Rendezvous: Exciting Him
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& SUCCESS IN YOUR COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP?
.Live the Romantic Lifestyle!
This book is written in two versions: his & hers. In it there are seven sections that interact with each other, giving couples the tools to create the habits that lead to a more fulfilled and successful relationship. It will become your journal and rendezvous reference, youll want to carry it with you every day.
It is recommended that each partner have their own version so that they can be inspired together and encouraged simultaneously, to live the romantic lifestyle!
Get Rid of:
Lack of Non-Sexual Romance
Boredom/Monotony
Lack of Communication
Create more:
Pleasure
Excitement
Harmony
Benilda Nya Guerrero-Ortega
Benilda Nya Guerrero-Ortega is an advocate for romance. Her mission is to incite couples in creating more joy, excitement, wholeness and excellence in their committed relationship.
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Rendezvous - Benilda Nya Guerrero-Ortega
© 2012 Benilda Nya Guerrero-Ortega. All rights reserved.
No part of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted by any means without the written permission of the author.
Published by AuthorHouse 12/18/2012
ISBN: 978-1-4567-6479-1 (sc)
ISBN: 978-1-4567-6478-4 (hc)
ISBN: 978-1-4567-6477-7 (e)
Because of the dynamic nature of the Internet, any web addresses or links contained in this book may have changed since publication and may no longer be valid. The views expressed in this work are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of the publisher, and the publisher hereby disclaims any responsibility for them.
Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture taken from the HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 1985 International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan Bible Publishers.
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Table of Contents
Dedication
Introduction
How to Use This Book
Acknowledgments
Personal Data
Part One
Understanding Romance and Romance Basics
Part Two
Pleasurable Weekly and Daily Coaching with Inspirational Sundays
Part Three
Monthly Holidays and Event Coaching
Part Four
Flowers and Their Meaning
Part Five
More of His Favorite Things
Part Six
Birthdays, Anniversaries, Contacts and Notes
Part Seven
Fanning the Flames of Romance
3-NYA_2008_025_2.jpgDedication
To all the couples that are in love and have made a commitment to one another.
I also dedicate this book to Carlos Ortega; my awesome husband, my partner in life, my confidant and constant encourager. Together, we have braved many storms and our faith, love and mutual respect for each other always helps us persevere. Forever Yours!
Introduction
With today’s wealth of knowledge available on relationship skills, I am delighted that you have chosen to invest in this rendezvous reference book. You have made a winning decision!
I’ve written this book in honor of marriage, committed relationships and life, and it is written in two convenient versions: His
and Hers.
These books are chock-full of encouragement, helpful ideas, inspiration and support that interact with each other. I recommend that each of the spouses (your partner in life) have their own version so that you can be assisted and coached simultaneously.
With each Weekly and Daily Coaching you’ll find awesome assistance for a happier relationship with your mate and children as well as for your personal and professional life.
I am not suggesting that you become someone that you are not; I’m simply inviting you to stir up your romantic side and develop a new outlook so that you may enjoy the Forever Pleasure and Excitement
that happen when you give romance the importance that it should have.
How to Use This Book
Take a moment to get acquainted with all that’s here so that you can be aware of what’s right at your fingertips when you need it. This book will become your journal and rendezvous reference book. It is the type of book that you’ll want to carry with you everyday, like your appointment book.
In Part One of this book you’ll find knowledge for understanding romance and its basics. There is a place to write his favorite things as well as ideas for romantic quickies, wedding anniversary gifts, ways to celebrate him every month, creative gifts and a suggestion for a very exciting
night.
Part Two is where the majority of the coaching takes place. It is essential for both of you to be on the same week at the same time so that you can carry out the daily coaching practices together.
In Part Three you will be able to continue having fun on a monthly basis as you enjoy yourselves with different ways to take pleasure in monthly holidays and event coaching.
Part Four will assist you in giving and receiving the beautiful gift of Roses and other Flowers with more meaning and gratitude.
Part Five is very important because, you will be able to write more of your mate’s favorite things. There will be no more guessing. You will get it right every time and this will show him that you do pay attention, even to the smallest of things.
In Part Six you have space to write all those important dates and contacts, as well as a place to write important notes.
In Part Seven I conclude my coaching by giving you more fuel to fan the flames of Romance with ideas for giving each other pet names, sweet or sexy expressions and how to say I love you
in other languages as well as the all necessary Pleasure/Excitement Vouchers.
