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ANDROGYNOUS
SEXUALITY
Reflections of a Gay
ACROSS THE NATION and that period was my first decision
around the world, closet doors are
opening. Gay people are "coming
by F~NK SCOTTI as a gay parent: my children must
never know. For the sake of the
out" in increasing numbers, children (as well as for the sake of
openly ackowledging their sexual AS I STOOD GAZING DOWN AT family, friends, church, etc.), I
orientation and striving to cope LYDIA'S FACE, FLUSHED AND would conceal my sexual identity
with the problems this may PINCHED WITH THE INTENSE and would strive to hold together
present. There are even signs of a the tattered fragments of a
HEAT FROM WITHIN, THE
real, if grudging, toleration on the marriage. In retrospect it was a
part of society for a sexual FULL WEIGHT OF BEING decision which was both cowardly
minority which has been little SEP ARATED FROM MY and unwise, but it was the best I
understood and widely exploited. CHILDREN SETTLED ON ME. could do at the time. Each day
One aspect of this phenomenon became a nightmare 'of desire and
which has been scarcely explored guilt, of conflict and fear. The
is the sudden explosion in wife gets the children and he gets marriage became a hollow shell,
numbers of gay women and men visiting rights and financial inhabited by two unhappy people
with children. support payments. In addition, he who never dared name the some-
It is probably safe to say that is labeled the offender in the thing which had grown up
there have always been gay marital disintegration, by virtue of between them, as fixed and solid
parents. The difference today is in his sexual preference, and his as a wall.
the number of parents who are parental relationship is called into In this beleagured conditon I
openly admitting they are gay. question. The overriding fear endured for eight more years.
Consequently, there is a new seems to be that he will seduce his Each year brought a growing
climate of attitude and activity children, emotionally if not acceptance of myself as a homo-
which insists that being gay does physically, into acceptance of sexual. Each year brought new
not disqualify us from being homosexuality as a valid burdens of guilt and fear of
responsible parents. Lesbian alternative. Gay is still a four- discovery. Each year brought
mothers, for example, have tra- letter word. additional problems to a marriage
ditonally been denied custody of Looking back over my which was now one prolonged
their children because their sexual experience, I can see how I set crisis. Each year brought new
preference makes them unfit myself up to take a fall. I married difficulties in balancing my two
mothers, or so the courts have my high school girlfriend when we lifesty les and still finding time to
decreed. Increasingly, gay women- finished college. We had been spend with my children. My
are refusing to submit to this dating for over six years and it was growing sense of failure as a
defamation and are fighting for the natural, expected next step. parent colored all my experiences
custody of their children. The At that time I had not yet and trapped me in an emotional
battle has only begun, but there is admitted to myself that I was a vise. My daughters were rapidly
as much significance in the fact homosexual, although I realized becoming the major casualities in
that the battle is being fought as there was something different my running battle with the world,
there will be in the victories which about me. Naively, I assumed that the flesh, and myself.
will be won. marriage would solve the problem The past ten months have
My perspective as a gay father of my "queer" sexual interest. brought many changes to my life.
is shaped by the emotional reali- And so it seemed to - for awhile. My wife and I separated, after
ties of my situation, as well as by Children began arriving with acknow ledging the futility of
the legal technicalities. In our alarming regularity, however, and struggling to preserve a legal
society, fathers, whether gay or I five years later I found myself the relationship which was
straight, are rarely awarded father of three beautiful little meaningless. I resigned from my
custody of their children. A
man who breaks the bonds of a
I girls. I also found myself
becoming increasingly involved
church and, after some months of
drifting, found my way to MCC. I
heterosexual marriage and mo ves with the gay life, nurtured in met a man and discovered the full
into the gay life automatically has secrecy and guilt. By this time my impact of love and commitment in
two strikes against him as a marriage was beginning to fray a gay lifestyle. And I rediscovered
parent. First, he's simply on the around the edges. To complicate my children.
wrong side of the argument. His matters further, I was serving as My daughters are Debbie, 12,
pastor of a Baptist church and was Becky, 10, and Lydia, 7. They
Frank Scott is Pastor of Metro- constantly in fear of someone spend every Saturday with me and
politan Community Church, Pitts- discovering my hidden life and my lover. On occasion they sleep
burgh, Pa, where he formerly exposing me to ridicule and over, in their sleeping bags on the
served churches of the Southern shame. living room floor. Cliff and I try
Baptist Convention. Coming out of the turmoil of to make this quality time, since

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With this issue, The Gay publication on the basis of

Parent
the quantity is so limited. In a real
Christian reappears - now from
its new editorial home in Hart-
ford, Connecticut. And now an
official publication of the De-
partment of Publications of the
quality: credible scholarship,
adequate documentation, readable
style, and relevance to the con-
cerns of Gay Christians. An
issue devoted to the charismatic
sense we are both involved in Universal Fellowship of Metro- movement within UFMCC is in
being gay parents. We attempt politan Community Churches. preparation: we particularly solicit
to devise ways to make our time TGC is a journal of religious articles on that subject.
together interesting and yet reflection for Gay Christians. We Without apology, we assert
together. In the past few weeks we hope to stimulate discussion and our publication is a most impor-
have toured the zoo (twice!), inquiry on matters that make a tant one. We are, perforce, pio-
ridden a ski lift, played on swings difference for you and me. Some neers. Our unique call summons us
and explored a rocky river bank. issues, like this one, will be to the cutting edge. The journey
Frequently on Saturday potpourris of reflections out of of the People of God leads us to
afternoons, we all cuddle on the the lives and thoughts of Christ- where we have never been before,
floor and watch Tarzan movies on ians facing the implications of Gay and we cannot be permitted to
TV. Always they help prepare life. Other issues will be devoted back seat. We must lead the way.
dinner and participate in the to single topics. Such forums, we That, I am sure, requires the best
clean-up afterward. Typical after- trust, will satisfy the broad imagination we've got. It must
dinner time finds Cliff sitting theological spectrum represented engage all our sensibilities. Be-
cross-legged on the kitchen floor by our readership - not by cause the Spirit has not ceased to
with Debbie and Becky playing avoiding issues or fearing contro- speak in the church.
Jacks (he can't get past foursies). I versy - but by offering a balance We invite you to listen, and
am reclining in a bean bag chair of differing, significant state- reflect, with TGG.
with Lydia, teasing and laughing ments. TGC will be fair. And
and just being together. On this exciting. -fjd
day we are a family for a few TCG hopes also to serve as a
hours - for a few hours. soundingboard for the theological
The end result of these mo- exploration conducted by the
ments of sharing has been a Commission on Faith, Fellowship
deepening of the relationship and Order. FFO will be reporting
between the girls and myself. We regularly in these pages.
are really in process of discovering We invite your contributions.
each other as persons. This makes Articles will be selected for
the time element even more
VoI.V,No.1 March 1976
difficult to cope with. Lydia has
commented twice recently that
Saturday is the shortest day of all. AP.-rrold
We try to compensate for this by
visiting on the telephone several
times a week. But the stark fact
remains that our time together
weekly may be measured in terms
of minutes and hours.
Being a gay parent in this
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context has brought an anguish of opinions of the authors, and do not necessarily represent the doctrinal position or
the spirit which I would not have official policy of the UFMCC.
believed possible. For the first
time I find myself truly on the Material in this magazine is original unless otherwise credited. Please credit THE
sidelines of my childrens' lives - GA Y CHRISTIAN when reproducing or quoting from us.
hearing second hand, being shut
out, missing the joys and crises of The appearance of any name in this magazine does not indicate the sexual/
affectional preference of the person.
daily life. Early in May, Lydia
developed a dangerously high F. Jay Deacon, editor and layout
fever and was rushed to the
hospital emergency room. I acci- Editorial address: POBox 514, Hartford, CT 06101
dently heard about this just a
short time after it occurred Subscription and advertising address: POBox 36277, Los Angeles, CA 90036
and I hurried over to the hospital
myself. As I stood gazing down at
Lydia's face, flushed and pinched This time I was here, but what I would be missing, or would hear
with the intense heat from within, about next time? What about the about as an afterthought? What
the full weight of being separated cut fingers, the hurt feelings? about Becky with her nightmares
from my children settled on me. What about the happy adventures which brought her to me for

