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    Body Language: The Unspoken Mode Of Communication
    Body Language: The Unspoken Mode Of Communication
    Body Language: The Unspoken Mode Of Communication
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    Body Language: The Unspoken Mode Of Communication

    By Tiziana M.

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    It is your preference whether or not to listen or otherwise not tune in to someone talking. You listen when needed and desired to, but do other folks see you as a good listener? Listening skills are crucial once and for all relationships and therefore are also a vital skill in lots of professions, particularly the helping professions. Whether you're maintaining a happy marriage relationship, counseling someone with problems, or coaching people in your team for business success, good listening skills lead others to feel much more comfortable. They have more confidence in you and hold you in higher esteem. 
     
     You might not realize how important the human body language is, when others view you. It is even more important that your particular words. So, what says 'good listener' and inspires in other individuals who talk with you the confidence that you actually are listening? Your body language, of course! Even although you really are listening to every word, you'll not be viewed as a great listener unless you have the best body gestures. 
     
     An unhealthy listener has many among these traits -leans away if not turns away slightly, arms folded, maybe a bit of impatient toe tapping, and sometimes looking elsewhere. Or, if someone starts to read then you know without a doubt they're not listening! And undoubtedly should your body gestures suggests you don't would you like to listen, the other person will feel less comfortable talking with you and will also be less likely to want to confide inside you. This is an excellent recipe for creating distance and miscommunication in a relationship. 
     
     
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherTiziana M.
    Release dateMay 18, 2017
    ISBN9788826438603
    Body Language: The Unspoken Mode Of Communication

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      Body Language - Tiziana M.

      Table of Contents

      Title Page

      Chapter 1

      Body Language

      The Unspoken Mode Of Communication

      TABLE OF CONTENTS

      Introduction 4

      Chapter 1: Reading the Signs 6

      Chapter 2: Mirroring 21

      Chapter 3: Body Language in Negotiations 25

      Chapter 4: Body Gestures in Selling 28

      Chapter 5: Body Language in Job Interviews 34

      Chapter 6: Body Language in Meetings 40

      Chapter 7: Body Language in Flirting 42

      Conclusion 49

      Introduction

      It is your preference whether or not to listen or otherwise not tune in to someone talking. You listen when needed and desired to, but do other folks see you as a good listener? Listening skills are crucial once and for all relationships and therefore are also a vital skill in lots of professions, particularly the helping professions. Whether you're maintaining a happy marriage relationship, counseling someone with problems, or coaching people in your team for business success, good listening skills lead others to feel much more comfortable. They have more confidence in you and hold you in higher esteem.

      You might not realize how important the human body language is, when others view you. It is even more important that your particular words. So, what says 'good listener' and inspires in other individuals who talk with you the confidence that you actually are listening? Your body language, of course! Even although you really are listening to every word, you'll not be viewed as a great listener unless you have the best body gestures.

      An unhealthy listener has many among these traits -leans away if not turns away slightly, arms folded, maybe a bit of impatient toe tapping, and sometimes looking elsewhere. Or, if someone starts to read then you know without a doubt they're not listening! And undoubtedly should your body gestures suggests you don't would you like to listen, the other person will feel less comfortable talking with you and will also be less likely to want to confide inside you. This is an excellent recipe for creating distance and miscommunication in a relationship.

      A great listener shows five characteristics which can be remembered through the acronym SOLER.

      S - Square-on

      Face the other person square on. If you should be turned away, you may not give the impression that you want to pay attention.

      O - Open-posture

      Folded legs, and particularly folded arms can be subconscious signals that you really don't would you like to hear what the other person needs to say.

      L - Lean-towards

      Lean slightly towards the other individual. This suggests an interest in what they are saying. Leaning far from an individual tends to indicate disinterest.

      E - Eye-contact

      Maintain normal eye connection with the other person. If you retain your eyes down, or keep looking away, you can easily provide the impression you are not a cushty or willing listener.

      R - Relax

      Avoid being too formal or stiff. A relaxed posture shows that you are comfortable when you look at the role of listener, and ready to hear everything the other person has got to say.

      Start practicing your listening body language and SOLER now, and you'll start to see the improvement of one's interpersonal skill and relationships both on and off your work.

      Body English is simply among the list of myriad of samples of body gestures that we do thereby applying to the lives every

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