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    The Power of Not Caring: Regain control of our own value, not seeking anyone’s approval, living with true freedom
    The Power of Not Caring: Regain control of our own value, not seeking anyone’s approval, living with true freedom
    The Power of Not Caring: Regain control of our own value, not seeking anyone’s approval, living with true freedom
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    The Power of Not Caring: Regain control of our own value, not seeking anyone’s approval, living with true freedom

    By Grace Scott

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    Stop Trying To Please Everyone..


    Do you know that you cannot live with true freedom when everything you do is base on other people's expectation of you. Based on real events of people living in the society, "The Power of Not Caring" will show you examples of why people are suffering emotionally. Also, this book will offer you a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform your mindset to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love. Whether you are dealing with stresses, worries, or feeling peer pressure from everyday life. "The Power of Not Caring" offers basic and easy-to-use advice on dealing with normal problems in a healthy, positive way.


    Here is what I'll be sharing with you:


    • The Downside of Always Seeking Approval

    • Dealing with Other People's Judgement

    • Experience True Freedom and Live an Authentic Life
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherGrace Scott
    Release dateApr 22, 2018
    ISBN9781386979562
    The Power of Not Caring: Regain control of our own value, not seeking anyone’s approval, living with true freedom
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    Grace Scott

    Grace Scott was born and raised in Vancouver, BC, Canada in the year of 1979. She held a bachelor of Arts degree with exceptionally high honors. Grace Scott published one of her bestselling book "The Power of Not Caring" in the year 2013. Her works also included "The Materialistic World". In 2014, Grace Scott launched two of her new books "The Comparing Game" and "The Secret of Creating Your Reality". Grace Scott is a wise and gentle spiritual teacher living in Vancouver with her 3 loving cats. Grace hoped to change thoughts and lives of people with her unique way of teachings in her books. Grace Scott has also been helping and inspiring countless people to find peace and love even in the most extreme circumstances. Grace believed in celebrating life and accept every single day with gratitude and love. She also believed that everyone deserved to live with joy, release struggle, experience peace, love, and abundance in everyday lives.

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    • 5/5
      This book is a game changer. It makes you think in a way you never have.. Must read for people who think they are depressed, 'something is wrong with me',, 'why me' type of questions.. Trust me there is nothing wrong with you.. an eye opener for me truly. Just order it already.

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    • 5/5
      This is a very empowering little book! So glad to know that you are using your talents and confidence to inspire other women! Amazing, keep up the good work!
    • 5/5
      A super-powerful book that ultimately helps with stress and happiness. I read it when it first came out and decided that I needed a refresher during the Pandemic. I figured I might want to reread it, sometime in the future, so I ordered a beautiful hardcover copy for my library. It is fantastic and has helped me a lot with any anxiety I might have due to covid19. I realize Scott is speaking to those who are more familiar with Jesus. Great book I would buy copies for all my friends and family if I could afford to
    • 5/5
      I find book inspiring and helpful. Caring what people think make us weak and you can lose yourself from just keep following people’s opinions. I would recommend this short read for young adults.
    • 5/5
      The book essentially put into words and description the years of uneasiness, anxiety and restlessness I have felt along with low-grade depression. It made me realize that this is essentially an invention of my mind and that being resentful or angry about the past and anxious about the nonexistent future is what causes this feeling. By focusing on the moment, there is nothing to be concerned about, and the mind is quiet, and at peace which is the biggest takeaway, I have from the book. Another takeaway is that people will search their whole lives for happiness in money, material items, their job and other meaningless things but will never find it because this search is fruitless. Peace internal and can only be seen focusing on the now and what you are doing at the moment. Since reading this book, I have felt this great sense of peace and calmness daily. I think everyone on Earth should read this book, especially with everything that is going on in the world right now.

      7 people found this helpful

    • 5/5
      I loved reading this book! I think it’s very relatable, the way the author has described various instances and examples. However, implementing the same attitude in your life might be tricky and difficult. If you can implement it the way the author intends to, I think you would be on your path to a successful life. Great short read

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    The Power of Not Caring - Grace Scott

    Introduction

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    It is important to understand why we care about what people think. The part of our mind that produces this fear is often in place to protect us. For example, if we don't care what others think then we might go out and murder everyone we hate or run through shopping malls completely naked.

    The real reason why we care what people think is because we base our identity on everyone's judgments of us. It doesn't matter whether the judgment is positive or negative. Because we think that part of our identity is how people view us, then we must protect that so our identity is not affected.

    Lao Tzu once wrote, Care about people’s approval and you will be their prisoner.

    At one point or another, we allow ourselves to become prisoners. We define our own limitations by thinking too much about people's perception of us. However, we simply cannot judge ourselves from the eyes of others.

    Although it is true enough that there are some useful things you can pick up by listening to other people's feedback, thinking about these things too much may also become destructive. When you care too much, you will end up living your life in limbo. And that is nowhere near true living.

    Caring too much about what others think, whether or not you realize it, is not helpful for your growth as a human being. You must care, but never to the point of sacrificing your own happiness just to get the approval of others. Ultimately, you should be in control of your own life. Do not let others dictate your path.

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    Why exactly do people care too much?

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    One of the main reasons is that we are afraid of being rejected. We cringe at the thought of disapproval. We ultimately want to belong and that makes us feel much better about ourselves. Another reason why we care too much is that we simply want to be viewed as important. This is why we seek positive attention, so we can be perceived

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