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comfort and protection against is no room in my relationship with as well as those in the gay com-
the terrors of the night? Suddenly them for the secrecy and sense of munity at large who might benefit
I I felt this sense of separation guilt which has haunted me most from such ministry. If necessary,
acutely and I turned aside to weep of my life. church leaders should educate
- for them, for me and for the My experience as a gay parent, themselves regarding the problems
nameless dread of the uncertain facing the unique problems gay parents encounter. The church
future. inherent in the role, is just hopefully wili become the focal
One major result of the beginning. Ahead of me lies that point for counseling and referral.
developing relationship with my battery of questions which must Accordingly there must he an
children is that I have been forced inevitably arise from my attempt awareness of community resources
to reconsider my decision about to be honest with my children. - agencies and individuals who are
not telling them that I am gay. I Ahead of me, no doubt, are qualified to counsel in this area
first became aware of the new problems of many kinds, as yet and are capable of dealing con-
problem when Cliff and I found unknown but not unexpected. structively within a gay context.
ourselves consciously avoiding a Ahead of me, too, lie experiences Another avenue of ministry
passing touch or a word of love of sharing insights gathered from might be through some kind of
out of fear of what the children my gay lifestyle. I would not small group activity for gay
might think. Somehow, being attempt to shape or influence my parents. Led by the pastor or
"out" is incomplete if I have to daughters in the area of their some other qualified person, this
continue to hide from my sexual preference, but I do intend would function as a cross between
children. Kids are so very to help them understand and a rap session and a consciousness-
perceptive; they pick up things accept the validity of the gay raising group. Here would be an
which most adults would never alternati ve. opportunity for gay parents to
notice. There is some evidence It is difficult to generalize share their experiences, their prob-
that they are beginning to pick up about the task and problems lems and possible solutions. It
the fact that my relationship with facing gay parents. Gay women can be quite helpful at times just
Cliff is somehow different from face difficulties, legal and to have someone to talk with who
just another friend. There have really understands the pressures
been passing comments, for and potentials of your situation.
WITH THE ASSISTANCE OF A The use of small groups need not
example, about Daddy and Cliff
sleeping in the same bed. After LOVING, CHRISTIAN FELLOW· be limited to large congregations.
much thought and discussion, SHIP, GAY PARENTS CAN Wherever there are five or six
with Cliff and with a child psy- BUILD STRONG, MUTUALLY persons who are interested in
chologist, I decided that it was BENEFICIAL RELATIONSHIPS participating, this can be an
time to tell the kids about me. effective tool of ministry.
This presented yet another I WITH THEIR CHILDREN. There are some gay parents
dilemma: how to tell them? I who are able to bring their
prepared a nice little speech about emotional, which are unique to children to church with them.
the different kinds of love and their situation. Gay men, on the Local MCC groups need to be
how two men or two women can other hand, have their own set of sensitive to the needs of the
really love each other. Two problems as they strive to fulfill children as well as their parents.
difficulties have prevented my their parental responsibilities. The Sunday school classes should be
talking with them. One is my own common denominator is that we organized, even if only one child is
fear. I am genuinely afraid of their are all striving to be the best involved. An activity of this
reaction. After finding this new possible parents to our children. nature will encourage other
closeness, it is extremely We desire to guide them around parents to bring their children
threatening to think of facing some of the pitfalls which tripped with them. A bountiful ministry
some form of rejection if this us and we want to be present to awaits us as we begin to look to
information is too much for them bind up the wounds inflicted by this neglected area.
to handle emotionally. Society has life. We all face the question of I am convinced that being a
already begun its insidious brain- whether or not to reveal ourselves parent can be as great a blessing
washing regarding "queers" and to our children. In some degree, and as much a source of joy for a
"fags." The second difficulty is most of us face some form of gay person as for a heterosexual
that my wife is equally alienation or separation from person. It is unfortunate that, as
determined that the children will them, particularly in the case of in my case, the parental
never know about their father's broken marriage. relationship for gays is generally
shameful (in her eyes) conduct. There is a growing need for involved with emotional trauma
To date this remains an impasse. ministry in this area of the gay and legal difficulties. Beyond the
Eventually I must have this community. As MCC moves to problems however, or in spite of
discussion with the girls, however meet this need, a first step will be them, with the assistance of a
painful or threatening it may be. to assess the situation at the local loving, Christian fellowship, gay
If their mother refuses to yield at level. Each pastor and worship parents can build strong, mutually
this point, then I shall have to coordinator should seek to be beneficial relationships with their
risk it all and go it alone. Whatever aware of the gay parents and gay children. This is one gay parent
happens, I strongly feel that there I family units in the congregation, who is committed to that goal.

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Here I feel it necessary to
pause and note a curious and
disturbing phenomenon almost
more prevalent in the gay sub-
culture than in straight society:
THE TOPIC I have been asked the assumption, even the dictum,
to address is bisexuality. I would that each individual must at
prefer the notion of androgynous some point in her/history, in or
sexuality, or just sexuality un- out of the closet, take a genderal-
prefexed. But I suppose "bi-sex- affection loyalty-oath. "The good
uality" is the word our current gay is the exclusive gay," say
dialect is stuck with - supposedly many, even in the congregations
occupying the undistributed of the Metropolitan Community
middle, mediating between hetero- Church; and the gay who does not
·., sexuality and homosexuality (each totally shun heterosexual relation-
I so designated as exclusive of the ships is thought not one of the
other, despite Kinsey's sliding
I scale). I would undertake
definition of "bisexuality"
a
as the
faithful but a betrayer of the
cause. Androgynous sexuality
refuses this limitation on the
human condition of experiencing potential range and depth of ways
erotic attraction to men and in which persons of both sexes can
women, or, expanding resonance, be warm, tender, loving and giving
the capacity or propensity to love to each other.
and/or desire sexual intimacy with
other persons of both genders My advocacy of bisexuality, as
(note the "both" rather than I have earlier defined it, comes out
"either") . of the context of a wider view of
Let me be specific at the start. human sexuality. In one of his
A positive concept of bisexuality sermons at MCC-Boston the Rev.
implicitly proposes, and I affirm, Jeffrey Pulling joked about my
the positive values in human life too frequent use of the expres-
of multiple and simultaneous sion, "It's Heaven!" when I like
loving relationships with a sexual something. But I take seriously
component. And I would judge the Biblical assertion that in
further that a positive concept of heaven (among those resurrected
bisexuality implicitly declines, and I !!!!!!!!!!!~~~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
projects as inferior in human
value, exclusive or sequentially THE PROJECTED AND
exclusive loving and/or sexual CULTURALL Y EXPERIENCED
relationships confined to a single ANTI-SEXUALITY OF THE
natural or conditioned gender JUDEO-CHRISTIAN TRADI-
alignment, whether heterosexual TION IS AN INTOLERABLE
or homosexual. In these terms, I
BURDEN ON, AND A PRINCI-
see bisexuality as a state of being
persistently open to the possibility PAL OBSTACLE TO, HEALTHY
of sexual relationship with AND HAPPY ENJOYMENT OF
partners of either sex, the gender THE SEXUAL ASPECT OF
of the other person being a surely PERSONHOOD AND RE-
significant factor but not an LATIONSHIP IN OUR SOCIETY.
over-riding one, perhaps more
important than age, height, weight
or hair color but, equally, perhaps
bodies) they neither marry nor are
less important than temperament,
given in marriage. Human sex-
personality and character (as well
uality seems to me a natural and
as circumstances) in determining
~UL the force and degree of attraction
to intimacy.
good thing, neither a fearful ogre
to be kept at bay by enormous

BARSTOW •
Dr. Barstow is a college teacher,
expenditure of psychic energy and
moral fortitude, no, on the other
hand, the highest and holiest
director and actor, and was a mystery of life, death and human
founding member of MCC/Boston. relationship. Rather than evil
The article was originally prepared
for the Task Force on Human
Sexuality of the Metropolitan
Community Church of Boston.

