Family Guide

FAMILY GUIDE

ON LOVE, COURT-SHIP, SEX

AND MARRIAGE

PLUS

POST MARRIAGE

&

MISCELLANEOUS ITEMS.

Dee Hoodith

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© 2011 by Dee Hoodith. All rights reserved.

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First published by AuthorHouse 05/23/2011

ISBN: 978-1-4634-1269-2 (sc)

ISBN: 978-1-4634-1268-5 (dj)

ISBN: 978-1-4634-1267-8 (ebk)

Library of Congress Control Number: 2011908663

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Contents

Love, Courtship & Marriage, Sex plus Post Marriage

Briefing About The Author

PREFACE

CHAPTER 1

CHAPTER 2

CHAPTER 3

CHAPTER 4

CHAPTER 5

CHAPTER 6

CHAPTER 7

CHAPTER 8

CHAPTER 9

CHAPTER 10

CHAPTER 11

CHAPTER 12

CHAPTER 13

CHAPTER 14

CHAPTER 15

CHAPTER 16

CHAPTER 17

CHAPTER 18

CHAPTER 19

CHAPTER 20

CHAPTER 21

CHAPTER 22

CHAPTER 23

CHAPTER 24

CHAPTER 25

CHAPTER 26

CHAPTER 27

CHAPTER 28

Love, Courtship & Marriage, Sex plus Post Marriage

Purpose

The involvement of man and woman, for unification and satisfaction of passionate love and for the choosing of a lifelong partner, is based step by step in the herein-presented order.

With caution and wisdom, sex should be enjoyed and flavored with ecstasy (exalted state of feelings), without depression, worry and negative concern.

Playful teasing can and will accentuate the enjoyment, but it must also be carefully controlled because it intensifies the human sex urge and can be tolerated only to a point, thereafter it would explode as an atomic bomb.

Because of the beauty of this work, which is so great, I want each person to be an owner of it. To some, it may be sweet and not only impressive, but interesting. However, to all my readers, I do only wish you successful love and togetherness, but that one of the greatest opportunity still open to you and it is to give or ask as many questions that maybe, bothering you, while you however, know that all the answers can be found in this very book, if you look diligently.

Science will never stop working in this or any other field. Congratulation to them all, but this common sense would no doubt, prove best than them all.

Briefing About The Author

I was born the third in line of two elder, a sister and a brother and following me was three other sisters of our parents, who loved and cared for us all equally.

My birth was on Wednesday the 20th of November 1963. I grew up at my birthplace Guyana. After school years, I happened to be employed. I give birth to my son and shortly after, I relocate to the United State of America. I however kept furthering my studies. I have attained an Associate of Science Degree and a Bachelor’s of Science Degree in Finance, graduating with the Magna Cum Laude honors. Then came along my two daughters, together with my three children and husband, life went on as the tide, some days up, sometimes down.

This book is dedicated to

William H. Hoodith

Who passed on in March 2008.

With his Knowledge, experience and Know-how

Has helped me to bring this book to light.

PREFACE

I am aware, that I cannot please all my readers on this work but for sure, I have brought out new facts and ideas to you here. At some point you shall learn some things you did not know. New light has shone in this direction and by this way; it is my aim and objective in educating you. So, at least, I feel that I have gained and made headway, if it can be considered part of the way, if not the whole.

Be fair in your critics, by bringing to my attention those weaknesses that you may find. Further, I wish to invite not only your criticism but also comments and questions on what more you would have expected in this work. I do not have the so-called educated ones in mind, but rather to the uneducated in this field of bliss and, help to save many a broken love affairs, where youth and inexperience are the faults and also to avoid or lessen the cause of many broken marriages.

The section which deals with tradition is included, not because I wish to propagate this sort of belief, but rather to update you of its existence and its acceptance anywhere you go. Whether you accept it or not, it will still be there to the end of time. So, the best thing is for you to have a basic knowledge of things in circulation.

