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com/members/generating-massive-sexual-tension/ 10/10/2012 11:54:46 PM Dating and Seduction Hey there It s Isabella and I had something really interesting that I wanted to share with y ou. Yesterday I went out for some coffee (I had that 2:30 feeling) and bumped in to my friend Nick. Nick is kind of infamous for being able to meet a woman and within a few minutes , she is trying to rip his clothes off. We got to talking about how he does it, and he explained that he is just really really really good at building sexual tension; and this alone is his main secret for getting women lined up to sleep with him. I thought about what Nick was saying for a few minutes, and wondered if there wa s a way that he could show you his secrets. Nick very graciously offered to write a guest article for you. So if you want to learn how to build a lot of sexual tension with women, very qu ickly just keep reading below. And once again Nick, thank you very much for sharing your unique insights! Hey Guys, This is Nick Rogue, and before I get started I just wanted to thank Isabella for letting me write this out for all of you. I also wanted to let you all know tha t Isabella is even hotter in person than she is in her photos =) So with that out of the way, let s get started! Sexual Tension Sexual tension is a requisite for any Same Night Seduction. There has been a lot of discussion over the meaning of sexual tension and what causes it, and I have devised a definition and a few simple methods for creating it that have driven all my attempts for Same Night Seductions, resulting in a lot of resistance-free sex within a few short hours (and occasionally minutes!). But first a working definition for Sexual Tension. Sexual tension is the gap between what you desire in the moment, and what is act ually the case. Tension resides in that space between fantasy and reality so in order to generat e it, you must widen that gap. All tension is aimed at resolution, be it in physics, music, or seduction. If y ou can build strong enough Sexual Tension, she will long for that resolution, an d when she does you will never have to experience that unpleasant resistance at th e end of the night that oh so many guys have experienced. Why? Because she s going to want that resolution just as much as you do She just needs it in the correct time (i.e. you have escalated her enough up the S-Axis) and plac e (i.e. you have taken her to a place where sex can realistially occur). I will give you some sure-fire methods in a moment on how to generate that sexua l tension, but keep in mind that you should always be trying to not only increas e that desire for pleasurable fulfillment but also the gap between that Natural Tension I m about to give you some great news: There is already a natural tension that exists between a man and a woman, just by the mere fact that you have a penis and she has a vagina

and that tension is by very definition sexual tension! All you have to do to generate instead Sexual Tension is to maintain what is alr eady there and you re on your way! Sure, to get her REALLY horny, you re going to want to escalate the Sexual Tension , but in the meantime capatilize on what is already present. And for chrissakes, whatever you do, DON T RELEASE THIS TENSION PREMATURELY! This is what most guys do, they either release it early by decreasing her desire (e.g. teasing or insulting her at in opportune moments) or by narrowing the gap making out with her in a public venue). You want to demonstrate to her that you can handle sexual tension properly. One way you can demonstrate this is by being comfortable with silences. In thos e vacuous spaces between words there is tension that can be filled by words or b y desire. Remember, all tension between a man and a woman is sexual by very definition. 2 Quick Methods For Generating Massive Sexual Tension The two easiest ways I know to intensify the natural tension that already exists are reciprocal. You can either possess a heightened internal state of controlle d arousal in the absence of overt sexuality OR sexually charged overt communication with a neutral internal state. (Note: I like to think of this dichotomy as either internally turned on while ov ertly neutral, or internally neutral while overtly sexual.) Experience demonstrates this to be true. Ever hung around someone who was in an intensely bad mood and eventually found yourself feeling lousy too? Internal sta tes are contagious, for lack of a better word. And women are more susceptible to picking up internal states than men because th ey are wired to perceive all levels of communication, especially the non verbal ones. As stated previously, women love and crave sex. If you cannot give her sexual sa tisfaction, you are worthless to her on this primal level. But you can subtly co mmunicate that you can give her the sexual experiences she craves by presenting a controlled sexual arousal while having neutral conversation. A trick I do while interacting with a woman is to talk about normal topics, whil e imagining the back of her head throbbing up and down as she gives me the most amazing blow job of my life. She will perceive this on a subconscious level and become aroused herself. Doing this also has an affect on your inner game. It s hard to feel anything but c onfident and alpha as you are imagining her sucking you off like she has never w anted anything else in her life as badly. The corollary to the above means to gain sexual tension is also true. If you are going to go sexual in words with her, you absolutely must be in a neutral state internally. If she perceives you to be sexually charged internally as you discuss sexual top ics, she will deem you creepy, sexually needy, or just a plain, despicable perv. A lot of my game includes going sexual or saying sexual things. The average guy doing this would just creep women out, but this is because when they are saying and doing these things, they are also internally aroused. When I go sexual, my internal state is neutral. This demonstrates that I have control over my sexuality. Most guys become arouse d as a reaction, not as a choice. For me, arousal is my choice! When women perceive this ability (and she most certainly will!), it generates in tense sexual tension. She will be unconsciously thinking, How can this guy be so internally unaffected, when he is obviously being very sexual with me? He must be the the kind of guy who KNOWS what to do! Arbitrary Boundaries Sexual tension is also built upon the boundaries between what you desire and wha t is currently the case. Earlier I referred to talking neutral but being in a co

