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Our Strangely Warmed Hearts: Coming Out into Gods Call
Our Strangely Warmed Hearts: Coming Out into Gods Call
Our Strangely Warmed Hearts: Coming Out into Gods Call
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As John Wesley discovered his true spiritual identity, he experienced a
strangely warmed heart. Through poignant stories and well-reasoned
principles, Karen Oliveto discloses why and how spiritual renewal and a
personal call to ministry emerge in the strangely warmed hearts of
lesbian and gay Christians.

In The United Methodist Church (and
other Christian denominations), it is difficult or impossible for
lesbian, gay, transsexual, and bisexual clergy or laity to become a
visible and outward channel for God’s saving grace. This book traces the
history of the church’s struggle with homosexuality, highlighting
critical incidents in the culture and church polity which shape the
church’s response. The issues are deeply rooted in the way God’s people understand
scriptures, which are interpreted as a means of grace for some and as a
rule-book for others. This book includes first-person
narratives of LGBTQ persons faithfully serving in a denomination that
denies their calls and—in some cases—their presence. These stories will
show how the coming out process is deeply spiritual as one grows into an
authentic, God-created and graced self.

You are the one who created my innermost parts;
you knit me together while I was still in my mother’s womb.
I give thanks to you that I was marvelously set apart.
Your works are wonderful—I know that very well
.”
Psalm 139:13-14 (CEB)

Our Strangely Warmed Hearts
is a breath of fresh air in the study of the United Methodist struggle
and intense debate regarding human sexuality. Karen Oliveto lives in
faithful witness and serves people with the heart of Christian
leadership."—Bishop Hee-Soo Jung, Wisconsin Conference of the United
Methodist Church.

“Karen Oliveto offers a compelling window into
the steadfast faith and the resilience of the LGBTQ Christian movement
in the United States. After offering an extraordinary history of the
LGBTQ equality movement in our society and in The United Methodist
Church, she rightly asks, 'Is there any other group that we would
marginalize in this way?' I wholeheartedly recommend Karen Oliveto's
new book to everyone who is affected by the debate over the sacred worth
and place of LGBTQ people in our lives and churches. This book inspires
hope.” —Michael J. Adee, Ph.D., Director, Global Faith and Justice
Project, San Francisco Theological Seminary, San Anselmo, CA

“Bishop
Oliveto's story mirrors the experience of many LGBTQ ministers who are
serving the Body of Christ openly, and not in the shadows. The
integrity, courage, and deep faith of God’s LGBTQ people who are called
into ministry have enriched the church and encouraged the outsiders who
were always welcome at Jesus' table.”–Andy Lang, Executive Director,
Open and Affirming Coalition, United Church of Christ

“I loved
it! It drew me in immediately and kept me strapped in on what I knew
would be a roller coaster of painful history, sprinkled triumphs, and
then stories that broke my heart, gave me cheer, and brought tears to my
eyes. Bishop Oliveto takes readers on a fascinating trip through LGBTQ
history, and into the often contentious collision with mainstream
religion…and then brings it all together through the personal stories
that make our past and present come alive! I applaud Bishop Oliveto’s
book and will highly recommend it to the faithful and faith curious of
all religions.”–The Reverend Marian Edmonds-Allen, Executive Director,
Parity

"[Bishop Karen Oliveto] is sharing the love of Jesus, and
meeting people where they are, no matter who they are, and no matter
what they think about her. She loves them." —Kent Ingram, senior pastor
of First United Methodist Church in Colorado Springs, Colorado.

