Which Way, Lord?: Exploring Your Life's Purpose in the Journeys of Paul
By Rob Fuquay
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As Christians we hunger to know and live out God's purpose for our lives. But how do we know for certain which way to go?
Which Way, Lord? aims to help you understand God's direction for your life. Your guide for this journey is Paul, the globe-trotting hero of early church history. You will gain ore than an introductory insight into the background, education, experiences, writing, and theology of this man who changed the world.
Through many detours, adversity, and time spent thinking about his life, Paul completely reoriented his understanding of faith and God's purpose for his life. God placed Paul in a community that shared God's love with him, and Paul underwent several years of training in his quest to follow Jesus and ultimately follow his call to be a missionary. Like Paul, we encounter many challenges as we try to discover our purpose.
This 6-session study helps you unpack your life alongside the life of the apostle Paul to find your purpose and passion. Along the way, you'll learn how to:
- discern and follow God's leading
- explore ways God can use you and your life experience
- follow God's signals when experiencing adversity
- respond to times when you can't live out your purpose as you would like
- endure hardships and doubts
- find ways to persevere with hope and faith
A perfect study series for back-to school, the beginning of a new year, Lent, or anytime you need a fresh start.
The components of Which Way, Lord? are
- a book (also available in enlarged print)
- a companion DVD with 6 video sessions filmed in Turkey, Israel, and Greece
- age-level guides for children, youth, and adults (PDFs are on the DVD and posted online)
Join your congregation or small group in a journey to discover that you are created for purpose and equipped to live a life of significance.
Rob Fuquay
Rob Fuquay is the senior pastor of St. Luke’s United Methodist Church in Indianapolis, Indiana. He has served various congregations with his gifts of strong preaching, leadership development, and visioning. Rob is the author of The Passion Play: Living the Story of Christ's Last Days, a six session Lenten study based on the Oberammergau tradition, A New Reformation: From Luther’s World to Ours and The God We Can Know, a 7-week study designed for the entire congregation to explore the “I Am” sayings of Jesus found in the Gospel of John. He is also the author of Which Way, Lord: Exploring Your Life’s Purpose in the Journeys of Paul on how to discern and follow God’s leading.
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Which Way, Lord? - Rob Fuquay
WHICH WAY, LORD? Exploring Your Life’s Purpose in the Journeys of Paul
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Names: Fuquay, Rob, author.
Title: Which way, Lord? : exploring life’s purpose in the journeys of Paul /
Rob Fuquay.
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To
SARAH WILKE,
my sister-in-law,
a Paul-like leader
whose courage, faith, and love
have blessed the church around the world
CONTENTS
Introduction: Locating Your Starting Point
1 Preparing for Purpose
2 Taking Stock
3 Facing Adversity
4 Dealing with Detours
5 Relying on God
6 Developing Tenacity
Acknowledgments
Notes
About the Author
INTRODUCTION
LOCATING YOUR STARTING POINT
What does it benefit you to know how beautiful a creature a human is if you ignore humanity’s purpose, which is clearly to worship God in order to live eternally?
—Martin Luther
For everything, absolutely everything, above and below, visible and invisible . . . everything got started in [Christ] and finds its purpose in him.
—Colossians 1:16, THE MESSAGE
First there was Saul. And then there was Paul. I like the fact that the apostle Paul went by another name before he began his mission to the Gentiles. That makes it easy to distinguish between the before
and after
—not that the two didn’t have a lot in common. Both acted with a singular devotion to the God of Israel. Both knew scripture backward and forward. And both sought purpose in their daily lives.
But Saul the Pharisee persecuted Christ-followers and was present at the stoning of one of Jesus’ original disciples. Paul the Apostle, a dynamic communicator, advanced the cause of Christ. What happened? How did Saul become Paul?
The pivot point lies on the road to Damascus from Jerusalem. As Saul travels on it, the startling appearance of light from heaven halts him. Speaking directly to Saul, Jesus makes himself clear: You need to choose another way. Talk about an attention getter!