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ntrolled aroused state. This creates the boundary necessary to fuel sexual tensi on. Another way to build sexual tension is to create arbitrary boundaries. You can d o this by saying things such as, It s too bad we re in a bar right now, because if we weren t I would throw you up against that wall, and start making out with you pas sionately but we re in a bar so no chance! Remember to maintain a neutral internal st ate while delivering this sort of statement. Get into the habit of creating arbitrary boundaries to why you shouldn t get sexua l and the sexual tension will become so strong she can t help but get really excit ed and turned on. Other Examples: It s too bad we just met, because otherwise we would probably sneak off into the ne arest bathroom, have wild, passionate sex, and then come back out here, enjoy ou r cocktails, and have witty conversation as if nothing happened but we just met, s o that s not possible. It would be totally rude of me to imagine you and I have the kinkiest sex ever since we re just barely getting to know each other, so I definit ely will NOT be doing that at all .Now what were you saying again? Come up with as many of your own ways to create arbitrary boundaries and pepper your conversatio n with them. Notice how easily sexual tension is created when you make these com ments. Exercises Now you have several tools at your disposal on how to maintain and escalate Sexu al Tension. Here s what you can do to hone your abilities: 1) When conversing with a woman, practice counting to 3 after everything she s ays. Not only will this often cause her to fill in the silence with her own wor ds (thus relieving you of the burden of generating conversation) but it will al so help increase Sexual Tension 2) Practice in front of a mirror saying something completely neutral like I lik e chocolate ice cream cones while being internally aroused then switch to saying it while being neutral. See if you can notice the difference. Practice this unti l you can switch gears seamlessly. 3) Practice in front of a mirror saying something overtly sexual like, It s too b ad we re in a bar right now, otherwise I would take you up against that wall and d o you from behind but we re in a bar, so we shouldn t even be thinking about that (Note : This also contains an arbitrary boundary). Say this while being completely ne utral internally, then try it bringing in some horniness 4) Think of 10 different arbitrary boundaries and write them down for future r eference. Pick your favorite 3 and go out and practice them with women until yo u can it without even thinking about it. Get Some! Nick Rogue comments: Hiya just to say I have tried the internal state and god damn it really works on ly takes a few minutes but you have to be really in the zone many thanks Nick. I am a life coach for people with disability and I am trying to help some men at the minute to get their self-esteem and confidence back especially after acquiri ng a chronic disability. i must confess, u hav got me there. It goes a long way to comfirm d fact dat d female sexuality is almost mental. Most PUA hav using dis term sexual tension ..i v been confused abt it meaning t. And i see d reasons why girls i dnt lik likes me more..

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But so much of the art of seduction is confidence, wouldn t you say? And I think r unning that sexual fantasy in your head while talking to someone really helps to give you that confidence. After all if you picture what you desire already happ ening that s going to automatically give you the confidence that you can achieve it , right? Nick, you re right on with the tip about talking about normal stuff while picturing sexual fantasies. I do that all the time and I m 100% sure that it is communicated with body language and just my natural energy while I m talking to a guy. Not that I need any help picking up guys, mind you. while imagining you in some sexy red lingerie stroking your hand along my thigh. You look stunning.