TGC: 5 March 1976/ IN UNITY 17


propensity or summum bonum, I It must be obvious that I The baneful consequences of
regard sexuality as a force and accept the notions of Marcuse and this radically limiting ideal seem
potential within creatures which Brown that the original and to me everywhere apparent. It is,
draws them powerfully towards natural condition of the human in my view, an ever-prod uctive
others with the promise of a being, still seen in infant and source of conflict, pain and loss,
pleasure bond, whether in simple , child, is what they have (per- exacerbating every grief of un-
gratification of a neural itch or in versely) called "polymorphus requited love, separation, divorce,
perverse." Sexual gratification is death - every rupture of relation-
sought instinctively, but the ways ship - and confusing and con-
in which that gratification is founding most genuine inter-
IT IS AN EVER-PRODUCTIVE achieved are learned. personal commitment. (And the
SOURCE OF CONFLICT , PAIN Our culture puts an enormous poor, merely good little relation-
AND LOSS, EXACERBATING amount of social energy into ship is most likely to be ruptured
programming for very strictly precisely because it isn't that
EVERY GRIEF OF UNRE-
regulated channels of sexual ideal. We throwaway love at the
QUITED LOVE, SEPARATION, first, fleeting glimpse of will-of-
gratification. Its projected ideal
DIVORCE, DEATH - EVERY has been for each individual the the-wisp true love.) The idol-
RUPTURE OF RELATIONSHIP discovery, in late adolescence, of ization of the model of a single,
.- AND CONFUSING AND all-sufficient love/sex relationship
CONFOUNDING MOST GENU- stigmatizes every other possibility
of relationship, homosexual or
INE INTERPERSONAL COM- IT SEEMS TO BE THAT THE heterosexual, in marriage or out-
MITMENT. MONOSEXUAL IDEAL IN side marriage, life-long or
STRAIGHT CULTURE AND ITS temporary. Most of us are taught
MIRROR IMAGE IN GAY to torture ourselves daily with
wondering where or how we went
the infinite complexities of a total CULTURE BOTH REQUIRE wrong because our lives don't
intimacy. I hope it can be assumed ROLES AND ARE IN HER- fulfill this pattern the culture sets
and understood that the wider and !ENTLY SEXIST AND DIVISIVE. before us. Social misfits and
more inclusive androgynous sex- sinners, we deny ourselves and
uality I advocate should exist or I
others both simple joys and the
come into being under an ethic of a person of the opposite sex with complex foundations of happiness
loving responsibility for the well- whom, after a chaste courtship because by some cruel quirk of
being of the other. ritual, marriage allows a sexual fate our love/sex sweepstake
If my premises about the relationship which should culmin- ticket didn't have this one right
nature of sexuality can be ate in a host of grandchildren number, or we lost or misplaced
accepted, at least for argument's surrounding the deathbed of the the ticket.
sake, I go on to posit that most of still-constant loving couple. The
the difficulties and anxieties manly man and womanly woman
which beset various expressions of are to find in each other the SEXUAL LOVE CHANNELED
human sexuality are culturally and perfect life-time partner who
societally created. The corrolary is totally fulfills every allowed sex-
ONLY TOWARD ONE SEX,
that some cultures and societies, ual need, along with most other WHICHEVER ONE, GRADU-
both historical and contemporary, needs of intimate relationship in a ALLY CONSTITUTES A
manage far better than others in society where the nuclear family is DENIAL OF WHOLE AND FULL
creating and sustaining an ethos in very nearly the sole remaining PERSONHOOD TO THE OTHER
which the sexual nature of person- source of community. Now I
hood functions as an enhancement
GENDER, JUST AS IT DENIES
emphasize this tyrannous ideal
of human happiness and well- (and recognize that some people FULL PERSONHOOD TO THE
being. I further posit that the achieve it and are blissfully SELF BY TRUNCATING ITS
projected and culturally experi- contented by it - bless their POSSIBILITIES OF AFFEC-
enced anti-sexuality of the Judeo- hearts) because in our culture TIONAL RESPONSE.
Christian tradition is an in- every other possibility of human
tolerable burden on, and a sexual relationship is traditionally
principal obstacle to, healthy and valued in terms of its approach to It seems to me that the
happy enjoyment of the sexual this model. For a single example, monosexual ideal in straight
aspect of personhood and re- somewhat distant on the spec- culture and its mirror image in gay
lationship in our society today. It trum, conservative elements in the culture both require roles and are
is this general problem to which gay community hope for accept- inherently sexist and divisive. Jane
the MCC-Boston task-force on ance of homosexual marriage by and John, Jane and Jane or John
human sexuality is addressing its the society because, except for the and John are necessarily fulfilling
sessions. And with this prefatory never-engendered children and role concepts in themselves and
over-all view of the context, I grandchildren, the same image of each other. The projected idea of
return to the topic of bi-sexuality fidelity till death is hopefully put the perfect match/mate dictates
or androgynous sexuality. forward for approval. that each individual attempt to

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possess, and attempt to project, I mutual fulfillment. I entirely agree proper use of the organs and
role alignment in both sexual and with Marc Fasteau that there is orifices is satisfying to unite these
I non-sexual aspects of relationship. "no logical stopping point in the persons rather than themselves. If
Successive possible interactions progression from social intimacy what is sought and confirmed is
with other people of either to physical affection to sex." a relationship of whole persons,
sex, however happy, comfortable,
supportive
rejected
or fulfilling,
or deliberately
poverished because they do not
conform to this soi disant ultimate
ideal. Anyone who has loved or
been loved in this bondage must, I
are
im-
I see the possibility of an emerging
culture in which the idolatry of
sexuality is replaced by the
humane consideration
channel of affirmation
whole
partner,
personhood
an extension
of sex as a
of the
of each
to the
I~--~~--
the nature of body alignment is
the means not the end. And let me