The fruit of my labor is now laid before you, because of the knowledge bequest to you my readers. You have more facilities to learn this pleasurable art than others do. It is a game that contains much playfulness that it may appear to many as a novel. However, the truth conveyed through these simple actions, is as aged as the world. They are so simple that they may be disregarded and discarded as by some useless. However, they continue to this day and will continue to command the un-accomplished attention of wiser heads than yours and mine to the end of time, since man and woman, as lovers will be around.

It is for you to decide in this field whether you will direct or be directed, command or be commanded and as to whether you want to rise or fall. If you pre-judge this work by self-esteem, stubbornness and with an arrogant, hasty disposition, then you cannot be commander and you must consider whether you want to lead or be led, to toy someone or for someone to make you a toy and for you to seek someone or for someone to seek after you.

If you put forth effort to cultivate and be motivated to put into motion, this inborn power, which is within your reach. Then the door to success is in front of you. Hence, the door to happiness, it is for you to grasp the opportunity to open it and don’t permit someone else to do so.

What I present to you in this book is the simple entrance into the art of practice and the extract of mysterious wonders in the sublime silver lining of love. Young lovers, be explorer and awake from the slumber of impossibilities and plunge into the refreshing bath of love and take a long and satisfying draught thereof, and thus, quench the burning heat from love. I am not delivering a discourse, instead I instruct.

I am not here as a preacher but as a teacher, so facts are not neglected because I leave the land of theory and enter into the realm of physical practice with tender and artful manipulations, where patience and perseverance are the price of success.

Remember the instructions and ideas herein before you, is the foundation over which I built my structure and so can you, with success. It is the key and without it, the door of love, which lies in the heart of the lovers, will not be opened to each other. You want to be a master and not a servant because the servant looks to the master for supply and so, many will look towards you for guidance, plus love and satisfaction. Your personal love magnetism as a master is that quality in which you attract interest, confidence, friendship and love. This is your secret of success coupled with politeness, which is the oil that lubricates society.

I welcome you to this comforting atmosphere, perfumed with the fragrance of spotless and undefiled love, as the scenery presented on a fair evening of the setting sun, viewed as an unforgettable scene by two young lovers’ arms-in-arms, making love.

CHAPTER 1

The Treasure

This book is one of practical experience. You must read it with some measure of seriousness, with the determination to make use of the appreciated or selected information’s disclosed to you. It should not be read for fun or past-the-time, although you may find some sections interested in this direction, less it will be of little value and it is then better to turn to some novel, if your study will chiefly be for amusement.

Practice makes perfect, so you sit behind the driving wheel, please obey the traffic rules and signs, so as to avoid accidents. Remember that you cannot done the world but you will go and leave all that you came and meet in it.

It is a new recipe for those who never knew about it. It is not a new discovery or credit, but a venture to put the tits and bits that are existing, but however are sleeping and to bring them out to your inquisitive mind’s reach in writing. So, that they could no longer be over-looked but would stir the minds to a greater never done scope.

I have no intention in this work to replace previous medical professional books on these subjects, but rather to contribute and support those earlier scientific writers from a practical observation of a layman. The more you read about these matters I guess the more you will build or expand your knowledge and only after some wise application that you have read, you will come to appreciate this valuable and indispensable book.

I assure you, it may even challenge you. At some section of this book, you will learn something new, regardless of how intelligent you may be. You cannot know if it is sweet, palatable or has the right blend, unless you taste of its contents. I suggest that you do so greedily and unhesitatingly before it is too late.

This book is prepared to assist the lovers, both men and women to mold and trim the life partner into idea and real one, who was once imaginary and a dream of your sleeping life. Many persons who read parts of my manuscripts expressed in no uncertain terms their regrets for not having the opportunity of this type of knowledge brought out herein, and so, urge me to hasten up the completion of this book, which you now have in your hands.

