A Dressmaker’S Threads: The Life and the Legacy of My Russian Immigrant Mother
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Evelyn Lerman
After graduating Simmons College (B.S. Journalism, 1947), I became a wife and mother. When I told my family I was going back to school and then to work, they cheered. Harvard University provided the program (M.S. Ed., 1966) and the Brookline MA Public Schools provided the jobs: teacher of grade 3-8, sabbatical at Harvard (C.A.S, Language Development and Human Development, 1976), then Vice Principal, Director of English, and Director of Personnel. Summers, my husband and I directed Camp Caribou for Boys in Maine. At age 67 we retired to Sarasota, Florida for intellectual stimulation and just plain fun. In a writing course with a gifted teacher I discovered an interest in teen sex, too early pregnancy, and the lack of sex education in our schools. Interviewing, research and travel culminated in two books: “Teen Moms: the Pain and the Promise”, Morning Glory Press, CA, 1997, and “Safer Sex: the New Morality”, MGP, 2000. The research proved that education and mentoring made the difference for troubled teens, so I initiated a right-brain reading program which ten of my professional friends/colleagues and I have been teaching for eighteen years. This book is about my Russian immigrant Mother, my first mentor, whose love for education motivated her to work 18-hour days at her sewing machine to put my two sisters and me through college. Her story, and the ripples she created over and through the generations, demanded telling.
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A Dressmaker’S Threads - Evelyn Lerman
A Dressmaker’s
Threads:
The Life and the Legacy
of
My Russian Immigrant
Mother
By
Evelyn Lerman
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Contents
Genealogy
Acknowledgments
Glossary—Yiddish to English
Introduction
Prologue
Part One-Her Life
Section One-Russia
Civia is Born, 1898; Civia 1898-1902; At Home in the Pale of Settlement; Barsha’s Death, 1902; Civia 1902-1908; Apprenticeship in the Shtetl, 1909-1917; Meyer Comes to Work for Chaim, 1910; Meyer’s Travels, 1910; The Wedding, July 25, 1918; Escape, 1919; Travel to America, 1919-1920; Ellis Island, 1920
Section Two-America
Celia’s Philosophy of Life; Settling in America; That’s How It Was in the 1930’s; Time; My Three Bankbooks; I Know It’s Perfect; I Weed ’Em Out; One Hand Washes Another; Eat, My Children; The Singer; Make Life Fun; The Russian Tea Room; Going Home; A Master’s Degree from Harvard for Ceil; Moving; Growing Old; Dying
Section Three-Remembering Ceil
The Needle; Re-creating Ceil; Interview: Nana Ceil and Bill, 1966; A Picture of Ceil; I See You; Interview with Susan; Interview with Bill; In-terview with Bobby and Carole; Memoir of My Nana Ceil by Phyllis; Interview with Miriam
Part Two-Her Legacy
Section Four-Values
It’s Black or It’s White; My Passion; Give Until It Hurts; Symphony Rush; Advice; Spirituality; Reverence; Patience; Pride Goeth Before a Fall; The Recurring Dream; Every Ring Is a Year; Sexy Grandma; A Piece of Music
Section Five-The Senses
It’s a Wonderful World; Plain Vanilla; Taste; A Taste, a Memory; Always Cinnamon; Peanut But-ter and Tears; I Hear Her; Touch; Blossie’s Noodle Pudding; Blossie’s Brisket; Dear Blossom
Section Six-To Love and To Cherish
The Year of Discovery; Birthday Engagement; Twenty-One; The Ring of Truth; June 22, 1947; Make Lemonade; Sweet and Sour; He Saved My Life; The Clock; Free at Last; Marriage Savers; I’ll Never Share
Section Seven-Family
From Generation to Generation; The Grandfather I Never Knew; Manya; Remembering My Cousin Izzy; The Setting; Jeannie Comes of Age; Poor Daddy; Father Speaks; The Road Not Taken; Excerpts from Susan’s E-mails from Israel; Excerpts from Becca’s E-mails from Afghanistan; Connections; The Bosses’ Daughter; A College Reference for Bobby; E-mail from Jerry; The Heritage; Looking Back at Shadows
Part Three-About Me
Section Eight-My Friend Sllie
Finding Ellie; Smoke and Mirrors; Another Mother, Maebelle
Section Nine-All Work and No Play
Working; Student Teaching; Team Teaching; Teaching
Section Ten-All Play and No Work?
She’s on Fire; Passion and Risk; A Wake-Up Call: Seniors and HIV/AIDS; I’ll Take Something Off If … ; The Day I Flunked Fingerprinting
Section Eleven-Mentors
To Tom; Louise; Mr. Harris; Carol; Albert
Section Twelve-Travel
Study Tour in Europe; A Blank Page; Ellis Island II, 2003; Old Cheese and New Wine; Chateau Lake Louise; Why Antarctica?
