Ain't No Hurt Like a Church Hurt but God Can Heal the Wounds
()
About this ebook
YES to all of the above.
Over my 55 years in church, I have been through it all: the good, the bad, and the ugly. All of the accounts in this book are first-hand. I have been at peoples deathbeds as they reminisced about being hurt by leaders or so-called saints. I know people who have given their last believing their leader was giving a word from the Lord, yet they ended up losing in the end.
Whereas some of the most influential people have professed to be one thing in public, behind the scenes they are another, and it has caused hurt among Gods people. I am sharing some of these hurts so that Gods people can know that, even though there is hurt in church, there is healing and you can move past it. It will come only through the word of God.
Evangelist Dr. Diane Hart
Diane Hart, respected and sought-after speaker, travels the country speaking a word of wisdom to God’s people. Beloved wife, mother and grandmother, and a respected leader of the Virginia State Council in the Pentecostal Assemblies of the World, she is 1st Lady of Faith Temple Ministries in Colonial Heights, VA. Her ultimate goal is to please the Lord and live so that others will see Christ in her life.
Related to Ain't No Hurt Like a Church Hurt but God Can Heal the Wounds
Related ebooks
Finding the Purpose in Church-Hurt: Recognizing the Pain and Controlling the Suffering Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsRoyal Denver Gibson: A Twentieth Century Apostle Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsVictimization: Victory over the Victim Mentality Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsChurches That Heal: Becoming a Chruch That Mends Broken Hearts and Restores Shattered Lives Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Loving God When You Don't Love the Church: Opening the Door to Healing Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHealing from Church Hurt Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Helps and Hospitality Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsKeys of Truth: Unlocking God's Design for the Sexes Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHelp! I'm a Woman in Youth Ministry!: Practical Empowerment for Your Calling and Your Life Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Heart Of A Healer: Trauma-Informed Biblical Counseling Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsUnqualified: Where You Can Begin to be Great Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSet the Captives Free: Experiencing Healing Through Holistic Restoration Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSurviving and Thriving in the Mad House of Youth Ministry: Keys to Longevity While Shaping Young Lives Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGood News for Those Trying Harder Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Flourish: Devotions for a Well-Tended Heart Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMinistry Chick: Find Your Community, Own Your Leadership, Take Your Step! Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsTriumphant in Tough Times: Devotions for Freedom in Christ Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThrough the Waters: The Life and Ministry of Evangelist Willie Johnson Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLeading Women Who Wound: Strategies for an Effective Ministry Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Weapons of Our Warfare Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDaniel Generation: Godly Leadership in an Ungodly Culture Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsIdentity Crisis: Reclaim the True You! Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMarket Place Ministry Strategy Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Mental Pastor: Understanding Mental Illness of the Clergy Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Mustard Seed Counseling: Experience God’s Empowering Presence in Biblical Counseling Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDysfunctional Family: Making Peace With Your Past Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHealing Your Church Hurt: What To Do When You Still Love God But Have Been Wounded by His People Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Soul Care: Prayers, Scriptures, and Spiritual Practices for When You Need Hope the Most Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsShamelessly Yours: The Demon in You Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Better Her: 31 Daily Challenges For Women to Love God, Themselves and Others Better Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Religion & Spirituality For You
The Love Dare Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5THE EMERALD TABLETS OF THOTH THE ATLANTEAN Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Upon Waking: 60 Daily Reflections to Discover Ourselves and the God We Were Made For Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Mere Christianity Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5NRSV, Cultural Backgrounds Study Bible: Bringing to Life the Ancient World of Scripture Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are so You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5The Egyptian Book of the Dead: The Complete Papyrus of Ani Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5A Calendar of Wisdom: Daily Thoughts to Nourish the Soul, Written and Se Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Gay Girl, Good God: The Story of Who I Was, and Who God Has Always Been Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Course In Miracles: (Original Edition) Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Screwtape Letters Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Writing to Wake the Soul: Opening the Sacred Conversation Within Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Dangerous Prayers: Because Following Jesus Was Never Meant to Be Safe Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Buddha's Guide to Gratitude: The Life-changing Power of Everyday Mindfulness Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Warrior of the Light: A Manual Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Be Here Now Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5You Were Born for This: Astrology for Radical Self-Acceptance Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Gospel of Thomas: The Gnostic Wisdom of Jesus Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Four Loves Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Gospel of Mary Magdalene Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Live in Grace, Walk in Love: A 365-Day Journey Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Weight of Glory Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Abolition of Man Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: An Inquiry Into Values Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Reviews for Ain't No Hurt Like a Church Hurt but God Can Heal the Wounds
0 ratings0 reviews
Book preview
Ain't No Hurt Like a Church Hurt but God Can Heal the Wounds - Evangelist Dr. Diane Hart
Ain't No Hurt Like a Church Hurt
But God Can Heal the Wounds
Evangelist Dr. Diane Hart
Edited by
Evelyn Woodward-Johnson
iUniverse, Inc.
