Women and Men

division of labor unknown

After all she was not so sure what had happened, or when it had started. Which was probably not a correct state to be in, because what had happened made the biggest difference in her life so far. Hours of life that worked her back full to breaking of pain and drained it of its work when the back of her child’s head with a slick of dark hair and its rounded shoulders gave her that last extra push to free its arms still held inside her. She would tell her husband later—she knew she would—and she did tell him. She told her husband and he told others for weeks afterward. Also he had his own side to tell. She loved his excitement.

Pain all in her back worked free of her at the end, dropping away into a void below, and it could almost not be recalled. This pain had been new and undreamt of. As new as the height of the young obstetrician whom she had never seen until she arrived at the hospital, he stood in surgical green against the ceiling above her head, then at her feet, at a distance down there between the stirrups tilting his head this way and that way between her thighs, and the green cap on his head was as far away as the bright, fairly unmetallic room she was giving birth to her child in, and the young obstetrician’s words were the talk that went almost and sharply along with the pain her husband Shay—she was thinking of him as Shay—also in surgical green, could not draw off into the ten-buck pocket watch he’d timed her with (where was it? in a pocket? mislaid? she didn’t care where it was). Her husband Shay’s chin hung close to her; I will always be here, his chin might have said, and his hand out of sight somewhere gripped hers, his hand might have been invisible for all she knew; but then he had to see for himself what was going on at the other end and he moved down to the foot of the delivery table and he peered over the doctor’s shoulder as if they were both in it together, and then Shay half looked up from that end against his better judgment she was sure and frowned at her but with love smiled the old smile. He needed a shave, his tan had grown seedy. The doctor stood up between her thighs and said they were getting there.

She was just with it enough to be embarrassed and so she didn’t say she didn’t want Shay down there looking. He was already there. Her baby had changed. It had felt older last week, older than their marriage. One night he had told her with his tongue just what he would do to her when the head began to show, and she didn’t think he meant it but she didn’t tell him. Now he heard her pain. He couldn’t see it. She could see it on the blank ceiling, oh God oh blank, and it was coming to birth, that pain, and would always be there like a steady supply of marrow-to-burn mashed out of her from her skull downward.

The men there between her thighs said, Hey and Oh at the same time (doctor, husband, respectively). They spoke at once, like song.

What’s she look like down there? Oh God oh God. What’s she sucking spitting look like down sucking splitting there? Look like? Well, she never really had known, so why should she know now? A saddle of well-worked mutton? A new dimension of Her. Later she was encouraged to recall it all. As if she did.

Afterward she did recall a thought about being an invalid that had escaped her during the pain, the labor, and came back at a later moment of the pain when she was not really trying very hard to recall another, different thing that she couldn’t at that moment even refer to (so how did she know there was anything to recall?), it suddenly quite naturally during the pain took the place of the invalid insight and it had to do with Shay moving the way he moved when they were at last in the delivery room and he’d been at her side holding her hand. He moved then slowly away from her head to the foot of the delivery table to look at the very top of the baby’s head (girl head or boy head). But also at the part of her he said opened like an animal looking to be a flower. But now with the baby coming down, she was pushing against what Shay would be seeing, whatever that was, and the thing that had come to her had to do with his moving from one end of her to the other, from the upper part where her eyes were, downward—the way he did it, walked to the foot of the table, and the way this turned her into something but she lost it—had it, lost it, a wrinkle in her mind somewhere stirred like the start of a laugh—and later she found herself recalling this thing about being an invalid: that, here she was perfectly healthy, never more, and healthier than Shay with his sinus; and in order to have this baby she had to become an invalid, and she got the picture again of her recurrent dream she’d never told Shay, of gazing out the endless window of her lab and seeing a man led to execution who she learned had been in the hospital getting better for several weeks until he was able to have the punishment executed on him which then she saw was a thousand and one strokes; then he was to crawl back to the infirmary he had just walked out of: but she saw that her thinking was incorrect and she was not an invalid at all, she was using herself, that was what she was doing, being fruitful. Her husband had hated his first name when he was eleven and had been Dave for a while and then, of all things, Shay, he hadn’t gotten over it, she called him Shay sometimes, hadn’t gotten over what? it sounded like a movie actor. What is the fruit of a cross between an animal and a flower?

The men looking her over, head to toe, were glad to be there and so was she to have them, and so was the nurse and so was she to have the nurse and so were they to have the nurse, and so were they glad to have her and her pain and the baby that she could remember looking ahead to: the truth was not head to toe, it was the men looking when they couldn’t see in, until they saw what was coming out to meet them, which was nice, wasn’t it.

How did you feel?

It was (she sips the last of her daiquiri which now is not so chilled) the most beautiful experience of my life. No, it was rough, it was painful, but I couldn’t remember all the pain. It was an experience I wouldn’t have missed.

Have another?

O.K.

She was glad it was ending, glad Shay wanted to be there with her, she was alone with her pain whittling at her, but no, we are not alone.

Shay and the chin he was hitched to moved away but down and near the foot of the delivery table in the bright delivery room, and he moved politely as if he didn’t want to notice himself moving. She found on his face a pursed-lip fixity sharing her pain, she knew he shared it. It was love. She was glad, so glad. She couldn’t have done it without him, later that was what she was telling everyone again. Having apparently already told them. For how else could there be an again? She heard herself.

