No Ordinary Family: A Sisterhood in Softball
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I had a fellow author read an early copy before it was sent to the publisher. I asked him to look it over and then get back to me with ways the manuscript could be improved. He had many good ideas, and I hope I was able to implement them to his satisfaction. However, he had one question? Were these girls real?
Yes.
"Their names, too?" he asked.
Yes.
The story is real, and unlike "Dragnet" the names were not changed.
I did not know what I was getting myself into when I chose this assignment; but, I hope everyone that reads this book will come to understand that not everything has to be a soap opera or a world of drama queens.
There are parents that coach hard, but remain parents and see the world as one of many colors not just black and white where winning is everything.
Fortunately for the Arkansas Playmakers, the parents and the girls have come together to form a unique family that lives, loves, plays and enjoys life together.
This book is their story. It is a story of a brother and a sister, girls that came together to form a team but eventually became sisters first and foremost, the bond between softball fathers and their softball daughters and what makes a team a championship team (on and off the field).
It is about how a team became part of a small, rural community in the southeastern corner of Arkansas.
I hope those that read this book, find it enjoyable and worth your time and effort.
Roberta A. Jackson
I have been a journalist, mostly in the field as a newspaper reporter, for three decades. My expertise is in the area of hard news reporting, but I have been able to expand into feature writing, sports reporting and investigative journalism. Currently, I am a staff writer for the Ashley News Observer, an author and the editor/publisher/photographer for an on-line website about high school athletics. As a former sports writer and sports editor, I have had the opportunity to cover college sports, international track & field, professional athletics and high school athletics in additon to writing personal profiles and feature articles. My news background includes coverage of Hurricane Katrina, the BP Oil Spill, congresional elections, business and finance, tornadoes, an extremely rare winter blizzard in Georgia and the daily activities that range from the police beat to covering school boards and city councils. However, I have always wanted to step out and offer glimpses into what makes the South - a place where I have lived ever since I was 3-years-old - a special place to live, work, eat and enjoy life. I have written about Delta blues, Louisiana jazz, Georgia politics and rodeo. Yes, the South is a rodeo hotbed and Southern Rodeo is as American as the rodeo one finds in Colorado, Texas or Las Vegas. This book, "No Ordinary Family," is a refreshing look at a group of young ladies that are typical of what you will find in rural Arkansas. I got a chance to step away from writing about hot-button issues, crime and punishment and politics when I chose this assignment; and when I did I got a chance to enjoy a unique look inside the world of girls' softball. But, this book is less about the sport and more about the girls that came together as a team and as a family. I hope you enjoy my look at the Arkansas Playmakers and the girls that wear the team's Green-and-White uniforms.
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No Ordinary Family - Roberta A. Jackson
© 2013 by Robert A. Jackson. All rights reserved.
No part of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted by any means without the written permission of the author.
Published by AuthorHouse 11/05/2013
ISBN: 978-1-4918-2381-1 (sc)
ISBN: 978-1-4918-2058-2 (hc)
ISBN: 978-1-4918-2380-4 (e)
Library of Congress Control Number: 2013918073
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CONTENTS
Introduction
Inning One
Inning Two
Inning Three
Inning Four
Inning Five
Inning Six
Inning Seven
Inning Eight
The Final Inning
INTRODUCTION
26598.pngSome might question the logic of writing this book, but I have rarely been accused of being logical or sensible.
Mostly, I am a contrarian that likes to rage against the machine.
The young ladies that make up the softball team known as the Arkansas Playmakers, their families, their coaches and their attitudes are unique in my opinion - and that is what attracted me to their story.
Usually, all-star, select or travel teams composed of athletes that compete apart from organized high or middle school athletics are composed of extremely talented youngsters that come together to win and perhaps catch the eye of a college coach with the anticipation that an athletic scholarship will be the end result of the entire process. Apart from the game, they are strangers to each other.
