7 Simple Steps to Beat Emotional Baggage: How to Become Whole, Healed, Healthy & Happy
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7 Simple Steps to Beat Emotional Baggage: How to Become Whole, Healed, Healthy & Happy shares how to resolve emotional baggage and feel free to live true to your own personality, spirit and character by teaching you how to recognize the Four Life Stages of Emotional Baggage, transform negative thinking, and become equipped to boldly face emotional pain. Surviving a homicidal alcoholic father, a neglectful mother and four physically and emotionally abusive brothers, Anita knows firsthand the internal battle left by emotional and physical abuse. She has also used these methods when counseling hundreds of clients. The 7-Step Method is a process of seven repeatable steps she has used and seen the greatest results. It has not only worked for her and her previous clients, it can also work for you.
Anita Washington
Anita Washington, M.Ed. & M.B.A., CEO & Founder of That Anita Live, LLC, is a Counselor, Personal Development Coach and Media Host helping women become emotionally whole, healed, healthy and happy. Creator of the 7-Step Method, she teaches women to live unashamed of their secret story with an old soul and a comedic, honest voice. Anita uses many southern colloquialisms and colorful expressions to unwrap personal stories of surviving a homicidal alcoholic father, a mother in denial and four physically and emotionally abusive brothers and relates them to guiding principles and healing techniques. Through her powerful and uplifting interviews at ThatAnitaLive.TV and The Emotional Happiness Podcast women get to see and hear real women with resourceful stories living relentless lives after life's most devastating challenges. Anita helps women use the tools and resources they already have to reveal and release success blockers such as childhood trauma and family dysfunction so they can build self-confidence, boost their self-esteem and feel free to live true to their own personality, spirit and character. Anita is a graduate of Limestone College, Virginia State University, and Strayer University with a B.S. in Mathematics, an M.Ed. in Guidance & Counseling, and an M.B.A. in Contracts & Acquisitions. You can find Anita online at ThatAnitaLive.com, Twitter, Periscope, Instagram and Facebook. Her handle is That Anita Live on all four social media platforms.
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7 Simple Steps to Beat Emotional Baggage - Anita Washington
7 Simple Steps to Beat Emotional Baggage
How to Become Whole, Healed, Healthy & Happy
Anita Washington
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YOU CAN GO FROM EMOTIONALLY DRAINED TO EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY AND HAPPY IN JUST 7 STEPS
HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHY YOU CAN ONLY REACH A CERTAIN LEVEL OF SUCCESS? WHAT IF I TOLD YOU IT WAS INSIDE YOU? WHAT IF I TOLD YOU THAT YOU COULD STOP THE NEGATIVE TAPE FROM PLAYING IN YOUR HEAD?
Leave the pain of the past behind and create a re-vision for your future, accomplishing your goals, reaching new success, adding new meaning to your life, and bringing value to the world. Just imagine all the wonderful things your new life can be!
Anita Washington, M.Ed., M.B.A., owner and CEO of That Anita Live LLC, your personal resource for emotional healing and wellness, has taken her counseling expertise and personal experience with childhood trauma turning into adult dysfunctional behavior and identified a seven-step repeatable method to resolve emotional baggage. It has not only worked for her and her previous clients, it can also work for you.
In this ebook you will:
• Learn 7 RESULTS-DRIVEN techniques to transform your negative thinking and resolve emotional baggage for a happier life.
• Be EQUIPPED to boldly go back into your past and face traumas and tragedies that created your glass ceiling to happiness and create a re-vision for your new life.
• Learn to IDENTIFY the Four Life Stages of Emotional Baggage and reasons to not stay stuck.
• Learn to SOLVE an emotional equation to review your emotional growth and development annually.
• Learn to IDENTIFY success blockers and resolve emotional baggage.
• DISCOVER the number one emotion that is hidden within you but keeping you stuck.
• Learn to FOCUS on always getting better and evolve into a better you.
YOUR FREE GIFTS
As a thank-you for downloading this ebook I have created SIX FREE resources to assist with your personal development:
1. Life Mapping Template
2. Trace Your Life Quick Starter
3. Circle of Influence Infographic
4. Celebrating Self Tip Sheet
5. Personal Budget Planner
6. Spending Journal Sample
Go to the link below to get instant access:
www.ThatAnitaLive.com/bk1
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Preface
Chapter One - Are You Following the Crowd?
It’s Resolution Time
How We Manage Our Baggage Today
Reality Check
Chapter Two - Is Your Life Stuck in Neutral?
Are You Stuck
Unresolved Fear
It Mustn’t Live
Reality Check
Chapter Three - Do This Now to Avoid Lifetime Regret
Don’t Wait for Death Bed Regret
Formative Stage
Burying Stage
Pivotal Stage
Reality Check
Chapter Four - 7 Simple Steps to the Happiest Life Ever
Your Journey Awaits
Step One: Life Mapping
Step Two: Track & Trace Your Life
Step Three: Dispose of Distractions
Step Four: Celebrating Self
Step Five: Inner Peace & Quiet
Step Six: Annual Performance Review Equation
Step Seven: Gratitude & Give Back
About the Author
PREFACE
Welcome to the first step in your transformational journey! Soon you will be shedding the plague of the past and creating a re-vision for your future. But before you embark on any new journey, what is the first thing you do? You assess where you are! That’s exactly what we’re going to do before we jump into the 7-Step Method.
In this ebook we will determine whether or not you can be honest about what has you in a cloud of unhappiness, how you’ve been managing it, the number one emotion that keeps you stuck, and what stage of the emotional baggage life cycle you’re in.
Emotional baggage is no respecter of persons. Everyone is susceptible. Just like those gorgeous