U Chic: The College Girl's Guide to Everything: Dealing with Dorms, Classes, Sororities, Social Media, Dating, Staying Safe, and Making the Most Out of the Best Four Years of Your Life (Grad Gifts)
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A comprehensive and empowering guide specifically designed to help you conquer every aspect of college life with confidence and ease.
Are you ready to embark on an incredible journey through the best four years of your life?
Valuable advice for students includes:
- Dorm Life 101: Unlock the secrets to creating your dream dorm room and transforming it into an organized, cozy, and stylish sanctuary.
- Ace Your Classes: Stay ahead in your academic game with expert tips on time management, effective study techniques, and strategies for acing exams.
- Navigating Sororities: Whether you're considering Greek life or already part of a sorority, discover valuable insights on sisterhood, social events, and networking opportunities that will allow you to forge lifelong connections that will enrich your college experience.
- Social Media Savvy: Master the art of using social media responsibly and strategically, and learn how to leverage your online presence to build a positive personal brand while staying safe and protecting your privacy.
- Dating Dos and Don'ts: Get invaluable advice on navigating the dating scene in college, including learning about healthy relationships, communication skills, and setting boundaries.
- Staying Safe: Your well-being is a top priority. Discover practical safety measures both on and off-campus, empowering you to make informed decisions and stay protected.
- Making the Most of College Life: Uncover insider tips for networking, internships, extracurricular activities, and seizing personal growth opportunities.
Let this ultimate college companion be your go-to resource for thriving in every aspect of your college adventure! Makes a great graduation gift for high school students heading to college or university.
Christie Garton
Christie Garton is the founder and CEO of UChic.com, the #1 online resource and networking community for high school and college-age women. With its “100% Behind You” commitment, the company gives a portion of its profits to the company’s Open Door Foundation, which supports young women in their academic and career pursuits. She is a graduate of the University of Kansas and the University of Pennsylvania Law School.
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U Chic - Christie Garton
ALSO BY CHRISTIE GARTON
UCHIC’S GETTING A GRIP ON YOUR FRESHMAN YEAR:
THE COLLEGE GIRL’S FIRST YEAR ACTION PLAN
UCHIC’S DIPLOMA DIARIES: THE CHIC GRAD’S GUIDE
TO WORK, LOVE, AND EVERYTHING IN BETWEEN
Copyright © 2017 by Christie Garton
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Originally published as U Chic: The College Girl’s Guide to Everything in 2009 by Sourcebooks, Inc. © 2009, 2011, 2013, 2015 by Christie Garton.
The Library of Congress has cataloged the fourth edition as follows:
Garton, Christie.
Uchic college girls : real advice for your first year (and beyond) / Christie Garton. – Fourth edition.
pages cm
Includes index.
1. College student orientation–United States. 2. Women college students–United States–Life skills guides. I. Title.
LB2343.32.G39 2015
378.1’98–dc23
2015002231
To the women of UChic.com and the 1,000 Dreams Fund, the inspiration behind this book.
MORE TIPS AND STORIES FROM GIRLS WHO’VE BEEN THERE
FOREWORD
WELCOME TO UCHIC: THE COLLEGE GIRL’S GUIDE TO EVERYTHING
CHAPTER 1—GETTING STARTED
GETTING READY FOR THE COLLEGE EXPERIENCE
WHAT TO DO THE SUMMER BEFORE COLLEGE
GETTING TO KNOW YOUR ROOMMATE BEFORE YOU ARRIVE ON CAMPUS
HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF FRESHMAN ORIENTATION
HOW TO SURVIVE AND THRIVE WHEN IN THE MINORITY
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
CHAPTER 2—SHARING SPACE AND CAMPUS LIVING
BRINGING SOME SANITY TO DORM-ROOM CHAOS
ROOMMATE DRAMA: RESOLVING TENSION AND CONFLICT
AFTER THE FIRST WEEK: SETTLING INTO YOUR NEW LIFE ON CAMPUS
MAKING FRIENDS
MAKING THE MOVE OFF CAMPUS
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
CHAPTER 3—HEAD OF THE CLASS
TIPS AND TRICKS FOR MAKING THE PERFECT CLASS SCHEDULE
HOW TO GET TO THE TOP
WHICH MAJOR IS FOR ME?