The title FAMILY GUIDE was carefully considered and selected. However, it must not be misunderstood and so, expect it to be a general guide to the family. Its scope is limited to guide the family on Love, Courtship, Marriage, Sex and Post marriage, along with a few back-up services which are of relevant interest.

If one were to generalize on this title, then it would found to be wide as the universe and rolling stone, because life itself and all attachments need guides and have no ending.

You will appreciate, then the enormity of this impossible task of presenting to my readers, volumes of Family Guides to cover the variety of fields that goes to make life successful or unsuccessful. Although, I am somewhat limited, the topics treated in this work have covered a wide range and provides enough to fill you with the knowledge and to lead a successful life in the now and possible the hereafter. And should it serve its intended purpose, then there shall be no regrets, other than this book should have been yours, long before now. Anyway, it’s not late for you to adjust yourself to corrective measures as provided, you can make the remaining allotted period, a happy and successful one.

Those who have passed on before without it have already gone, but it is with you in your hands, therefore, make the full use of it the best as you can. Take it with you (not necessary the book), the knowledge therein, wherever you go, even to the end of your journey.

The given advice’s have penetrated all barriers, such as race, color, religion and politics and tries to foster the understanding that a women must respect herself as a wife and to take the place, inclusive of her husband and that the husband duly responsible for her. Also, a husband must respect himself as a husband and his wife as being responsible for him. The one true ground must be dwelled upon, by both parties and regarded as holy ground.

No party is to feel superior above the other, nor does that he or she know all and everything. There should be sharing of opinions and consultations or at least, each other are to be up dated in such areas as seen fit and necessary. A family code of conduct is important and will be helpful. Do not set aside verbal communications in a pleasant atmosphere, for it is a compass and a charging system, whereby, you could have your read-off if you are a good pilot.

From all appearances, the human race is covetous and will remain so, because it is the only machine at man’s disposal that propels him and cause him not to be static. How then, can you be stagnated, when there is life in you? Are you not going to hold your end in this game of LOVE, and get along to win a gold medal?

Some say that the forbidden fruit is the passion fruit, be it what it may, I disagree that it is a forbidden fruit. But however agrees that it is the passion fruit. The iceman in his advertisement says cool-down. When you would have drunk the ice he sells but this treats the heat only, while LOVE removes both heat and passion. It takes two, it gives two and it satisfies two.

Please read your compass right, to be on course and no man or woman should have the cause to complain against each other’s habits after reading this work, for it will refresh you and cool you down and also mold you for the future role as a true friend.

Should you by chance, come across any part of this book inappropriate, I wish to apologize for it. I have no intention to be disrespectful, disgraceful or being vulgar. I have had thorough and indebt knowledge into my writing, that to my opinion is the best and attractive enough to stimulate and assist those who did not know the missing parts of this puzzle of life. Neither evil, nor harm is meant but rather, total good, for these facts are the plain truth from experience and experiments.

CHAPTER 2

Confidence, your Key To Success

My aim also in this book, is a definite one, in which I hope to help you reach out towards a happier, lustrous and more productive life which no doubt, worth living, for after all your horizon is brighter than ever thought, don’t remain blind. Look beyond your distance, and you will find that there are several paths you can take on this journey. Be positive, have fate and all other missing links will be created with confidence. Confidence is and has always been the key to success.

This book is a voyage of discoveries; by awakening your own potentials that are asleep in you and it is a great adventure, rather than you no doubt, bugged-down in frustration with the many unnecessary problems. Please see it as the greatest treasure house, a vault of loving togetherness of man and woman, the best of god’s creation. Is it not a fantastic accomplishment? For we were not placed on this planet to stagnate but to actively live on and our stay is limited. Therefore, why not enjoy being here than to condemn yourself.

Sex, was formerly a sinful word to use but today, it is fashionable and most frequently used, and it also being taught in schools with success. Many however, feel it is getting wise too young. Sex is not skin deep—that is color, clothes and appearance, it should be deeper than your strong