And recalled the word for what Shay had made her into when he respectfully moved with a Sunday museum-goer’s slowness, from her higher to her lower, from her eyes and dry mouth that he’d kissed and that hadn’t changed, to the action down there—she thought of him as Shay during the labor—and he mustn’t look back at her, this was what she felt, or felt he felt, as if he could share her labor only by not looking back at her. Well, it wasn’t as if she couldn’t have had a mirror to follow the action. But he, who had been impatient for the baby to come and who had said the time had never gone faster, had looked along her length so that by his slowness she had become a model.

Of what? A model of a woman on a scale not to be sniffed at.

Still, a model. A model woman? In the mouths of others. Scientist, lover, mother of a fetus nearing term, nutritionist at the bar of the breakfast nook, creator soft and trim who’d give you a hand and a thigh, demonstrate relative acceleration, share a birth with you, be tracked by your pocket clock through space to the next contraction (breathing quick and regular, hhh—hhh—hhh—hhh, as she and Shay had been shown at the natural childbirth sessions), while she’d often said (knowing she will often later say) that she must have (later had had to have) you there, it must follow as the timer her and she the timer that she must have you there in that time between the looking forward full of love, hope, content (and looking forward itself), and the looking backward full of love, content, tiredness, blab, work, and looking forward. Well obviously he went down there to that end of her to see what was happening; the baby was more slowly downward bound than he; and her pain was bound to her until it dropped downward with no speed at all or she dropped through it—its bind—into a void like the death which, she always thought, wasn’t like relief for the doer of the dying, because the doer unlike the really relieved was unfeelingly dead. It wasn’t a child she had in her hands, for if she had had one, the grip would have crunched the little beautiful child who was inside her still while her hands gripped whatever they gripped, gripped the bright hospital room she was in, all by herself, except for Shay, the nurse (but there were two nurses then), the doctor, and the baby who was getting the fuck out since there was no room in.

Her husband would describe her pain, she was sure. He had heard enough about it even though she didn’t so much recall it as hold on to its weight. He could look back better than she and see the glazed, willful eyes of their three-minute-old child, a tube (he said, but she didn’t remember) in a nostril, the fluid draining out, the amniotic fluid (he said), which doesn’t touch her because saying amniotic fluid was not recalling anything, not looking back (at her or whatever he looked back at); but what, then, did he lose in that looking back?

He had his hands clasped behind his back at some point she was sure as he moved to the foot of the delivery table. Museum, or lab, one like hers, and a model was on view, and you walked along it and around it, looked through its windows and its valves and if there was an equals sign looked through the equals sign to what it led to, but to this model there was more than met the eye, and it was a gap between last night’s lipstick and this morning’s extra-careful shave—at least she did not sport a five-o’clock shadow!—or you had balls with rods sticking out of them from ball to ball, and then another cluster of balls with rods, but between the clusters nothing, and you put the two parts of the one model together but without doing anything to them, for you put them together in mind.

And she was in that gap there in the middle which was still an empty gap no matter how much of her was in it, she was what was in that gap in the middle, but she was there just for a moment, and it was the thought looking either way that she and no one else caused him to get that hard-on, she was what had done it, but then also that, well, he got it, a hard-on, he got his hard-on regardless, and having gotten it he would get it into an available cunt. So long as he did not look at the ceiling. She had looked at the ceiling and didn’t know herself any more, knew only her baby inside her and God like a blank perfectly painted.

Push. She had no choice but to.

He came back to her, held her hand in his, he knew when to grip harder when she pushed. She had worked hard enough but her work went on. She couldn’t have done it without him there. She actually believed that. So push. She had no choice but to.

The hand went away and she had hold of something else but it was the ceiling he’d never looked at that she wanted to grip though it was beyond the birth of her baby which was happening and happening.

Her husband would thoughtfully ask all she’d felt. Did he want to know? Between us, it was what marriage was all about. We suffer alone. We are not alone. There’s life elsewhere. We have each other. Till death do us part.

The baby inside her, had it been speaking all the time? But speaking to her? Why her? Why not anyone? Why not him? But more her than him. For she and the baby had both been inside her and might have come to an old understanding. Yet this felt like how he would think.

She stood, as she’d known she would, in a gown you could see through and held the stem of her glass while a man poured a daiquiri into it and the lime smelled the roots of her mouth which watered. The talk went on, women and men comparing experiences of birth, some in this room probably in the process of losing one another, maybe a woman and a man looking right at each other to see each other. Where? There was a moment of no talk and a woman said, Sue, and everyone laughed. The pouring ended neatly and the daiquiri at the brim was almost like the first and as she smiled at the man named Marvin or Martin who had filled her glass and who she’d heard from her husband was a freelance diver who had worked for the police and in oceanography, she heard in the empty moment of silence behind her her husband laugh and say to someone, Division of labor, and a man laughed.

But at the end when the elbows and hands and bottom and knees came free, slip, blip, grind no bump—and she only much later thought of the gunk draining out then, and nothing seemed to matter except the glistening baby that was younger than last month and was a baby beyond boy or girl, beyond not before, and then without strangeness nothing at all for quite a long moment seemed to matter—or be between them—not even the baby that was O.K., she’d looked at her husband behind the young doctor’s hands and she found tears on her husband’s seedy unshaven cheeks, tears from the wonderful vagueness in his eyes and on his forehead too, as if he had wept upward into his thick, bristly hair. But later she remembered what she could remember, as if she might have receded into her own breathing and part of her was never to be seen again, and knew he told the truth when he said it hurt him to see her in pain, and then she recalled those tears upon his forehead and saw that of course they were sweat. And she knew that while he did not look at her while he waited down there between her legs with the doctor, the tears that he could not keep from running out onto his face were not only for his daughter, because they did not—she was sure, she was sure—fill up his eyes and drop onto his skin until suddenly he had looked up past the appearing baby to look her in the eye—us, us—as he had not been able to down there at that end of the delivery table before now.