F.I.N.A.L.S.: FUDGE, I NEVER ACTUALLY LEARNED SQUAT!
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
CHAPTER 4—GETTING INVOLVED
DITCH THE DORM, GET A LIFE!
MAKE A DIFFERENCE
TIPS FOR THE BUSY STUDENT ATHLETE
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
CHAPTER 5—SORORITY CHIC
LIFE AS A GREEK
GOING GREEK 101
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
CHAPTER 6—TECH ESSENTIALS FOR AN INSTAGRAM AGE
HOW TO PROTECT YOUR DIGITAL REPUTATION
SOCIAL MEDIA’S DARK SIDE
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
CHAPTER 7—LOVE LIFE
THE SCOOP ON THE COLLEGE DATING SCENE
DIGITAL RULES FOR DATING
LONG-DISTANCE LOVE
IS LOVE POSSIBLE IN AN AGE OF HOOKUPS?
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
CHAPTER 8—STAYING HEALTHY AND SAFE
SEX ED 101
OVER-THE-TOP PARTY PALS AND WAYS TO DEAL
DEALING WITH A DISABILITY ON CAMPUS
STAYING FIT IN COLLEGE
STAYING SAFE ON CAMPUS
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
CHAPTER 9—IF THE GOING GETS TOUGH
OVERCOMING MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES
DEALING WITH DRUGS AND ALCOHOL ON CAMPUS
FACING SEXUAL HARASSMENT
SPEAKING UP AND SPEAKING OUT: ENDING SEXUAL ASSAULT ON CAMPUS
WHAT TO DO IF YOU’RE FAILING
HOW TO DECIDE IF TRANSFERRING IS THE RIGHT DECISION
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
CHAPTER 10—MONEY MATTERS
THE INS AND OUTS OF FINANCIAL AID
AVOIDING THE CREDIT CARD BLACK HOLE
LIVING FABULOUSLY ON A BUDGET
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
CHAPTER 11—THE COLLEGE PERKS
SECRETS FOR LANDING THAT TOP INTERNSHIP
USING SUMMERS WISELY
WHEN TO GO ABROAD
SPRING BREAK OR BUST!
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
CHAPTER 12—FINDING NONTRADITIONAL SUCCESS
CONSIDERING A NONTRADITIONAL PATH? STAYING TRUE TO YOURSELF IS KEY
HOW TO MAKE TRANSFERRING A BREEZE
MOTHER FIRST, STUDENT SECOND: ADVICE FOR PARENTS HEADED TO COLLEGE
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
CHAPTER 13—WHAT’S NEXT?
GRAD SCHOOL OR CAREER? HOW TO DECIDE
THE INS AND OUTS OF NETWORKING
MOVING IN WITH THE PARENTS: HOW TO MAKE IT WORK
SAY BYE-BYE TO GRADUATION ANXIETY
UCHIC ESSENTIALS
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
CONTRIBUTORS
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
ABOUT UCHIC
Don’t have time to read a whole chapter? Here’s a key to help you find quick tips and stories on the questions you need answered right now!
WHEN YOU’RE NOT GOING TO YOUR FIRST-CHOICE SCHOOL
WHY I CHOSE A HISTORICALLY BLACK COLLEGE OR UNIVERSITY (HBCU)
WHY I CHOSE A WOMEN’S COLLEGE
A FASHIONISTA’S TIPS ON FITTING IT ALL IN
A FEW THINGS TO CONSIDER ASKING YOUR ROOMIE-TO-BE
STAYING TRUE TO YOUR ROOTS
MESS = STRESS
UCHIC TIPS FOR DORM-ROOM BLISS!
