The Nursery of the Holy Spirit: Welcoming Children in Worship
By Daniel R. Hyde and John D. Witvliet
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As you enter the sanctuary, you notice them at once. Then, as you take your seat next to a family, they are right there beside you. Throughout the ensuing service, you see them--and hear them. The presence of children in public worship is not only striking, but also increasingly strange in modern American church life. In fact, the idea of your children sitting or standing next to you during prayer, singing, or the pastor's sermon can be downright scary.
This book is based in the conviction that public worship is the nursery of the Holy Spirit and that bringing children in is both beneficial and a blessing. The Nursery of the Holy Spirit offers practical advice on how to make this ideal a reality in your children's lives.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5One of my favourite books on the topic of including children in worship! I highly recommend this book to anyone who has questions or opinions about the benefits/blessings of children attending public worship. The advice on how to go about doing this while being respectful of those worshiping with/beside you was both practical and encouraging.
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The Nursery of the Holy Spirit - Daniel R. Hyde
The Nursery
of the Holy Spirit
Welcoming Children
in Worship
Daniel R. Hyde
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Welcoming Children in Worship
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Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture is taken from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version, copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a division of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
Scripture quotations marked KJV are from The Holy Bible, King James Version.
All quotations of the Heidelberg Catechism, Belgic Confession, and Canons of Dort are from The Creeds of Christendom. Vol. 3, The Evangelical Protestant Creeds. Edited by Philip Schaff. Revised by David S. Schaff. 1931. Reprint, Grand Rapids: Baker, 1996.
All quotations of the Westminster Confession of Faith, Westminster Shorter Catechism, and Westminster Larger Catechism are from Westminster Confession of Faith. 1958. Reprint, Glasgow: Free Presbyterian Publications, 2009.
In this slim volume, Pastor Hyde gently calls upon Christian parents and churches to place their children in ‘the nursery of the Holy Spirit.’ This helpful volume also offers practical ways in which moms and dads may ‘parent in the pew.’ I am grateful for this book and plan to get it into the hands of the parents and ministry leaders in my church.
—Todd Pruitt
lead pastor, Covenant Presbyterian Church, Harrisonburg, VA
Many reasons are given for why children drift away from the church but perhaps the most important and least discussed—is the fact that parents do not teach them that church is important. And basic to that is making sure children are in the worship service and understand what is happening. Danny’s little book will be a great help to parents and pastors as they reflect on how better to encourage little children to come to Christ.
—Carl R. Trueman
pastor, Cornerstone Presbyterian Church, Ambler, PA
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Planting, Watering, Growing: Planting Confessionally Reformed Churches in the 21st Century (editor)
The Good Confession: An Exploration of the Christian Faith
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With Heart and Mouth: An Exposition of the Belgic Confession
To Cyprian, Caiden, Daxton, and Sadie:
May your childhood be filled with
the joyful noises of Jesus.
". . . believers have no greater help than public worship, for
by it God raises his own folk upward step by step."¹
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Foreword
Children are an indispensable part of the worshiping community, incorporated into the Christian community at baptism not as second-class church members to be merely tolerated, but as deeply cherished gifts of God to be embraced. They enter the church community as those called, like people of all ages, to grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ
(2 Pet 3:18). And they enter the church community as both students, but also in an important sense as teachers and models, demonstrating time and time again the sheer grace of childlike trust.
For the past several decades, many North American congregations have pursued generationally segregated approaches to worship and church life. While motivated by a desire to tailor events to the unique needs, learning capacity and temperaments of each age group, this practice has often had the unwitting consequences of promoting the idea that worship should be remade in the image of each generation and of making cross-generational learning and fellowship much harder to achieve.
In this context, it is crucial that congregations give patient, thoughtful, and loving attention to promoting intergenerational worship practices that allow each generation to benefit from the strengths of each other and to complement each others’ weaknesses.
Importantly, making worship more child-accessible does not mean making it childish. To the contrary, challenging members of all ages to grow in understanding, in biblically shaped affection, in faithful reception of the Word of God, in faithful prayer, and in faithful participation in the sacraments most often involves running away from all that is merely sentimental, childish, or simplistic.
The agenda here in Danny Hyde’s book is nothing less than full-orbed discipleship to Jesus Christ shaped in intergenerational community, all conducted with graced awareness of how the Holy Spirit is forming us to grow up into our full stature as sons and daughters of God. May the Holy Spirit use this book to equip families and congregations to that end.
John D. Witvliet
Calvin Institute of Christian Worship
Calvin College and Calvin Theological Seminary
Grand Rapids, Michigan
Acknowledgments
First and foremost, I would like to acknowledge the generations of godly saints at Escondido Christian / United Reformed Church who unassumingly taught me the principles in this book by their example. The intergenerational assembly of grandparents, parents, children, and grandchildren who participated in worship week in and week out was such a blessing to behold while I was still a newly Reformed seminary student from 1997–2000. To my brothers and sisters at the Oceanside United Reformed Church I offer the encouragement that I see how you accept children into your midst every Lord’s Day. It’s often loud—causing me to preach even louder!—but the sacrifices so many of you are making to raise your children with you in public worship will not be in vain. The Holy Spirit will use you as an example for generations to come!
I thank those who assisted me to make this a more readable and understandable book. Dr. Mark Jones, pastor of Faith Presbyterian Church (PCA) in Vancouver, British Columbia, was a tremendous encouragement in the writing of this book. Not only his editorial comments but also our phone conversations about this topic have kept me motivated to write this book as a service to the church. Anna Phillips and Caitlin Lloyd also offered wonderful editorial assistance. Tim Challies and I dialoged as I wrote this book, helping me draw some helpful distinctions to make this book useable to a wider community of Christian parents. John and Debby Rau were my final set of eyes in reading and editing prior to publication.
Finally, I must thank above all my dear wife, Karajean, of whom I cannot say enough. You have modeled everything in this book and then some, week after week, year after year, first with one energetic boy, then a second, then a third, and now with a girl added to the mix! You are the Proverbs