And so, weeks later, balancing her fresh-brimmed daiquiri against the poor flippancy she’d heard her husband speak behind her, she did not turn to look him angrily in the eye.

BETWEEN US: A BREATHER AT THE BEGINNING

We already remember what’s been going on.

How is another question.

Isn’t that a large shadow on the road running parallel to us or our dream? Is it loaded?—it’s approaching in some opposite direction too, looking for its light. Check it out. It is to be shared, and with us, we think. Do we deserve to know what is outside coming near? We really forget if it was in the prophecies, there is so much to do now.

Once a mother who did not tell stories sent her two sons away. To be human, she told one of them certainly. But each son felt that the leaving had been hers, not his. Though his own future motion was real enough: hence relative to hers as hers to his.

To go on, once there was a power vacuum. An as yet unfixed emptiness simply asking power to rush in. This much was agreed. By people sitting down together, all their legs near one another under a table. The table took shape from month to month, year to year—round oblong oval round—century to century, we heard—while under the table the legs of all the people developed protocol. A new kind of legwork. High energy, was the report. And aren’t they your responsibility too? we asked each other—and answered, The legs or the people? (Legwork, one called.) But while some of this was to be tabled, power vacuum was generally agreed a possibility. Like the human thigh, it had evolved in the mind. Like femur for thigh. But power vacuum: think of it.

The words took hold. In them a daughter had a name for Father. But in the midst of a time that would rush us into bastardy, why we had a name for us period that got us off the ground bam bam whoosh thank-U-Dad; for Power Vac was just the label to market our dream. So take this trip, a leg of it anyway, to market, babe. Power Vacuum was all the handle we need.

Oh handle for what?

I know what’s been going on, an unknown child says to a changing grown-up. Like, don’t think I don’t know.

Handle with care. The shadow on the road, the high road, is a Wide Load, its sign says it is, and this Wide Load (a house or other container) which we took to be running parallel to us we can’t seem to pass or not pass. Yet after it has been arduously and dangerously passed, isn’t it ahead of us again? That’s correct. Could it not stop for us, as we could not for it? It had windows and half-open blinds. It had signs on it WIDE LOAD, and the back that we remember so well we can almost see it facing us was as wide as the dark scenery we passed through in our native, late-model vehicle, our bicycles on the sun roof fixed mountainous flashing their spokes like this Wide Load vehicle’s great double wheels now up ahead and spinning slowly backward as reflected in the mirror-faced low offices of an insurance-type firm at the outskirts of a new village.

We remember what’s been going on. Already remember what’s been here with us so long we had the time to see but now seem to have been waiting to remember. For who are we not to? Yet give ourselves permission also to forget.

Now, a thinker of the century in question, twentieth among many late centuries surrounding it that were on occasion repelled by the twentieth, said Meaning something is like going up to someone. If so, what is this that we mean to get over, and while we’ve got one another here, who is this someone we mean to share, we who were probably not here first yet who are no less natives at least of this motion. We deserve to know what approaches us.

Is there a break here? Or is it our breath together? It’s what’s between us, or we share. A relation, which we are all. And what a time for a breath or break. Before we’ve half begun. Which we are always doing, aren’t we? It’s the best time. A breather now.

For hear us falling. Toward the horizon albeit oblique, for we imagine it isn’t our natural state. We are some power to be here and to have changed toward life even to think distinct from these angels lately to be heard speculating in us as if they were learning to hope. We deserve to know what is in us.

Now, sent away by a mother who herself appeared to have been the one who left, those two remembered sons were secretly one as well as two. That is, we go on but we do not go on; go away but are still there. Mayn was the name, and of the two sons the one who eventually did go away was James.

And to go on: a personalized power vacuum a daughter found in place of father before she had ever even heard of a power vacuum out in the hinterlands stayed with her all along and into later life something of an inspiration. What would she have done with a more definite father? Call her Grace Kimball and she will hear.

Hear us all falling toward the horizon. It’s the wind the other side of an obstacle that draws us toward it. But the wind is our wind as was the obstacle we heard only as a prelude to whatever lay beyond. Hear what is in the wind. A song, says someone (grown-up, to be sure). But, built into the song, hear the noise. The noise, it is a city in itself where not everybody knows everybody else. And each century is a person coming to that city. Like, for future reference, an ever-young, once-wed, once-divorced woman without children but with a following, by name Grace Kimball, who was bound to be heard from; and from another angle, for future reference (read residence), a family man and traveler, also once wed, once divorced, a man named Mayn, James Mayn, hear the noise. And should they never meet, we have been invited no less: like we are the news either way—meeting or not meeting—as we are the relations between them. And have we not felt we are more?

The angels to be heard at times in all this or in us were not here first. Sometimes we really don’t know what they are.

Once long ago a mother told one of her two sons he should go away and he was still very young, though a strong, manly boy. But then she left before he had the chance, and so he felt the leaving was hers, not his.