COED DORMS ON THE RISE: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
HOW I WORKED THROUGH MY ROOMMATE ISSUES
WHEN ROOMMATES BREAK UP
WHAT TO EXPECT FROM YOUR RESIDENT ASSISTANT
TIPS FOR COMMUNICATING WITH PARENTS
RELYING ON OLD AND NEW FRIENDS
SAVING MONEY ON TEXTBOOKS
WHEN TO DROP A CLASS
ON-CAMPUS RESOURCES FOR STUDENTS DEALING WITH A LEARNING DISABILITY
DON’T BE ASHAMED: SEEK OUT TUTORING AND HOMEWORK SUPPORT!
EMAIL ETIQUETTE
STAYING AHEAD DOES NOT INCLUDE CHEATING
PICKING UP STORIES AND GUYS
FOR THE FUTURE MADAM PRESIDENT
ON- AND OFF-CAMPUS EXTRACURRICULARS
WHY FOLLOWING YOUR INTERESTS MATTERS
THE NEW WAY TO TRAVEL: VOLUNTOURISM
SISTERHOOD: A LIFELONG COMMITMENT
GREEK SPEAK
HOW TO LOOK YOUR BEST DURING SORORITY RECRUITMENT
THE LATEST APPS SWEEPING COLLEGE CAMPUSES
PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM IDENTITY THEFT
TO SWIPE OR NOT TO SWIPE
FRIENDING AND UN-FRIENDING: THE RULES OF THE GAME
THE DOS AND DON’TS OF ONLINE DATING
TAKING A STAND ON ONE-NIGHT STANDS
WHY I CHOSE ABSTINENCE IN COLLEGE
SMARTPHONES AND SAFETY: AVOID PROVIDING TMI
PREVENTING THEFT ON CAMPUS
NOTHING SAYS CRAZY LIKE YOUR VERY OWN STALKER
DEALING WITH DEPRESSION
WHAT TO DO IF YOU OR A FRIEND IS SUICIDAL
HOW I FOUND THE HELP I NEEDED
THE DANGERS OF EATING DISORDERS
DANGEROUS DEPENDENCY: PRESCRIPTION DRUGS
MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH SEXUAL HARASSMENT
DITCHING THE VICTIM LABEL
WHAT TO DO IF YOUR FRIEND HAS BEEN RAPED
HOW I MANAGED SCHOOL AND A PART-TIME JOB
INTERNSHIPS: IT’S ALL ABOUT THE SMALL STUFF
FUNDING SUMMER INTERNSHIPS
MORE WAYS TO USE YOUR SUMMER WISELY
WHAT I LEARNED BY TAKING SOME TIME OFF
WHEN YOU MOVE FROM COMMUNITY COLLEGE TO A FOUR-YEAR UNIVERSITY
SIX TIPS FROM COLLEGE MOMS, FROM A MOM
WHY I CHOSE MY CAREER OVER GRAD SCHOOL
NETWORKING: PLAN YOUR ATTACK
FINDING INSPIRATION IN VIRTUAL MENTORS
HOW TO BUILD YOUR DIGITAL NETWORK
USING LINKEDIN TO FIND A JOB
INVOLVING PARENTS IN YOUR JOB SEARCH
From Christie Garton, founder and publisher, UChic.com
Without an older sister growing up, I occasionally had to learn things the hard way. There are advantages to not having to stand in anyone’s shadow, but there were many times when a little tried-and-true advice could have helped, especially during my first few years in college. I definitely would not have registered for eighteen credit hours my first semester in school! After a few detours, roundabouts, and restarts, I eventually found my way through college and into the real world, but things would have been a whole lot easier with the right advice.
This was the inspiration behind this book and UChic.com. I wanted to create a place where college women could come together to find support and advice during one of the most important times of a girl’s life. We worked tirelessly to recruit a group of contributors with a diverse range of experience for the book that you now hold in your hands. I want to thank all of the contributors for being completely open and honest in sharing their personal stories. It is my sincere hope that what you will discover in reading UChic is that we are all sisters in the end.