Bloomington
Copyright © 2010 by Evangelist Dr. Diane Hart
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced by any means, graphic, electronic, or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, taping or by any information storage retrieval system without the written permission of the publisher except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical articles and reviews.
All Scripture references and quotations are taken from the King James Version of the Bible.
The views expressed in this work are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of the publisher, and the publisher hereby disclaims any responsibility for them.
iUniverse books may be ordered through booksellers or by contacting:
iUniverse
1663 Liberty Drive
Bloomington, IN 47403
www.iuniverse.com
1-800-Authors (1-800-288-4677)
Because of the dynamic nature of the Internet, any Web addresses or links contained in this book may have changed since publication and may no longer be valid. The views expressed in this work are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of the publisher, and the publisher hereby disclaims any responsibility for them.
Any people depicted in stock imagery provided by Thinkstock are models, and such images are being used for illustrative purposes only.
Certain stock imagery © Thinkstock.
ISBN: 978-1-4502-8146-1 (sc)
ISBN: 978-1-4502-8147-8 (ebook)
Printed in the United States of America
iUniverse rev. date: 12/13/2010
Contents
Preface
Acknowledgements
Chapter 1. Big, Fat, Black and Ugly
Chapter 2. The Lord Will Provide For Her
Chapter 3. If You Feed the Sheep,
They Will Give You Their Wool
Chapter 4. Are We All Going To the Same Heaven?
Chapter 5. It Ain’t Always What It Looks Like
Chapter 6. Pull It Out By the Root!
Chapter 7. It’s Your Family Mess
Chapter 8. Don’t Tell!
Chapter 9. You Need To Stop Your Mess
Chapter 10. You Ain’t Dead Yet?
Conclusion
Preface
The purpose of this book is, in no way, to discredit the church or to bring mockery upon the people of God. There is enough of that being done in the world today. The aim of this book is to make Christians (all of us) aware of our actions. Sometimes hurtful things are being done unintentionally. However, at other times, they are being done with full knowledge and forethought, all in the name of the Lord. Regardless of the reason, people are being hurt in the church.
These hurts can last a lifetime. If you’re not careful, they can almost take you to your grave. Many saints have gone on to be with the Lord, leaving here still hurting because of people who they’ve trusted and with whom they’ve taken sweet counsel. These same people whom they have valued as friends, leaders and loved ones have hurt them unbearably.
Where does the hurt come from? The saints in the church! Is the pain real? Oh yes, it’s real!
Some of the pain and rejection that we go through is not dealing with our salvation or our walk with the Lord, but many times it is caused by the opinions or fleshly interpretations of others. Sometimes because they themselves are hurting, they lash out at others.
Once you have experienced a church hurt, it should not be your desire for anyone else to experience it, not even your enemy. This is a deep hurt. It doesn’t go away easily. If you were hurt by your enemy, it would probably be easier to shake that hurt off because you expected that from them, but a church hurt is one that cannot be shaken as easily.
Please note that even though you have been hurt, there is healing for the hurt, and you can get over it. The Lord lets us know that we can cast all of our burdens and all of our cares on Him for He cares for us. Why does it hurt so badly? It is because you have allowed your sister or brother in the Lord to get close to your heart. They have been allowed to invade your space. You are vulnerable and easy to be hurt. These individuals are the very ones who are supposed to have your back, but sometimes they are the one who are sticking the knife in your back! They will attack you from not only the back, but sometimes right in your face with a grin.
Many times, my husband and I would ask God with tears streaming from our eyes and running down from our cheeks, Why?
Why were we being treated that way? Why were we being treated that way by the saints of God in the church? What did we do to deserve such treatment? Our only reply from the Lord was that He didn’t want us to treat other people the same way we had been treated. You know the adage, Do unto others….
Well, He told us to learn from others and not to be caught acting in the same manner.
I sincerely pray that after reading this book, it will open your eyes and that it will help to enlighten all of us to things we should or should not do to our sisters and brothers in Christ. These are real events that occurred to real people who experienced real hurt.
If you have been hurt in the church, hopefully you will find comfort and a cure for the pain and hurt you are going through…or are surely bound to go through. You see, even 1 Peter, chapter 4 tells us that we are going to go through pain:
1 Forasmuch then as Christ hath suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves likewise with the same mind: 12 Beloved, think it not strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened unto you: 13 But rejoice, inasmuch as ye are partakers of Christ’s sufferings; that, when his glory shall be revealed, ye may be glad also with exceeding joy.
Yes, true Christians can expect trials from professed friends and the saints of God. This can be very painful, but we must look unto Jesus. He will help us to bear it. Please remember that this healing will come in time and through the Word of God.
Acknowledgements
First of all, I’d like to acknowledge my Lord and savior who is my friend, keeper, confidante, and that’s for real for real. I don’t know what I’d have done if the Lord hadn’t been on my side because the stuff that I have taken in my life, the stuff that I have seen…. If He hadn’t been a keeper, somebody would surely have perished by now.
Special thanks to my husband who has stood by my side since