She never told stories, but his grandmother did, and his grandmother’s were made up out of an adventure she had really had in an earlier day, earlier century in fact. These old reports could sound sometimes a little like what was going on now in the grandson’s life, but he shrugged it off, trusting his grandmother’s little histories.

He belongs to all this which does not easily tell love and separation apart and is about both together. Unhappily he left his wife and his children. Yet did he not live, then, somewhat as he had always lived? It is a time of such changes. Life change is much the cry and we hear it and he probably more than gives it its true weight, which means he must take a longish view—maybe too dumb to be afraid, he jokes. Some brief, important people coming and going here more or less known to him—are they like parts of the work he does? are they news?—of birth, being in love, tenancy, privacy, children?

To all this belongs also a woman he may never quite meet. Except through some of these same others. Unlike him she does think of these others as her work: aren’t they discovering body-selves? aren’t they designing their lives? exploring options? For all the world like traders coming and going around her. History passing through her helping hands and voice revealed to her twenty-four hours a day so that in the women’s groups she created and makes her living from in the mid-seventies of the century she runs things with a faith that comes from power more than the other way around. She can be fooled but not for long.

All of this speaks. In many bodies or, as our leaders have said, on an individual basis. Speaks also, we understand, in this we that we have heard. What is it? some community? Ours. Operating less than capacity then suddenly also beyond itself. So that in the zone between we have this voice of relations—is that it?—of possible relations too.

A truth here is that angels exist in thought. In great numbers as the case may be, and in small compass we understand. But as angels are summoned to be guardians or messengers, vascular go-betweens or light for its own sake, they seem granted more power than potential. Still, do not angels have rights or anyway abilities to be unprecedentedly other than themselves, or less, or more, since they are lodged in thought? What if they edge in, infiltrate, graft, find real being already present along the curve of the human said to be their arc of new evolution—though into us or into the angels they can be?

Are these merely our angels? They angle into and out of our speech like some advanced listening advice we recognize because we remember from somewhere. And what is this community—this large We we ourselves voice? It will be a community for one thing and capable of accommodating even angels real enough to grow by human means.

God the interference! Can’t hear the interference like we used to, what we once heard—the god relieving himself, blowing tubes, like our weather ship beneath her Coast Guard white paint.

Himself, did one hear? The god himself? Blowing rather his or her tubes; his or her nose; or noise—our noise. The news. But it was all news. Wind that we mouth into sounds of caves. Sounds on skin. We knew it, sound of bones living below the surface, visible like ankle and jaw, and then all that’s between connecting the neck bones to the thigh bones which masculine or feminine are the same old femora beneath the skin. May we not together likewise find, say, one question to comprehend two or more answers? Is there not breath enough for all of us to take one here?

Now if male is to female, then moral be to femoral, if we hadn’t instantly had our heads slung beyond these things to where, listening at the very thigh of the divine (flesh no obstacle) we pick up—the less hard we listen, the better we pick up—vibrations of a better way of doing things—costed, cost-risked—we pick up what else but the will of a slow worm in there. In the divine thigh (make it flesh).

We pick up only however the tapeworm’s track, but echo track of the headway it’s making elsewhere quite a ways from here. Vibes coming from up in the belly area actually where the worm is hooked in, yea up beyond the vaulted groin’s divide.

And this tapeworm in its steady state takes in along a multiplicity of small-scale units that are its nervous system’s segments a homogenized menu of the godly diet—read sacred—divine—read diva suddenly which is opera for goddess. But wait: what diet is this? We have to know. Oh it is food digested by her the tapeworm’s host then processed by the worm her guest plus helpings of a new para-placenta that lines the linings of this diva’s—read songbird’s—read opera singer’s—gut: so as the worm makes its way, and its way makes the worm, the diva gets hers, her way, which eats up her surplus and empowers her to shed really a lot of weight, sundry reported amounts upwards of a hundred foolish pounds. The better then, with her amazing range, to go on as the sinewy dramatic soprano that she is, as mother, lover, barmaid, princess, or herself, to music—if you call that music real noise.

The tapeworm thus did eat at length and having eat ate on unmindful of the noise of waters, running waters, running waters far away and near, of molecules hitting, hoping, sticking, and combining, for what could stick did, and the willful worm at work upon its environmental meal never minds the noise overhead that’s gaps of power burnt, burnt into music, burnt to expel the song of this practicing singer content now to turn her windy will to work, having a month ago introduced this very special tapeworm into her system, her heaviness, her hunger, her desire, in the flesh of a predatory fish—a pike from the Mille Lacs region of Minnesota—a M’Lacs pike that had turned the wrong way at the wrong time, been caught, identified as a tapeworm host, and flown live one thousand miles direct to the supposedly overweight diva’s favorite Japanese restaurant by an Ojibway Indian medicine man with a diamond squint—a tapeworm (a fish tapeworm) prescribed by her fond but at this event secretly squeamish New York physician who knew he had to do something or give way to someone who could.

He thought he read her like a book. But what one?

Confused, she once signed a little note hand-delivered to him one morning begging his advice: it meant in love, and two months later she would confide in him that it had been just sex. When he said more than once to her, I’m confused, it meant clearly moral and angry, but also (undeclared as usual) in love (but with her, his patient, his dear friend), though she might refuse to read his moods. Is he important among these elementary elements? We know enough to ask. He knew he was important to her but not like her audiences in the darkened house, who mattered with a depth so great it verged on the invisible, and so mattered almost more than family (if she had had family in this foreign America—she had a father far away).