Throughout this book I have provided space for you to put pictures of your spouse, yourselves and family. I hope this book becomes the essential Romance Rendezvous Reference
that I intended for it to be – so that you can forever
please and excite each other and live a happy and victorious life together.
Acknowledgments
I would like to thank the many men and women who took part in my romance research while I was working on this book.
I also want to thank Mary, Max, Celia and Joey whose big heart and dedication helped me in the final organization of the book format.
Additionally, I would like to thank ©Adrian Wilcox Photography for his generosity and great work on my author pictures. Also, Carlos Ortega and Julio Cesar for the photography that was done for this book, as well as the model Einar Soto and Marquita Whittingham for her editing talents.
Finally, I want to thank Virgie Broussard-Pradia, my dance teacher and mentor of many years whose creative writing and excellent talents have inspired hundreds of people. I adore her love for people and passion for life.
Personal Data
NAME:______________________________________________
ADDRESS:___________________________________________
CITY & STATE:_______________ZIPCODE:_______________
HOME PHONE:_______________CELL:____________________
E-MAIL:_____________________________________________
BIRTHDAYS – Spouse:__________Children:_________________
WEDDING ANNIVERSARY:______________________________
FIRST DATE ANNIVERSARY:____________________________
IN CASE OF EMERGENCY CALL:
NAME:____________________Phone:_____________________
ALLERGIES:_________________________________________
MEDICAL ALERTS:____________________________________
BLOOD TYPE:________________________________________
DOCTOR:__________________Phone:____________________
OTHER SPECIAL EVENTS:
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Part One
Understanding Romance
and
Romance Basics
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Romance
The word "Romance,"
awakens different feelings and
views in men and women.
Romance… The majority of women, no matter how beautiful and educated, yearn for a man that can understand her need for him to treat her with love, respect and kindness. A man that can help her feel unique and cared for. Someone who can give physical and mental interaction that does not always have to lead to sex.
Romance… For the majority of men, romance means physical and mental interaction that leads to sex, or a fairy-tale world that lives in movies and in novels. Some men and women think that it is something that it’s not real or possible, and expensive to achieve.
Most women want and enjoy Non-sexual Romance anywhere and everywhere, but they must have their Sexual Romance as good as it can be… passionate foreplay and tender after-play.
Most men want and enjoy Non-sexual Romance anywhere and everywhere, but they must have their Sexual Romance as good as it can be… hot quickies and passionate lovemaking.
Knowing your mate’s emotional state and religious beliefs will help you to appropriately give some thought to how your mate might react to these suggestions before trying them. Your spouse’s state of mind and personality will help you to determine whether the attempt is appropriate for your marriage, or even worth the effort. Whatever you do, be sensitive!
No matter how old you are or how long you’ve been together, you should create new ways and ideas to surprise your mate.
Benilda Nya
Essentials for Romance
Timing… You want to make sure that your spouse is available for the time you’ll need for your display of non-sexual romance or passion for sexual romance. Communication with him will let you know if he has to work late or if he made other plans. It will also help you understand his needs: Would he rather stay home and eat a good home cooked meal or take out followed by a foot or full body massage before going to sleep, or to go out to eat followed by dancing – or would he prefer to have time alone? Will he enjoy a hot quickie or is he ready for passionate lovemaking?
Setting… The romantic atmosphere must consist of a variety of backdrops: lighting, mood, pleasant aroma, a clean and organized home, favorable conditions, as well as some inspiring music. Playing the romantic music that the two of you enjoyed when you were first attracted to each other and started dating, does wonders for renewing that exciting first time feeling. The Setting,
also includes an attractive you: having a fresh, clean and well groomed body, hands, feet and hair. When at home, wear nice or sexy loungewear, and dress very feminine or sexy when you go out with him. Dab on yourself the fragrance that he loves on you (lightly).
To produce the best intensity for romance,
the setting must have…
Passion… The passion for desiring
and yearning
someone is a strong force (you were introduced to these feelings when you first fell in love). That passion can create interest and diligence in you to master your touch, foreplay and sexual skills, making it incredibly electrifying for his body and soul.
Infuse passion with…
Pleasure… There is a pleasure that goes beyond loving one another. Delighting in each other is vital, taking satisfaction in the mastering of your non-sexual and sexual skills (this is not easy, and it requires daily nourishment). Make a decision to work as hard on your marriage