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    Don't Write My Obituary Just Yet: Inspiring Faith Stories for Older Adults
    Don't Write My Obituary Just Yet: Inspiring Faith Stories for Older Adults
    Don't Write My Obituary Just Yet: Inspiring Faith Stories for Older Adults
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    Don't Write My Obituary Just Yet: Inspiring Faith Stories for Older Adults

    By Missy Buchanan

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    Even when we're old, God can still use us.

    In Don't Write My Obituary Just Yet, Missy Buchanan will warm your heart with her stories of older adults living with a sense of purpose and gratitude for the life God has given them.

    As Buchanan writes in the introduction, "Good stories leave an imprint on our hearts and inspire us to live differently."

    The 30 stories in this enlarged-print book give us glimpses into the lives of ordinary people ranging from 70 to 100 years old. Some of these folks are active; others are dealing with physical or mental decline. All exemplify how strong faith can help us overcome struggles and sorrows and live in hope.

    A scripture and prayer accompany each story.

    This book will uplift any older adult who needs to know that their life still matters to God and others. It's also an encouraging guide for middle-aged people wondering how they can live meaningful lives in their later years, even if they are ill or frail.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherUpper Room Books
    Release dateApr 1, 2011
    ISBN9780835812047
    Don't Write My Obituary Just Yet: Inspiring Faith Stories for Older Adults
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    Missy Buchanan

    Missy Buchanan, an advocate for older adults, is an internationally recognized author and speaker on issues of aging faithfully. With thousands of followers on Twitter and Facebook, Buchanan provides daily insight and encouragement for the journey of aging. She enjoys weekly visits (digital visits and phone calls during the COVID pandemic) with older adult friends in senior living communities. Buchanan is the author of multiple books, a devotional calendar, and a devotional journal. She lives with her husband, Barry, in Rockwall, TX. They have three adult children and four grandchildren.

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      Don't Write My Obituary Just Yet - Missy Buchanan

      Introduction

      Ilove stories. I love to hear them. I love to share them. Stories help us understand things we would otherwise not understand. They help us remember things we would otherwise forget. Good stories leave an imprint on our hearts and inspire us to live differently.

      The stories in this book have been collected from real-life older adults who are still living with purpose in their late years. They are ordinary, faith-filled people from all walks of life. Some are active; others face physical or mental limitations. All are dealing with the common aches and pains and losses associated with longevity.

      Some stories are about people I have known all my life. Others tell about folks I met as I traveled the country to speak to older-adult groups. A few describe seniors who were referred to me by ministers. All are inspiring!

      Betty P.

      Finishing strong

      * * *

      When I sit down to talk with Betty, she is in the midst of a difficult life transition. During the last year, her husband passed away following a brief illness. For sixty-one years they had loved each other with a longer-than-forever kind of love. Now she has moved into a one-bedroom apartment in a retirement community, leaving behind the home they had built as newlyweds.

      At age eighty-six, Betty admits it was hard to walk away from the place where they had reared their three children and created memories, but she and her husband had discussed the matter before he died. Because of health issues and safety concerns, the two had decided a move would be in her best interest.

      As Betty proudly gives me a tour of her lovely living quarters, it quickly becomes obvious that she has made up her mind to dwell on all that is positive about her new life. There’s no yard work or home repair to worry about. She cooks only when she wants. She makes new friends and participates in a wide variety of activities, including swimming and brain exercise. By the time Betty has finished her litany of pluses, I am ready to move in myself. Mostly, though, I am in awe of her marvelous attitude.

      I have to remind myself that life has not always turned out as Betty might have liked. She has had heart bypass surgery. Each day she deals with the effects of diabetes, high blood pressure, retinopathy, and hearing loss. Certainly she would have liked more time to spend with her husband, more healthy days to explore new places, more energy to keep up with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. But the way Betty sees it, she has two choices: either whine and complain or embrace this stage of life and finish strong. As a matter of faith, she chooses the latter.

      Sitting down to talk with Betty in the living room, I notice a curio cabinet filled with a large collection of bells. Some are crystal; others are porcelain or metal. Almost all are mementos from places where she and her husband traveled, including Europe and Australia, China and Hawaii. When I call attention to an especially beautiful glass bell with threads of gold, she tells me that it came from Venice, Italy. Actually it was made from hand-blown glass on the nearby island of Murano, Italy. Studying the bells more closely, I find my heart uplifted. Betty and her husband had always lived comfortably but modestly. Travel was a small extravagant pleasure they shared with great joy and passion, and it made my heart happy just thinking of their life experiences.

      Truly Betty models for others an attitude of gracious acceptance of her situation. She sees aging as part of God’s plan for humankind. Rather than something to dread, aging presents an opportunity for God to reveal God’s strength. Betty is running the race of life and finishing strong. I am confident that she will one day hear the words, Well done, good and faithful servant. And when she does, all the bells of heaven will ring.

      Philippians 3:12-14

      I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.

      Prayer

      O bountiful God,

      You know that change is hard. Still you know my every need. With each new day, help me to press on toward the goal that lies ahead. Fill me with anticipation and help me to finish strong. Amen.

      Winston

      The river runs through

      * * *

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