My Mother In-Love My Mentor: Mother In-Law A Mother-Mentor (Harmonious Relationship Between Mothers And Daughters In-Laws)
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Are you a mother in-law, daughter in-law or soon to be one?
Are you looking forward to enjoying a blissful, harmonious and stress-free mother-daughter or daughter-mother in-law relationship?
If yes, this book is all you have been waiting for!
God's intention is for us to follow peace and live in love with all men, irrespective of what the case may be with you and your mother/daughter in-law. God wants both of you to live in peace and that is what “My Mother in- Love, My Mentor” is all about.
In this book, you will discover amazing tips on how to enjoy an atmosphere of peace and oneness with your daughter- mother in-law or vice versa. This piece provides you with biblical insights on how mothers and daughters in-law can relate, accepting and treating each other the way God intends it.
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My Mother In-Love My Mentor - Amara Edna Dele-Erin
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INTRODUCTION
Love makes us a part of God. It differentiates us from the world and helps us to get to where God has destined for us in this life. My Mother-in love my mentor was brought about as a result of some truth and insights the Lord opened my eyes to, while studying the book of Ruth. One basic truth is that love knows not, sees not and does not identify any form of barriers, when relating with someone. Rather, it covers a multitude of sin. It is the ultimate in any relationship. In the gospel of John 13: 34-35, Jesus told His disciples to love one another, for by this shall all men know that they are His. What He says to one, He says to all.
The book of Ruth, tells a story that gives us a general background knowledge on how to live in love with both our daughters in-law and our mothers in-law. A love that comes from God, from having a healthy relationship with Him. This book, is for young ladies who are about to marry, who are already married and for all mothers whose sons are yet to be married, or already married. Two characters in this Bible story- Naomi and Ruth, exhibited strong challenging traits, which helped them to live in love with each other, despite the obvious surrounding challenges.
Oh yes! It is the law that has brought the two parties together, thereby making them in-laws. But there is one thing we need to define, that will help us live with each other in-love still with the in-law clause in place. That is – who and what are the foundation and guiding principles of the marriage and home? What brought the two individuals together and what is binding them together? Is it the love that stems from God, or that which is out to fulfill the desires of parents and tribal laws?
Where people live and relate based on the law of men alone, there is always judgment; but where the love of God rules, there is always forgiveness. Law of men creates room for criticism and accusations but the love of God creates room for walking in harmony, tolerance and doing things together.
Mother – Mentor
A mother is a mentor whose beamful lessons shine across the shadows of time. One of a mother’s primary roles to her children is to see them fulfill their destiny, and accomplish Gods plan and purpose for their lives. That is why every mother needs to start praying for her children’s future plan right from their childhood days, which includes their marital plans, having in mind that who we marry goes a long way to determine if and how we fulfill our destiny. So you need to start praying concerning their life partners before they get to the age of marriage.
In your place of prayer you help them to order their steps to the right person. If you are faithful to this, when the time comes, it will be easy for you to know when they’ve made the right choice. In that case you’ll have no problem with their choice of partner because you know that your prayers must have made a positive impact on them and their choice.
Mentors are teachers in one’s life. They are not perfect people but people who have simply experienced life and are capable of transferring that knowledge to others. According to Mike Murdock, your mentor is anyone capable of growing and increasing your life. Proverbs 1:5 says – A wise man will hear and will increase learning and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsel.
In Titus 2: 3-5, the older women were asked to be teachers of good things, and that they should encourage the young women to love their husbands and children, to be sensible, pure, good homemakers, and submissive to their husbands, so that God’s message will not be slandered.
A mentor is someone who has been bestowed with the beautiful task of making sure his/her protégé takes positive steps and achieves worthy results.
She teaches with the best interest of the protégé at heart. She teaches with both her words and lifestyle. She is one who has gained experience over time in that field of life, so she is able to guide the protégé to take right steps in the right direction, which will lead to success – good success. A mentor gives positive advice that will help the protégé to take positive steps that will bring about growth and increase.
They are not perfect people; they must have made mistakes here and there in the ladder of life, which enables them to offer adequate advice and guidance to others. Mentors do not watch out for faults so as to condemn or criticize destructively. Rather they are there to help the person work on those faults and shortcomings and turn them into strengths. They are there to stir such a person up to take strong steps of faith that will help her achieve her life’s dream.
‘Mothers’ have this natural divine endowment of grace to mentor. She is a mentor whose luminous lessons shine across the shadows of time. This act of mother – mentor actually starts right from conception. The mother takes her time to make sure that she does the right things that will enhance the smooth growth and safety of the baby in the womb.
Mentoring requires a lot of patience. As a mother, you endured all inconveniences and went through the nine months of pregnancy. When the baby is born the mentoring takes another step. You have to take time to nurture and teach that child all he/she needs to know to fulfill his/her destiny. Your ultimate goal is; to see that child become great tomorrow. Every child has his/her inborn differences.
You might not know all, so you take your time to sturdy each child as they grow up, doing your best to help them take the right step in the right direction to become their God given dreams.
Having the privilege of teaching and nurturing a child into an adult, gives a mother a great opportunity to be a mentor. Mother; is not a title given to a woman by her biological children. A mother is anyone who takes time to make positive, investment in lives that help them become their dreams. They can either be biological, spiritual or otherwise. The important thing is that once you are addressed as mother, by someone, know it that you have the responsibility of making positive impact in that life.
Many great men and women achieved what they did in life, not because they came from wealthy homes or that they went to the best of schools and acquired the best academic