Three Simple Rules for Christian Living: A Six-Week Study for Adults
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Three Simple Rules for Christian Living
by Jeanne Torrence Finley and Rueben P. Job
This small-group study by Jeanne Torrence Finley is based on Rueben P. Job's book Three Simple Rules: A Wesleyan Way of Living. Six sessions provide extended reflection for adults on three principles of Christian life: do no harm, do good, and stay in love with God. Each rule has a session to help you understand the rule and a session to help you explore ways to practice the rule. Three Simple Rules for Christian Living includes a DVD that contains excerpts from an interview with Bishop Rueben Job and a CD ROM that contains a Leader Guide for the study sessions and other useful information for organizing, leading, and publicizing study groups.
Your church can do a church-wide study of the three simple rules by using the youth resource, Three Simple Rules 24/7, and the children’s resource, Three Simple Rules for Following Jesus, along with this book. A leader guide and DVD for adult study groups are available.
Parents who would like to discuss the three simple rules with their children can download a free list of suggested questions at Cokesbury.com (click below).
Jeanne Torrence Finley is a clergy member of the Virginia Conference of the United Methodist Church, co-chair of the Virginia Conference Board of Church and Society, and director of Collegial Communications. She has worked as a campus minister, pastor, college English teacher, workshop leader, and communications consultant. Finley writes regularly for FaithLink. Her work has appeared in the Journal of Presbyterian History, Worship, The Mennonite, Christian Science Monitor, the Virginia Advocate, and Christian Social Action.
For a free online copy of Three Simple Rules A Conversation Guide for Parents click here!
Jeanne Torrence Finley
Jeanne Torrence Finley is a clergy member of the Virginia Conference of the United Methodist Church, co-chair of the Virginia Conference Board of Church and Society, and director of Collegial Communications. She has worked as a campus minister, pastor, college English teacher, workshop leader, and communications consultant. Finley writes regularly for FaithLink. She wrote What's in the Bible About God? and Three Simple Rules for Christian Living, a study for adults based on Rueben Job's book and DVD, Three Simple Rules. Her work has appeared in the Journal of Presbyterian History, Worship, The Mennonite, Christian Science Monitor, the Virginia Advocate, and Christian Social Action.
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Three Simple Rules for Christian Living - Jeanne Torrence Finley
Three
Simple Rules
for Christian Living
Jeanne Torrence Finley
ABINGDON PRESS
NASHVILLE
THREE SIMPLE RULES FOR CHRISTIAN LIVING
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All Scripture quotations unless noted otherwise are taken from the New Revised Standard Version of the Bible, copyright 1989, Division of Christian Education of the National Council of the Churches of Christ in the United States of America. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
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MANUFACTURED IN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA
Introduction
Since it was published in 2007, Bishop Rueben Job's Three Simple Rules has been widely read and studied. Extended reflection on the three rules can lead us to a more faithful way of living as disciples of Christ. This study, Three Simple Rules for Christian Living, is an effort to provide such extended reflection.
John Wesley believed that following Christ in a way that renews both individuals and communities required disciplined practices. These were outlined in the General Rules
that Wesley wrote for the class meetings that were the core communities of the early Methodist movement. These disciplined practices gave power and strength to people of the early Methodist movement to live as faithful disciples of Jesus Christ.
Bishop Job, in lifting up these three simple rules,
helps us return to those early Wesleyan roots and find resources that can transform us and the world in which we live. Job calls us to consider these three rules as an alternative to the often frenzied, divisive, and destructive lifestyle our culture offers us. This alternative way of life is accessible to everyone regardless of age, financial standing, education, health, relative power, or theological understandings.
Our culture has forgotten the importance of community and stressed ndividualism too much. Often we in the church have not taken the gospel seriously but have focused on trivialities and divisions that distract us from loving God and neighbor. We drain our witness to God's redemptive power as we find ever new ways to harm each other. Bishop Job calls us to remember who we are: people who know about practices of forgiveness, reconciliation, transformation, and new life.
Job calls these three rules a way of holy living that is constantly reforming and renewing the individual and the community
(Three Simple Rules; p. 17). They are Christian practices that also heal the wounds of the world and work for justice. Loving God results in loving the world. Job writes, Spiritual disciplines not only include practices that bind us to God every day; but they also include actions that heal the pain, injustice, and inequality of our world. It is impossible to stay in love with God and not desire to see God's goodness and grace shared with the entire world
(Three Simple Rules; p. 58).
As you read and reflect on these rules, you'll notice that they are interrelated. The first two rules, do no harm
and do good,
are ways of keeping the commandments to love God and neighbor. When we explore rule three, stay in love with God,
we'll see that the particular disciplines that keep us in close relationship to God are practices through which God empowers us to love God and neighbor.
In these pages we will be reflecting on what these rules meant to Wesley and the early Methodist movement and what they can mean to us today. Then we will explore ways we can practice them in our own lives. I invite you to take this journey of exploration and reflection so as to discover ever deepening ways you can be formed and renewed in the Christian life.
—Jeanne Torrence Finley
Jeanne Torrence Finley is a clergy member of the Virginia Conference of the United Methodist Church, co-chair of the Virginia Conference Board of Church and Society, and director of Collegial Communications. She has worked as a campus minister, pastor, college English teacher, workshop leader, and communications consultant. Finley writes regularly for FaithLink. Her work has appeared in the Journal of Presbyterian History, Worship, The Mennonite, Christian Science Monitor, the Virginia Advocate, and Christian Social Action.
Chapter 1
Do No Harm –
Understanding the Rule
Focus Question:
Most Christians do not intend to harm anyone; however, we sometimes are not aware of the harm we do. What does it mean to do no harm
?
A Prayer
God of love, we know you want us to love your creation: neighbors, friends or enemies, strangers, the natural world, and ourselves. Yet we do harm, often unintentionally. Help us to be more aware of the harm we do. In Christ we pray. Amen.
WHAT DOES THE RULE SAY?
Unintended Harm
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