LanguageEnglish
Release dateMar 26, 2018
ISBN9781501858925
Our Strangely Warmed Hearts: Coming Out into Gods Call
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Karen P. Oliveto

Karen Oliveto is bishop of the Mountain Sky Episcopal Area (Colorado, Wyoming, Montana, Utah and a small portion of Idaho) for the United Methodist Church. Previously for eight years, she served as senior pastor of the 12,000-member Glide Memorial United Methodist Church in San Francisco. She is the first woman to serve as senior pastor at Glide, the fifth largest United Methodist congregation in the U.S. She is the first woman to serve as senior pastor in one of the denomination's 100 largest U.S. congregations. Karen is the first openly lesbian bishop in The United Methodist Church. Her wife Robin, a nurse anesthetist, is a deaconess in The United Methodist Church.

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    Our Strangely Warmed Hearts - Karen P. Oliveto

    SECTION ONE

    HOMOSEXUALITY IN CHURCH AND SOCIETY

    Chapter 1

    THE GAY LIBERATION MOVEMENT

    HOMOSEXUALITY AND AMERICAN CULTURE

    The contemporary movement for LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer) civil rights was born into the American mainstream, nongay world in 1969, when a routine police raid of Stonewall, a New York City drag bar, was met with resistance and violence. Since that time, lesbians and gay men have inched their way into the arena of public discourse. From gays in the military, to Hollywood and the homosexual, every institution and aspect of culture within American society has experienced the emergence of The Gay Issue.¹

    While LGBTQ persons have been a part of American society since the country’s beginnings—on March 10, 1778, George Washington’s general orders record the court martial of Lieutenant Frederick Gotthold Enslin for attempted sodomy²—LGBTQ persons did not emerge as a political or social power until the late twentieth century. What forces created an identifiable LGBTQ community and culture? What were the social conditions that enabled this community to become a social movement? How did this community come to sponsor a variety of LGBTQ cultures? How was this social movement affected by American religion, and how did it begin to impact American churches? In what ways did churches react and respond to this growing movement and its many cultural forms?

    This book begins by chronicling the development of the LGBTQ social movement within American culture as well as an LGBTQ social movement that cuts across denominational lines. The United Methodist Church, like other denominations in the United States, is a power holder that has wrestled with the presence of LGBTQ persons in the life and ministry of the church and in society since the early 1970s.

    The United Methodist Church is considered one of the mainstream churches in America. Mainstream churches are defined sociologically as formally organized religious bodies that are recognized as legitimate and that support the dominant culture and social structures.³ The United Methodist Church recognizes that as a denomination it exists in the secular world,⁴ yet through its connectional polity based on mutual responsiveness and accountability⁵ seeks to enable faith to become active in love and intensifying our desire for peace and justice in the world.

    The Constitution of The United Methodist Church includes a section on the inclusive nature of the Church: all persons, without regard to race, color, national origin, status, or economic condition, shall be eligible to attend its worship services, to participate in its programs, and, when they take the appropriate vows, to be admitted into its membership in any local church in the connection.⁷ Each organizational part of the denomination, including local churches, denominational boards and agencies, and conferences, shall ensure that it is not structured in such a way so as to exclude any member or any constituent body of the Church because of race, color, national origin, status, or economic condition.⁸ The church has struggled mightily with what it means to be inclusive when it comes to its LGBTQ members.

    Before looking explicitly at The United Methodist Church and LGBTQ issues, it is important to understand the emergence of the lesbian and gay movement⁹ in American society and the forces that shaped it. However, before studying this social history and its manifestations in The United Methodist Church, it is critical to explore the evolving concept and definition of homosexuality.

    Homosexuality Defined

    The words homosexual and heterosexual are contemporary concepts, having been introduced into Eurocentric culture in the late nineteenth century. Prior to this time, there were no sexual orientation categories of homosexual or heterosexual. David Greenberg, in his comprehensive book The Construction of Homosexuality (1988), explored how the concept of homosexuality is perceived in various cultural settings. As Greenberg shows, homosexual activity is trans-temporal and trans-spatial. The very essence of the social constructivist case is that people engage in homosexual acts in all societies. What the constructivist argues (truly) is that different people tend to put different interpretations on the acts.¹⁰