Sensational opera sheds little light on private life, but how weigh such light shed from her suns and windy heavens where she must have forgotten him for hours, her doctor, yet knew, like the most precious childhood awkwardness within this very lovely lovable body, that this loving friend was there. Nor did we mean to shed light upon the private life of grand opera. What happened, in good faith, was that we double-checked the god and took it from there; followed where the sounds led, through a divine thigh up to a tapeworm that later proved to be dual-sexed. In turn, this worm’s will to live by growing unknowingly obeyed the will of its host (née hostess) to reduce. Yet she, too, gave way before a greater will or emptiness. Which some fresh power in us guesses isn’t the wind on the other side of the obstacle but an obstacle beyond the wind.

Inspired. Coming out of left field. Turning an eye that way as if we took place not just in the receivers of our waves of relations but as those receivers no less. Is that, then, true reincarnation? Grand, to be sure; maybe abominable, this vague incarnation intimated to us. Was it angel, animal, mineral, chemical, chemo-therapeutical? We will be asking again.

To go on, an obstacle. And inspired by trying to recover what we have chosen to forget. These words belong to a speaker for that century and the preceding, who maybe in what he refrained from saying knew the light that is thrown by forgetting itself. But how? we ask. And find one answer in ourselves: Light passion-bent past roadblocks it has itself devised: yes, in the fine void of our possible intelligence that announces owl-like one weighty day that we didn’t know what light was but we’d been promised a power and thought it might be to find that on good days we were light or got to be.

If it needs to be worked through, raise it in the workshop. Our void’s first lady, Grace Kimball, with reportedly Indian cheekbones, sees ahead to a better way of doing things, of doing us. Grace Kimball we already remember found history in women: in the women contained by men, and in men retaining secret fluid of women you don’t own up to, and this in all the people who passed through her helping hands making her sometimes in her dreams (for she and this history did each other full time) invisible as the raped call for help, and sometimes in her dreams non-important as a monstrously yawning future unplanned (and by others not oneself). Grace saw ahead into a future that looked back at her through the same eye with which she saw it, into a room without furniture. Her Body Room she would call it, as if other rooms in her apartment were not also body room, yet if in this day and age we become acquainted with long spaces by means of brief capsules, by, in turn, as we understood it equaling long spaces to short times and at other times simply, babe, letting (as in let it happen—as in life) letting (we already forget) letting a broom stick be equal to a base ball because if we can’t build our scale life in the lab mustn’t we look past what we already think we know and just say that this blindingly multiple curve equals those several lifelong brevities? Why did we even ask?

Her Body Room she would call it. Though other rooms in her apartment were that, too. Body Room. Renamed by the times through which we swing, celebrated by Grace, obscure like Mayn, and turned into her Body Room through being emptied by the wide load of her trip, her once violent motion away from an old home far away to a new. And as for the family furniture back there in that old home in the exact Middle West, forget it: for like that legendary legal Wide Load of our highways it held firm at that moment of launch yet with this difference: its inertia instantly forgot she’d blasted off when she’d moved that inner landscape of her life without furniture of her family from one of America’s middles to New York once upon a time.

But we already forget her marriage that came in between and filled if not New York her apartment there with modern furniture; she had tried to go the straightest route, do everything right, but this time far from home; later, in a dream she grasped her marriage as if, in the memory, it was the water or semi-precious stone the light came through, and had taken place not in the city of New York but in her hometown (read small city) where you could be owned and never know it till you were being carried to your grave reduced to a sign or an undeliverable message (read literally massage) and her father came home from work and was Dad and called her Gracie and never quite, it one day came to her, asked her anything about herself (except the nearly timeless Where’d you go?—just now? today? the last few years!). But this is only what we know she felt. Was he dull? This is but the beginning. She would find him in the living room annexed to the space near the dining-room door, fixed among her poor mother’s furniture like a passenger in a train and out the window the countryside is moving at pretty much same speed same direction you are.

Therefore, a later New York Body Room emptied itself of her dad’s powerful overstuffed low square armchair that if in the old days where she grew up you were coming from kitchen and dining room you have to pass to get into all the other furniture in that parlor, the Grand Rapids pair of lyre-backed straight chairs, and the green chair and the red chair, the gray davenport that didn’t open out and, facing it, the new blue that did, the tables you could rarely go under but had to go around, the magazine stand with its V-trough hung between small, narrow tabletop and same-size bottom shelf; a brass-buttoned brown leather armchair that felt cool on a summer afternoon when the heat from the miles—or as the Browning Club’s visiting lecturer from Chicago called them, the versts—of fields outside of town flattened the town and its colors and rose like a real, low flood around the houses until twenty years later when she was so long gone that she had returned from New York to pay her parents and then her mother several visits, the flood loaded all the circuits of the air conditioners and the electricity might go off in one whole block at four in the afternoon so suddenly you were aware of the still grass outside. Grace had emptied her prospective Body Room in her adopted New York also of—hadn’t she?—a gap that habited that old living space halfway across America where, with one thirty-second of Pawnee blood, she’d come from, where her father in the low armchair sat in almost any weather with a brown bottle of beer or with a tapered old-fashioned glass of blended whiskey held constant in his hand until one year a TV set materialized, or took its place blindly on the table at his elbow so it need never be looked at nor the local newspaper necessarily looked away from until the glass became the drinker’s magnified substitute nose upon being drained and this was Decision Time—just as Dad need never breathe (breathe, she said to a man in argyles some years later whom she married); and yet her father sang, audibly in the bathtub, irritably in the dark garage; sang an instant American favorite Oh what a beautiful morning … the corn is as high as an elephant’s eye, having driven the family through seventy-five miles of wheat fields to see a road show of the musical Oklahoma!, which was a neighboring state. But he didn’t sing in the living room, where there was a piano, in that power vacuum she only half named that was in the whole house, was it he or the room?, one name or another, for years, from memory ploughing through all her mother’s parlor furniture to get to her father who wasn’t really there at the far end especially since to get into that tableau where you would not exactly cut a rug, you didn’t so much finish with him as start, start as you came out of the dining room by getting past Dad and his unforeseeable silences and the soft brown-and-red-diamond argyles she had completed for him one Christmas as, with her one marriage and except for her two pregnancies (depending on our point of view), she completed everything she started—one of two pairs of socks she ever knitted apart from craft experiments in the rapid seventies.

