Gifts of Honey: (4Th in the Bachelor Preacher Mystery Series)

CHAPTER ONE

When I graduated from Santa Anna Biblical Studies College in Santa Anna, California, I felt totally prepared to preach and work in the pulpit ministry. The classes on preparing sermons had been helpful in demonstrating the three point message style and provided some helpful shortcuts in developing them. The faculty members had handed out stacks of illustrations to use and complimentary books of sermon outlines. It didn’t take long to organize and prepare a 20 minute sermon after taking the classes and having these materials. I could do this fulltime pulpit ministry job with ease, but it bothered me that it was this easy and something did not seem quite right.

After thinking about the quality of the sermons, I decided that my messages were not spirit filled nor did they come from the heart as long as I used the pre-packaged method. The sermons had about as much flavor as frozen TV dinners prepared in the microwave. Soon I turned to reading the Bible carefully. I examined several commentaries, and sought to feel the message in my heart before preaching on Sunday morning. I was convinced with this approach that the people would be compelled to be in church. Those that were lost would come forward and every Sunday new people would be saved.

This is my mission and why I was called to preach, I mistakenly thought. My sermons will bring the people to God.

Ah yes, youth. How excited we get when we think we are on the right track. It was a noble idea mixed with a bit of over confidence and ego, but once in the actual pulpit position reality took over. I found it wasn’t just on Sunday morning that a message was needed. There was a Sunday night sermon, a sermon at a nursing home Sunday afternoon, another sermon for a funeral or wedding or both or sometimes several in a week. There was Wednesday night Bible study and a Sunday school lesson to prepare. I soon found that there wasn’t enough time to dig deep into the Scripture for all of the needed presentations.

I got annoyed when people interrupted me during Bible study. I thought, How do you expect me to preach a powerful sermon on Sunday when you keep taking me away from the Bible?

Frustrated I turned to prayer and thought back to Bible College. Pulling out my notebooks from classes I searched for advice on how to manage my time better in order to get all those sermons and lessons prepared. After a few hours of examination it was apparent that the reason the professors had provided the sermon outlines and illustrations was for this very purpose. I don’t remember them saying anything directly about the number of sermons that would be expected, but it was obvious that the providing of so much material by them was the anticipated need that would come once on the field and in the pulpit ministry.

Thinking about all of the handouts brought me right back to the pre-packaged sermon again, but it was different now. I understood what the faculty meant. I remembered one faculty member saying, It is important to feel the message and have it come from the heart. Selecting your illustrations carefully will help do that.

That same professor encouraged me to carry a notebook to jot ideas for sermons or experiences that could be used as examples later. It was a good idea and I was amazed at how quickly it became a source for sermon illustrations. These illustrations helped to make the sermon real and a part of me and enabled me to preach from the heart.

Another faculty member suggested the use of a few jokes to keep the interest and to approach tough subjects with a bit of humor. At the time I thought that would give the impression that I wasn’t serious about the message or topic. Experience showed otherwise and it turned out to be good advice. With many sermons every week there was a need for fresh ideas and approaches. With a joke here and there it breathed a little fresh air into an otherwise stuffy sermon.

Following a joke in one sermon, it occurred to me that sermons were a form of entertainment. As I watched the people in front of me laughing, punching each other with a nod and smiling, it occurred to me that people want to be happy and filled with good thoughts.

In preparing the next sermon I concentrated on writing a shorter and funnier sermon. I searched joke books for things that were meaningful yet funny and shaped the direction of the writing in a direction which allowed me to include a particularly funny joke. The sermon was packed with line after line of humor. In the midst of preaching I came full circle and realized I had been tricked by the devil. In the midst of the laughing and entertainment the message of Christ was lost.

No matter when, where, why or what the occasion, the focus in the message must be that Jesus saves and that Christ is the Savior for a world of lost sinners. The invitation must be Come to Him today.

Preaching on Sundays is obviously a major function of the preacher, but stepping away from the pulpit and walking into the work week is when the real ministry begins. There is visiting the sick and the elderly; attending the various community functions where ministers are expected to be in attendance; organizing and participating in rallies, workshops, conventions, camps, vacation Bible school; and traveling to other communities to attend meetings. All of these call upon the minister and drain him of energy he would rather spend on preparing the Sunday morning sermon.

