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Yes...I'm Still Single
Yes...I'm Still Single
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Yes, I'm Still Single is the response of forty-two percent of the American population over the age of eighteen who are not married. The single and unmarried population in America is a significant group, with alot of untapped power. Yes, I'm Still Single, deals with the dynamics of being single in a very practical way to enhance the lives of those whom, for whatever reason, are still unmarried.

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    Yes...I'm Still Single - Monique Flemings

    Yes, I’m

    STILL

    Single

    A Practical Guide for Christian Singles

    Dr. Monique Flemings

    Vine Creations Publishing House

    Yes, I’m STILL Single

    Published by Vine Creations House Publishers (Bermuda)

    Printed in the United States of America.

    No part of this book may be reproduced in any form without written permission from the publisher. Please direct your inquiries to:

    Monique Flemings Ministries

    P. O. Box 947

    Homewood IL 60430

    1-866-877-6131

    Email: flemingsministries@aol.com

    www.moniqueflemingsministries.com

    Cover Design: Mrs. Eletha Euanne Fox (Bermuda)

    Editor: Ms. Sharon Hayward (Bermuda)

    ––––––––

    © 2012 by Dr. Monique Flemings

    All rights reserved.

    ISBN: 978-0-9828593-9-1

    Dedication

    ◊◊◊

    I would like to dedicate this book to my parents who have always been supportive and to my husband, Andrew - God’s best for my life. He is the wind beneath my wings. I also dedicate this to every single person who reads this book; please know that you are in God’s timing for your life.

    Table of Contents

    ◊◊◊

    Dedication ........................................i

    Foreword ........................................vi

    Introduction.....................................ix

    Chapter One: Yes, I’m STILL Single! ......1

    Chapter Two: What Do I Do While I Wait? ...................................................................11

    Chapter Three: Write the Vision ............23

    Chapter Four: Determining God’s Best for Your Life .......................................31

    Chapter Five: Winner Takes All .............51

    Chapter Six: Christian Dating ...............63

    Chapter Seven: Bouncing Back From a Breakup ........................................79

    Chapter Eight: Jump-Start Your Singles’ Ministry ........................................85

    Chapter Nine: Power Scriptures ............91

    Biography........................................95

    Foreword

    ◊◊◊

    The number of single persons in the pews necessitates a work of this nature. It is often true and tragic that being single is treated as some type of disease or stigma, not only in the local church but also in family circles.  The question, Aren’t you married yet? seems to come up as a topic of conversation at family gatherings, high school reunions, and other settings.  It can almost give a complex to someone who is single; but help has arrived!  In this work  Dr. Flemings, who married at a later age in life and can relate to what it takes to be single and yet fulfilled, gives an extremely candid look at being a successful and sanctified single! 

    Yes, I’m still single, is the response of forty-two percent of the American population over age eighteen.  The single and unmarried population in America is a significant group, with a lot of untapped power. Single persons make up sixty percent of our churches, yet few ministries even contemplate having a singles’ ministry.  Yes, I’m Still Single, deals with the dynamics of being single in a very practical way to enhance of the lives of those who, for whatever reason, are still unmarried.

    In this crucial work, Dr. Flemings addresses what to do while you are waiting to meet someone.  She gives practical insights on how to live a happy life that does not depend on being with someone else.  This mistake has been made by many married persons who married in order not be alone, and yet found that they were still lonely.  She also deals with setting goals.  Goal setting will ultimately lead to one making the best choice when it comes to relationships.  Goals set direction and bring focus.  They are what cause you to make a God choice instead of just a good choice or the wrong choice.  A single life is still a valuable life and she makes that clear throughout this timely work. 

    The setting of boundaries is a healthy dynamic in all relationships, as boundaries help us know how far things should go.  How do Christians date?  Do Christians date or do they court?  These age old issues are all addressed in this practical handbook. 

    Does your church have a singles’ ministry?  If not, the Lord may be leading you to begin this essential ministry that many churches overlook.  Again, Dr. Flemings gives direction for birthing and getting the most out of your singles’ ministry.

    She has blood on her message because she has walked it out and can tell other singles that it works!  God loves married and single people alike.  For the single who wants to live a consecrated life, remain balanced, and enjoy herself, then this work will encourage you!  It is full of practical yet spiritual advice and strategies to possess your vessel in honor.  (1 Thessalonians 4:3-4) 

    Enjoy this work as you walk through the honor of being single.  Whether you are single by choice, waiting to be found, or looking for that right young lady or man, this work will bless you.  Singles everywhere, be encouraged!  This is a long awaited handbook and is excellent for any single person trying to live a victorious and fulfilled life! 

    ––––––––

    Dr. Karen Bethea, Senior Pastor

    Set the Captives Free Outreach Center

    Baltimore, Maryland

    Introduction

    ◊◊◊

    I’m so glad you picked up this book as I believe you will find it to be a very practical guide for your life as a single person. So many people do not like the term single and will actually tell you they are NOT single, when in reality they are very much a single person.  Many think that being single is like having the scarlet letter S branded on their chest for the entire world to see. Being single does not mean you are less than, leftover, not marriage material, or any of the other phrases you may have heard to describe your single state; it is a wonderful time that can be the best years of your life as you enjoy each day of the journey.

    Being single has many different connotations. After many years of living a single life, the questions were always addressed to me regarding being single, and surviving. I never thought of myself as a survivor.  I was doing all I knew to live life and enjoy life as a single person. My goal was to experience life and enjoy the ride; it just so happened that I found myself taking this journey as a single person. I guess after not being married in my twenties or thirties qualified me as an expert in how to enjoy the single journey.  You can be a happy, well-balanced, single person, enjoying life instead of a sad, depressed single feeling

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