Epilogue
About the Author
Genealogy
Image22369.JPGImage22375.JPGAcknowledgments
It takes a loving family and loyal friends to help an author give birth to a book. I have many people to thank, so please forgive me if your name doesn’t appear, and know that I cherish every interaction, every discussion, every suggestion, and every insight you gave me as I stumbled and faltered. Know that it was because of each of you that I finally succeeded in finishing The Dressmaker’s Threads. My mother would have been proud of all of us.
With heartfelt thanks to…
My loving husband Allie for his patience, forbearance, editorial wisdom and computer assistance.
My daughter Susan who took time out of her eighty-hour work week to read and edit my book.
My granddaughter Lori for the camp pictures and the tender editing which made every error seem a blessing.
My nephew Robert for his treasure trove of old family pictures.
My son Bill for his endless cheerleading and his fine-tuned ear for editing the Maine dialect.
My friends Carol and Sam for their wonderful photography.
My granddaughter Rebecca for so willingly lending me her writer’s ear.
My friend Suki who, from her first reading of The Needle
twenty years ago, encouraged me to write the book.
My friends/colleagues in the Writers’ Club for listening, critiquing, and valuing my writing.
My new friends, Marilyn Simpson and Pati Lindsay, for their careful editing.
. . . and to my dear friend Jeanne Warren Lindsay, who published my two earlier books but is now retiring, yet gave unstintingly of her energy, expertise and advice.
Glossary—
Yiddish to English
A clug to Columbus: A pox on Columbus for discovering America (used when the children were being too American).
American mishugas: American foolishness.
B’rachah: Prayer.
Babele: Diminutive for baby, her youngest child.
Bar Mitzvah: The religious rite of passage for 13-year-old boys, conducted in the Shul.
Bassinkeh: Yiddish diminutive for Blossom.
Besser: Better.
By meer bish du schein: To me you are beautiful.
Chutzpadich: Full of chutzpah, full of gall.
Coureveh: Prostitute.
Daven: To pray in Orthodox Shul. This is accompanied by swaying back and forth.
Dimel: A dime.
Drei kinder: Three children.
Du kenst nit weizen a naar a halbeh arbet: You can’t show a fool work half done.
Ess, mine kinder: Eat, my children.
Fagele: A small bird, connoting homosexuality.
Floomen mit kartofle: Prunes with potatoes.
Gelt: Money.
Chanukah gelt: Money given on Chanukah.
Ghetto: The restricted area where Jews were required to live.
Goldene medinah: Golden Land, streets paved with gold.
Gootskeit: Goodness.
Gottenyu: My God, Our God.
Goyish: Very Gentile, like a Goy (Gentile).
Hehr ve ess schmecht: Hear how it smells.
Kaddish: Memorial service for the dead.
Kishkeh: Derma, meat-stuffed cow intestines.
Lichtich: Light of my life.
Mayerke: Yiddish diminutive for Meyer.
Meer es nicht: When you stop eating.
Mine kind: My child.
Minyan: The ten men needed to hold a religious service.
Mirele: Miriam, diminutive.
Mohliver: Yiddish name for Mogilev, the shtetl.
Moomah Sorah: Mother Sarah.
My Mun: My husband.
Noch Ne’ilah: After Ne’ilah. (Late in the Day of Atonement, when the gates to Heaven close, your time is up.)
Oy, vey!: Woe is me.
Pale of Settlement: A portion of the Soviet Union set aside for Jews.
Payot: Uncut sideburns worn by Orthodox Jews.
Plymutt: Plymouth automobile.
Pogrom: An assault on a Jewish shtetl, combining rape, killing, burning, stealing, frequently ordered by the government.
Poopek: The gizzard of a chicken.
Prostrate: Prostate cancer.
Ret uff Ivrit!: Speak in Hebrew!
Rov: Rabbi.
Schlepping: Lugging.
Schnapps: Liquor.
Shanda: A shame for the neighbors.
Shivah: Mourning for the dead.
Shtetl: A small village, generally in the Pale of Settlement.
Shul: Jewish Temple.
Tachrichim: Shrouds.
Talmud: Commentaries by learned Rabbis and other scholars on the Torah.
Tsveetochneechai: A Russian tea housed in a pirate’s chest.
Tierer Gott: Dear God.
Timble: Thimble.
Torah: The five books of Moses, read from beginning to end every year in Shul.
Treds: Threads.
Tshchot: Abacus.
Tyerer liebe Civia, dein bruder Abba is tait. Er hot gesh-torben fum pneumonia laster voch.
: Dear beloved Civia: Your brother Abba is dead. He died from pneumonia last week.