Largish town. City Limits, signs said. Do things one by one, her mother said, this one and then the next; there’s time for everything. Her mother said all this, seated very straight at the kitchen table that had a metal top painted white. Her father changed the oil in the car. His beer can by the front tire, his backside in the air as he dragged the full drip pan out from under, he then on his knees took a drink of beer, got down on his back and worked his way under again to screw back the cap. It was this doing things one by one in their time, she couldn’t always think about it except to know she had to find a way to not do things in order but bypass as one day many hundreds of women knew of her through bits and multiples of her story like Eleanor Roosevelt or Helen Keller. Like Curie, for cures she always knew meant danger. (Always, Grace? even in high school, even at the sink with some boyfriend, even swimming at night in the Middle West before New York?) Like legendary Owl Woman whom a dynamite social-studies teacher named Ruby Foote in Grace’s old high school had said healed people of the southwestern desert with earth matter and a magic of understanding (that’s all magic is!) and with words of song that often went on in the absence of their singer and composer (Owl Woman) who would reduce herself to a tiny cactus owl as easily as expand the time you spent with her, according to Ruby Foote, herself some lone missionary type from the southeast coastal region, North Carolina way (where she’d been once married); now in the true Midwest a fast driver at age sixty of an aging Cadillac (she called it); a strong midnight swimmer, student of Indians (what Indians there were), and philosopher of rape as early as 1950—yes, like Owl Woman, whom Grace thought about and thought about until one day years later she thought Owl Woman into a promise protecting a future when Owl Woman would pop up like a reincarnate double.

A woman-model anyway and Grace knew the way would partly come to her. She relocated to magical Manhattan—and swam in a pool; met her husband (as she and an interviewer later identified him with backward prophecy) and he had RR on his combination-lock attaché case (before self-destruct optional became a standard item); who swam fast laps his head down watching his lane painted on the tiles of the pool bottom but sometime veered all over the joint like a motor without a boat; he was in the market, he (no) he was in market research, that was how he got off, and he could and would sell—read travel—and weekends was training to be a Long Island realtor; but market research, he was good; she knew it; she was sure, and she was right as always in her time.

Oh clean break! That’s the dream. What you won’t remember can’t hurt you.

Really.

O.K. you agree in principle.

But what if clean break bring circulatory problems? You know?

Don’t go looking for trouble. Fall toward the horizon with us, that’s where the market is. You’ve earned your trip, babe. Don’t go looking for obstacles. We’ll set your sheets to the wind.

Who is this We? We have but to ask when lo! it curves piecemeal off breakneck into nowhere, we shouldn’t have asked. Was it these angel relations trying to change their lives, adopting the local language cum customs? Have we learned to breathe together? Breathing is waiting. The mother who said to go away but who left first—Jim would not forget her yet does not quite know her. We have to learn all over again. And isn’t this hard when we ourselves are always at the beginning of ourselves?

The child looks up from its work and no one knows if this is that unknown child who said, I know what’s been going on, don’t think I don’t know. For we can’t tell except that this child is one of us. The child doing homework. Homework that is new to us at least if not to the angels rumored circulating in us. Whose child is this? There may be others in the next room, and are; and we, of whom these children are parts as if we were the whole, note that this child who looks up at the dust-sheened gray screen of a small TV and reaches and turns it on and then off, and looks down again at the math workbook, studies rotation. Which, if we let ourselves, we at once grasp, and with regret as odd, vague, wide, and bodily as this child’s studies in rotation are to us abstract. For R equals apparently almost any number. But we are in the next room now where another is copying homework information on those giant molehills to be seen several hundred feet apart in Persia, now Iran; mark the well-known qanats, your system of underground canals that irrigate the desert by drawing moisture from the earth: and these channels under the desert go on as surely as they have been insufficiently understood these five thousand years. How they collect water from the dry desert and return it.

