Professional Documents
Culture Documents
in collaboration with
Child and Adolescent Mental Health
Parenting
Sad and Depressed Children and Youth
Outline
{ What is Depression?
{ Stressors for Children & Adolescents
{ Protective Factors Against Depression
{ Signs and Symptoms
{ Caregiver Interventions
{ Helping Your Child Through Depression
{ Helping Your Adolescent Through Depression
{ Suicide Risk
{ Resources
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Parenting Sad and Depressed Children and Youth
What Is Depression?
Depression
Depression is more than feeling down in the dumps
once in a while. It’s a:
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Sadness vs. Clinical Depression
Clinical Depression
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What Causes Depression?
Adapted from: Bilsker, D., Gilbert, M., Worling, D., & Garland, J., Child & Youth Mental Health Branch, Ministry of Children & Family
Development
Situation
Thoughts
•Loss of relationship
•Negative thinking habits
•Loneliness
•Unfair self-criticism
•Arguing & conflict
•Poor school performance
Emotions
Actions •Sadness
•Withdrawal from others •Despair
•Reduced activity •Emptiness
•Poor self-care •Anxiety
Physical State
•Poor sleep
•Low energy
•Changes in appetite
•Nervous system changes
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Protective Factors Against Depression
1. High self-esteem
2. Good coping skills
3. School achievement
4. Involvement in extra-curricular activities
5. Positive relationships with parents, peers, and
adults outside the family context
Physical Symptoms
{ Upset stomach
{ Increase or decrease in appetite
{ Weight gain or loss
{ Headaches and other body aches or pains
{ Change in sleep (a lot more or a lot less)
{ Tiredness due to lack of sleep or insomnia
{ Lack of energy
{ Fidgety or restlessness
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Behavioural Symptoms
Behaviour
o Poor personal hygiene
o Increase in risk-taking
Emotional Symptoms
Typically there are themes of Anxiety, Anger,
Irritability, as reflected in the following:
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Emotional Symptoms (cont’d)
{ Feeling helpless
{ Feeling hopeless
{ Feeling angry; angry outbursts
{ Feeling anxious
{ Feeling irritable or restless
{ Exaggerated need for perfection
Cognitive Symptoms
{ Inability to concentrate
{ Indecisiveness
{ Poor memory
{ Loss/change in personal belief system
{ Suicidal Ideation
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Parenting Sad and Depressed Children and Youth
Caregiver Interventions
Caregiver Interventions
If you suspect a child/adolescent is depressed:
Caregiver Interventions
2. Maintain open communication
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Caregiver Interventions
Communication.... Cont’d
o sharp objects
o any means of strangulation
o any means of suffocation
o medications (prescription and over-the-counter
products)
o poisonous household products
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Caregiver Interventions
Medication
Caregiver Interventions
Zoloft® (sertraline)
Celexa® (citalopram)
Paxil® (paroxetine)
*These activities are not meant to be a replacement for treatment where this is needed. If expert
assistance or treatment is needed, the services of a competent professional should be sought
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How Does A Parent Help?
o Parents are the most significant adults in
children’s lives and are likely to have the greatest
impact on their health, including their emotional
health
o When parents learn more ways of interacting with
and helping their children, the results are likely to
be more positive, profound, and longer lasting.
Play is a primary, natural, and healthy way of
interacting.
Why Play?
{ Play is a child’s language. It is how children
communicate and is crucial to their healthy
development
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Playing...(cont’d)
{ Helps to increases trust and confidence
Child-Centred Play
{ The child is in charge of the play, with the parent
engaging only when the child requests it
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What To Do
Child-Centered Imaginary Play
{ Preparing:
What To Do
Child-Centered Imaginary Play
{ Setting the Stage:
• Make sure others are aware of the session and to not
interrupt unless it is an emergency
• Unplug/turn off the phones, T.V., computers,
Blackberries, etc. and let the doorbell ring!