Unter babele’s vigele: Yiddish lullaby: Under the baby’s crib stands a white onion; the onion will go out to bargain for raisins and almonds so the baby will grow up strong and healthy.
Yeshivah bochers: Boys who go to the Yeshivah, the Hebrew school.
Zee Shtait oof: She is standing up.
Zenitt: Zenith TV.
Dedicated to my Mother
Tzatzilia Yefimivna Elkind Gorfinkel
aka Lichtich, Civia, Ceil, Mrsa. G., Mamutchka, Nana
Ceil
The Shadow
I think I walk alone, but she is there
Supporting me, counseling me, consoling me.
An original thought seems familiar.
Instilled in me at the age of ten,
Brought to consciousness at any age.
Translated into English from the Yiddish,
There for me to remember
To adapt to any circumstance.
What do we leave when we leave?
If we are bountiful enough, perhaps a shadow.
Image22381.JPGJune, 2012, in Maine. Ev and Allie’s 65th anniversary year.
Introduction
December 23, 2000. I chose today to start this book about my mother, although I have been writing about her for many years. I’m 75 years old today, the age she was when she died. That makes me feel it’s the right time to gather her stories together because perhaps now I can see life better through her eyes, Since I have to explain this to you, I know I haven’t come to terms with it yet, for it seems chutzpahdik
to try to tell her story. I have never suffered the way she did, I have never had to work as hard as she did, and surely I don’t have her wit, the Russian Jewish accent, her carriage, her boundless enthusiasm for life, her intensity of feeling for everything she touched, and the passion of her love for us, her three children.
But, I’m not saying I’m worthless. Not at all. As the youngest of her daughters, I was the one she showered with compliments. I was so smart, so beautiful, so loved, so talented. No one could come close to me; that’s how special I felt I was in my mother’s eyes. I laughed when she carried on, and brushed it aside. You’re my mother,
I’d scoff. How can you be so sure I am so special?
She’d laugh. I just know, Babele,
she’d smile with those tiny, straight, white teeth glowing. My baby is wonderful.
Even as I blew it away, some of it stuck, for though I’m not in the galaxy she invented for me, I do feel competent, comfortable in my own skin, and truly not afraid of much. But I admit I am a little afraid of starting this book. I so want to do her justice, and I so want the reader to see what made her so special. I’d love the reader to say, This is not just another mother story. This one is worth reading.
If you pick it up and read it, and if you find my mother just as fascinating as I did, and if you agree with my friends who, every time I told them a story about her, said, Write it, Ev,
just send me an e-mail at lerman.evelyn@gmail.com. Of course, if you don’t do any of the above, or if you find it boring, you still have the right to let me know that. She made me strong enough to accept criticism, but I’ll prefer the love letters, being human after all.
December 23, 2007. I’m now seven years older than my mother was when she died, and am still writing stories about her, and have not yet put them together in a book. But this year something special happened in the Monday morning writing class I teach at the University of South Florida. It’s a class at the Academy for Lifelong Learning, where seniors like me teach and take classes. We write together, we share our stories, we critique for each other, and we work at home to bring new pieces to school to read aloud. This year two Mondays fell on holidays, so we had a three-week vacation between classes.
Prepare to write the story you’ve always wanted to write,
I told them. Get your ideas together, choose a theme, and come to class ready to share your plans.
As soon as it was out of my mouth, I wanted to choke it back. Would I finally have to confront my anxieties, gather all my stories together, and make the commitment to write this book? You can’t give the assignment and not do it
is my teaching philosophy, so the deed is done. I’m on my way.
June 22, 2012. Here I am again, five years later, and this time it’s for real. It’s for real because as my dear husband and I were packing for our summer in Maine, he said, Darling, this is the last year I am schlepping your books to Maine. Either you write this year or never.
He was referring to my journals, all fifty of them, those I have been writing since I was a young woman. They are heavy, filling three sturdy milk cartons, and increasingly heavier as both of us get older and older. I agreed. The time has come to write her story, and to pull together the threads of her legacy.
Image22387.JPGCivia in Russia
Prologue
This story will be a mixture of my memories and all those I have pried loose from my sisters, my children and their cousins, my grandchildren and their cousins, and the extended family and friends who knew her and whose lives were touched by her. Mother never told her complete story to any of us, so the missing parts will be based on research of the periods when she lived in Russia as a child, escaped during the Bolshevik Revolution in 1917, and came to America with a sick husband and infant daughter in 1919. I use quotation marks for conversations I actually heard and a double hyphen (—) for conversations I made up, based on my knowledge of the people and times involved.