During a typical minister’s day, the preacher will ride emotions like a roller coaster. One minute he finds himself with a group celebrating the birth of a child and a few seconds later with another group mourning the death of a relative or friend. He oversees the union of a couple and a minute later cries inside his heart as he watches a couple separate over finances and children and religion. He sees abused, neglected children sitting with arguing parents that claim they don’t understand why their children have become troublemakers while they cuss and slap each other with cold remarks. The life of a minister is rather a remarkable one.

Looking at some of the other preachers in the area I noticed most were married and had children. There was not enough time to get the church work done as it was, I thought to myself. To spend time being a good father, attending the various activities that the children are involved and volunteering for the various organizations like scouts, 4-H, PTA, etc. would overwhelm me.

I questioned, How do they do that and still remain strong and inspiring in the pulpit? How does a minister be a leader for the church and also an inspirational father for his family and a good husband for his wife? How do preachers handle all that pressure?

As I graduated from Bible College I looked forward to having my own congregation and had visions of anticipated growth in attendance and weekly additions to the church. I looked forward to hosting rallies, workshops, speaking at conventions and being used by God in a wonderful way. Yes, I thought I was prepared by the school and was ready to tackle whatever challenges came my way, but reality set in that first Sunday when lightning struck the parsonage and I watched everything I owned go up in smoke. All the commentaries, school notes, jokes and illustrations were gone. I was stripped of all my packaged solutions I thought would make me a great minister.

Yet, from the ashes of disaster came God’s demonstration of what he wanted me to do. Within minutes Dollie Burgess had me moved into her spare room. Ike Skelton called and invited me to have Sunday dinner with him and his wife at Porter’s Place. Steve Elsea brought a bedroom set, Marlene a chair, Maggie a table, and the Preachers’ Alliance a new Bible with three commentaries. These were good people filled with the Christian Spirit. They witnessed to me that first week more than I could witness to them for a full year.

My powerful sermons to shake them up and lead them to Salvation; my ideas of how to achieve record attendance and baptisms; my humor to entertain them so they would want to be in service every Sunday; my example to follow to make the congregation better in line were gone in seconds with a fire. The whole incident had me feeling small and unprepared.

After one week in my first fulltime ministry I quickly recognized how lacking in the Spirit I was. My life was not worth anything when it came to saving people. In reality, I could not save them. It was Christ who died and conquered death. It was Christ whose blood was shed for our sins. That is the message to be shared and remembered. Jesus Saves!

Josh McDowell, editor of the local newspaper, stopped by the church to interview me about the fire. More importantly he came by to welcome me to Sassafras Springs and to give me encouragement. Since that first visit we have been good friends. Although he is not a member of the congregation, like a brother he comes by to check on me. When he sees I am depressed he just about always has the right word to say.

On that first occasion he explained and shared examples about what a giving community Sassafras Springs is and encouraged me to allow the people of the congregation to work and share in the ministry of the church. Josh noted that the mission of the minister is to navigate the ship (church) through the worldly waters by encouraging those rowing and helping to keep the church moving forward. He emphasized the importance of having everyone work together and stressed to let them do their jobs when they volunteer or are asked to do something without interfering. He encouraged letting the volunteers do the task their way letting them shine their lights to glorify Christ and to give them space to do the will of God as He wants rather than as the minister wants.

He said, It is not the preacher’s job to head every committee or every class or every project. Each member has an ability to do their part. Make sure they know it and are invited to share in the ministry.

My heart was pounding as I stared at the people around me in the restaurant. There was Dollie, Ike, Josh, Steve and others—total strangers a week ago who had provided assistance to me. Like sweet honey, they sweetened my life that seemed destroyed with the fire and made it a rich delicious dessert. I had never felt this way before. I suddenly felt a part of something very important as dependence and appreciation replaced my independence and arrogance.

The town that was known for giving gifts of honey to each other in the form of