THE IDOLIZATION OF THE


MODEL OF A SINGLE, ALL·
SUFFICIENT LOVE/SEX RE·
suppose, be conscious of the bodies we inhabit of the concern LATIONSHIP STIGMATIZES
awesome total responsibility for and caring, the warmth and EVERY OTHER POSSIBILITY
another's sexual happiness tenderness, the encounter with
projected and/ or accepted in it.
OF RELATIONSHIP ...
and exploration of each other, and
And so people try to play out the mutual, joyful self-giving
each other's fantasies while which characterize both love and add that in speaking of sexual
preserving their own wistful friendship when they are most relationship (bi- or mono-) I am
dreams. like each other. concerned with far more - or
These role limitations of I am persuaded that this should I say often less? - than
monosexuality are accepted openness to sexual intimacy genital interlock, of whatever sort.
conditioning at best, neurotic or should extend to both genders as a The ethics of the conduct of
psychotic at worst, but seldom natural bridge between our bi-sexual or multiple relationships
I correspondent to the reality of separateness and the constricting is another subject for another
separate persons honestly re- roles which have so consistently article. For example: asked if, in
sponding to their own and the created hostilities, fears and the context of an I-Thou relation-
other's real and intricately varied anxieties. At the ends of all those ship, I encounter a person/lover
needs and desires under particular idolatrized appendages and whose concept of fidelity differs
circumstances and at specific aperatures are persons - the from mine in terms of exclusive-
times. And if they actually do so,
once even an approximation of
the ideal match/mate relationship
. has been found or pretended,
the demon of jealousy is sum-
moned as a proof of love. To (From) EPIPSYCHIDION
possess the beloved entirely and
exclusively is the goal set and I never was attached to that great sect,
applauded. The culture exalts Whose doctrine is, that each one should select
jealousy - the fear, the humili- Out of the crowd a mistress or a friend,
ation, the degredation and the And all the rest, though fair and wise, commend
double or triple hatred (of self, To cold oblivion, though it is in the code
rival and love-object) - this Of modern morals, and the beaten road
sickening emotion triggered by the Which those poor slaves with weary footsteps tread,
frustration of the desire for total Who travel to their home among the dead
and exclusive possession is made a By the broad highway of the world, and so
yardstick by which to measure With one chained friend, perhaps a jealous foe,
love. Here, perhaps more than The dreariest and the longest journey go.
anywhere else, I see the violation
, of love's most genuine imperative True love in this differs from gold and clay,
- the preference and pursuit of That to divide is not to take away.
the good of the beloved above Love is like understanding, that grows bright,
1 one's own. Gazing on many truths ... Narrow
N ow' if my stance is over- The heart that loves, the brain that contemplates,
against all this programming, The life that wears, the spirit that creates
idealization, role-playing and One object, and one form, and builds thereby
jealous possessiveness, what am I A sepulchre for its eternity.
standing for? I suppose I am an
advocate of openness to loving -Percy By sshe Shelley
relationship (including sex) when-
ever it is appropriate to the
situations, needs and desires of the
persons involved - productive of,
or contributing to, their well-
I heing, their happiness and their
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ness, "What would you do?", I in an assumed context of dimensionality of possible
can only reply, "Weigh the I situational ethics. relationship at the deepest levels
possibility of changing my 'set' or Manifestly, such views as mine of selfhood.
genuinely convincing the other come out of experience as well as So I project a glimpsed vision
person to change her/his 'set,' or reflection on that experience and of that heaven where we love each
else avoid involvement to the hurt on the report of others. I have other, male, female and
of the other. I suppose one tries to been persuaded by my own androgynous and share the gift
give off clear signals or return experience that sexual love and giving of our whole selves.
honest answers, taking responsi- channeled only toward one sex, And here and now I hope for a
bility for oneself and others in whichever one, gradually con- new community of persons who
appropriate balance." I would stitutes a denial of whole and full are loving and ready to love others
invite another to embrace my personhood to the other gender, whose loveliness is manifest to
viewpoint before embracing me . just as it denies full personhood to them. That loveliness is neither
But I have no desire to impose my the self by truncating its possibil- of the body (however beautifully
perspective, though, by the same ities of affectional response. I male or female), nor of the mind
token, I reject the imposition of regard sexuality as a marvelous (however brilliantly masculine or
another perspective on me. In agency for the knowledge of feminine), nor of the soul
adopting a principle we must ourselves and others, as well as for (however nobly manly or
accept the consequences of its the caring/sharing experience of womanly), nor of any other single
acting-out. What I am fundamen- genuine love in the infinite variety portion or aspect of the other self,
tally asserting is the positive of its manifestations. To preclude but of the whole person, and such
legitimacy of bi-sexuality (and its or deny the possibility of a sexual persons cannot only love their
concomitant of multiple and non- manifestation of affection for lovers but, thank HEAVEN, can
possessive/exclusive relationships) another person is to limit the full want them to love each other.

I SEE THE POSSIBILITY OF AN EMERGING CULTURE IN WHICH THE IDOLATRY OF SEXUALITY IS


REPLACED BY THE HUMANE CONSIDERATION OF SEX AS A CHANNEL OF AFFIRMATION OF THE
WHOLE PERSONHOOD OF EACH PARTNER, AN EXTENSION TO THE BODIES WE INHABIT, OF THE
CONCERN AND CARING, THE WARMTH AND TENDERNESS, THE ENCOUNTER WITH AND EXPLORA-
TION OF EACH OTHER, AND THE MUTUAL, JOYFUL SELF-GIVING WHICH CHARACTERIZE BOTH LOVE
AND FRIENDSHIP WHEN THEY ARE MOST LIKE EACH OTHER.

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CRITI01L REFLECTIONS ON JA~ES
H. CONE'S BlACK THEOLOGY
~ON\A Q1Y PERSPECTI\JE
by HOVlARD R WEllS
MY INITIAL exposure to utterly rejecting his own bona fellows, regardless whether they
Black Theology occurred while I fides and affirming, uncon- are black or gay. Perhaps more
was in route, by car, from New ditionally, the humanity and importantly, this juxposition of
York to Miami to attend the 1972 "right to be" of the oppressed. words enabled me to recognize
National Democratic Convention. For Cone, that means that important bonds of commonality
Being deeply involved in the gay " ... white people must be prepared between gays and blacks that I
religious movement, I had to deny themselves (whiteness), had never imagined.
suspected that black people's take up the cross (blackness) and In view of my complete
struggle for personhood had some- follow Christ (black ghetto )... To agreement with Cone's basic the-
thing essential to say to gay be black means that your heart, ological perspective, I was
people as the latter started on that your soul, your mind and your confronted with a paradox - I
long road. So, prior to the trip, I body are where the dispossessed found myself being an oppressor
picked up some reading material are."l God's liberating power has and one who is oppressed, not just
on Black Power, including James broken into human history by straights, but ironically by
H. Cone's Black Theology and through the Christ Event; the straights, some who are also black!
Black Power and A Black Theo- decisive victory over those princi- I wondered whether I could
logy of Liberation. By the time palities and powers that oppress legitimately reflect on or criticize
I I had reached Miami, I had practi- human beings has been won, and Black Theology since I have white
cally devoured Cone's books and it is only a matter of time before skin and therefore am an inheritor
hardly touched the others. His those who hold tight the chains of an oppressor's tradition. That
theological approach to oppres- of enslavement realize that they dilemma led me to consider how I
sion affected me profoundly. It have already lost the battle and define myself, i.e., who I am. I
made explicit my own emerging must let go. finally concluded that I regard
feelings and thoughts regarding Because salvation through the myself, first and foremost, as a
the nature of oppression; it clearly Christ Event belongs exclusively gay person. My value system and
defined the place of the Christian to the oppressed, the oppressor is perception of reality arise out of
gospel in the act of human liber- in no position to say anything that aspect of my being. In fact, I
ation; it gave me, for the first iritelligent or accurate about the affirm my identity and "right to
time, an exciting sense of com- Christian faith, or specifically, be" by affirming my gayness.
radeship with other oppressed about Black Theology, for the Even Cone notes that in an
people, and it offered me very latter is essentially a response oppressor-oppressed situation, the
helpful insights into the dynamics through thought and action by the only way that the latter can
of social struggle. liberated community of faith to maintain a sense of integrity and
I agree completely with Cone's the question, "What does the authentic identity is to "affirm
basic thesis that Christianity can gospel of Jesus Christ have to say the very characteristic which the
legitimately be the faith of only to black people who are struggling oppressor ridicules,,,2 which for
the oppressed. The divine to survive in a white racist society Cone is blackness.
liberating act reflected in the that denies their claim to person- The essence of theology is
Christ Event is a legacy that hood?" Jesus Christ. The sources of
belongs exclusively to those who I find it interesting that I theology, i.e., the "stuff" out of
suffer the bonds of enslavement. initially responded to Black The- which that essence is created in
At best, the oppressor can hear ology not so much as a judgment the lives of human beings is very
divine judgment against his sinful- against my white skin but as a often "the very stone which was
ue and the call to repentence by proclamation of my "right to be" rejected by the builder but which
as a gay person. In numerous has become the head of the
Howard Wells is minister of places in Cone's books, I mentally corner.,,3 For blacks, the stone
_' e ropolitan Community Church, struck out the word "black" and that was rejected by the world is
ookl n Heights. He is a student replaced it with the word "gay" the color of their skin, but it is
_ F ion Theological Seminary, and I heard the same message - through their blackness that they
_ie Fork, and a previous editor God did not create human beings find Jesus Christ and consequently
:- E GA Y CHRISTIAN. in order to be enslaved by their their human identity. Likewise,

