Comfort for the Day: Living Through the Seasons of Grief
By Steve Nicola and Karen Nicola
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Finding it even difficult to breathe, you
wake up to the reality that someone you treasure is gone. Death has stolen your loved one from your arms. Now the seemingly insurmountable difficult work of living through grief begins. Is there anything that can soothe this overwhelming ache? Is there a safe place for the anger? Will depression become a constant companion? Does the painful malaise last forever? How can I just get through the day?
Comfort for the Day offers a personalized grief recovery experience, drawn from the source of all comfort–
God. His Word will become a guide and friend as the reader lives through the confusing and painful seasons of grief.
Comfort for the Day is what each grieving heart longs for. Used either as a gift for the bereaved or for your own personal needs, Comfort for the Day brings real help for really hurting people.
Steve Nicola
Steve y Karen Nicola son un testimonio vivo de la gracia sanadora de Dios. Ellos se apoyaron en Dios para guiarse a través del duelo luego de la muerte de su hijo de tres años por leucemia. Luego de treinta años Steve y Karen revisaron este diario de recuperación de duelo que ha mantenido su vigencia y agregaron prácticas y sugerencias para aquellos que están experimentando dolor, miedo y sufrimiento después de la muerte de un ser querido. En el blog de Karen en www.comfortfortheday.com se puede recibir apoyo y aliento continuos.
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Comfort for the Day - Steve Nicola
Copyright © 1986, 2011, 2016, 2019 Steve & Karen Nicola.
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ISBN: 978-1-4497-1881-7 (e)
ISBN: 978-1-4497-1882-4 (sc)
Library of Congress Control Number: 2011931477
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WestBow Press rev. date: 09/28/2020
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How to Use This Book
Comfort for Your Emotional Grief
Understanding Your Physical Grief
Questions of Pain Answers of Comfort
Comfort for the Day
Comfort Available 24/7
Picture God’s Comfort
God Loves You
Meet Your Heart Specialist
Mental Pictures
He Can be Trusted
Forgiveness Begins the Healing
To Grieve or Not to Grieve
Trusting God Increases Hope
The Privilege of Suffering
Be Honest
The Need to Blame
Your Tears are Noticed
Why?
Part One
Why?
Part Two
Ask How?
Instead of Why?
Okay Lord, How?
Grace to Match the Need
Anticipating the Firsts
The Despair of Sadness
Fear in Grieving
Grief’s Anger
Patience with Healing
Grief Is Hard Work
Contentment in Uncertainty
Death Is But A Sleep
Accept God’s Comfort
Pain and Suffering are Not Forever
The Perfect Heart Reader
Knowing God’s Will
Grieving with Hope
In His Time
God is More Creative than Your Pain
Cooperate with the Physician
Becoming a New You
Comfort Others
Who Am I?
Loneliness
One Day at a Time
Letting Go
Constructive or Destructive Memories
Then We Will See Face to Face
Living with a Healed Heart
More Journal Pages
Sketches, Notes, Quotes, & Memories
God’s Words to Comfort You
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The night was long, but not long enough. How we wished we could travel back in time just three short months. Our precious first born son, Dawson, was in remission then, and our little daughter, Joanna, played contentedly with her big
brother. We were a very happy family of four. If only we could hold those cherished days in a timeless bottle … But there is no such opportunity.
The night was dark and the morning grew darker as we pressed ourselves nearer to Dawson’s bed. Just at sunrise our son lost his battle with leukemia. There are no words. You know that. While Leukemia had won, the love in our hearts has never been overtaken by suffering or time.
Steve: Each morning I woke, it felt like I was a freight train slamming into a brick wall.
Karen: I couldn’t cry easily with others.
Steve: I wanted to talk about my son and his death to anyone who would listen.
Karen: It felt like I would never come back from my journey into grief.
Together: We trusted God to help us.
Our loss is not a model for you. We do not share our story to add to your pain. We just want you to know that our hearts beat in the rhythm of pain with yours. We want you to know what brought healing for our broken hearts is available for you too. If your wife lingered in a painful death, if your parent has recently passed away, if your husband died suddenly, if your child was killed by a drunk driver, or if a sibling recently took his own life, this book is written for you.
We look forward to being supportive friends as you live through the seasons of your grief. 55721.png
Steve & Karen
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You are hurting. Right now the pain is unlike anything you have experienced. Words like arrangements,
process,
stages,
and grief
may cause you to recoil and insist this is all a bad dream. Even reading can seem insurmountable. For that reason, this grief recovery guide is designed for your unique, broken hearted needs. Our intention is that you find comfort here as you move through your individual seasons of grief.
Why should I use this book?
That’s a great question. Why should you read a book about your grief? What can this book do for you? Comfort for the Day is an intentionally crafted grief recovery journal. It gives you, the reader, a place to practice healthy grieving, be honest with your feelings and experience God’s comfort for each day of sorrow. This means …