The unknown child has not quite yet asked why these desert canals need to be studied; the child writes on, and is part of our larger concentration taking the form we now see of dispersal, though the curve of this dispersal we don’t quite nail down but at least point to—and feel the pointing inward, don’t we?—to two chief specialists so far: the opera singer’s Fifth Avenue physician and his Ojibway medicine man (one third Sioux in fact) between whom our concentration shifts because drawn either way: for instance, toward the Ojibway Indian, who had guaranteed there would be at least one tapeworm in the belly of the pike tank-loaded narrowly by him in its own M’Lacs water to take its own high road airborne from Minnesota to New York. This guarantee was backed by his long sporting acquaintance with the diva’s physician, who fished with him regularly and had arranged, through his star patient (and star friend) the singer herself, who was of South American extraction, for a South American government to sponsor along with several of its young nationals this native American healer in an aeronautics program at a small college within shooting distance of Lake Superior as the diva’s doctor put it.

This doctor likewise siphons off this concentration we achieve and suffer as a community were there not here like force a way between these two medicine men that—as we pass a woman combing her hair, a random submarine conning a beach, a dark man traversing a whole continent tracking a mystery for all of us but also tracking a beloved woman who nonetheless never moves from her night chair except to pause in her combing and stare at the window—condenses and multiplies our speed and us and even at an illusion of length travels so blindingly well that we spin (we think), finding what else but the diet tapeworm in our way: a worm that has female and male capabilities, yet by itself will only grow, not reproduce. But while the Ojibway-Sioux (for he is part Sioux, which takes him in his past westward) would not guarantee that the pike-aged tapeworm came without a companion (one or maybe more), which even so would have to lie close alongside for anything to happen between them, the diva’s doctor swore on bended knee that when the time came and the desired weight loss had been achieved, a dose of good old-fashioned Atabrine would flush out any number of worms as neatly as the dramatic soprano’s system all along would regularly eliminate terminal segments of worm as they ceased functioning and dropped off, which happened more slowly than new segments formed up forward just below the tapeworm’s neck.

Yet forward? below? Which way is up? For the worm may stay hooked on one pasturage for weeks and the thrust of its growth be backward.

And should diva watchers on both far shores of Oscillocean see their star barmaid, princess, vengeful mother, priestess, lover, prima donna contract—yes, lose weight from week to week, from role to role, some said—seeing through her secret means from end to end, we saw her not recede but be there more than ever.

The infamously gifted general officer of a South American republic’s navy told her offstage in Spanish (vaguely both of her slimmer self and of that evening’s role which was new to her) in essence that she seemed exactly as if she had more than found herself inside her now eternal beauty; meanwhile she with roses in her arm and sweat on her brow stared at the pen (a late-model Japanese ballpoint pen with fountain capability) in the South American officer’s raised hand and she feared in his sweeping compliment an inquisitor’s next question—Was the tapeworm story true? So she turned away into the known obstetric jolt of a flashbulb, hearing the man at her elbow whom she had met at diplomatic do’s but never till tonight in civilian clothes (read civvies) ask her something different from what she’d feared; so now she’s relieved, inspired (and we potential relations with her) to feel inside her her secret hunger to forget herself.

Forget herself? She doesn’t believe it; she’s implausible to herself, flashing back magic at the officer whose name and politics back home do not bear inspection (she is certain) and whose eyes and words touch her and recall she can’t tell what histories of passion she aroused in him, one unknown member of the broad dark living house she played to for three hours from memory herself. (What’s she doing here? The path between the two medicine men led through a tapeworm not the tapeworm’s host.)

Tonight, a note or two below her range, and to tell the truth below her status, desiring to sing a lesser role in company with a great, not greater, goddess, she sang the Kavalier who, attentive to the older Princess, poses as a chambermaid; is flirted with by the bass Baron yet in Act Two as Kavalier proper again bears the loutish Baron’s silver rose love token to the Baron’s betrothed to be beloved at first sight—and will leave the older lady for the younger. So we ask the unknown child if silver roses grow in the Persian desert, but the child has gone to bed.

So much for the customary token and its loutish sender’s message; and so very much for the Kavalier, sung by this dieting diva, the boyish bearer who becomes the borne, who gets the girl who got the real message which was not the Baron’s silver rose but the singing messenger himself, who, in the mezzo-persona of a female artiste the South American diva who’s been a Swiss citizen for thirty months, could forget for three hours if not that endangered species her father back home in Chile at least her own flesh, and at least one tapeworm, and never know that if her notorious backstage inquisitor (as it happens, of the regime—fellow if officially former countryman) seeks her out not for her voice alone, we now like her—we whose growing voice breaks into many voices we have always known, many breaths, all shadow of (was it our?) former prism—we like her for herself if there were time, and not just for her tapeworm, its lighted path, thought-like through embedded night, its own tunnel or "wormhole" (to be quite as blunt as the obstacle out its far end). Obstacle? But why would the tapeworm track take us anywhere if it is in the diva’s beloved body? Is there an answer for us as we seek another pause?

A cuffless trouser. Whose? All together we don’t yet know but the knowledge is loose in us—and the heel of a shoe half off a slender platform, call it a running board, hear the noise, and hear that backfire.

Whose? Who’s looking at a photograph?—the noise is of a male, breathing; not our communal breath and yet of us, and we’re breathless spun upon the instant through a far end of what we already remember we were accepting as our known diva’s internalized tapeworm but in us turns waste compaction into time’s momentary tunnel; but someone is breathing for sure.

Which has no effect on the photo’s black and white, which blows up as we reach the end of whosever wormhole so fast we go from too little to too large and for a second don’t see, and like an interesting snapshot feel ourselves part of the computed grain of what pocked interplanet’s ground, but now what is it? it is a young man not quite himself.