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my gayness was the "stuff" out of experience. Divine Judgment and Right-
which Jesus Christ was created in In preparation for consider- eousness in Black Theology
my life, and like blacks, it is that ation of the above charges, it is
divine workmanship in my life by beneficial to review Cone's Cone notes that God's judg-
which I define who I am. thoughts on eschatology, recon- ment is the unveiling of His
Therefore, because I am ciliation and divine Judgment and righteousness in history, where the
oppressed on the basis of an righteousness. righteousness of God is His power
essential element of my humanity, to achieve victory for the op-
and because one of the sources of Black Eschatology pressed; God reveals Himself by
Black Theology is the black what He does in history, and
experience which has elements of Cone regards an eschatology according to Cone, " ... what He
homophobia in it, I can legiti- that is faithful to the Christ Event does is always identical with the
mately embrace Black Theology as to be one in which the promise of liberation of the poor from the
speaking to my experience of God's liberation of the oppressed injustice of the strong."? Thus
oppression on one hand, and on is brought to fruition. The heaven in Black Theology is an
the other, criticize Black Theology oppressed participate in God's expression of black hope in the
where I recognize oppressive ele- work to bring His kingdom to full power of God's righteousness
ments in it that deny my "right to realization by comparing the as it has been promised to be
be" as a gay person. absurdity of the present - enslave- revealed in the future. Divine
But I must always question ment of the weak and poor - to judgment is necessarily related to
the real motivation of my criti- the promise of the future - eschatology since "Christ himself
cisms of Black Theology. Am I liberation from oppression, and on will come to judge both the living
speaking as a white oppressor to the basis of that inconsistency say and the dead, and all men will
blacks or as a gay person to blacks "N o!" to the tyranny of the stand before his judgment seat.,,8
- who are simultaneously world's principalities and powers. Black Theology emphasizes
comrades - in oppression and Cone notes that" ... no eschatol- that the oppressed have no reason
my oppressors? ogical perspective is sufficient to fear divine judgment as they are
The reality of human beings which does not challenge the the sole inheritors of the salvation
simultaneously being oppressors won on the Cross.
and oppressed is not taken into
consideration in Cone's theology. EVERY HUMAN BEING IS Reconciliation in Black Theology
I regard this omission as a critical MARKED WITH THE SIN STAIN
shortcoming. I hope to show how OF BEING AN OPPRESSOR. Cone speaks of black-white
this omission has seriously THERE EXISTS NO OPPRESSED reconciliation at any significant
compromised the integrity of his PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT length only in Black Theology and
theological perspective: Black Power and he is very pessi-
OPPRESSORS ALSO.
(1) It leads to an inadequate mistic about its immediate possi-
eschatology in Cone's the- bility. He correctly notes that
ology; present order. If contemplation when whites speak of reconcil-
(2) It establishes an inflated about the future distorts the iation, they are usually assuming
identification with God's present reality of injustice and that they will dictate the terms of
liberating act in Jesus reconciles the oppressed to unjust that "new" relationship. Cone
Christ; treatment committed against dismisses such assumptions as
(3) It excludes black people them, then it is unchristian and presumptuous and highly oppres-
from divine judgment, thus has nothing whatever to do sive. Black people are not free
thereby denying them with him who came to liberate us if that means permission to buy
their humanity, (blacksj.t'" Thus the eschatol- into the white power structure,
(4) It denies divine reconcili- ogical emphasis of Black Theology e.g., integration into white-ruled
ation and reconciliation affirms that the oppressed cannot racist America. Reconciliation is a
among human beings an reconcile themselves to the possibility only " ... when white
adequate place in Black tyranny of the present, e.g., people are prepared to address
Theology, racism, that contradicts the black men as black men and
(5) It leads to a false sense of promise of the Christ Event. Cone not as some grease-painted form
liberation and instead states that " ... this is the key to of white humanity. Black Theol-
represents or calls for Black Theology. It refuses to ogy will not respond positively to
merely a redistribution of embrace any concept of God whites who insist on making
the existing power struc- which makes black suffering the blacks as white as possible by
ture without radically will of God ...with a black perspec- de-emphasizing their blackness
changing or transforming tive, eschatology comes to mean and stressing the irrelevance of
its oppressive nature, and joining the world and making it color while really living as racists.
(6) It rightfully exposes what it ought to be."5 Black As long as whites live like white
Cone's theology to the eschatology also means affirm- people (through marriage, schools,
charge that it advocates a ation of life for the oppressed neighborhoods, power, etc.) black
religion of blackness rather after death, i.e., to affirm that people must use blackness as the
than a legitimate focusing those who die striving for freedom sole criterion for dialogue. Other-
of the Gospel on the black have not died in vain. wise reconciliation will mean

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black people living according to the Final Truth, i.e., the Word say "No" to black values, i.e.,
white rules and glorifying white proclaimed in the Christ Event, brin~ black people under divine
values, being orderly and calm because the black word emerges judgment. If this is not done, the
while others enact laws which will from the hearts and souls of black black value system - no matter
destroy them."? Biblical reconcil- human beings who are not only how noble or righteous its origins
iation means that due to the promised liberation, but who are might be - will become demonic.
Christ Event, black people can also subject to divine judgment for As Paul Tillich correctly pointed
now be what they were meant to their oppression of others, e.g., out, when the finite claims to be
be - creatures made for fellow- gay people. Simply stated, black infinite, i.e., stands outside of the
ship with God. And divine recon- people are complete, full human possibility of coming under divine
ciliation between God and beings, and therefore they are judgment, then it constitutes
humankind can be reflected in subject to sin and error just like a form of idolatry and inevitably
black-white reconciliation only other human beings. So when results in "existential disap-
when whites renounce their black artist Larry Neal asks, pointment." 15
whiteness and seek to identify "What is truth? Or more precisely, Cone's failure to include in his
themselves completely with whose truth shall we express, that theology a place for divine judg-
" ...those whom God has chosen. of the oppressed or of the op- ment directed toward black
God has chosen black people."10 pressors?",12 the black Christian people is also reflected in his
Now, I agree with Cone's must in honesty reply, "The only inadequate eschatology. He is
contention that only the op- truth I can express is the black eloquent in his description of
pressed are the inheritors of the truth, and to the extent that the what black people are to be
Christian promise of salvation, but black truth is the truth of the liberated from, but he fails to
who are these wholly "Oppressed oppressed, it is God's Truth - the explore what they are to be
Ones"? Every human being is Final Truth." liberated for.
marked with the sin stain of One needs to review salvation
being an oppressor, because we all history in order to appreciate its
carry the onus of original sin; this affirmative nature. Yahweh did
sin stain in the black community CONE IS ELIMINATING THE not just liberate the children of
is manifested, among other ways, MOST IMPORTANT ELEMENT Israel from Egyptian bondage
in the form of gay oppression. OF SALVATION HISTORY - because He felt sorry for them;
There exists no oppressed person rather, He liberated them for the
or people who are not oppressors RECONCILIATION, AND
purpose of being a light to all the
also. THEREFORE HE IS COURTING
nations, i.e., Israel's chosenness
One will search Cone's theol- A FALSE SENSE OF LIBER- was to be the servant of God's
ogy in vain for his response to the ATION THAT IS NOTHING wide-ranging historical purpose of
problem of blacks simultaneously MORE THAN ... A SHIFTING OF redemption and reconciliation.
being oppressed and oppressors. Salvation for a greater purpose
THE PECKING ORDER OF
Instead, he directs God's judgment than just relief from bondage was
solely against "whiteness." In OPPRESSION.
made even more explicit in the
doing so, Cone is effecting a great Christ Event; namely, we in the
disservice to black people; he is in community of faith are saved
effect denying that they are from the tyranny of sin in order
human beings, for only animals Cone asserts that in order to that we might proclaim God's
and God stand outside of divine escape the bonds of white racist reconciling and redeeming love to
judgment, and he leads blacks into oppression, it is necessary for " ...all nations, baptizing them in
an unrealistic, inflated identi- black people to carve out new the name of the Father and of the
fication with God's liberating act values that are independent of Son and of the Holy Spirit,
in Jesus Christ. white "Christian" values.13 This teaching them to observe all that I
By excluding black people assertion is certainly in line (Jesus Christ) have commanded
from the possibility of being with the biblical admonition to you ..." 16 Thus, divine liberation
oppressors and thus exempt from "Envy thou not the oppressor and is always for a purpose, and the
divine judgment, Cone risks falling choose none of his ways." 14 But central theme in all manifestations
prey to his own statement that the carving out of new values is to of salvation history is that those
" ...only oppressors can turn in run the risk of establishing black who are liberated are called to
upon themselves and worship "Christian" values in their place serve as agents of reconciliation
their own projected image and which will also be oppressive since between God and humankind.
define it as God." 11 such values will necessarily arise Nowhere in Scripture is this more
The basic crime of racism is out of the black experience which clearly stated than in Paul's
that it has denied black people the is tainted with homophobic Second Letter to the Corinthians:
right to speak their word - their elements. In order to avoid "All this (salvation) is from God,
truth - a truth that is surely more substituting one oppressive value who through Christ reconciled us
aligned with the spirit of the system for another, it is essential to himself and gave us the min-
Christian gospel than can be heard that Black Theology avoid the istry of reconciliation; that is, in
in the utterances from white critical error of white values by Christ God was reconciling the
pulpits. But the black truth is not including in itself God's right to world to himself, not counting

