Change Your Life In 31 Days (A WalkThrough Reality)

DAY 1: All you need is with you

DAY 2: The world; the theatre of gambling.

DAY 3: Does practice make us perfect?

DAY 4: Work your only liberating tool.

DAY 5: Life choices; the ignored subject.

DAY 6: Man the master of everything

DAY 7: The problem is not your background, it is your paradigm

DAY 8: To hell with genes, we can change them.

DAY 9: Don’t tell me your intellectual talent, I have willpower

DAY 10: Habits give us results without our consent.

DAY 11: Problems, the angel we hate who keeps us active.

DAY 12: Take 100% responsibility of your life.

DAY 13: Massive action

DAY 14: Have wild expectations.

DAY 15: Read, read and read, it is all you need.

DAY 16: We can use less to achieve much.

DAY 17: Control your desires.

DAY 18: We choose to win

DAY 19: Hold fast to dreams

DAY 20: Have a purpose

DAY 21: To power your brain, set goals

DAY 22: Concentrate your power and resources

DAY 23: Be single minded

DAY 24: Live in the present moment

DAY 25: Mastery is what you need

DAY 26: The hummingbird

DAY 27: Appearance is the beginning of all achievements

DAY 28: How to ask for what you want and get it instantly

DAY 29: Save a portion of your income before spending

DAY 30: Two things that will fail you

DAY 31: You are struggling for nothing.

Epilogue.

About the author

DEDICATION

To my Grandmother M. Catherine, Mutesi Sharon, M. Oliver, Mbonimpa Augustine, Bakamuhabwa Agnes, Paul Rwamuhabwa and Kasigazi Samuel whose love, support and prayers grounded my formal education

INTRODUCTION

I have always believed that the world is moving forward on a supersonic speed and like how all masters have stated, it is through education and more importantly self-education that has made most successful people from rugs of poverty to oceans of wealth, from totally ignorant people to the genius of the world. From the Shakespeare’s to today’s software engineers creating video games and spaceship science.

This book is as a result of an inspiration from Hon. Alex Ruhunda who is a member of parliament of Fortportal Municipality Western Uganda at the time of writing. His ideas and visible commitment in transforming his region translated me into becoming his devoted student as I committed my time in studying the principles that made him become so successful.

From the time I came to know him and later become his frequent visitor, I came to realise that his is not only generous man in sharing his ideas but also he is committed to helping any devoted person in the application of these revolutionary principles. Indeed he has helped very many young and old people become successful and most organisations and business have his help in form of cash or knolegde and important connections. I’m one of the people who have benefited from Him.

Having been myself a devoted social educator, we later fell in a serious relationship which not only built my knowledge base and confidence but also gave me the foundation of this book. He enabled me get free airtime on the local radio station KRC FM as away of boosting my hardwork and this opportunity enabled me deep myself into a life study and exposed me to great people who shaped my view of life.

It is therefore his ideology of NIKISOKA a local word meaning that it is possible that this book is based on. It is possible to CHANGE YOURSLF IN 31 DAYS

This book is about attitude change. Changing the attitude towards life and towards yourself. This book is built on ideas aimed at changing the mindset of people which is the only thing that is standing between them and their success.

Through good years I have spent motivating and working with students, young entrepreneurs, leaders in making, I have realized that most hard working people fail to succeed because they have a wrong mindset towards life. No matter how hard they work, they continue to limp behind.

Through my personal experience and sheer research, I found out that I would need to learn more about how I can help people attain their success and I have always found the best way to learn something is by just getting it here and doing it. To earn my success to help people be successful, I set out to write this book.

When I set out to help students understand how real life works, I had limited resources, barely surviving but I had one encouragement from my mentor and I read this same statement every-day and it energized me giving me a new life every day. It reads run your race and someone will come along who is running the same race as you

I kept on running and people joined the race and I believe they are more people who will join the race too. This book is part of the race I’m running and since you have bought the book, you have joined the race too. Keep running and the rest will join you. Just keep running and running. Don’t mind whether you are currently running alone, soon someone will join you. Do favors to your friend, loved ones, comrades, course mates, staff mates, class mates, relatives name the list. Let them join the race with you. By buying this book for them or encouraging them to buy and read it, you will have made them join the race. I’m proud to be running the race with you.

As you read this book, just think of a great man who helped shape my mind into believing that what is limiting us is really our own attitude towards ourselves and life itself. I hope that this book will change your attitude and view towards life. Am praying that you might get alot of insigts as you read through this great book.

This book is organised in a such away that you will need only 31 days to have changed from a mediocre mindset to a success mindset. The mode of reading is upto you since each day is indepent of the other. You are free to start from any day you want. For clarity, I advise you to start from Day one to the last day.

I wish you well as you walk through the reality that will help you change yourself in 31 days.

