, 2017
    ISBN9781386082217
    How To Get A Boyfriend: The Ultimate Guide on How to Attract Men, How to Flirt and Have a Fabulous Self-Esteem
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    Victoria Alexander

    #1 New York Times bestselling author Victoria Alexander was an award-winning television reporter until she discovered fiction was more fun than real life. She is the author of thirty-one novels, and her books have been translated into more than a dozen languages. Victoria lives in Omaha, Nebraska, with her long-suffering husband and two dogs, in a house under endless renovation and never-ending chaos.

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      How To Get A Boyfriend - Victoria Alexander

      How To Get A Boyfriend

      The Ultimate Guide on How to Attract Men, How to Flirt and Have a Fabulous Self-Esteem

      Table of Content

      Chapter 1 – Let Go Of Your Past

      Chapter 2 – Self-Esteem

      Chapter 3 – Beautiful Inside and Out

      Chapter 4 - Unleash Passion, Discover Adventure

      Chapter 5 – Get Social

      Chapter 6 – The Mystery of Men

      Chapter 7 – Embrace Opportunity

      Bonus Chapter - Passion and Desire in Long-Term Relationship

      Introduction

      Quite often I hear women complain that they just can't meet the one. They fall for the wrong kind of men (playboys, cheaters, emotionally unavailable, etc). Many have been troubled by the perceived emotional irresponsibility of their partner. Many have experienced heartbreaks.  In most cases we complain about men being the fault of our unhappiness, we position ourselves as victims and give the power away and see the wrong out there.

      When you point your finger at someone, three fingers are pointing back at you.Jesus

      Isn't it fascinating that we get attracted to the same kind of men and repeat the same mistakes?

      This is the first key. There are many different men out there. There are amazing, kind and loving ones too. You just get attracted subconsciously to the wrong kind.

      To see the world in a different light and get different results in dating and relationships, you need to change your patterns. The success or failure of your relationship is in your hands. The desired change must start from you: you need to change your patterns, mentality and your attitude. Be the reflection of your desired man.

      This book is a complete guide to your transformation in the area of dating and relationship. Based on life experiences we make up stories about men and those stories work as self-fulfilling prophecies. If you had an experience with cheaters and made up a story in your mind that all the men are cheaters as soon as you meet a man who has cheating tendencies you subconsciously get attracted to him.

      What you focus on expands. So focus on what you want, not what you do not want. - Esther Jon-Charles

      What you resist persists. - C. Jung

      Let's have a mini-experiment. Wherever you are right now, look around and find as many blue objects as you can and count them. You have 5 seconds to do it.

      How many brown objects did you notice when you were focusing on blue? You probably didn't notice any because you were focusing on blue.

      This process is applicable to your dating life. When you have a negative belief that all the men are _______ (fill in the blank), that's all you'll find. We create stories based on our past experiences. In this book, I will help you let go of your past and all the limiting beliefs/stories you have about yourself and men. It's important to let them go because they shape your life and experiences.

      The change comes from within. If you don’t want to battle with regrets, sorrows and anguish in your relationship in the coming years, now is the right time to take full responsibility over your transformation and your dating life.

      An inquiry into men' psychology would also be made. There are differences between men and women in the way we perceive relationships and fall in love. You need to understand men' psychology, to develop passion, love and loyalty in your relationship.

      In chapter three, I will focus on you becoming a genuinely interesting and amazing person, as true beauty lies within. However, it is still important to be feminine, playful and attractive and use a bit of seduction. I'll give some lessons on that too.

      Effective communication is the breath and soul of every successful relationship. As such, one of the chapters in this book is dedicated to a critical dissection of good Communication and Social Skills. The chapter examines the roles of communication in building, mending and sustaining your relationship, and some basic practical ways to improve your communication skills. I'll share an easy formula that would help build your confidence, get into the psychology of your lover, and have a fascinating conversation.

      To meet the one, it is important that you become the person that is ready for that special relationship, become the one who shines from within and radiates happiness. Ask yourself, what your reason is to find the one. If it is to be happy, does that mean you are unhappy as you are right now? When you go into a relationship to get something out of it, it doesn't feel authentic to your partner. In this case, you are trying to get into a relationship to get your psychological need of being happy met, so it is about you. To be truly happy consider switching your attitude to what you can give, learn how to be happy now and share it with your partner. If you want to complete somebody else, you need to be whole and complete.

      Many women make a mistake of making their men their everything in life and give up on other areas like passion, interests, fitness, social life, career, etc. Balance is very important for

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