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    How to Really Love a Woman: In Four Tantric Trysts
    How to Really Love a Woman: In Four Tantric Trysts
    How to Really Love a Woman: In Four Tantric Trysts
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    How to Really Love a Woman: In Four Tantric Trysts

    By Sasha Lessin and Janet Kira Lessin

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    FOUR TANTRIC TRYSTS guides you as Giver as you adore and nurture a female lover--your Receiver. You show her she can trust you as her healer. You help her heal herself and adopt strategies to love wisely and expand her sexual ecstacy. When youve trysted tantrically, you love each other more and better.

    In Tantra Tryst 1, Activate Your Chakras, you open your energy vortexes (chakras) to each other. You share your diverse inner-voices. Learn, in this tryst, what hurts and scares your Inner Kids. See how you grew subselves to block pain and fear. You discern when to lower your subself shields, share vulnerability and connect with each other. You synergize your inner selves dance within and between you.

    In Tryst 2, Reprogram Her Parental Imprints, you help your Receiver escape the automatic limits her rearers and culture inculcated. Then she reacts to you as you, not as a stand-in for a parent.

    Tryst 3, Refine How You Relate, you guide her through exercises to refine how you and she relate. You establish the trust you need to nurture, adore, delight and worship her so she can safely express everything to you.

    Tryst 4, Heal Her Heart, Encourage Her Ejaculation, you touch her vagina inside and trigger repressed, suppressed and under-expressed pain she expresses as you touch, pain that blocks her full sexual sensuality and inhibits ejaculatory orgasms. You help her express pain and release her blocks so she can, when she chooses, ejaculate. You stroke her inner clitoris and urethral sponge till she ejaculates and rises to new delight heights.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherAuthorHouse
    Release dateOct 20, 2011
    ISBN9781463412418
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      How to Really Love a Woman - Sasha Lessin

      Contents

      How To Really Love A Woman

      in Four Tantric Trysts

      Give Her What Tantra Gave Janet

      TANTRA TRANSFORMED ME by Janet

      STILL TANTRIC AFTER ALL THESE YEARS

      INVITE A WOMAN TO FOUR TRYSTS by Sasha

      Tantric Tryst 1

      OPEN CHAKRAS TOGETHER by Sasha

      CHARGE CHAKRAS

      ENJOY GENITALS: ( Chakra 2)

      STAND STRONG

      EMBODY AFFECTION

      ENACT NARRATORS

      BROADEN BRAINS (Charge 6th Chakra)

      REPRESENT REASONERS

      OPEN CROWNS, MERGE (Charge 7th Chakra)

      CENTER; COORDINATE CHAKRA VOICES

      SHARE ALL CHAKRAS IN YAB YUM

      Tantric Tryst 2

      REPROGRAM HER PARENTAL IMPRINTS1

      MEND MOM’S MISTAKES

      REVIEW MOTHER-CHILD HISTORY

      RELEASE RESENTMENT

      SAY SECRETS

      FINISH FEELINGS

      LET OUT LONGING

      SEE SUBSELVES THAT MIMIC MOM

      ASK MOM AT 13

      LOVE MOM

      DELETE DAD’S DEFECTS

      REVIEW RELATIONS WITH EACH REARER

      RECLAIM HER DIRECTIONS & PACE

      RESCRIPT TO CENTER

      ADD LOVE UPGRADE TO HER IMPRINTS

      HELP HER REPARENT HERSELF

      Tryst 3

      REFINE HOW YOU RELATE

      LISTEN ACTIVELY

      LISTEN WITH LOVE

      HEAL HER HURTS2

      CONSULT CRITIC, COMFORT KID &

      SATISFY SEXY SELF5

      APPRECIATE HER PLEASER & TAKER TOO

      CONSTELLATE INNER LOVER

      INVOKE INNER TANTRA TEACHER

      [Guide her though the cues below.]

      BOOST BENEFITS FROM BONDING 4

      Tryst 4

      HEAL HER HEART, ENCOURAGE EJACULATION

      CO-MAP YONI, HEAL HURT, UNLEASH PLEASURE by Janet

      FOLLOW THE HEALING SEQUENCE

      PREP PLACE FOR PASSION & PLEASURE

      PREPARE YOURSELF

      CONNECT CHAKRAS

      BLESS CHAKRAS

      PURGE PAIN: PROCEED TO PLEASURE by Janet

      VALUE VAGINAL VERBALIZATIONS by Sasha

      REVIEW WHAT SHE LEARNED WITH LOVERS

      HEAR CURRENT CONCERNS

      OBEY HER TOUCH PREFERENCES

      DISROBE & ADMIRE HER

      RUB RIGHT

      ASK TO TOUCH HER TEMPLE

      CHARGE CHAKRAS

      STROKE HER SACRED DRAPES

      KISS AND CARESS HER CAVE,

      LICK HER LOWER LIPS

      MAP HER YONI

      COACH CATHARSIS

      IMPRINT PLEASURE OVERRIDE

      ENCOURAGE EJACULATION

      Accept Our Congratulations

      READ OUR BIOS

      How To Really Love A Woman

      in Four Tantric Trysts

      by Sasha

      Four Tantric Trysts guides you—man or woman—as Giver, as you adore and nurture a female lover—your Receiver. If you’re female and want to receive, invite a lover to guide you, as your giver, through the exercises in this book. Or take turns guiding and receiving.

