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    Dating Tips for Men:20 Dating Advice of How to Be the Man That Women Desire
    Dating Tips for Men:20 Dating Advice of How to Be the Man That Women Desire
    Dating Tips for Men:20 Dating Advice of How to Be the Man That Women Desire
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    Dating Tips for Men:20 Dating Advice of How to Be the Man That Women Desire

    By Ann Preston-Jones

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    This is the kind of dating book you want to take home to your parents, the kind of dating book that you want to meet all your friends, the kind of dating book that likes the same terrible comedy movies as you.

    We’re going to take a look at the intricacies of dating men and women- from building your confidence right through to sex- in a new way. Let us help you to revolutionize your dating life and look at the world of romance, love, and sex in a whole new way.

    Sharing the connection of chemistry with someone is one of the most wonderful feelings in the world. But for every 1 such connection we get, there are probably 4 other fizzled or friend zoned attempts that we’d rather not remember. Does “I’m sorry… I just don’t think of you that way” sound familiar?

    So the age-old question for most men ends up really being: how can I create that feeling of chemistry with any woman and make her fall for me?

    In this book, I’m going to draw from my years of date coaching and use lessons from pop culture/TV to show you exactly how chemistry can be created with anyone.

    This isn’t a miracle cure for your dating woes- this is a way for you to rethink the way you go about dating, and evaluate what you can do to get what you want out of the dating scene. Already intrigued? Read on, and good luck.

    LanguageEnglish
    Publisherjusthappyforever.com
    Release dateDec 18, 2017
    ISBN9781386194231
    Dating Tips for Men:20 Dating Advice of How to Be the Man That Women Desire
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    Ann Preston-Jones

    Ann Preston-Jones has an extensive knowledge of the county’s archaeology, with over thirty years’ experience working for Historic England and Cornwall Archaeological Unit. Her experience is mostly in the care, conservation and management of those sites which make Cornwall special and she has a particular passion for sculptured stone monuments. 

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      Dating Tips for Men:20 Dating Advice of How to Be the Man That Women Desire - Ann Preston-Jones

      Introduction

      Survey any of your friends and ask them what they’re looking for in a significant other. Sure enough, you’ll get a mix of the predictable following: great career, loving family, amazing parenting instincts, kind, considerate, matching hobbies, interesting, and attractive. The standard. We all know multiple people that fit these criteria, so does that mean that we’re open to all of them as a life partner? Doubtful. (Though some of us undoubtedly take the shotgun approach.)

      So the age-old question is raised: what makes us fall in love with one person versus another? All the slow jams in the world never seemed to be able to figure this out, but maybe that’s because the answer is a bit of a nebulous construct. A spark. A click. A deep gut feeling of being drawn to someone. A certain je ne sais quoi. It’s really not quantifiable outside of just deeming it chemistry.

      But take The Bachelor, for instance. For those of you that are unfamiliar with it, the premise of the show is that there is one man who goes on dates with 25 amazingly attractive women. At the show’s conclusion, which is a mere 6 weeks from the initial meeting, he invariably ends up proposing to one of them. That’s a life-changing decision. If even 1/10th of the emotional depth they develop on the show is real, that’s still a lot of real chemistry and passion that cannot simply be explained away by the pressurized television and filming atmosphere.

      I systematically analyzed these shows and broke down the commonalities of what drove chemistry and such intense feelings of love in short periods of time. Does being ridiculously handsome, being billed as The Bachelor, and a sense of competition amongst the other participants help? Perhaps. But beyond that, you’ll be shocked at what really gets it done.

      As it turns out, many of these elements are firmly rooted in the biological basis of love theory – in other words, what love does to our brains, bodies, and emotions. The rest just comes from smart planning and execution. Dating shows exploit all of the above and veritably force-feed emotions into people.

      Chapter 1: The Biological Basis of Love

      It’s helpful to first go over some of the physiological functions we’re trying to take advantage of. The biology itself isn’t the focus of this book, so I’m going to keep this section short and to the point.

      For our purposes of cultivating attraction and chemistry, there are 3 main pathways at work, each of which I’ll talk about briefly below. At their root, they are all simply biological functions which, with classical conditioning and association and clever planning, can be simulated and increased.

      Something which keeps many men and women hopeful is the fact that there’s someone on the planet for everybody.  This might be true based on the kind of person you’re searching for and what you would like to possess with this particular person. So, in fact, it’s this part that determines if there is a match for everybody on the planet that desires one. Everything comes down to what you would like to possess with someone else.

      The simplest of connections may be the one night stand. Nearly any decent looking person can score one of these fairly easy. Usually, these happen because a person possesses an itch that should be scratched. You get all dressed up striking a few of the more crowded and popular meet markets. This is where you’ll find others exactly like you which are searching for individual’s couple of minutes or couple of hrs. of physical closeness with another person. This really is quite simple to create happen. The down-side from it is the fact that for most people it works out to become under fulfilling. Actually, it might only make the void within you that rather more lonely. For other people, though, it will do the trick until next time the itch begins.

      The following kind of connection that might be the easiest to attain may be the person for dating and casual sex. That one is preferable to the main one evening stand but doesn’t need a commitment from either party. They are a couple that they like many of the same things and therefore are drawn to one another sexually. Although this may seem nearly the same as the start of a genuine relationship, it may really be the effect of a good friendship. This really is all people require to become happy?

      Then, there’s the connection in which a couple have been in love and live along with no intentions of having married. These couples could be either monogamous and have a wide open style relationship. This kind of relationship is gaining popularity in recent occasions for a lot of reasons.

      Then, there’s the standard relationship in which a couple is deeply in love with one another and select to follow along with the approach of marriage. This relationship is much harder to have compared to others because it’s more dangerous. Inside a marriage, a couple is committing to one another and making some pretty strong commitments to one another along the way. They’re promising not to get along with other people and also to stay together in good occasions and bad occasions until dying parts them. This is actually the ultimate

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