At this moment, the Saul-to-Paul transformation begins. But now comes the hard part. Paul has to figure out which way.
Isn’t that the predicament we all face? As Christians, we yearn to live out God’s purpose for our lives, but how do we know for certain which way to go?
This book aims to help you understand God’s direction for your life. Your guide for this journey will be Paul, the globe-trotting hero of early church history. Along the way you’ll gain more than an introductory insight into the background, education, experiences, writing, and theology of this man who changed the world.
Yet more than the whats of his life, we’ll examine the whys. We won’t simply look at where he went and what he said. We want to know how Paul got where he did. What determined his direction, and, more importantly, what determined his changes in direction? Did Paul have a pipeline to God that average people like you and me don’t have? Or does Paul have something to teach us about what it means to discern God’s guidance and direction for our lives? This study will answer those questions.
A lot of books about Paul and about the subject of finding purpose flood the market. There’s also no end to life coaches, secular psychologists, and social commentators weighing in on this matter. But this book approaches the topic solely from a faith perspective.
That perspective also helps us understand what separated Saul from Paul. Remember that both sought purpose in their lives. But only Paul sought God’s purpose as made manifest in Jesus Christ. The difference lay in the direction.
Saul’s purpose grew out of intellect and knowledge of scripture, his certainty of what God wanted from him and, above all, of following the letter of religious law. Perhaps he believed his obedience would earn him God’s love and acceptance. But let’s face it: When you’re persecuting people in the name of God, something is amiss. I’d like to think that part of Saul evidenced an openness to trying a different direction by the time Christ appeared.
Once transformed, Paul turned Saul’s belief system upside down. Love eclipsed the law. God’s acceptance wasn’t the goal—it was the starting point! Knowing God’s love made manifest in Jesus Christ became the primary motivating force of Paul’s life, as it is intended to be for all of us.
Paul not only put his faith in Jesus Christ, but he also believed Christ put his faith in him—again, as Christ does in all of us. This is key: From this reciprocal faith flows the wellspring for doing good, being useful, and achieving a sense of fulfillment. In other words, for purpose.
Paul didn’t arrive at this realization in a day, a month, or even a year. In fact, he spent several years discerning this new understanding of faith. (We’ll explore the significance of this phase of his life in chapter 1.) When Paul’s first call finally came, he set off to serve a growing Christian congregation in Antioch of Syria. If you believe God has a sense of irony, then this story won’t let you down: Among the members of this church reside some of the very Christ-followers whom Paul had persecuted in his former life. What could have gone terribly wrong instead turned into an expression of Christ’s love that would be seared on Paul’s heart. The Christians of Antioch embraced him as a leader, and he experienced the warmth of their fellowship.
Here we evidence the power of community that plays a crucial role in Paul’s transformation. Christianity doesn’t operate in a vacuum. It flourishes when we share God’s love with one another, which ignites further transformation in ourselves and in others.
The transforming power of community is not Paul’s story alone. John Wesley, the father of Methodism, shares a similar one.¹ By the time Wesley boarded a ship in 1735 to come to America, he was an up-and-coming preacher steeped in religious study who spread the gospel of personal holiness and righteousness. No doubt he intended to live out God’s purpose. Yet an experience on that voyage led him to acknowledge a lack in his own faith.
When a storm raged on the Atlantic one night, Wesley’s English companions screamed and cowered; surely Wesley felt fearful himself. But he marveled at a group of German Christians called Moravians who worshiped and calmly sang hymns while the storm raged. What accounted for their composure? One Moravian explained to Wesley that the group was not afraid to die
—strange words to a man who believed he had to be sanctified, that he had to live a holy life, before God would accept him.²
Like Paul’s moment of reckoning on the road to Damascus, the episode began a lengthy period of discernment for Wesley that led him to learn more from the Moravians. Upon his arrival in Georgia, he sought