Whether you’re headed to college or are already there, one thing is certain: college is the time to expand your horizons. You need to experience college in your own way, and our guide is here to help you discover it!
With the endless choices you’ll face in college, you’ll often have questions and find yourself in need of a little advice. Our hope is that you find your answers here. We asked college women across the country to dish about their collegiate experiences, challenges, and successes. The result? A guide that provides you with exclusive advice that could only come from those who have experienced it for themselves. From settling into your new life on campus, to dating, to balancing that all-important budget, to finding the right balance between academics and fun, you will find answers and insights to your important questions in these shared experiences from college women around the country. This is a book that you can turn to throughout your entire college career. But don’t feel like you need to sit down and read the book cover-to-cover (though that certainly won’t hurt anything!). Each of our contributors has answered specific questions, so you can turn right to the section you need, when you need it.
With UChic, the conversation doesn’t stop at the last page. Let’s say you have a specific question that is not directly addressed. You can head to UChic.com for even more great advice from our all-star college contributors. This guide is truly the start of a conversation that can last throughout your entire college career.
So what are you waiting for? Turn the page and be on your way to your own fabulous college experience!
xx,
Christie Garton
Founder
UChic.com
1,000 Dreams Fund
Always remember who you are and where you come from. It’s so easy when you’re thrown into a new environment with thousands of strangers to stray away from your morals and lose yourself.
—KARA A., UNIVERSITY OF SOUTH CAROLINA IN COLUMBIA
1
GETTING STARTED
COLLEGE MAY SEEM FAR off (even for you recent high school graduates with a summer ahead of you), but it’s closer than you think! No matter where you are in your preparations for the exciting transition to college, this chapter has you covered. You probably are already well aware that the transition to college is a major stress. Besides maybe summer camp, when else have you packed up your entire life’s belongings into several boxes and suitcases to head off to an unknown place to live with some random stranger? To help you find your path, this chapter is filled with insider advice on making this transition with confidence and style…and even a little bit of chutzpah!
From the moment I got my acceptance letter to college, I couldn’t stop thinking about my new life that was about to begin. The end of high school could not come fast enough. As excited as I was, I was also a bit anxious. This would be the first time in four years that boys would be in the same classroom with me. This would be my first time ever wearing normal clothes to class. And on top of that, thinking about the new experience of living with three girls I had never met before and being away from my family made me a bundle of nerves. I did my best to hide my anxiety behind my excitement to start a new chapter in my life.
I’m embarrassed to admit this, but I cried hysterically when my mom drove away from my dorm. It was then that I realized I wouldn’t be seeing her the next day. I was being a bit dramatic, but I couldn’t repress how I felt any longer. I had this fantasy that college was going to be a perfect place, and a chance for a new beginning. I think if I had spent more time appreciating my senior year of high school, instead of building up pretend scenarios about college in my mind, I would not have freaked out as much. I learned that the most important expectation you can have about college is that you have to be flexible.
WHEN YOU’RE NOT GOING TO YOUR FIRST-CHOICE SCHOOL
WHEN THINGS DON’T GO AS PLANNED
My freshman year I had a set schedule. I was a cheerleader and worked part time on top of taking a full courseload. It was perfect for my type-A personality. Even to this day, I thrive on routines. This routine turned out to be critical in helping me get used to my new life in college.
However, even with a set schedule and routine, you can’t plan for everything. Life happens and you can either go with it or fight against it. I started at Manhattan College as a business management major. I never would have expected this to happen, but the spring semester of my freshman year, I failed a math class that I needed for my major! I was devastated. I had never gotten a grade lower than a B+, let alone failed a class. I called my mom and she told me I’d have to pay my own way in order to retake the class. So I got a job on campus that summer. I worked full time and saved enough to retake the class. But guess what happened. Even though I had enough money to retake the class, my gut was telling me not to register for it. Was I scared I would fail again? Or was there an even bigger issue? Was this major not right for me?
