Family is for Life
By Mary Mansell
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In a world that has begun to despise authority, scorn biblical traditions and tear apart the family, parents may need some encouragement! Here are messages to cheer you on in your battle to succeed as a godly family. You will also find some practical tips for all ages and various occasions.
This cannot be a comprehensive guide to every aspect of marriage and parenting (there are plenty of volumes and websites to that end) but here we humbly pass on some tidbits of wisdom that have proved helpful in "Manselldom".
Norman and I did not do everything right in raising our children (who does?), and what did turn out to be right was through God's grace alone! A huge debt is owed to our godly parents and Bible teachers over the years, and the least we can do is to pass on some of the benefits of their investment.
If this book helps you and your family live and shine for the Lord Jesus Christ it will be worthwhile. I hope you enjoy our letters.
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Family is for Life - Mary Mansell
Dedication
To my wonderful children and grandchildren: Nicola and Jason, Shantaya and Divna; Abigail and Jason, Sterling and Henry; Daniel and Kelly, Amazon, T-J and Poppy; Jonathan and Hannah, Isabel and Liliana
and to the memory of their amazing 100% father, Norman A. Mansell
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Preface
These messages began as weekly letters to our married sons and daughters. You will notice that some messages are from both Norman and Mary: these were initiated by Norman, who was a real Barnabas
. I took on the project when he passed away a few months into it: this collection is chosen from our joint efforts over about two years.
Introduction
In a world that has begun to despise authority, scorn biblical traditions and tear apart the family, parents may need some encouragement! Here are messages to cheer you on in your battle to succeed as a godly family. You will also find some practical tips for all ages and various occasions.
This cannot be a comprehensive guide to every aspect of marriage and parenting (there are plenty of volumes and websites to that end) but here we humbly pass on some tidbits of wisdom that have proved helpful in Manselldom
.
Norman and I did not do everything right in raising our children (who does?), and what did turn out to be right was through God’s grace alone! A huge debt is owed to our godly parents and Bible teachers over the years, and the least we can do is to pass on some of the benefits of their investment.
If this book helps you and your family live and shine for the Lord Jesus Christ it will be worthwhile. I hope you enjoy our letters.
January Beginnings - Week 1
United Front
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Dear Family and Friends,
We need solid families, and in these days it will certainly take more effort -and more prayer- than ever in order to achieve them! It may help you to consider how the two qualities of consistency and reliability play their parts.
Canny, wheedling, opportunistic, observant, knowing- are some of the adjectives that could be applied to almost any child. So, if asking Mum (Mom) doesn’t work, then approaching Dad at the appropriate moment (e.g. when Mum is out of earshot) might produce the desired answer! Or they could try asking for something when there are visitors, or Mum is on the ’phone and only half listening...
Children need to face a united, consistent response from both parents. We would point out that plentiful communication is vital to this end!
Parents, it would seem you have 3 possible answers to any request: (a) YES (possibly with qualification), (b) NO and (c) MAYBE....
Whatever your answer, stick to your word!
For example: You’ve agreed to take the children swimming at the pool... Alas, you arrive to find it closed for repairs or a Gala Event, but you make calls or ask Google and find a pool that is open and drive there. (Is an hour’s driving reasonable in order to keep your word?)
Invaluable trust is built every time parents keep their word. Being reliable parents will actually make your job easier! Children thrive on living within barriers that don’t crumble when challenged. They will test their boundaries, but united and trusting families stand!
Many blessings for the New Year, Norman and Mary.
January Beginnings - Week 2
Forgiveness
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Dear Family & Friends,
Life as a child is simple, but has its limitations. If the parents are kind and loving (normal, that is), then food, warmth, clean laundry,