PROLOGUE

Man does not simply exist but always decides what his existence will be, what he will become the next moment. By the same token, every human being has the freedom and the capacity to change at any instant. How we approach, view and contextualize our situation and what we tell ourselves it means, determines how daunting and trying it will be. Just because your mind tells you that something is awful or evil or unplanned or otherwise does not mean you have to agree.

The way we look at the world changes how we see things. Where the head goes, the body follows. Perceptions precede action. We choose how we look at things. We retain the ability to inject perspective into a situation. Right actions follow the right perceptions. We are scared of obstacles because our perspective is wrong. A simple shift in our perspective can change our reaction entirely. Just because other people say something is hopeless or crazy or broken to pieces does not mean it is. We decide what story to tell ourselves or whether to tell one at all.

No one can force us to give up or believe something that is not true (such as, a situation is absolutely hopeless or impossible to improve.)They can throw us in jail, label us, deprive us of possessions, but anything will never control our thoughts, our benefits, and our reactions. We decide what we will make of each and every situation. We decide whether we will break or whether we will resist. We decide whether we will ascent or resent. Through our perceptions of events, we are complicit in the creation – as well as the destruction- of the every one of our obstacles.

This book is about the art of ascending from the bottom parts of failure to the peak of success. It will motivate you and enable you start challenging yourself to do better than you have been doing. It is dedicated to change your perception of your life. It takes you back in the principles that enabled our ancestors to survive and explores the principles that have enabled the successful people attain heights of their success.

It’s not a what to do book though it offers recommendations but its sole purpose is to motivate you to believe more in yourself and do more than you have ever thought to do. These simple principles have been used by various successful people; you can also choose to use them. I have taught the same principles for so long on radio programs, workshops, learning institutions and very many platforms and they have worked miracles in lives of people and it has been their call to organize these principles into a book that forced me to compile the notices into this book. The principles are simple but the effect of them on your life will be far great than you can imagine. They will help you live above mediocrity. It all begins with our choice.

My basic philosophy is that any job worthy doing is worth doing well. I don’t believe in turning loose something half-finished and at this, quality is more important than quantity. It is your work and inventiveness, the thought you will have built that will expand and break the limits. Here, respect for competence and hard work is the decisive factor. This will enable you conquer nature and your own inner nature, the basic limiting factors in life. This will make you stop competing with other people as much as against nature and materials but rather compete with your own set standard of quality. You will start competing against yourself to better your own scores.

It is my belief therefore; neither talent without instruction, nor instruction without talent can produce the perfect results. For any one aspiring for greatness should be a man of letters, a skillful draughtsman, expert in geometry, nor ignorant of optics, well grounded in arithmetic; he should know considerable history, have listened to the philosophers diligently, should be acquainted with music; he should not be ignorant of medicine, he should be learned in the legal experts and should be familiar with astrology and the laws of astronomy. For greatness is a product of learning and massive application of what is learnt. To this there is no short cut.

In this journey you have chosen, you will meet a lot of things, some will challenge you while others will leave you with a whip of joy. You will discover that what you thought was limiting you have nothing to do with your success. In this amazing journey, you will find out that success is like a shy sparkling princess; you have got to learn how to court her while failure is an ugly bald-headed prostitute bold enough to possess you without even your consent.

DAY 1: ALL YOU NEED IS WITH YOU

What we think is what we experience

Many people think that they are victims of external events and circumstances that are beyond their control. They think this external world is an objective reality which exists outside of and separate from them.

The truth is the external events and circumstances are an effect of a cause and that cause is thought. This means that thought is the cause of all the events we experience in this world in which we live. In other words, our thoughts are creating our reality. So what we think is what we experience.

When we understand that thought is the cause that is creating our reality, we begin to realize how important it is to examine our thinking process. Since we are thinking most of the time, we are creating most of the time. Through our thoughts, we are able to create the reality of our lives but unfortunately most people are not in control of their minds. We can conclude therefore that most people are not in control of their lives. That is why many people are living a life that is far from the life they desire and this is caused by the haphazard thinking that is creating their lives.

No one can think for you.

You are the only thinker in your mind which means that no one can think for you. No matter what anyone else says you must say or do, you can still think whatever you choose to think. Your ability to choose what you are going to think about is what makes you a free individual. If you couldn’t think for yourself, you wouldn’t be a free individual. No one can get into your mind and think for you. And since you are the only thinker in your mind, it is only you who can decide what you are going to focus your attention to which will in turn create your reality.

You can change your reality by changing your attention.

No matter what your situation is, you can change it by changing your attention. Attention in itself is energy and it follows that what you focus your attention on grows. This means that you energize whatever you focus on. What you hold on holds on you.

Your mind will produce the reality of what you constantly think about. Your dominant thoughts will produce your reality. When you choose to focus on negative things, they occupy most of your life. If you choose to focus on cheap things, your home will be full of cheap commodities and the friends you will attract will be cheap too.

I say if you choose deliberately because you are able to control your