Kissing: A Field Guide: A Field Guide
By Violet Blue
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Violet Blue
Violet Blue is a best-selling author of sex manuals and editor of erotica. She writes for and has been interviewed by O: The Oprah Magazine, The History Channel, and Penthouse, and in 2013 was named one of the Best Sex Educators in San Francisco by SF Weekly. She lives in San Francisco.
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Reviews for Kissing
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This fun little "how to" book put a smile on my face. Like violet Blue states "kissing is an art form", and she is right.Within these pages you will find detailed kissing tips as well as information on how to identify different types of kissers, like the rock star and the yuppie and different types of kisses, like the good-bye kiss and the lusty kiss. Kissing do's and don'ts are included as well as what to do when things go wrong during smooches, like biting too hard to finding the person is a bad kisser.There is also a section, which had me giggling, about hazardous kisses, like the zombie kiss, "the most horrifying part of all: his mouth opens up into a gaping maw, threatening to swallow you whole". p.62All in all, a very cute and fun book with some great kissing tips. I think this one would make for a nice gift and as a coffee table read as well. Plenty to chat about here! Violet Blue knows what she is talking about."The kiss that conquers all is your key to paradise-so it's important to have a full arsenal of techniques at your disposal."p. 63, Kissing: A Field Guide by Violet Bluedisclaimer: I received my free copy of Kissing: A Field Guide via the publisher. This review is my honest opinion, I received no compensation for reading and reviewing this book.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Everything you ever wanted to know and lots you didn’t know, about kissing. A very comprehensive guide for newbie’s and oldies who want to explore this lovely art! Something for everyone!
Book preview
Kissing - Violet Blue
Introduction:
THE PERFECT KISS
A great kiss is like watching the ball drop in Times Square on New Year’s Eve. There’s the countdown to contact, the moment when your heart flutters from your stomach to your chest, and then—the kiss. You hear the noisemakers, people cheering, horns honking, confetti flies through the air, and you’re caught in a vivid moment in time. Your heart warms (or ignites like a fuse). Your perspective changes, your senses sharpen, colors become more vivid, and you just know your brights will come out brighter than ever before. At least, that’s what it feels like when the right pairs of lips come together in all the right ways.
Kisses like this are rare—but they don’t have to be. Unfortunately, our lips didn’t come with an owner’s manual to tell us how to deliver smooches that stop traffic, start five-alarm fires, and warp the time-space continuum. Most of us have to figure that out by trial and error, and believe me, it isn’t pretty. It messes up your lipstick, screws with your confidence, and you wind up pecking a lot of awful kissers. If only we could spot the lousy kissers, fix the ones we like, and if we just had ninjalike kissing skills, we’d be the baddest girls on the block with puckers that make urban legends seem tame.
That’s what this book is for. This is where you learn to kiss like a movie star and make the one you’re kissing feel as if his favorite song just came on the radio every time your lips come together. Find out how to time a kiss perfectly, how to deliver and get a first kiss, and how to ask for kisses with and without words. Learn how to know when someone wants to kiss you and what to do if the person you like turns out to be a bad kisser. Solve problems like stubble rash, and what happens when your kiss doesn’t turn out the way you’d planned. Discover all the kissing do’s and don’ts, and find out all the things you should never do when you kiss someone.
There are oodles of techniques in these pages to help you come up with—and perfect—your very own style for each lucky someone you kiss, no matter if you’re a novice kisser or a make-out queen. Sex up your mouth and make it irresistibly kissable, then supercharge your kisses with advanced tricks, fun games, and tasty treats. Oh, and if you color your pucker, find out how to keep your lipstick perfect, no matter how hot and heavy (or wet and messy) your kissing session gets.
Don’t stop with the lips—know your kissee’s hot spots and get the skinny on how and where to kiss parts of the body that’ll make them melt. Learn how to French-kiss like an angel (or a naughty devil) and all the different types of kisses and when to use them. Best of all, learn everything you need to make your first kiss with that special someone absolutely perfect and unforgettable.
Kissing is about chemistry—sometimes a kiss can be the moment we realize we’re falling in love. The kind of connection experienced with a kiss can rock you to the core. But it doesn’t have to be with someone you love—a kiss can be one of the most lighthearted ways of sharing intimacy with another person.
You can kiss as a sport, in a kissing booth for charity, or you can kiss someone just to find out if they are more interesting than you thought—all without commitment to either pair of lips involved. Or, if you choose, kissing can be the most intimate thing you share only with someone you love. But no matter how you kiss, or whom you kiss, you should always make it a doozy.
I hope you have as much fun putting this book into practice as I did doing the research for it.
Smooches,
Violet Blue
San Francisco
Chapter 1
THE SECRET SOCIETY OF KISSING ARTISTS
The average woman spends two weeks of her life kissing—but what girl wants to be average? Two weeks of smooches just won’t do—especially when you want to be the kind of kisser who has them coming back for seconds. And thirds. Maybe an all-you-can-kiss make-out buffet. With the secrets, tips, techniques, and detailed steps to becoming a master kisser in this book, you’ll be more than the average player: you’ll be at the top of the kissing game.
Kissing is one of the most sensual of all the acts of flirting, foreplay, seduction, and sex we can enjoy. In a kiss, you use all of your senses—and his too. You feel a kiss with your body, your heart, and your mind. You can communicate desire, urgency, caring—anything you want, because what you’re feeling when you kiss someone can be channeled right through you like an electric charge. The greatest kissers know a variety of techniques that can be applied to a range of situations, tricks to make their kisses unforgettable, strategies to seduce even the shyest pair of lips, and how to jump-start that erotic spark with a first (or second, or third) kiss.
The sensual kisser has a lot more going on than a pair of kissable lips—though I’ll tell you all about making your lips silky smooth and utterly irresistible in a bit. A truly sensual kisser is a girl who feels confident and sexy from within, no matter whether she happens to think she looks perfect
at the moment, and a great kisser stays in touch with all of her senses—before kissing even begins. It’s like flipping a light switch: when you know a kiss is about to happen, all of your senses sharpen. And once the kiss starts, everything goes into overdrive as you drink in the taste, the smell, the touch, the sound, the feelings. And the person on the receiving end is hooked.
What’s in a Kiss?
Kissing is a single act that can convey a wide variety of intentions. For instance, one type of kiss, a light, affectionate peck, is a message of tenderness—it can be nonsexual, or a loving reminder. On the other hand, a first romantic kiss, built up to with nervousness and desire, might begin with the softest touch and pull you together like a red-hot magnet. A kiss between lovers is the spark that ignites passions into a blazing fire that may consume you both in a delicious make-out session. This kind of kiss can be more powerful than the need to eat when you’re famished. Sometimes the prelude to a kiss is the best part; other times it’s only a teasing, playful beginning.
One kiss can change everything. It can make friends into so much more. A kiss is the moment when sex and science meet, when we know whether our chemistry matches our desire. A casual encounter might turn into a pivotal, life-changing moment, after which ordinary everyday situations with your friend become lustful encounters. Often,