Holy Love: A Biblical Theology for Human Sexuality
By Steve Harper
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Do conservatives or progressives “own” the teachings about what the Bible says about human sexuality and marriage? For some—perhaps a vocal minority—the question is no longer up for debate or discussion: conservatives win. For others, the issues are not that simple. A fresh, rigorous, but yet concise, theological examination of the Bible’s teachings is required. There are other ways to interpret scripture faithfully with respect to sexuality other than the conservative interpretation.
In Holy Love, Steve Harper strives to articulate the truth about the teachings of the Bible and Wesleyan tradition on human sexuality. This very accessible book is intended for church leaders, small groups, and those interested in understanding the Bible’s teaching on this fundamental component of human life, experience and relationships. The book will help church leaders and small groups make the constructive case that biblical, Christian teaching is compatible with faithful, covenantal love and intimacy amidst all sexual orientations.
Steve Harper
Steve Harper, PhD, is vice president and professor of spiritual formation at the Florida campus of Asbury Theological Seminary. He is the author of numerous magazine articles and has written twelve books, including Devotional Life in the Wesleyan Tradition and Praying through the Lord’s Prayer. Dr. Harper and his wife, Jeannie, live in Orlando, Florida. They have two grown children and two grandchildren.
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"The church desperately needs robust theological reflection on human sexuality. Holy Love is a thoughtful overture for the rest of us."
—James C. Howell, senior pastor, Myers Park United Methodist Church, Charlotte, NC; author, Weak Enough to Lead
This book is not merely another rope in a fierce tug-of-war over biblical authority and human sexuality. With his trademark style, Steve Harper offers a wise, compassionate, and deeply Wesleyan perspective on biblical interpretation and LGBTQIA+ inclusion. Read this book, study it with others, and keep it on your shelf for regular reference.
—Magrey R. deVega, senior pastor, Hyde Park United Methodist Church, Tampa, FL
I am often asked for a book study that gets to grips with what scripture says—and doesn’t say—about same-gender relationships, and I will be so grateful to be able to point people to this one!
—Helen Ryde, southeastern regional organizer, Reconciling Ministry Network, Chicago, IL
" ‘Love must be the North Star in our theological sky and the anchor in our spirit as we advocate on behalf of LGBTQ people.’ Who could disagree with Steve Harper even if they oppose the ecclesial and personal reform his life and his line of biblical interpretation commend? Which I do not. As a concise biblical theology, readers will likely find the claims of Holy Love at times sturdy and in places worthy of deeper investigation. Yet the canopy of insights he presents are rooted in clear Christian conviction and help clarify a constellation of questions about human sexuality and the Bible."
—Gerald C. Liu, Assistant Professor of Worship and Preaching, Princeton Theological Seminary, Princeton, NJ; Elder, Mississippi Annual Conference, UMC
"In all our church fighting about what is and is not incompatible with Christian teaching, Christians seem to have forgotten the core of Christian teaching—that is, we’re all incompatible with Christian teaching. Not one of us is found compatible. Rather, we are made compatible by God’s grace. In Holy Love, Steve Harper reminds Christians that married love is holy precisely because it’s an arena where life with another exposes the stranger you call you to the unmerited forgiveness of the other who knows your worst self. Marriage, as the wedding rite makes clear, is about sanctification; therefore, to deny committed couples, gay or straight, marriage deprives them not of a privilege but of a medicine. Holy Love provides pastors and parishioners the biblical and theological resources to have a holy conversation about how that medicine may be administered to same-sex couples too and how their marriages might also serve as parables for how God loves us all."
—Jason Micheli, head pastor, Annandale United Methodist Church, Annandale, VA; blogger, tamedcynic.org
Dr. Harper joins an increasing number of orthodox theologians who have changed their views on LGBTQ+ inclusion. This helpful book articulates both his journey and his insight into biblical interpretation in a very accessible way.
—David Livingston, senior pastor, St. Paul’s United Methodist Church, Lenexa, KS
Steve Harper invites us to step back from the ‘clobber’ passages and begin our theology of human sexuality with a comprehensive consideration of the nature of our Creator, Christ, the Spirit, the creation, the church, the Trinity, the covenant, grace, and humanity. As one who has made a too-slow journey from my own excluding, selective literalism to a theology of full inclusion, I wish I had read this book twenty-five years ago. An honest reading of Steve’s thorough treatment of the biblical texts and theology of covenant love may woo you away from culturally driven preconceived notions.
—Paul Purdue, senior pastor, Belmont United Methodist Church, Nashville, TN
Steve Harper
HOLY LOVE
A BIBLICAL THEOLOGY FOR HUMAN SEXUALITY
HOLY LOVE:
A Biblical Theology for Human Sexuality
Copyright © 2019 by Steve Harper
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Scripture quotations unless noted otherwise are from the Common English Bible. Copyright © 2011 by the Common English Bible. All rights reserved. Used by permission. www.CommonEnglishBible.com
Scripture quotations marked (NRSV) are taken from the New Revised Standard Version of the Bible, copyright 1989, Division of Christian Education of the National Council of the Churches of Christ in the United States of America. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
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CONTENTS
Prologue: And So It Began
Chapter One: The Journey
Chapter Two: The Hermeneutic
Chapter Three: The Passages
Chapter Four: The Life
Epilogue: And So It Continues
Appendix A: You Are Loved
Appendix B: A Word to Nonaffirming Christians
For Further Reading
Notes
PROLOGUE
AND SO IT BEGAN
One after another they told their stories. Twenty-three of them. All stories of rejection from other Christians once they identified themselves as LGBTQ people.¹ Some were rejected by their parents when they came out. Some were shunned by siblings and other family members. Some were marginalized by coworkers. And some who had held positions of lay and ordained ministry were told to clean out their desks and vacate the building. Most had experienced more than one type of rejection. But all of them were still Christians, still fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ. And all of them were holding on to the hope that one day the church might believe differently about them and relate in new ways to them.
I had been invited by members of two LGBTQ Christian groups in Orlando to meet with them shortly after I wrote For the Sake of the Bride.² They wanted to hear my story of how I came to think differently about LGBTQ people and to describe the theology that was now defining and directing my life and ministry. But I had not been in the room with these good and godly folks very long before I realized that I was not there to tell them my story. I was there to listen