BEING FLEXIBLE WITH EXPECTATIONS
I spent that fall semester miserable with my classes, but comfortable with my routine. I still had that uneasy feeling in my gut that I may have picked the wrong major.
A friend told me how he was minoring in communications, and that he was loving it; I was instantly intrigued. I made an appointment with the School of Arts advisor and brought up the question of switching majors. I would still have to make up the credit, but it would be a science class. And I was more interested in science than math. Even after talking with the advisor I was hesitant to change the plan
I had made for myself during my senior year of high school. It took some time, but I realized I was a different person than I had been two years ago. In a matter of months, I had changed. A few signatures later, I was in the School of Arts, majoring in communications with a public relations concentration.
WHY I CHOSE A HISTORICALLY BLACK COLLEGE OR UNIVERSITY (HBCU)
WHY I CHOSE A WOMEN’S COLLEGE
LOOKING BACK
Fast-forward to the present, I am a proud college alumna working for a nonprofit and volunteering in my hometown. Looking back on my failure
I actually see it as a success because it was through my communication courses that I found my strength as a writer. Trust me, life in college didn’t instantly become a breeze after I changed my major. There were a few more hurdles along the way, but it was worth it. Those experiences made me who I am today.
My advice is to savor every moment of the journey of college. Embrace setbacks you may face along the way. Find a support system of friends, professors, mentors, and, of course, your family members to pick you back up. Be willing to do the work, but also be open to changing course when needed. Don’t worry if your plans change, because they will. After all, that is why you are in college—to figure your dreams out and then make a plan to go for them. Sometimes life isn’t what we expect it to be; sometimes it is so much more.
Insights provided by Susan Fiorentino, Manhattan College
Preparing for college is sort of like getting ready for a big trip. There are things to pack, good-byes to say, and plans to coordinate before taking off. While most people (myself included) picture the summer before college as one big graduation party/bonfire/sleepover before parting ways, the reality is that there are several tedious preparations you need to undertake before heading to campus.
Here are some tips that can help you along the way.
MEET THE FUTURE ROOMMATE
I didn’t get to meet my roommates until orientation. But thanks to technology we began chatting, brainstorming, and organizing our dorm before we met in person. (Thanks, social media!) We made a group Pinterest board with room ideas for our suite. We made a Google Doc with major dorm items that each person was bringing, and we had a group chat running to make it easier for all four of us to stay in touch. I had friends who met their new roommates for lunch or coffee one afternoon. This was doable because they both lived close to campus. This provided them with just a little more confidence heading into move-in weekend and orientation.
WELLNESS PREP
I had my mind set on avoiding the infamous Freshman 15,
but I soon realized that staying healthy at school was so much more than worrying about gaining weight. I had to make sure I had all of the shots and tests required by my school, in addition to medications I needed to have with me in my dorm. I also made a little pharmacy basket,
with Tylenol, allergy medicine, a thermometer, Tums, extra contacts, and Band-Aids to have with me, as I wouldn’t have a car on campus. It’s also a good idea to have a physical before you leave, just to make sure that you’re caught up with your doctor and health plan—surprises once getting to school are not fun!
LIFE SKILLS TO DEVELOP
Unless you like learning the hard way, you should learn how to do laundry before you go off to college. (Yes, there are a few among us that still don’t know how to do laundry.) I can be a little messy, so my mom taught me how to get tough stains out and gave me a little guide with home remedies for different spills. These tips helped. I didn’t shrink any jeans or turn white clothes pink. Thanks to tapping mom’s expertise on these matters, I was confident going into school. Also, watch for notes from housing or your RA addressing details about laundry. During the semester I had to switch from laundry pods to regular detergent because of the type of washing machine in my dorm. Those notes can make all the difference.