    While homosexual behavior has been noted in virtually every culture, each culture has interpreted and valued this behavior differently. For instance,

    many American Indian tribes had institutionalized homosexuality, at least the male variety, into the role of berdache (the male woman), while other primitive groups have chosen their shamans from them. Some societies in the past idealized homosexual love, as the ancient Greeks, while others have partially condemned it, as did the ancient Jews.¹¹

    There are many interpretations of the biblical references to same-sex relations. The dominant biblical interpretation pointed to the condemnation of same-sex relations as found in certain passages of Hebrew and Christian scriptures. This in turn gave rise to the understanding of homosexuality as a sin against nature: Their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural, and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another (Rom 1:26-27 RSV). This view of homosexual acts as unnatural and thus sinful would prevail until the nineteenth century, when the birth of psychiatry would move the social understandings of homosexuality from the religious realm to the medical realm.

    In 1869, K. M. Kertbeny first coined the word homosexual. Kertbeny sought to oppose German sodomy laws. However, it was not until the 1880s when the term gained currency in usage, adapted by people who wanted to make sense of their own experiences, which were not adequately explained by labeling them unnatural or immoral.¹² Several men would come to play significant roles in establishing the Victorian understanding of homosexuality. Five significant voices that would, along with centuries-old religious understandings, provide a foundation for contemporary attitudes toward homosexuality were Carl Westphal, Richard von Kraft-Ebing, Havelock Ellis, Edward Carpenter, and Sigmund Freud.

    Carl Westphal was a professor of psychiatry in Berlin and the first physician to utilize scientific methods in the study of homosexuality. In 1869 Westphal published the case history of a young woman who, from her earliest years, liked to dress as a boy, cared more for boys’ games than girls’, and found herself attracted only to females.¹³ Westphal grew increasingly interested in this phenomenon and "came to the conclusion that the abnormality he found in his patient was congenital and could not be termed a vice. . . . He called the phenomenon ‘contrary sexual feeling’ (kontrare Sexualempfindung) and in the process led the way to more open discussion of the phenomenon in the medical community."¹⁴

    Social theorist Michel Foucault considers this to be a major turning point in the history of homosexuality:

    The psychological, psychiatric, medical category of homosexuality was constituted from the moment it was characterized—Westphal’s famous article on ‘contrary sexual relations’ can stand as its date of birth—less by a type of sexual relations than by a certain quality of sexual sensibility, a certain way of inverting the masculine and the feminine in oneself. Homosexuality appeared as one form of sexuality when it was transposed from the practice of sodomy onto a kind of interior androgyny, a hermaphrodism of the soul. The sodomite was a temporary aberration; the homosexual was now a species.¹⁵

    Kraft-Ebing expanded on Westphal’s work on sexual inversion. For Kraft-Ebing, the purpose of sex was procreation; sexual activities not undertaken with this ultimate purpose in mind were ‘unnatural practices,’ a perversion of the sexual instinct.¹⁶ However, although he considered homosexuality unnatural, because he felt it was also hereditary, he did not believe that it should be subject to the laws of the state.

    Havelock Ellis, an English sexologist, published the book Sexual Inversion in 1897. It was the first book written in English that did not depict homosexuality as a disease or a crime. Instead, Ellis considered homosexuality hereditary and therefore unchangeable. Ellis’s work was a plea for tolerance and for acceptance that deviations from the norm were harmless and occasionally invaluable.¹⁷

    Edward Carpenter, an English socialist who lived openly as a homosexual, offered a positive image for homosexual men. He believed that homosexuals would be on the vanguard of a movement to transform society ‘by substituting the bond of personal affection and compassion for the monetary, legal and other external ties which now control and confine society.’ ¹⁸

    Sigmund Freud believed that homoerotic behavior was a natural stage of human sexual development. He believed that adolescents passed through this phase into adult heterosexuality. The adult homosexual had failed to progress through this stage and therefore was stunted in his or her growth.