I will also tell the story of her legacy: the love of education, the powerful work ethic, the love of and loyalty to family, the optimistic attitude, the joy in living that she passed on to her children, her grandchildren and even her great-grandchildren. I am older than she was when she died so I thought perhaps now I could see the family through her eyes. But age alone is not enough to give me her perspective and her vision. I am the spoiled child of a loving, devoted mother. In marriage I became the spoiled wife of a loving, devoted husband. I crawled from her bed into his with complete innocence. Of course he would love me as she did, I was her babele, the youngest who could do no wrong. My self-image is strong and I am not afraid of much that my mind and my emotions can conquer.
She loved education, her work as a dressmaker, her customers and her three children above all. She loved Coolidge Corner (she called it Coolidge’s Corner), and the way the beloved sun (der lieber zun) shone into her front window as she worked at her machine. Oy,
she said one day, they are taking down the Church and Coolidge’s Corner will never be the same.
How right she was. The Episcopalian Church across the street was a majestic building towering over the corner of two streets just opposite her apartment building. It was the beginning of the end of the elegance of Coolidge Corner. That site became a gym, the quality of the stores changed, and Ceil’s own apartment was cut into two so the landlord could collect two rents instead of one. She missed the weddings and the funerals, watching the people come to work out.
Work out what?
she’d ask. Work is work and gym is play.
She’d sigh and continue her talk with God.
I talk with God,
she told me. He helps me. I tell Him about my children, I tell Him I need to stay healthy so I can earn a living for them, educate them, and take care of my sick husband. I talk to God and He answers me.
I often ask myself if I believe in God. My questions cause me to marvel even more at her personal relationship with Him. I don’t have it, but perhaps I don’t need it as she did. I talk with my husband and together we resolve the questions we have. But she didn’t have that relationship. She talked with God, with her children and with her customers. But with very personal issues she talked mostly with God.
Talk is cheap,
people say, but talk with Mrs. G. could be costly. She held court over her machine and people from what she called all walks of life
sat with her while she worked. Saturdays were particularly busy at Mrs. G’s Salon. She dispensed homegrown wisdom, a wonderful listening ear, fruit and tea, and sometimes charity. This charity was based on her unique pricing system. Considered one of the best dressmakers in the Boston/Brookline area, Mrs. G. was much sought after by ladies of fashion. Not working, they had lots of time to spend in her company, bringing their clothes from couturier shops and from Filene’s Basement.
Her upper middle class customers knew she was expensive, and they also knew that if you asked her how much something was going to be, she would answer, You can’t know a job until you finish it.
The smart ones were quiet after that, because the ones who pushed for the price found themselves getting less and less attention until they discovered they were no longer part of her customer group. I weed ’em out,
she told me. Her prices were high, but her work was excellent and her well-to-do customers were happy to have her. If sometimes they paid a little extra, that took care of the shop girls who lived in her building and who were barely getting by on their meager wages. The Robber of Beacon Street
was the fond nickname some had for her, although The Angel of Beacon Street
was not far behind. Her Robin Hood philosophy went along with her expansive personality.
She’s worth it,
Mrs. Cohen would smile when Mrs. Abrams complained.
She’s a great fitter, she gives it to you on time, and she’s fun to be with. What else do you want?
So when Elsie from upstairs came to pick up her dress for a friend’s wedding and asked How much?
Mrs. G. would hug her and say, Don’t worry. No charge, darling. Enjoy,
and hand her the dress, beautifully pressed, in a new plastic garment bag.
Unwary Mrs. Green, the next customer half an hour later, would wince a little at the price.
Oh, darling,
said Mrs. G, I needed to do two fittings, had to let it out a hair, evened off the hem, took a nip here and a tuck there, a smidgeon in the back, and it looks perfect. It’s a bargain for the price. You look beautiful,
and Mrs. Green would smile at herself in the mirror, pay my mother, and sit down for a chat.
My husband is not paying enough attention to me, Mrs. G.
Why wouldn’t he, a lovely woman like you,
Mrs. G. would beam. Didn’t he just give you a three-carat diamond ring you showed me?
He did, but the question is why did he do it? Is he guilty of something?
No, darling, he just works very hard and is tired when he comes home, but he comes home and he loves you. Here, have a cup of tea and a cookie. Hug him when he comes home. Tell him he is wonderful. Listen to his troubles. Scratch his back.
Mrs. Green would smile, You’re expensive, Mrs. G., but you’re worth it.
One story up from the street she sat, high above Coolidge Corner, one flight to the landing at the first floor, another flight of marble stairs to her second floor apartment. From her observation post she watched people running for the streetcar, laughing to herself as they jumped aboard at the last minute, and sighing for them when they missed it and stamped their feet impatiently waiting for the next car. She watched mothers pushing baby carriages, elderly women pushing walkers, teenagers pushing bikes or jostling each other. If she saw someone just killing time
she took personal offense. Patient in so many ways, she had no patience for people doing nothing. Killing time was a crime. Let them take care of sick children,
she’d say.
Her favorite scene on her Coolidge Corner stage was the