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Dealing With Stress - Lisa A. Wroble
Teens Under Pressure
The Body on High Alert
Who Needs Stress?
What Stresses You Out?
The Problem With Not Coping
How to Manage Your Stress
When Stress Harms
Seeking Help
Chapter Notes
Glossary
Hotlines and Further Reading
Internet Addresses
Index
Copyright © 2012 by Lisa A. Wroble All rights reserved.
No part of this book may be reproduced by any means without the written permission of the publisher.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Wroble, Lisa A.
Dealing with stress : a how-to guide / Lisa A. Wroble. p. cm.—(Life—a how-to guide)
Summary: Readers will learn about the causes of stress, how stress affects the body, and how to manage stress
—Provided by the publisher.
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN 978-0-7660-3439-6
1. Stress in adolescence—Juvenile literature. 2. Stress management for teenagers—Juvenile literature. 3. Teenagers—Mental health—Congresses—Juvenile literature. I. Title. BF724.3.S86W76 2012 155.9’042—dc23
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1 Teens Under Pressure
2 The Body on High Alert
3 Who Needs Stress?
4 What Stresses You Out?
5 The Problem With Not Coping
6 How to Manage Your Stress
7 When Stress Harms
8 Seeking Help
Chapter Notes
Glossary
Hotlines and Further Reading
Internet Addresses
Index
The school year had almost ended for Tyler. He was a freshman in high school and ready for a break. He and his friends were making plans and, of course, that led to drama with their girlfriends, he explains. Then he learned that his family would be moving to Florida. High school is hard enough, but having to make all new friends, adjust to a new house, a new town, and a new school was too much! But that wasn’t all. The teachers started assigning more work. Every class had extra work, projects, papers, and quizzes.
When we complained, they said it was preparing us for next year and that in the future we’d have to deal with college and job expectations,
said Tyler, who also had taken a part-time job to save money for his summer plans. I didn’t know what to focus on first so I ended up just sleeping a lot,
which led to more stress because the schoolwork was not getting done. What a way to end the school year and say good-bye!
he said.¹
As young adults we face situations that are real and painful . We do not yet have the tools that we need to deal with them because it is our first time in life when we face daily challenges . I think parents and teachers already know this but they just forgot what it was like not having any answers and perhaps they could be more sensitive about all of it when dealing with their child or student .
— Sara, age 19, Naples, Florida²
Stress—this word might make stomachs tighten or muscles tense. Those are reactions to stress. Stress is how our bodies respond to anything seen as a threat. Triggers, or causes of stress, are all around us. They are called stressors. People, places, events, and situations can all cause stress.
Stress affects every part of life. At home, hassles with parents cause stress. Fights with brothers and sisters might cause extra tension. A study of Baltimore, Maryland, teens found family conflicts usually involved doing their homework, cleaning their room, and doing chores.
³ At school, tests, homework, and teachers cause anxiety. Coaches, tutors, and bosses add to pressures teens face. Sometimes it is a mix of these things.
Seventeen-year-old Margot, a high-school senior, says she gets emotional when she is stressed with too much to do. I feel angry when I have lots of schoolwork to do but have to pick my brothers up from a game.
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Often stress happens when we already feel overloaded. We do not feel in control of everything we have to do. This is why we think of stress as bad. But good things can cause stress too. A new job, getting a scholarship, or winning a tournament adds pressure to succeed. Getting accepted to college means adjusting to change. Even getting married can cause stress.