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their environment;
Following Kahlil Gibrans
counsel in The Prophet,
communitarian values but
also individual identity,
what he calls spaces in
togetherness where family
members stand together
yet not too near together;
Openness to problem
solving around family
difficulties and challenges;
Personal
responsibility
and accountability both for
parents and for children;
Permission for everyone to
make mistakes as part of
the growth process; and
Forgiveness
and
reconciliation when hurt
occurs.
Dysfunction
families
create
the
cover-up
when
the
message
is
always:
1. Power and control helps
one avoid being a victim;
2. Making mistakes leads to
humiliation or ridicule;
3. Personal thoughts and
feelings dont count;
4. Blame others especially
if you want to protect
yourself;
5. Always be on guard;
6. Your needs will never be
fulfilled; and
7. Constantly keep banging
your head up against the
wall.
Such are some of the
messages and experiences both
of functional and dysfunctional
family systems. It is estimated that
between 80-95% of families in
North America are dysfunctional!
The
poisonous
pedagogy
constantly teaches that adults are
the masters of the universe and
children are dependent on them for
everything. Thus, it is important
to break a childs will to show
them whos in charge! Parents, of
course, must always be seen as
right. In this way a child learns
that love comes from duty and
compliance, even blind obedience.
Making children tough (through
physical or threatening discipline)
will make them effective as they
become adults! And above all,
having strong feelings is always a
no-no. Be afraid to be yourself.
In Part III I am going to
discuss the answer to a question
many of you may be asking,
When were small children, how
do we typically cope with such
dysfunctional dynamics? First,
I will identify many of the main
strategies we learn early in life to
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cope with a dysfunctional family
system. Ironically, the upside is that
those adult-children find healing by
going into the problem (or pain),
going through it, and coming out of
it. They are often thankful because
their personal transformative
journey brought them to who
they really are. In that way, they
have genuinely fallen in love with
themselves and as a result are then
able to love others. Transformation
has helped them shift from their
state of egocentricity what
Catherine of Sienna (1347-1380)
called the cloud of selfishness,
that is, seeing themselves as the
centre of the universe to a state of
ex-centricity by getting them to see
outside of themselves and into
healthy relationships with others.
Truly one loves others by first
loving oneself. It is uncovering the
soul (or person) of who we are that
we start to become all that we were
meant to be (Calling) by seeking
and choosing those wonderful gifts
from creation all around us (Quest)
and by having a healthy story to
tell (Story).
Michael
E-mail: worthplace@gmail.com
Mobile: (613) 898-7733
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of us is an interconnected journey.
Connectedness breaks the cycle of
dysfunction because it also breaks
the code and cycle of silence.
Explanation of Life as Story
We all have a story to tell.
That story, as I came to see over
the years, was the fruit, so to speak,
of what we were meant to be and
do and what we felt we should
be and do. Nothing drastic at this
point. The trouble begins when
the discrepancy or cognitive
dissonance, as psychologists call it
between what I call our Calling
and our Quest becomes jarring
or problematic. When that happens
we know on some level that we
must follow a certain path to be
true to ourselves (Calling) but we
also want our own way as we see
it (Quest) irrespective. Our Story is
the result of this interplay between
Calling and Quest. For some it
takes years to figure out what each
means in their lives. They want one
thing (success or money, etc.) but
they know on another level that
something is missing, that there is
something more that is needed
but they dont know what that is.
One of the best ways to
begin sorting out the stumbling
blocks to unlocking the true self
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