BEHAVIOUR

TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS

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THREE OBSERVABLE EGO STATES

PARENT P ADULT CHILD A C

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THREE OBSERVABLE EGO STATES

PARENT

P A C

PAST / ARBITRARY AUTHORITY FIGURES NON-PERCEPTIVE DATA / SORTING REALITY PROCESSING ACTING RATIONALLY FEELINGS / SENSORY JOY / CREATIVITY WANTING / DEMANDING

ADULT

CHILD

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THREE OBSERVABLE EGO STATES

PARENT

P A C

RIGIDITY / DETRMINATION TRADITION / VALUES VANITY / MAGNANIMITY INSENSITIVE / COMPOSURE CRUEL / RESPONSIBLE SLOW / DECISIVE IMPULSIVE / CREATIVE SELFISH / LOVING EMOTIVE / CARING

ADULT

CHILD

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THREE OBSERVABLE EGO STATES

PARENT

P A C

RITUALISTIC / FLEXIBLE MORALISTIC / LIBERAL REPRIMANDING / CARING INDIFFERENT / REALISTIC DEMANDING / FACTUAL PUSHING / LEADING SENSUAL / SIMPLE MOODY / INSPIRATIONAL LIMITED / NO PREJUDICE

ADULT

CHILD

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THREE OBSERVABLE EGO STATES

P A C

Different ego states

necessary for different situations. Requiring different responses. Proper balance & rhythm necessary. Fundamental orientation may show dominance of different ego states. Formative years, environment, and experience brings about changes.

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FUNDAMENTAL ORIENTATIONS

P A C
BALANCED

P A C
AUTOCRATIC

P A C
ARISTOCRAT

P A C
CHILDISH

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COMPLIMENTARY TRASACTION

P A C
CONTINUOUS

P A C

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CROSSED TRANSACTION

P A C
BLOCKED COMMUNICATION

P A C

BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS RESPONSES: ONE

WITHDRAWALS DELIBRATE REFUSAL OF TRANSACTIONS

BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS RESPONSES:TWO

RITUALS SOCIALLY PROGRAMED USE OF TIME

BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS RESPONSES:THREE

ACTIVITIES

COMMON CONVENIENT COMFORTABLE SAFE

BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS RESPONSES:FIVE

GAMES
TRANSACTION WITH AN ULTERIOR MOTIVE HAS A PAY OFF TENDS TO BE REPETITIVE

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RESPONSES:SIX

SCRIPTS
LIFE POSITIONS PRE-ORDAINED / SET PATTERN SELF-FULFILLING PROPHECY
RESTRICTS AUTONOMY OR LIFE POTENTIALS

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WAYS TO THWART AND DISTORT AUTONOMUS LIVES INTO SCRIPTS

NO LOVE NO THINK NO JOY

UNSUCCESSFUL QUEST FOR LOVE UNABLE TO COPE WITH THE WORLD UNABLE TO FEEL / ENJOY

BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS ROBERT KARPMAN

THE DRAMA TRIANGLE

RESCUER PERSECUTOR

VICTIM

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VICTIM

OPPRESSED BY ANOTHER PERSON CO OPERATES WITH THE PROCESS OF VICTIMIZATION KEPT DOWN BY THE RESCUER TRAINING IN POWERLESSNESS

I AM NOT OK : YOU ARE OK

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RESCUER

VESTED INTREST IN INEQUALITY MORE THAN 50% INVOLVEMENT ULTERIOR POWER MOTIVE COMPULSIVE INVOLVEMENT DOSE NOT ALLOW VICTIM TO HELP THEMSELVES

I AM OK - YOU ARE NOT OK

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PERSECUTOR

CONTINUOUS BLAMING DISOWNS FEELINGS DOMINANT PARENT / CHILD VICTIMISED BY PERSECUTOR POWERLESSNESS

I AM OK - YOU ARE NOT OK

BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS HOW TO BREAK THE DRAMA TRANGLE

Scrutinize assumptions. Believe people can help themselves. Do not help unless asked . Do not help without a contract. Do not do what you dont want to do . Help people to find ways to help themselves.

BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS RESPONSES:SEVEN

LOVE
LIFE POSITION: I AM OK-YOU ARE OK FREEDOM TO SHAPE AUTHENTIC UNDERSTANDING NO ULTERIOR TRANSACTIONS

AUTONOMOUS

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YOU ARE OK I AM OK

YOU ARE NOT OK

I AM NOT OK

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YOU ARE OK I AM OK CHILD / SENSORY EXPECTATIONS BLAMING / FIGHTING CRYING

YOU ARE NOT OK

I AM NOT OK

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YOU ARE OK I AM OK

YOU ARE NOT OK DOMINATING ACCUSING FIGHTING CONFRONTATION

I AM NOT OK

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YOU ARE OK I AM OK

YOU ARE NOT OK

I AM NOT OK

DESTRUCTIVE SELF-DEFEATING DISTURBED DISORDER KILLING

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YOU ARE OK I AM OK ADULT UNDERSTANDING MATURE COLLABORATING

YOU ARE NOT OK

I AM NOT OK

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YOU ARE OK I AM OK ADULT UNDERSTANDING MATURE COLLABORATING

YOU ARE NOT OK DOMINATING ACCUSING FIGHTING CONFRONTATION DESTRUCTIVE SELF-DEFEATING DISTURBED DISORDER KILLING

CHILD / SENSORY I EXPECTATIONS AM BLAMING / NOT FIGHTING OK CRYING

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YOU WIN I WIN I LOOSE

YOU LOOSE

I WINYOU WIN
I LOOSEU WIN

I WINU LOOSE I LOOSEU LOOSE

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Enhancing Adult Responses

Always remain focused on facts Use persuasion rather than authority to over come opposition Do not put too much vanity into any absolute certainty.

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Enhancing Adult Responses

Never discourage thinking. Do not respect anybody blindly, for there are always contrary authority to be found.

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Enhancing Adult Responses

Do not use power to suppress opinion Do not fear to be eccentric. Find more pleasure in intelligent dissent than passive agreement.

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Enhancing Adult Responses

Be scrupulously truthful even if it is inconvenient. Never be too embarrassed to say that you care and love.

GOOD LIFE IS INSPIRED BY LOVE; AND

GUIDED BY KNOWLEDGE --BERTRAND RUSSELL