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Christian Minister's Manual for Funerals
Christian Minister's Manual for Funerals
Christian Minister's Manual for Funerals
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Updated and expanded with 32 pages of additional content designed to meet the growing demands of busy ministers, the Christian Minister's Manual is an essential tool for ministers. This essential tool for ministers features Scripture readings, sermons, outlines, and practical tips for • Worship services • Weddings • Funerals • Ordinations • Communion meditations • Baptisms • Dedications • Hospital visitation • Evangelism • and much more!
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PublisherDavid C Cook
Release dateApr 3, 2017
ISBN9781434711595
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Christian Minister's Manual for Funerals - Guthrie Veech

CHRISTIAN MINISTER’S MANUAL FOR FUNERALS

Published by David C Cook

4050 Lee Vance Drive

Colorado Springs, CO 80918 U.S.A.

David C Cook U.K., Kingsway Communications

Eastbourne, East Sussex BN23 6NT, England

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All rights reserved. Except for brief excerpts for review purposes,

no part of this book may be reproduced or used in any form

without written permission from the publisher.

Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV®. Copyright © 1973, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide. NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION® and NIV® are registered trademarks of Biblica, Inc. Use of either trademark for the offering of goods or services requires the prior written consent of Biblica, Inc. Scripture quotations marked KJV are taken from the King James Version of the Bible. (Public Domain.)

eISBN 978-1-4347-1159-5

© 2017 Standard Publishing

First published within the Christian Minister’s Manual © 2012 Standard Publishing

First Edition 2017

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CONTENTS

Preface

Introduction

Conducting a Funeral

Creating a Eulogy

The Committal

Other Participants

After Everybody Went Home

Suggested Order of Funeral Service

Designing a Funeral Sermon

Funeral Sermon Outlines

For a Friend of God

For a Believer Well Known to the Minister

Moved to a Better Home: 2 Timothy 4:7

A Celebration of Life

Finding Comfort

Four Funeral Sermons

For Death by Suicide: Lessons We Can Learn

For One Who Died by Suicide

For an Accidental Death: 2 Peter 1:3-11

What Does Death Teach Us?: James 4:13-17

Separated No More

When Death Is Precious

General Christian Funeral: The God of All Comfort

You Can Depend on God—No Matter What

Christian Woman’s Funeral: The Light of the World

Courageous Living for the Lord ¹

A Life Cut Short

The Cloud of Witnesses: Hebrews 12:1, 2, 22-24

Faith of a Soldier: Psalm 23

The Safety in a Savior: Isaiah 43

For a Christian Man: Comfort from John 14

For an Elderly Brother in the Church

For a Christian Sister

For One Who Made a Deathbed Repentance

For a Drunk-Driving Death

For a Public Official

For One Who Had a Terminal Illness

For an Infant

Death of a Child: Be Strong and Courageous

For a Young Christian Man

For One Who Died in Mid-Life

You Cannot Bury Influence

For a SERVANT

Four Reasons I Believe We Will Know Each Other in Heaven

Prayer When Someone Has Died

Scriptures of Comfort at the Time of Death

New International Version

King James Version

Scriptures for the Death of a Believer

New International Version

King James Version

Scriptures for the Death of an Unbeliever

New International Version

King James Version

Preface

This small book is part of a larger work, the Christian Minister’s Manual, which has been published for over seventy-five years. It is not the work of one person, but rather the work of many ministers.

The Christian Minister’s Manual tries to help make the task of ministry doable. Ministry takes education, experience, wisdom, and grace to work with sometimes demanding church members. The manual acts as a resource for dealing with the demanding situations a minister faces every day.

This book focuses on funerals, which are an important time for a minister to provide comfort to the loved one’s family. This manual explains a suggested order of service for a funeral, gives many sermon outlines appropriate for a funeral, and provides Scriptures to comfort the family of a believer or unbeliever.

If you find this resource helpful, consider purchasing the full Christian Minister’s Manual, which covers many more topics, including a minister’s call, evangelism, weddings, baby dedications, baptisms, ordinations, and more. The complete manual also comes with downloadable materials.

Introduction

This is not a time to win the world to Christ. This is a time when life in the church stops to meet the needs of the deceased’s family. It is a time to offer hope, Scripture, prayer, and assurance. It is a time to collect stories about the deceased to be used in the funeral. The major characteristic in twenty-first-century funerals is story. This is a time to say something good about Jesus and perhaps share an evangelistic Scripture like John 3:16 with little or no immediate follow-up.

When a death occurs, go as soon as possible to be with the family. You may read some comforting Scriptures, and you should certainly offer to pray with the family. Don’t try to plan the funeral on this visit. The family needs time to absorb the impact of their loved one’s death. You are there to soften the blow, to weep with those who weep.

Make another visit to plan the funeral. If you cannot meet the family in their home, meet them the night before the funeral at the funeral home during visitation. If the deceased is a Christian, provide assurance of Heaven. If the deceased is not a Christian, find something good to say about the person. This is not a time to preach someone into Heaven or Hell. You are not the judge. You are there to provide comfort for families in need.

Remember, funerals are not for the dead but for the living. This is another opportunity to represent Christ in a very tough time.

Conducting a Funeral

by Tom Hensley

Traditionally funerals are held in funeral homes, churches, or at the graveside; however, today they may be held just about anywhere, including private homes, public parks, VFW halls, and other social club facilities.

Being flexible is a necessity when it comes to helping families through the days leading up to a death, the planning of the funeral service, and being involved in the funeral service. The first step is to identify the funeral home and have the family contact the staff, who will handle the specific details. When the service is established, usually the family or funeral home staff will contact the minister to verify your availability for the specific time and place.

Cremations with memorial services are often scheduled at the convenience of the family. There is no longer as much need for immediate burial as in the past. Sometimes the memorial service does not take place for several weeks.

The order of the service should always be written down and given to the funeral director. This eliminates potential mistakes and embarrassing moments, plus it puts all of the participants at ease as to how the service will flow.

A suggested order would be:

opening words and prayer

introduction of individual(s) who will share an obituary or personal stories about the deceased

sharing words of comfort from Scripture and appropriate application of principles and precepts

prayer and the Lord’s Prayer

closing remarks and referencing funeral director coming to provide further instructions or dismiss

Music is generally blended into the service, with normally no more than three songs—one to begin, one as a transition from the obituary to talking points from Scripture, and one to close.

It is always good to provide the funeral director with an approximate length of your words and when you’ve finished, to be seated. The director will provide additional information concerning the dismissal or procession to the burial site. A short service of about twenty to thirty minutes is preferable to a longer service. When people are dismissed, it is good practice to stand by the door or at the head of the casket to greet the people as they exit. Once everyone has exited the chapel, the casket is closed, and the pallbearers are in place, the minister traditionally leads the procession from the chapel to the hearse and stands out of the way while the casket is loaded. You will also lead the procession from the back of the hearse to the gravesite at the cemetery, as the pallbearers carry the casket to its final resting

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