My Lady My Man: How To Build A Truly Strong, Adoring, And Lasting Relationship.
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What brings people together is often the least when compared with that which they require to stay together. However, that which would be required to stay together would only be as much as they would let it be.
We live in an age when love has been so coloured hence hardly can it now be defined by sight. Almost on a daily basis, I read on a page of one of my favourite national dailies of couples earnestly begin for dissolution of their unions - even for laughable reasons. Some ills within relationships are just unthinkable as well. As I write, I remember an ongoing police investigation of a case involving a young man accused of murdering his lady, dug a portion of his room directly under his bed and buried her there while he sleeps on - in the same room and on the same bed! He was caught six days after committing the despicable act. Is this love?! In some instances, spouses’ bath their partners with dangerous chemical substances while in some, vital body parts or organs are deliberately and wickedly chopped off! What a romantic world. Some lose their lives in - love - relationships! With some, the living is but with great regret.
Life is so precious and, without a duplicate. Hence, the decisions we make centering on how we live the life becomes of utmost significance. In relationships, there is so much that should go into deciding whom to share this life with vis-à-vis how such a union should fare.
What are the key things an ideal partner thirst for, how can a healthy balance of such expectations be achieved, what need be cautioned, and, in what ways should conflicts be best resolve when they arise? These are the major questions that the book seeks to answer.
The book, written with the lady and the man, the old and the young, the married and the yet-to-be in sight, is in no way a quick-fix, it rather presents some practical and vital choices that if deliberately made pivotal in the relationship between a lady and her man could easily make such a relationship truly strong, surely adoring, and so lasting.
Philip Abraham
Philip O. Abraham is the founder of Winning-over Life: an organization which seeks to empower lives for victories in life - through publications, seminars, trainings, and coaching. He also oversees Wholesome Relationships; a platform set up to address family and relationship issues. He is an inspirational writer and a skilled teacher.
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My Lady My Man - Philip Abraham
By Philip O. Abraham
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Table of Contents
Acknowledgements
Introduction
Chapter One
Always Have This in Mind
Chapter Two
How to Strike a Balance
Chapter Three
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Chapter Four
How to Handle Issues
In Conclusion
About Philip O. Abraham
Connect with Philip O. Abraham
~ Acknowledgements ~
There are certain things that not until a person is able to do, he or she won’t believe that such could be done by him or herself more so when not preplanned. This is one of such: not with the ability to write but more with the way and manner the writing was both conceived and done.
As such, I like to sincerely acknowledge and appreciate the CEOs of Elineta Diamond Life, Mr. Elisha Oladejo and his friendly wife, Aneta, who, in a unique way, lured
me into writing on such a thought; relationship. A big thanks to you my big sister, Babatunde B. Rosemary; this sweet work might not have been done at all or completed as at when it was if not for your unique personality and facilities which I leveraged on. To Lydia A. Babatunde, my lovely niece, your gentle contributions; helping me out with the domain name registration is so cherished and appreciated: thank you. I also appreciate your effort in getting me those useful links. Philip B. Solomon, my brother-my friend, you were with me almost all through; pushing me hard with words and most times waking up through the nights to check on me so as to ensure that I am still awake on this, I truly appreciate you bro: God bless you more. Dad, you simply but so warmly told me not to lose focus; gosh, that was a rock for me to lean on, thanks for letting loose those words. I love you more for this sir. A very big thank you to pexels.com for their commendable services: I pulled up the cover images from there.
And, to my lady, Me
- as I do fondly call her, meeting you is indeed a school I need go through: I hope this script would score high from you ma. Above all, to the Holy Spirit, my unequalled teacher, thanking you is just so unquantifiable: all the same, from my heart Lord, I say, thanks.
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~ Introduction ~
We live in an age when love has been so coloured hence hardly can it now be defined by sight. Almost on a daily basis, I read on a page of one of my favourite national dailies of couples earnestly begin for dissolution of their unions - even for laughable reasons. Some ills within relationships are just unthinkable as well. As I write, I remember an ongoing police investigation of a case involving a young man accused of murdering his lady, dug a portion of his room directly under his bed and buried her there while he sleeps on - in the same room and on the same bed! He was caught six days after committing the despicable act. Is this love?! In some instances, spouses’ bath their partners with dangerous chemical substances while in some, vital body parts or organs are deliberately and wickedly chopped off! What a romantic world. Some lose their lives in - love - relationships! With some, the living is but with great regret.
The relationship between a lady and her man, which ought to be so adoring and fulfilling, has rather become daunting for many; a nightmare that seizes their sleeps, maims some, and snuffs life out of some. Analysis of trends in formation and dissolution of relationships is so alarming. Some tender hearts who are honestly longing for healthy relationships are now so scared of what to expect should they go in. To make matters worse, the trends has made some to rather cross their hearts against such a fulfilling life. To some however, the challenge is not with a focus on the other partner but on self; the trepidation about how to be a good spouse.
To the religious, solutions are tied chiefly to praying and fasting, to the fetish or diabolic it is all about going the devil’s way