Growing Everyday Disciples: Covenant Discipleship With Children
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Growing Everyday Disciples: Covenant Discipleship With Children is a formational resource by Melanie C. Gordon, Susan Groseclose, and Gayle Quay that equips adults who serve in ministry with children ages 8-11 to guide children towards a mature faith through everyday acts of compassion, justice, worship, and devotion under the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Covenant Discipleship helps connect children with Jesus Christ and one another through ongoing mutual accountability and support for living in the world as Christ followers. The resource offers leaders in ministry with children suggestions for forming covenants, exploring accountability, evaluations, and a choice of plans to organize, maintain, and evaluate Covenant Discipleship groups with children. This resource also provides a brief background on discipleship, covenants, and society meetings of the Methodist Movement, and can be used as preparation for confirmation.
Melanie C. Gordon
Melanie C. Gordon serves as Director of Ministry with Children at Discipleship Ministries of The United Methodist Church. She is responsible to The United Methodist congregations for providing nationwide training and resourcing, while providing research and networking opportunities for leaders and teachers engaged in ministry with children. Melanie holds degrees from Clemson University and Duke University. She wrote What Every Child Should Experience: A Guide for Teachers and Leaders in United Methodist Congregations, and blogs regularly at ministrywithchildren.com on issues that impact how children grow in faith.
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Growing Everyday Disciples - Melanie C. Gordon
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GROWING EVERYDAY DISCIPLES: COVENANT DISCIPLESHIP WITH CHILDREN
Copyright © 2016 Discipleship Resources®, Nashville, Tennessee. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form whatsoever, print or electronic, without written permission from the publisher. For information regarding rights and permissions, contact Discipleship Resources, P.O. Box 340004, Nashville, TN 37203-0003.
Express permission is granted by Discipleship Resources® to all purchasers of this book to photocopy or print out the forms and other sample content in the appendices for use in their church and in their Covenant Discipleship with Children groups. Copyright © 2016 Discipleship Resources. All rights reserved.
Scripture quotations, unless otherwise noted, are from the New Revised Standard Version Bible, copyright © 1989 National Council of Churches of Christ in the United States of America. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
Scripture quotations marked CEB are from the Common English Bible. Copyright © 2011 Common English Bible. Used by permission.
Library of Congress Control Number: 2016950117
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CONTENTS
Introduction: Children Are People of the Story
1 The Principles of Covenant Discipleship with Children
2 Planning Covenant Discipleship with Children
3 Guiding This Pilgrimage
4 The First Gathering
5 Models for Parent-Child Meeting and Adult Guide Training
Appendices
Frequently Asked Questions about Covenant Discipleship with Children Groups
Covenant Discipleship Planning Guide
Diagram of the General Rule of Discipleship
Living Out Our Covenant
Sample Covenants
Covenant Form
Compassion and Justice—What Is the Difference?
Commitment Card
Registration Form
Registration Procedure
Guide Evaluation
Parent Evaluation
Disciple Evaluation
Parent and Child Information Session: Sample Letter
Publicity Flier
Resources
Covenant Discipleship Glossary
INTRODUCTION
Children Are People of the Story
Jesus and the Disciples
Imagine Jesus and the disciples gathered under a tree or by the river, discussing the work of the day. Do you remember how Jesus questioned the disciples in their judgment of others, yet never turned away from them? Instead Jesus used story and experience to teach his disciples how they were to live, loving God and loving their neighbors. Do you remember the question from a lawyer in the crowd, Who is my neighbor
? (Luke 10:29). We still struggle with understanding who this neighbor is that we are to love. Is it the person living next door? Does it extend to people throughout the community? What about those living on the other side of the world? Jesus describes our neighbor as one who extends mercy to another. Sometimes we ask ourselves, how can I love all these people? I am just one person! That becomes one of the important aspects of Covenant Discipleship. We are in a community with others that allows us to extend the reach of God’s love through our actions as a community of disciples. It is true that we can physically touch only those who are living around us, but that does not mean we cannot positively affect the lives of people around the world.
One special characteristic of children is their deep ability to love unconditionally. They come to us primed and ready to love, and we must do all we can to help them express that love by providing them a nurturing environment that helps them grow in the love of Christ. Through our baptismal covenant, we are initiated into the Christian life, and while all the children who participate in Covenant Discipleship may not be baptized, it is through our baptism that we were adopted into the family of God, marking us as disciples of Jesus Christ who show the love of God through works of mercy and piety.
Covenant Discipleship with Children is rooted in Jesus’ relationship with the disciples. Jesus and his disciples met as a small group. They prayed together. They worshiped in the company of all who gathered to experience Jesus. Although the disciples sometimes struggled with justice issues, Jesus set the standard as he spoke for those who were oppressed. The Gospels include numerous examples of compassion. We may not possess the gift of healing as Jesus healed, but we are given the gift of compassion, and through compassion, others are healed.
The Holy Club
Imagine a gathered group of young students that included John and Charles Wesley meeting together regularly to study the Bible and the writings of the church. These young men found their small group leading them to serve the poor and the sick and to hold one another accountable for living into the ordinances of the church. Searching the scriptures and meeting together regularly led them to follow a way of life balanced by works of charity throughout the community. This behavior went against the common behavior of the time, and the group was ridiculed by other students. One of the many names they were called stuck—Methodists! We recognize John Wesley as the leader of the Methodist movement and Charles Wesley as the writer of hundreds of hymns of the church.
Years later, the class meeting became a weekly time of prayer, hymn singing, Bible study, and accountability. In class meetings early Methodists learned Christian faith and received the support they needed to live out their faith in daily life. The rule of life for Methodist societies and classes consisted of the General Rules of the Methodist Church, which provided a path for their life in community and in the world as disciples of Jesus Christ. To continue as active members, members were expected to follow the simple rules:
First: By doing no harm, by avoiding evil of every kind, especially that which is most generally practiced.
Secondly: By doing good; by being in every kind merciful after their power; as they have opportunity, doing good of every possible sort, and, as far as possible, to all men . . .
Thirdly: By attending upon all the ordinances [laws and rules] of God. (The Book of Discipline of The United Methodist Church 2012)
Covenant Discipleship with Children is a contemporary adaptation of the early Methodist class meeting, guided by the General Rule of Discipleship: to witness to Jesus Christ in the world and to follow his teachings through acts of compassion, justice, worship, and devotion under the guidance of the Holy Spirit,
an understanding of the General Rules used by societies and classes.
LEARN MORE about the General Rules of The United Methodist Church. See http://www.umc.org/what-we-believe/general-rules-of-the-methodist-church.
Our Children—The Inheritors of the Story
Our children are the inheritors of this rich experience of discipleship, and we promise through our baptismal covenant that we will guide them on the path of true discipleship as we acknowledge in the gathered community to surround them with a community of love and forgiveness, that they may grow in trust of God, and be found faithful in service to others. We will pray for them, that they may be true disciples who walk in the way that leads to life
(Baptismal Covenant I,
The United Methodist Church, 2009). The way of discipleship requires that we balance our lives and help our children balance their lives through works of mercy and piety. They do not do this