Which came first the anger or the anxiety. Calm them both with these 5 tips. 5 tips for how to handle calming down anger and anxiety: 1) Accept reality 2) Allow others to be who they are and don't try to force them to be who you think they should be 3) Don't let your happiness depend on other people and situations that you cannot control 4) Put on the brakes (count slow breaths, or take a timeout) 5) Change your inner dialog: what are you saying to yourself? Stay positive! Quote: Anger and fear are often expressed in our attempts to control something. -Thom Rutledge  To learn more go to: What is anxiety? http://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.com/what-is-anxiety/