These all-star or special teams often recruit athletes or youngsters who come from families that are able to pay significant sums of money to cover the cost of private coaches and travel expenses. And as I said, their ability to stand out and play sports like baseball, softball or soccer is the only tie the players have with each other on the team.
Local Little League, Pop Warner, Babe Ruth as well as county-based recreational organizations are designed to offer athletic opportunities to the general public and youngsters in a neighborhood setting. Playing the game and learning about sportsmanship is the real purpose behind what they offer. The players know each other, hang out together and grow up as friends; while the parents often work at the same company, live in the same neighborhood and share good times together.
The Playmakers seem to have a foot in both continents.
The team was formed by parents that felt their young girls were not getting the best coaching or were not being offered the best opportunity to develop their talents within the local recreational softball programs operating across Ashley County, Arkansas.
The parents of the original Playmaker squad also wanted more control of the situation and they wanted their daughters to be on teams with more talent than could be found in the community-based recreational programs in the county’s smaller towns.
However, the hiring of private coaches and pushing their daughters toward a level that would result in college scholarships was not in their world view.
They wanted to go beyond southeastern Arkansas for competition and experience, but they also wanted to keep their team grounded in the values of rural Arkansas. The parents would still coach them and the girls would always be proud of their hometowns and the people they call neighbors.
Until the girls were old enough to join their county high school teams, Playmaker parents set up a schedule of weekend travel and tournaments that lasted from late winter - and early spring - into autumn.
They also wanted to maintain a sense of family, therefore the girls morphed from teammates into sisters. It is not surprising to find that after eight years, six of the team’s original 10 team members are still with the team and three others have been Playmakers for at least three
seasons - one of that trio is in her fourth.
There is no pay to play, private coaching or scholarship hunting in the Playmaker playbook.
What is in their manual are unique values that go beyond excellence on the field.
Instead of doing whatever it takes to win, recruiting new players to make the team better while letting go those that fail to measure up and a hectic travel schedule, the Playmakers have chosen to maintain a base of players.
The parents also chose to pass up tournaments that could bring a lot more attention in favor of staying within a more family-based association such as Babe Ruth ball.
Until the last couple of years, in major Babe Ruth league sanctioned tournaments players travelling far from their hometowns were required to stay with host families from the community that was hosting the tournament. Staying in expensive or even modest hotels and motels was not allowed.
Many of the Playmaker players still remember their host families that provided a home to them when travelling to, and playing in, out of state tournaments. They also still retain close bonds with the children of those families, bonds that turned them into cousins; and the players from opposing teams they met in those tournaments held in Texas, Mississippi, Louisiana and Colorado remain good friends.
Is there any drama?
No, said Bobby Livingston - the father of one of the original Playmakers.
They’ve pretty much been raised Christian,
he explained. We have a Sunday morning devotional when we are on road. (Coach) Johnny (Pierce) has a pre-game prayer with them before each game.
But what really convinced me that writing this book on the Playmakers was the right way to spend my free time away from work as a reporter was what Katie Koen wrote following a tournament championship game in Benton during the team’s final season together in 2013.
Koen is about 5-7, smiles a lot, thinks her boyfriend is super and is about as normal as any country-born teen-ager despite the fact that she is a softball player with plenty of talent.
She also has plenty of personality, has a warm heart and is very gregarious.
I asked her to help with this book and what follows were her recollections of a post-game gathering after a Playmaker tournament win over a team known as Nitro.
"There are several of the girls on the Nitro team that I have grown close to over the years. At the end of every game, both teams meet at the pitcher’s mound to say the Lord’s Prayer. Typically, a couple of girls draw crosses in the dirt on the mound. I usually don’t pay that much attention; however, this time I noticed that the Nitro’s Emily Law was writing letters. She wrote DM on the mound along with the cross.
"I knew what it meant the moment it happened and I started crying. One of my former teammates from Benton (Koen played on the Benton-based Hustle before joining the Playmakers), Drew Melton, was tragically killed in a car accident in November 2012. Between the first and second game (of the Benton tournament), my parents and I drove to the crash site. My dad wanted me to see the results of