In Praise of Weakness (with a Foreword by Matthieu Ricard)
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ALEXANDRE JOLLIEN, who is the first and only major thinker and spiritual teacher in the history of philosophy to have been born with cerebral palsy, tells the story of how he grew up in a home for the severely disabled and was destined to roll cigars; how he discovered philosophy, which changed his life forever, helping him to confront his fate, endow it with meaning, and turn his disability into a source of strength and creative energy; how, against all odds, he fought his way out of the home and into high school and university, where as an undergraduate he wrote IN PRAISE OF WEAKNESS ... Imbued with human warmth and wisdom, this modern Socratic dialogue is a poignant testament to the inestimable value of friendship, the power of imagination, and the will to overcome. A book that inspires and gives courage.
Alexandre Jollien
Born with cerebral palsy, Alexandre Jollien grew up in a home for the severely disabled, where, as he laconically notes, “rolling cigars” was his “professional horizon.” But then, completely by chance, he discovered philosophy, and his life was changed forever. Against all odds, he succeeded in completing secondary education and enrolled at the Université de Fribourg. While studying abroad at Trinity College, Dublin, he met his future wife, with whom he has three children. He published his first book — In Praise of Weakness — at the age of twenty-two, and has since established himself as a profound and compelling moral thinker and spiritual teacher. Not only is he the first and only congenitally severely disabled thinker in the history of philosophy, but he is also the first original philosopher to have consistently reflected on what it means to be born and live with disability not as an insurmountable obstacle but as a source of strength and creative energy.
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In Praise of Weakness (with a Foreword by Matthieu Ricard) - Alexandre Jollien
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: Jollien, Alexandre, 1975- author.
Title: In praise of weakness / Alexandre Jollien ; with a foreword by
Matthieu Ricard ; translated from the French by Michael Eskin.
Other titles: Eloge de la faiblesse. English
Description: New York : Upper West Side Philosophers, Inc., 2017. | Series:
Subway line ; No. 12 | Description based on print version record and CIP
data provided by publisher; resource not viewed.
Identifiers: LCCN 2017000450 (print) | LCCN 2017010058 (ebook) | ISBN
9781935830436 () | ISBN 9781935830429 (alk. paper)
Subjects: LCSH: Jollien, Alexandre, 1975- |
Philosophy--Switzerland--Biography. | Cerebral palsy--Patients--Biography.
| Developmental disabilities--Patients--Biography. | People with
disabilities--Biography.
Classification: LCC B4651.J654 (ebook) | LCC B4651.J654 A3 2017 (print) | DDC
199/.494--dc23
LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2017000450
contents
about this book
dedication
foreword
on the characters in this book
author’s note
prologue
one too many somersaults
the strange creature that I am
giving meaning to reality
the sincerity of true kindness
embracing our condition
drawing strength from our weakness
pity anesthetizes
the other’s gaze
the joy of being alive
they talked and analyzed
culture shock
conditional happiness
a man of god
a craving for learning
genuine friends
marginal?
about the authors
also by alexandre jollien
available & forthcoming from uwsp
about this book
A weak person isn’t necessarily a burden on others. Each of us freely disposes of his or her own weakness, and it’s up to us to employ it judiciously.
—Alexandre Jollien
Alexandre Jollien, who is the first and only philosopher and spiritual teacher in history to have been born with cerebral palsy, tells the story of how he grew up in an institution for the severely disabled and was destined to roll cigars; how he discovered philosophy, which changed his life forever, helping him to confront his fate, endow it with meaning, and turn his disability into a source of strength and creative energy; how, against all odds, he fought his way out of the institution and into high school and university, where as an undergraduate he wrote In Praise of Weakness …
Imbued with human warmth and wisdom, this modern Socratic dialogue is a poignant testament to the inestimable value of friendship, the power of imagination, and the will to overcome.
For my parents
and for Étienne Parrat for the spirit of her faithful friendship.
This book also owes a great debt to Pierre Carruzzo, André Gilloz, Antoine Maillard and Georges Savoy, whose support allowed me to embark on the liberating path of higher education. And for Laure, Marie-Madelaine, Nicole, Henri and Willy, who, together with them and many others, have accompanied me on my life’s joyous, if at times chaotic, journey.
All my gratitude, finally, to my childhood companions, who have given me so much.
foreword
I have all the time in the world!
Socrates says to Alexandre Jollien in this wonderful book.
Who wouldn’t love to open their heart to Socrates and be guided by him through an intimate introspective dialogue? Alexandre used this approach during the most trying times of his life, as he badly needed a benevolent mentor. A mentor who would be available anywhere, anytime; a trustworthy guide whom he could rely upon on his arduous journey. Someone who would extend a loving hand in times of sadness and give him an energetic push in times of discouragement.
Alexandre is the first great philosopher in history who has suffered from a serious congenital disorder. To me, he is a dear friend and a most remarkable human being.
Disabled since birth, he spent seventeen years with little contact with the outside world in a center for children with cerebral palsy. There, he and his companions huddled close together to find some solace in the midst of their caregivers’ lack of understanding. As he recounts in this book:
The present was … the sole focus of all our preoccupations, all our thoughts … Mutual gestures of friendship helped us through difficult moments and prevented us from becoming discouraged. Friendship united us, made us stronger. We loved each other. That’s how it was. We didn’t have a choice. The tenderness of our mutual affection alleviated our loneliness. Collaboration was absolutely vital if we wanted to attain our main goal: making progress … life lay before us—open-ended and rife with possibility—and we had everything to gain.
He was able to move on from this dire situation to become a compelling thinker who has inspired thousands of people through his raw authenticity and depth of thought. Soothed by the gentle presence of his comrades and by the kindness occasionally shown by others, Alexandre’s disability—or weakness,
as