On today’s show, Emily’s joined by Detroit-based sex educator Zoë Ligon to talk about how to prioritize your pleasure and step away from “goal” oriented sex, because hey – it’s not just about orgasms.   They explain the important distinction between dildos and vibrators (not that you have to choose), giving you creative, mind-blowing ways to incorporate sex toys into the bedroom and why stocking up on good lube makes sex so much better. Plus, they give you tips for choosing your first butt plug and finding your zen when rocking “woman on top.” Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: JO Stimulants, Womanizer, Adam & Eve, Apex Find Zoë Ligon on social: Instagram Twitter Spectrum Boutique