      As Giver, you hone your coaching skill. You help your Receiver see if she harbors forgotten or minimized emotion-packed memories that block full sensual pleasure. She learns if she holds hurts she hides from others, maybe even from herself. She sees if she suppresses desires or stifles emotions in sex and relationships. Hidden pain, repressed wants and unexpressed feelings stunt her ecstasy and sensuality. Help her, with the trysts, claim freedom from limits that lessen her joy.

      Most women block full sensuality and love. They lack ability to selectively trust. When you guide a Receiver through the trysts in this book, she learns to employ her blocks selectively rather than automatically and unconsciously. You show her she can trust you as her healer. Rather than confront, analyze, comfort or fix her, you help her heal herself and adopt strategies to love wisely and expand her sexual ecstacy.

      The Giver-Receiver exercises in the trysts enhance your relationship. When you’ve trysted tantrically, you love each other more and better.

      As Giver you empathize and encourage your Receiver as she reminisces, expresses and reprograms herself. You don’t gag her emotions; instead amplify them. When she feels fully, she gains options. After you tryst, she views situations from her Center. Then she decides the degree she shows or shields her feelings.

      In Tantra Tryst 1, Activate Your Chakras, you activate them together. You open all your energy vortexes (chakras) to each other. You share your diverse inner-voices. You detect in yourselves what you hate or overly admire in each other.

      Learn, in this tryst, what hurts and scares your Inner Kids. See how you grew subselves to block pain and fear. You discern when to lower your subself shields, share vulnerability, connect with each other. You and she synergize your inner selves’ dance within and between you. In her and in you, subselves concerned with inner security, sexuality, power, love, communication, vision, and spiritual chakras learn to take turns and cooperate.

      In Tryst 2, Reprogram Her Parental Imprints, you help your Receiver escape the automatic limits her parents and culture inculcated. Then she reacts to you as you, not as a stand-in for a parent.

      In Tryst 3, Refine How You Relate, you guide her through communication exercises to refine how you relate with her. You establish the trust you need to nurture, adore, delight and worship her in a climate where she can safely express everything to you.

      Tryst 4, Heal Her Heart, Encourage Her Ejaculation, builds on the first three trysts; you touch her vagina inside and trigger repressed, suppressed and under-expressed pain she expresses as you touch, pain that blocks her full sexual sensuality and inhibits ejaculatory orgasms. You help her express pain and release her blocks so she can, when she chooses, ejaculate. You stroke her inner clitoris and urethral sponge till she ejaculates and rises to new delight heights.

      *          *          *

      Share Janet’s essays with the woman you propose to guide through the four tantric trysts. Let her know that in the trysts she, like Janet, can clear limits and blocks that reduce her joy. If she accepts you invitation, she can expand her sensuality and delight. And you and she will feel closer to each other than ever before.

      Give Her What Tantra Gave Janet

      Tantra Transformed Janet

      Still Tantric After All These Years

      Invite A Woman to Intimacy, Satisfaction In 4 Trysts

      TANTRA TRANSFORMED ME by Janet

      My husband Sasha and I live an All-Chakra Tantra lifestyle. We share and expand energy with each other on each level of consciousness. We link these consciousness levels to chakras , centers in and around our bodies. The chakras—around the perineum, genitals, belly, heart, throat, brow and crown–relate to security, sex, power, love, talk, knowing and spirituality.

      We connect sexually twice (sometimes three times) daily. Each connect, we align chakras–press our bodies together and touch genitals, bellies, hearts and heads. We breath together and bless each other’s chakras.

      We embody each chakra, and as each chakra voice each, say what we need. Sasha, for example, embodies his security center and requests, Say you’ll stay with me.

      Morning connects last but a tantalizing twenty minutes. Afternoon connects, where we focus on me, last ninety minutes. I talk, he facilitates. Then, with his mouth and fingers, he brings me to an ejaculatory orgasm. Then we have intercourse. He has a electro-kinesthetic kundalini, non-ejaculatory orgasms and I get clitoral and vaginal orgasms. Our evening connects climax in full ejaculatory orgasms–first mine then his or sometimes, both simultaneously.

      We create romance when we connect. We talk and feel close. Satisfied. Life’s sweet. That’s what connecting

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