Christian Minister's Manual for Funerals
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Christian Minister's Manual for Funerals - Guthrie Veech
CHRISTIAN MINISTER’S MANUAL FOR FUNERALS
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eISBN 978-1-4347-1159-5
© 2017 Standard Publishing
First published within the Christian Minister’s Manual © 2012 Standard Publishing
First Edition 2017
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CONTENTS
Preface
Introduction
Conducting a Funeral
Creating a Eulogy
The Committal
Other Participants
After Everybody Went Home
Suggested Order of Funeral Service
Designing a Funeral Sermon
Funeral Sermon Outlines
For a Friend of God
For a Believer Well Known to the Minister
Moved to a Better Home: 2 Timothy 4:7
A Celebration of Life
Finding Comfort
Four Funeral Sermons
For Death by Suicide: Lessons We Can Learn
For One Who Died by Suicide
For an Accidental Death: 2 Peter 1:3-11
What Does Death Teach Us?: James 4:13-17
Separated No More
When Death Is Precious
General Christian Funeral: The God of All Comfort
You Can Depend on God—No Matter What
Christian Woman’s Funeral: The Light of the World
Courageous Living for the Lord ¹
A Life Cut Short
The Cloud of Witnesses: Hebrews 12:1, 2, 22-24
Faith of a Soldier: Psalm 23
The Safety in a Savior: Isaiah 43
For a Christian Man: Comfort from John 14
For an Elderly Brother in the Church
For a Christian Sister
For One Who Made a Deathbed Repentance
For a Drunk-Driving Death
For a Public Official
For One Who Had a Terminal Illness
For an Infant
Death of a Child: Be Strong and Courageous
For a Young Christian Man
For One Who Died in Mid-Life
You Cannot Bury Influence
For a SERVANT
Four Reasons I Believe We Will Know Each Other in Heaven
Prayer When Someone Has Died
Scriptures of Comfort at the Time of Death
New International Version
King James Version
Scriptures for the Death of a Believer
New International Version
King James Version
Scriptures for the Death of an Unbeliever
New International Version
King James Version
Preface
This small book is part of a larger work, the Christian Minister’s Manual, which has been published for over seventy-five years. It is not the work of one person, but rather the work of many ministers.
The Christian Minister’s Manual tries to help make the task of ministry doable. Ministry takes education, experience, wisdom, and grace to work with sometimes demanding church members. The manual acts as a resource for dealing with the demanding situations a minister faces every day.
This book focuses on funerals, which are an important time for a minister to provide comfort to the loved one’s family. This manual explains a suggested order of service for a funeral, gives many sermon outlines appropriate for a funeral, and provides Scriptures to comfort the family of a believer or unbeliever.
If you find this resource helpful, consider purchasing the full Christian Minister’s Manual, which covers many more topics, including a minister’s call, evangelism, weddings, baby dedications, baptisms, ordinations, and more. The complete manual also comes with downloadable materials.
Introduction
This is not a time to win the world to Christ. This is a time when life in the church stops to meet the needs of the deceased’s family. It is a time to offer hope, Scripture, prayer, and assurance. It is a time to collect stories about the deceased to be used in the funeral. The major characteristic in twenty-first-century funerals is story. This is a time to say something good about Jesus and perhaps share an evangelistic Scripture like John 3:16 with little or no immediate follow-up.
When a death occurs, go as soon as possible to be with the family. You may read some comforting Scriptures, and you should certainly offer to pray with the family. Don’t try to plan the funeral on this visit. The family needs time to absorb the impact of their loved one’s death. You are there to soften the blow, to weep with those who weep.
Make another visit to plan the funeral. If you cannot meet the family in their home, meet them the night before the funeral at the funeral home during visitation. If the deceased is a Christian, provide assurance of Heaven. If the deceased is not a Christian, find something good to say about the person. This is not a time to preach someone into Heaven or Hell. You are not the judge. You are there to provide comfort for families in need.
Remember, funerals are not for the dead but for the living. This is another opportunity to represent Christ in a very tough time.
Conducting a Funeral
by Tom Hensley
Traditionally funerals are held in funeral homes, churches, or at the graveside; however, today they may be held just about anywhere, including private homes, public parks, VFW halls, and other social club facilities.
Being flexible is a necessity when it comes to helping families through the days leading up to a death, the planning of the funeral service, and being involved in the funeral service. The first step is to identify the funeral home and have the family contact the staff, who will handle the specific details. When the service is established, usually the family or funeral home staff will contact the minister to verify your availability for the specific time and place.
Cremations with memorial services are often scheduled at the convenience of the family. There is no longer as much need for immediate burial as in the past. Sometimes the memorial service does not take place for several weeks.
The order of the service should always be written down and given to the funeral director. This eliminates potential mistakes and embarrassing moments, plus it puts all of the participants at ease as to how the service will flow.
A suggested order would be:
opening words and prayer
introduction of individual(s) who will share an obituary or personal stories about the deceased
sharing words of comfort from Scripture and appropriate application of principles and precepts
prayer and the Lord’s Prayer
closing remarks and referencing funeral director coming to provide further instructions or dismiss
Music is generally blended into the service, with normally no more than three songs—one to begin, one as a transition from the obituary to talking points from Scripture, and one to close.
It is always good to provide the funeral director with an approximate length of your words and when you’ve finished, to be seated. The director will provide additional information concerning the dismissal or procession to the burial site. A short service of about twenty to thirty minutes is preferable to a longer service. When people are dismissed, it is good practice to stand by the door or at the head of the casket to greet the people as they exit. Once everyone has exited the chapel, the casket is closed, and the pallbearers are in place, the minister traditionally leads the procession from the chapel to the hearse and stands out of the way while the casket is loaded. You will also lead the procession from the back of the hearse to the gravesite at the cemetery, as the pallbearers carry the casket to its final resting