TGC: 11 March 1976/ IN UNITY 39


their trespasses against them, and proven themselves unwilling and who go to bed with people of
entrusting to us the message of unable to eradicate racism from their own sex: "If integration
reconciliation. So we are ambas- their value perspectives, black means that each man meets the'
sadors for Christ, God making his people must do it for them, even other on equal footing, with
appeal through us. We beseech if it means engaging in physical neither possessing the ability to
you on behalf of Christ, be violence. As patients do not assert the rightness of his style
reconciled to God .,,1 7 prescribe the method of treatment over the other, then mutual
In simply calling for liberation to their physicians, whites are in meaningful dialogue is possi-
from oppression, Cone is elim- no position to set the terms of ble."22 Cone also notes that
inating the most important ele- black eradication of white racism. divine reconciliation is not merely
ment from salvation history - If whites want to participate a compromise of two warring
reconciliation, and therefore he is in this purging process, Cone polarities but something com-
courting a false sense of liberation demands that they" ... keep silent pletely new: "Men were not
that is nothing more than a and take instructions from black created for separation, and color is
redistribution of the existing people."20 But where does divine not the essence of man's human-
power structure, a redistribution judgment of black people enter ity."23 Perhaps this is as close as
that does not essentially change or into this scene? As blacks put a Cone wants to move toward the
transform the oppressive nature of gun against the head of the white notion of divine judgment of
that structure. The only thing that oppressor, knowing that they are black people, the black experience
is new is a shifting of the pecking indeed justified in pulling the and black values. Yet the
order of oppression. trigger, they should notice the gun need still exists for Black Theol-
righteously aimed at their own ogy to overcome the tempting lure
Despite Cone's assertion that heads by gay people. And so on of inflated identification with
" ... Black Theology takes seriously down the line until at the end, one diety. If it cannot do that in the
God's reconciling act in Jesus finds a divine gun aimed at all context of black-white reconcili-
Christ ... among other things, this mankind. But one also finds a God ation at this time, perhaps a more
means that the wall of hostility is whose hand of wrath is stayed appropriate starting place would
broken down between blacks and because He does love all people. be to constructively deal with its
whites, making color irrelevant to How then are we who call own homophobia.
man's essential nature ... ," one ourselves Christian to live out this
understandably wonders if Cone is new relationship with God in an 1Cone, James H. Black Theology and
serious. Indeed, one must ask oppressor-oppressed environment? Black Power. New York: The
Are we to refrain from efforts to Seabury Press. 1969. pp. 150-151.
of Cone, "On whose terms is Unfortunately, Cone is guilty of
reconciliation to be effected?" As free ourselves from our oppressors blurring the distinction between the
long as he shuns the reality of for fear that what we do to our literal and symbolic meaning of the
II blacks being subject to sin and oppressors will be done to us by word "blackness" as will be shown
those who we oppress? Quite the in this paper.
error and thus coming under
contrary, the Christian gospel 2BTBP' p. 18
divine judgment, Cone must an-
demands that we be even more 3Acts 4: 11, RSV
swer, "On black terms," since,
aggressive in facing our oppressors 4Cone, James H. A Black Theology of
as noted above, "God has chosen . Liberation. Philadelphia: J. B.
black people!,,18 In fact, Cone head on and declare, "I'm not
Lippincott Company. 1970. p. 240.
makes quite explicit blacks' exclu- going to take any more of your
5BTBP, pp. 124-126.
sive claim on God's liberating shit! ," knowing that in doing so, 6BTL, p. 248.
power: "We (blacks) will not we are forcing our oppressor to
7Cone, James H. The Spirituals and the
accept a God who is on every- relate to us as a "Thou" rather Blues: An Interpretation. New
body's side - which means that he than an "It" and thereby partici- York: The Seabury Press. 1972.
loves everybody in spite of who pating in the effort to bring about p.102.
they are, and is working (through the full realization of the kingdom 8Matthew 5:31, RSV
the acceptable channels of society, of God. 9BTBP, pp. 147-148.
But in the course of affirming 10BTBP, p. 151.
of course) to reconcile all people
to himself." 19 our humanity by confronting our 11BTL, p. 234.
So the question remains - oppressors, we must simulta- 12BTBP, p. 132.
what are black people being neously recognize that we are 13BTBP, p. 127.
liberated for? We can only be sure under conviction for our own role 14Proverbs 3:31, KJV
that whatever the reason for their as oppressors. 15Tillich, Paul. Dynamics of Faith.
James Cone's Black Theology New York: Harper Torchbooks.
being a part of salvation history, 1957. pp. 11-12.
its final goal is reconciliation - is important because it correctly
l?Matthew 28:19b-20a, RSV
reconciliation on God's terms and emphasizes the need for a well-
1711Corinthians 5:18-20, RSV
God's alone. defined diachotomy to exist
18Note 10
Cone is correct in affirming before meaningful reconciliation
19BTL, p. 131.
that black people have every right can take place; each polarity has a
20BTL, p. 119.
to kill "the white thing" by any right to stand on its own integrity,
2111Corinthians5:21, RSV
means necessary. There is no e.g., black people are not white
22BTBP, p. 17.
redeeming quality in white racism, people with black skins, and gay
23BTBP, p. 17.
and since white people have people are not straight people

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TilE Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches

March 1976
CELLIIIATE
grow as Christians."
Michigan Officials Recognize Heather takes several members of
the Detroit congregation with her to
Pastor Heather Anderson visit the prisoners.
undergoing
They have been
an intensive training pro-

As Chaplain At State Prison gram. Heather discusses with them the


material of Handbook of Prison
Ministry as they prepare themselves for
effective prison ministry.
The Rev. Heather Anderson, MCC inside, recognized as a professional "It now looks good to have worship
Chaplain of the Michigan State Prison at minister. services for the prisoners without going
Jackson, has been recognized by prison Heather had sent the prison offi- to court," Heather conjectured. If it
and state corrections officials as a cials a copy of the decision of the does have to go to court, a friendly
chaplain for the institution. federal court in California, stating that attorney has agreed to represent MCC at
This major breakthrough at the MCC is a bona fide church and that no cost to the church.
world's largest walled prison was joyous denial of prisoners' requests for the "Please pra y for this ministry,"
news for Rev. Anderson and the 35 services of this church is a serious Heather pleaded. "Please pray for those
prisoners who call themselves her abridgement of their constitutional who are jeopardizing their parole and
congregation. Hopefully it means an end rights. The caution and careful checking suffering harrassment so that they and
to long waiting (as long as two hours) of the prison officials is understandable others can have the full gospel, all the
for visitor's passes for Heather, and an in view of the number of spurious Good News, of Jesus."
end to detention, threats, and other outfits which would pawn themselves Rev. Mickley, commented, "Of
harrassment for the prisoners who have off as churches for tax benefits and course, we are very thankful that MCC
boldly chosen to identify themselves other personal gain. "It is to their credit ministry is available for our brothers in
with MCC ministry. that they recognized the seriousness Jackson. I think this goes to show that
Rev. Anderson, also co-pastor of and sincerity of the ministry of MCC," there are urgent needs all over this
MCC Detroit, has been visiting prisoners said Rev. Bud Bunce, National Chief of country. And the right person, em-
at Jackson, one to one, in the visiting Chaplains. powered by the Holy Spirit, can get the
room, for several months. For some prisoners, this has been a job done. Heather was ready and willing
Rev. Anderson forwarded signed real test of their faith. The long-termers and hard working. God is using her .•
statements from 35 prisoners to prison are impressed by the risks being taken
officials. She sent xerox copies to the by short termers in their behalf. One
State Director of Corrections. She sent prisoner writes up a report of the dis-
copies of all correspondence to the cussions each week and shares it with all
governor and interested legislators. those who are not able to see Heather in
The next thing she heard was the the one to one discussions. Recently the
the warden's office advised her they warden's office called him in and asked
would study homosexuality, "re- him, "By what authority do you evan-
searching" its causes, etc, etc. Heather gelize for this religion?" Without
was not to be put off by such delaying hesitation, the answer came back, "By
tactics. "Those prisoners are serious authority of Jesus Christ."
about being Christians," Heather said. It all started with Ken Brown.
"They want to know the Lord. Some Some months ago, Ken, a prisoner at
have serious problems they want to talk Jackson, wrote Rev. Dick Mickley,
over. They should not be denied this National Administrator of the Prison
right. " Ministry, telling him of the sincere
Finally, toward the end of Feb- interest of the Jackson prisoners and
ruary, the warden's office agreed, after their urgent need to have MCC ministry.
being contacted by the office of the He immediately put them in touch
state Director of Corrections, to recog- with Reverends Wilson and Anderson,
nize Rev. Anderson as a chaplain. This co-pastors of MCC Detroit, some 75
means she can go inside the walls. No miles from Jackson.
more counseling in the visiting room "Ken Brown is the leader," asserts
where it is practically impossible to pray Heather, "and a beautiful person. He's Rev. Heather Anderson strolls with Rev.
with the prisoners. She now can work dynamite. And sincere. They all want to Arthur Green.