    These five developments moved homosexual behavior out of the realm of religious control, where it was largely regarded as sinful, and into the realm of medicine, where it was regarded as a set of symptoms or as a pathological illness. Religious discourse about the ‘sin against nature’ was replaced by scientific discourse about the unnatural, the abnormal. The perverted was transformed into the pathological.¹⁹ Once sinful, homosexuals themselves (rather than just their behavior) were now viewed as sick, and were subject to more scrutiny and social control, and they were still viewed as lesser beings.²⁰ As a result of this medicalization, homosexuality became both a disease and a crime.

    Pre–World War II

    Prior to World War II, there was virtually no identifiable LGBTQ social movement in the United States. Two factors can be attributed to this: (1) the lack of LGBTQ social networks that would foster movement mobilization and (2) the lack of a critical mass of people who identified themselves as lesbian or gay that would seek social change. While the advent of industrialization resulted in the increasing urbanization of America, most individuals were still living in small communities.

    The idea of living as a lesbian or gay man did not enter the consciousness of most people. Turn-of-the-century America was primarily a rural society, with very little interchange between city and country lifestyles. While small pockets of gay life offer companionship and wider range of choices in the cities, we know a few such alternatives in the countryside or in small towns, where the majority of population, homosexual and heterosexual, lived.²¹

    The first gay rights organization in the United States was founded by Henry Gerber, an immigrant from Bavaria who was a part of the German gay rights movement, in Chicago in 1924. The Society for Human Rights was dedicated to promote and protect the interests of homosexuals who were hindered in the pursuit of happiness. The Society would also combat the public prejudices against such people by the dissemination of scientific information.²² The Society was short-lived, however, for Gerber and others were harassed and jailed due to the media scrutiny of a Chicago paper, the Examiner. Of his organization’s failure, Gerber wrote:

    One of our greatest handicaps was the knowledge that homosexuals don’t organize. Being thoroughly cowed, they seldom get together. Most feel that as long as some homosexual acts are against the law, they should not let their names be on any homosexual organization’s mailing list any more than notorious bandits would join a thieves’ union.²³

    Yet, precisely during this time there is a growing distinction between same-sex behavior and the existence of a self-conscious gay community. While Gerber bemoaned the unwillingness of many gays to identify themselves publicly with a gay organization, in fact, the pre–World War II era was the beginning of a visible gay community: What distinguishes the modern lesbian and gay world from anthropological and historical examples of homosexuality is the development of social networks founded on the homosexual interests of their members.²⁴

    As noted by George Chaucy in his book Gay New York (1994), a visible gay male culture both flourished and was integrated into the working-class, straight communities around it. Pockets of a bohemian subculture began springing up in American cities during the 1920s, providing a haven not found elsewhere for gay men and lesbians.

    The publishing of The Well of Loneliness (1928), a novel by Radclyffe Hall, created a storm of controversy that, ironically, wound up giving the novel even greater publicity and brought the subject of lesbianism into American homes through the nation’s newspapers. Hall sought to write a book that would educate heterosexuals about homosexuals by creating a character toward whom they could feel compassion. The book was originally banned in England, and upon its publication in America was promptly seized by the authorities because it was considered indecent literature. A court battle ensued, and eventually the obscenity charge was dropped. Due to the uproar over the publication of the novel, gay people far removed from any urban center heard, some for the first time, a public discourse on homosexuality. The Well of Loneliness offered a validation to silenced lives and disregarded experiences of an emerging subculture.

    As a young woman becoming aware of her sexual orientation, Billie Tallmij found:

    The Well opened the door for a lot of people, including me. I read that book and found that I was coming home. I recognized myself in the characters, and I also recognized the emotions that were so beautifully written there. . . . This was an answer that I had sought for a long time. After reading The Well I decided that if this was what I was, then I needed to know what one was supposed to do in this sort of business. The problem was finding information.²⁵

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