Not quite himself in top hat, cutaway, striped dark trousers.

More than a wedding guest, less than the groom—he’s riding after all on the running board. The brownish photo holds and hides the strain tightened along the left arm, that goes with the right trouser stiff behind with wind, some starch of motion, and this extra-wide-loaded car must be turning with a squeal of tires, a vintage, top-up convertible, and the young man’s sliding like a skater, one leg out behind, one hand (the left) inside the car window; and above his top hat and the quiet breathing heard above the old photo, a white steeple leans upward, it’s done its part, car and rider make for the hotel downtown and the human breather we are too close to knows at a glance a generation and more later that this is the Best Man five minutes away from first meeting a young woman whose family like a multiple dwelling in time own the town newspaper and who moves as if she would like to not quite put her feet down upon the floor, the carpet, the flagstones, the grass. The breather holds his breath. He is almost born, less than a year away. Curled in another body like a clef he must be hearing Caruso underwater which is how it sounded on the heavy records on the crank-up Victrola which his father played. It was his father playing Caruso, not his mother, his father was tone-deaf. But who could have told from the photo of him on the running board the day of his best-manhood when he met the mother-to-be of the breather here? Whose mother was the musician and played the brown violin, yes he (because a person he is here examining photographs with put the idea in his head) feels himself tilt with his mother, inside her, bass clef, rebel clef, as she leans and lowers the neck of the instrument bearing down frowning in love with the bite, the mad delicacy of freedom between the fingertips of her left hand and the wrist and elbow of the right (though none of this private musical event is in the photo of the young man on the running board bound from wedding to reception)—and yet down this time tunnel’s light bursting terribly with planes upon planes that only the camera contemplates with equanimity, the breather Jim Mayn who was hardly able to observe the event has been born—that’s it.

Free to grow up strong. A humble, reckless fighter and friend in a New Jersey town. Grandma’s rough pet. Deeply, secretly rewarded by her, which his younger brother who materialized unexpectedly one year never was able to be, though definitely loved, while the grandmother’s daughter the violinist—mother of the two sons—told this older son Jim, with twigs and dirt sticking to him, to go ahead and be the animal, the mountain lion or flying squirrel of the family (he could get right up into one slender, high, sinewy cherry tree in the grandmother’s backyard and get across into its companion; his father told him not to) and his mother also (but don’t quote her) but Jim’s grandmother would never have told him, as his mother Sarah did, to go ahead and be the hedgehog or coon or eavesdropper of the family under the front porch if he felt like it, he would have to cope with his father, and she said Oh if his father knew how to roar and growl—Hey, Mom, who roars and growls around here? . . . (hey Mom?)—but, as it fell out after that, Jim did not eavesdrop under the porch any more because here again—again?—he was not able—(so free?) in the midst of friends and varsity football and varsity baseball and the odd jobs he always had pruning an old lady’s lilacs, tending her furnace coal; mowing the soft lawn of the Historical Association so flat it seemed to sink and then (doubleheader across the street) the everywhere-sloping lawn of the Revolutionary War monument; or painting the horse-drawn wagon of the silent ice-cream man vanilla white who came by at twilight—when Jim could hear a cousin across the wide street playing the piano; or helping a social-studies teacher who was baseball coach retouch with dark and light green and dark, bark-brown paint a glittering reptilian relief layout of North and South America—jobs always as if in order to miss helping out his father in the office of the newspaper—Jim wasn’t able in the midst of a legitimate life and upbringing to hear—Christ! let’s not—Christ, Mahomet, and Thomas Alva Edison! let’s not make too much of it, there’s such a thing as—wait, able to hear some words he knew were there, with sounds like voices, in the long interim between his parents that he took for granted. Interim? His parents did not talk much to each other; she gardened happily—mostly inside—and played duets, trios, quartets, quintets, played at the Cecilian Club concerts (which you had to think was about Sicily) twice a year which his father hardly attended, being tone-deaf, he said, though the occasions were noted in the paper, the mother’s family paper that his father published weekly, while the second son, Brad, Jim’s three and more years younger bro who looked like no one in the family, ass-white face, did everything and nothing right; helped at the paper running messages, delivering printing jobs, and sitting in the big street window as if waiting for the messages to come from outside; practiced the violin all through high school almost (skinny and pale enough for it, certainly) and gave it up, to his mother Sarah’s relief, she said; was apt at figures and opportunities and imagined he would go into the haberdashery business someday (now there was a window!) because Brad’s girl’s father (who was dead—her late father) had been in the haberdashery business—a girl not the prettiest but you looked at her, you looked to her, you reached out toward her with your cheekbones and she had been shy (probably sincerely shy) till she met Brad—and come to think of it, afterward—and had been nice to Braddie from eighth grade on, good to him you really thought then though without quite that sound, that word; and her mother, a widow who was half Jewish, had kept up the business and was prettier than her daughter though both were quiet—both of them!—and the window down the street from the newspaper was lighted up at night so you could look (obviously!) but also feel they were eerily alive the waiting neckties, stiff rep silk stripes for Sunday, corduroy shirts (for Thanksgiving Day! for Christmas! why?); argyle socks that could make you happy enough to stay in one place all your life yet the next moment got you moving; loafers with the finest-quality (dummy wooden) ankles; eventually regular clothes, checked sport coats and dark blue suits, on the way