March 1976/ IN UNITY 41


The criminal justice task force
Consciousness Criminal focused considerable attention on
strategy to defeat the bill at its two day
and Justice meeting in New York City, January
26-27. It was my privilege to represent

Conscience Task the Board of Institutional Ministry and


the Fellowship at this meeting. Rev.
Joseph Gilbert, a member of the three
by Mary Lee Krueger Force person Board of Institutional
is a permanent member of the Task
Ministry,

I had no idea what I was getting


Seeks Force and will represent the Fellowship
myself into by going to the Prison at the next meeting, April 6-7 in New
Ministry Workshop conference January York.
9-11. The conference hosted by MCC to The task force, a sub group of the
Joint Strategy and Action Committee
Indy, Indianapolis, of the Prison Min-
istry of UFMCC Great Lakes District
was under the direction of Norm
Destroy (JSAC), is composed of national staff
members and other delegates from
many of the major denominations

5-1
Flowers Area Representative for the
Great Lakes District, and Bud Bunce, represented. These include: American
Chief of Chaplains. Baptist, Episcopal, Roman Catholic,
My only previous contact with United Presbyterian Church, Presby-
Prison Ministry was hearing about it by Dick Mickley terian Church (USA), United Church of
from the pulpit during announcements. Christ, American Friends, Lutheran
But by Saturday night of the A major thrust of the Inter-religious Church in America, Church of the
conference, what Prison Ministry means, Task Force on Criminal Justice is the Brethren, Unitarian-Universalist, as well
hit me full force. I found myself coming total defeat of the 753 page rewrite of as MCC.
to a new consciousness of what it means the U.S. criminal code, Senate Bill A resolution was passed outlining
to be imprisoned. (S-1) now being considered by the the thrust of the Task Force's testimony
Senate Juciciary Committee. before hearings of the Senate and House
The repressive provisions of this bill committees studying the bill.
would be a great set back to civil The task force is joining in the
liberties and in the opinion of some effort to inform the public of the
experts would kill the Bill of Rights dreadful implications of the bill for
even in this bicentennial year of American civil liberties. Spokespersons
American freedom. for the ACLU have commented that
there is a very real possibility that this
bill will be passed unless citizens of
America are educated about its conse-
and deserve a chance now to learn of quences and scream their opposition.
their own self worth and some sort of Its provisions are reminiscent of the
self respect. There are people in prison Nixon and McCarthy eras and would set
needing and deserving ministry. They the stage for a virtual police state.
are an oppressed people, a people Nixon-type government secrecy and
broken. immunity are sanctioned along with
Were we not broken? entrapment activities, longer prison
Did not MCC (for the first time for sentences, prejudicial treatment of
many of us) give us a chance to become Native Americans (Indians), etc.
whole? Are we not called out of our- Readers of this magazine are urged
There are people - real people - selves to minister to these people; to to be leaders in the outcry against this
with names, lives, personalities, dreams share with them the very chance we bill.
in prisons across the country; some have had: to become whole? In other action, the Task Force
been there 30 years and more, living in I suggest you attend the Prison continued its study of strategy for the
artificial situations; living in fear of their Ministry workshops planned here and at delay (moratorium) of prison con-
lives at times; often, kept in extra years other MCC churches around the struction. Testimony of Task Force
because of a homosexual orientation. country. Seek to discover what you can members before Congress last year
People caged in tiny cells, people who do, either, directly involved with helped in stopping millions of dollars
never see or hear from the outside world prisoners or on fund-raising activities. worth of federal prison construction.
during their prison stay. Find out what Prison Ministry is "The more prisons, the more prisoners
So it hit me and it began to eat at really about. Find out what is happen- needed to fill them." This slogan is so
me, "Why should I be out walking ing to our brothers and sisters across the close to what happens and so alien to
around free, and not be involved in country who are incarcerated. the spirit of criminal justice that the
ministry to these people in prison. Attend workshops offered to you Task Force has focused much of its
People desparate for just a little human and raise your level of consciousness considerable power on the efforts for
contact. People needing someone to about this group of oppressed people. moratorium in prison construction.
care about them. People deserving But do find out for yourself. The Task Force studied its strategy
to be treated as humans, as other Because, and I repeat: No one is free in the Attica and Kent State situations
brothers and sisters, not as non- until everyone is free. - and heard a plea from Russell Means
persons! " concerning the plight of American
Some are imprisoned simply (Reprinted from The Shepherd's Staff, Indians, trying to obtain justice in
because they are gay. There are people Good Shepherd Parish, MCC Chicago, courts which are "railroads to prison."
who long ago paid their debt to society February 1976.) He cited one jail in Rapid City, SD,

42 IN UNITY / March 1976


which on a typical day has 84 inmates:
Money is also of importance, but it is
82 Indians, 2 blacks, and little hope for
justice.
I found it very eye-opening to be
GOD not enough. It also takes time. "But I
just don't have time." And they have a
associated with national strategy
makers. I was pleased that people of the
NEEDS lot of excuses to prove it.
Well I sincerely wonder
anyone who hasn't got time for God
how
caliber of these people are concerned
enough about the people of America YOU and the Lord's work can expect God to
have time for them. But that is an
and their freedom that they would give
underestimation of our God. Even
tremendous amounts of their time, by Norm Flowers though we neglect God, God never
talent, and money for the furtherance neglects us.
of these causes. "If you have not done it unto the least However, God is in need of a lot
I was glad to become better in- of these, my brethren, you have not more people to get involved. For
formed about these and other matters done it unto me. " example, the Prison Ministry of MCC
pertaining to criminal justice. I could
has a very effective program developed
not help but be aware that many of the The Universal Fellowship has a and not enough people to set it in
people I was representing there happen heritage that it can well be proud of. motion. Across the nation a dedicated
.o be members of a minority very often From its very founding by Rev. Troy few are trying to meet the needs of
/ictims of the so-called criminal Perry to this very day, UFMCC has thousands of prisoners who have turned
"justice" system in som of today's most made great strides as a Christian Church, to MCC, and many are lucky if they
blatant situations of harassment, per- overcoming impossible obstacles on even get an answer to their letter. If you
secution, unjust prosecution, and help- sometimes nothing more than pure were involved in the Prison Ministry,
less deprivation of civil liberties. I made blind faith. you would be able to write a lettter to a
a resolution to keep better informed of Yet too often we are content with prisoner in the same amount of time
matters pertaining to criminal justice boasting of the past. We stand in the tha t it has taken you to read this article,
and to encourage my brothers and present applauding the past until the and thus make life a little more bearable
sisters to take an interest in these future becomes the present and is lost in for someone else.
matters which are so vital to the free- the same way. You can tell me of all your com-
doms we would all like to enjoy. In any church, including MCC, it is mitments, of all your financial contrib-
I was welcomed with courtesy a an always a certain few who do all the utions, and of how you just don't have
equal member of the Task Force. Many work while the spectators boast about time. But it is not to me or anyone else
of the Task Force members poke to me it. Usually it is the same few who serve to whom you have to explain. Tell your
during breaks about the work and on the committees, answer the phones, God. Tell God why you can't get
ministry of MCC. It wa encouraging to assist with publications, do the wit- involved. Tell God why you can't write
receive the encouragement of the e men nessing, help the office staff, and in a prisoner. Tell God of your great
and women, many of whom have high general make MCC what it is today. works. Then let God speak to you. You
positions in their denominations. I Some will say to this, "But I give a may find that you can add to both your
thank God for the open minded, lot of money to the Church." Good! commitment and your blessings. _
justice-minded people who have opened
their meetings and hearts to MCC.