• Set up the play area with a rug or blanket to define the
floor space and set out all of the toys in full view
• Invite the child into the play space and quickly review
the rules, boundaries, and consequences
What To Do
Child-Centered Imaginary Play
{ Play(!):
Let your child choose the toys and method of play while
you:
demonstrate empathic listening
• provide undivided attention
• use your own words to name the feelings expressed
Example: Child: “Look at my drawing - isn’t it great?”
Parent: “You’re really proud of your drawing!”
maintain agreed-upon limits and apply consequences as
necessary.
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What To Do (cont’d)
Empathic Listening
o Provide undivided attention
o Use your own words to rephrase aloud the main
feelings the child expresses
What To Do (cont’d)
Limit Setting
What To Do (cont’d)
Limit Setting (cont’d)
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What To Do (cont’d)
Examples (cont’d)
o Sharp objects should not be poked, thrown, or
kicked
What To Do (cont’d)
Challenges to limits
What To Do (cont’d)
Challenges ... (cont’d)
Example:
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What To Do (cont’d)
Challenges ... (cont’d)
o Giving a Warning:
What To Do (cont’d)
Challenges... (cont’d)
o Enforcing the Consequence:
Restate the limit and then carry out the
consequence given in the warning
A pleasant but firm tone of voice is used
Example:
“Johnny, remember I told you if you colour on
the walls we would leave the play time? Since
you chose to colour on the wall, we must leave.
Right now.”
*These activities are not meant to be a replacement for treatment where this is needed. If expert
assistance or treatment is needed, the services of a competent professional should be sought
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Helping Your Adolescent...
Three skills to help your adolescent:
1. Realistic Thinking
2. Problem-Solving
3. Goal Setting
Filtering
Overgeneralizing
Exaggerating Perfectionism
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Helping Your Adolescent...
Realistic Thinking (cont’d)
o Help your teen to notice how depressive thoughts
affect his or her mood
o Example:
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Helping Your Adolescent...
Realistic Thinking (cont’d)
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Helping Your Adolescent...
Problem Solving (cont’d)
Steps…Cont’d:
o Compare the good and bad points of the different
solutions
o Pick the best solution from your list and do it. Be
assertive and strike a balance between what you want
and what others want, stating your own view and
listening to the views of others.
o Evaluate your results. If the problem is solved,
celebrate! If not, revisit the list of solutions, add more
if you can, pick another to try, and do it. Evaluate the
result. Keep going till the problem is solved and then
celebrate your success!
d. Celebrate
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Helping Your Adolescent...
Goal Setting (cont’d)
a. Choose a goal for the next week, and make the goal:
• Specific: unclear goals are less likely to be carried out and
result in feelings of failure
d. Celebrate
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Helping yourself: Practicing Self-care
Strategies:
Suicide Risk
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Suicide Risk Indicators...
{ Ending of relationships
What To Do
{ Suicide must always be taken seriously.
What To Do (cont’d)
{ Act immediately
Accompany the child or youth to the Emergency
Department of the closest hospital, to her/his
family doctor, or to a mental health professional.
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Resources
• Access Mental Health 403- 943-1500
Bibliography*
Bilsker, G., Worling, & Garland (n.d). Dealing with Depression:
Antidepressant Skills for Teens. A free download from
http://www.mcf.gov.bc.ca/mental_health/teen.html.
* These books can be obtained from your local library and/or by contacting
the Family and Community Resource Centre library (403-955-7745)
Bibliography*
Landreth, G.L., (1991). Play therapy: The art of the relationship.
Accelerated Development Inc. Bristol, PA p. 378
* These books can be obtained from your local library and/or by contacting
the Family and Community Resource Centre library (403-955-7745)
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Online Sites
{ National institutes of Mental Health
www.nimh.nih.gov
Acknowledgements
We would like to acknowledge the contributions of the many clinicians
who participated in our Focus Groups and thus contributed to refreshing
the content of this presentation. As well, we would like to thank the
following clinicians who have gone the ‘extra mile’ and made significant
editorial and/or content contributions to this presentation:
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