FAITH IN ACTION
**Becky Lema has recently
appointed Area Representative
been
in the
Stockton, CA area. Becky is presently
corresponding with prisoners in Vaca-
ville and Atascadaro. She has worked
** Harlan Jacks is the new Area
Representative for the Dallas area. He
with inmates at the Sacramento County has worked closely with Steve Childers
Jail and she expects to be working in the past and maintains a solid pen pal
soon for the Parole Division of the ministry to prisoners. The CELLMATE
California Youth Authority. _ was also informed that Fr. Hoolihan and
the Regional Director of the Federal
Department of Corrections, Mr. Hewes,

** Sheldon Haight, Area Represent-


ative in the Seattle area, reports that the
have recommended to the Legal Depart-
ment that MCC be allowed into the
institutions and they expect a March
foundation is being laid for MCC first decision. Rev. James Harris, Chap-
Worship Services and gay rap groups lain of the Segoville prison, recently met
inside the McNeil Island Federal Peni- with the Texas State Chief of Chaplains
tentiary. They are also involved in to discuss MCC ministry. Steve Childers
bringing the Prison Ministry to the gay has recently moved out of state and we
community at Washington State Prison hope to hear more from him soon.
by a Self Awareness Program and are
attempting every possible effort to
extend the ministry to women pris-
oners. The CELLMATE has also learned
that Jerry Reno has been released and
living in Seattle. Jerry has a lot of MCC
friends who surely are rejoicing with
him. _

March 1976/ IN UNITY 43


Norm AREA REPRESENTATIVES

Flowers -I nterest in the prison ministry is


spreading and growing. The Board of
The following are Area Represent-
atives of the Board of Institutional

Visits Institutional
see this.
Ministry is delighted to
Ministry. They can be contacted
prisoners about any of the services
by

offered by MCC Prison Ministry. MCC


Fellowship However, it is the policy of the
Universal Fellowship of MCC that no
members who wish to know more about
the work, or are interested in being
person is authorized to contact any
Offices state or prison official in the name of
MCC or regarding MCC prison ministry
a part of this ministry should write to
the nearest Area Representative.

Norm Flowers, District Represent- without specific authorization from the


Rev. Heather Anderson, 13100 Wood-
ative of the Board of Prison Ministry in Board of Institutional Ministry.
ward Ave., Highland Park, MI 48203
the Great Lakes District, spent two All ministry in state and federal
weeks in the Fellowship offices from institutions is under the complete Rev. Bob Arthur, POB 14407, Omaha,
February 20 to March 4. jurisdiction of the Board of Institutional NB 68114
Norm, who is a member of Good ministry and must be authorized by that
Nick Cupo, POB 8174, Philadelphia, PA
Shepherd Parish, MCC Chicago, is in Board. All ministry in city and county
19101
Ir California to confer with Revs. Mickley, jails is under the complete jurisdiction.
of the local MCC pastor. Arthur Fleschner, 2904 Concordia Ave.,
Bunce, Vincent, Perry, and Sandmire
I. and to learn more about the national . Several instances have recently Tampa, FL 33609
prison ministry of this Fellowship. come to the attention of the Board
Norm Flowers, POB 2392, Chicago,
During his visit, he is keeping busy' regarding ministries and contacts in
IL 60690
in the Fellowship offices. The first job state and federal institutions which were
he was given was to serve as guest editor not authorized by the Board. The Board Rev. Howard Gaass, POB 1145,
for this issue of CELLMATE. wants to encourage ministry to as many Baltimore, MD 21203
"We are pleased," said Rev. Bunce, prisons as possible. For the protection
Rev. Joseph Gilbert, 63 Chapin Ave.,
"to have this opportunity to get to of the prisoners, for the authenticity of
the ministry, for the sake of "good Providence, RI 02909
know Norm better. I was very impressed
by the work he did on the Prison order," all ministry in the name of Sheldon Haight, POB 12020, Seattle,
Ministry Seminar in Indianapolis." MCC must be launched with proper WA 98112
"I hate to see this two weeks come authorization. -
Harlan Jacks, 3834 Ross Ave., Dallas,
to an end," said Rev. Mickley. "Norm TX 75204
shows strong administrative ability and THE BOARD OF INSTITUTIONAL
the work that has been accomplished in MINISTRY Steve LaFever, POB 187, Nashville, TN
Chicago through his efforts speak well Rev. Richard R. Mickley, 37202
for this dedicated Christian worker." National Administrator
Ms. Becky Lema, 2606 N. Wilson Way,
Rev. Bud Bunce
Stockton, CA 95205
National Chief of Chaplains
Rev. Joseph Gilbert James Lewey, POB 3147, St. Louis, MO
National Advisor 63130

Fred ~ all God's children. We enjoyed the


Eddie Sue McMurtry,
Jacksonville, FL 32201
POB 291,

service. Word is getting around now and


Knight some day I hope to see everyone
2000 prisoners here attending MCC.
of Gary Morris,
44309
POB 563, Akron, OH

Describes "Many of us in here have no


outside friends who write to us. I would
Terry Napier,
OH 45239
POB 39235, Cincinnati,

like to send you names of only those


Prison who are sincerely interested in making
Christian friendships. No games. It's
Rev. Jay Neely, POB 1757, New York,
NY 10001

Services very lonely in here, especially at mail


call time."
Bert Perkins, 11717 Victory
North Hollywood, CA 91606
Blvd,

"Our MCC committee officers are:


F red Knight, resident coordinator Fred Knight, Coordinator; Vannoy
Rev. Tere Roderick, 1076 Guerrero
San Francisco, CA 94110
St.,
of MCC services at the California Men's Cleveland, Assistant Coordinator; Jerry
Colony at San Luis Obispo, wrote that Baldy, Secretary; Family Represent- Ms. Mille Ternosky , POB 9536, Denver,
there were 80 persons in attendance at atives are Joseph Patton, Donald CO 80209
the most recent service, conducted by Arnold, Terry Hand, Falka Garcia. The
the Rev. Tere Roderick. program artist is Billy DeWolf and the Cliff Turpin, PO B 7182, Pittsburgh, PA
"This was our first service in our piano player is Jackie Hoffman. 15213
beautiful new meeting room. We had a "Everyone here has needed some- Fred Wren, POB 5206, Kansas City, MO
lot of nice things going for us in this thing to relate to for a long time. We 64112
service. Inmate Patton sang a beautiful want to thank you all for your concern
solo with Ken Mebs on the piano. for us here at the institution. We also Gene Zurenda, POB 228, Escondido,
Inmate McGray also gave a splendid want to thank you for including the CA 92025
performance with a reading about CELLMATE in IN UNITY."
the Creation of the world. Fred's Address is: Fred Knight,
"Rev. Tere Ann Roderick gave a B-56125; Box A-E, Room 1304; San
beautiful sermon about God's love for Luis Obispo, CA 93409. -

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