1234567890 Re: Scorpio man in love with an Aries woman by dim Tue Dec 23, 2008 3:28 pm Wow...

.i kinda freaked out today with all these things that i read! Hi everyone, i'm a Scorpio man, crazy about an Aries Woman, and boy oh boy, now i know why me and my sister always fight...lol See i never really payed attention to my argue ments with my sister, i just thought they were as they were....but with the arie s woman my g/f, well i think! ;(, made me realize a lot of things. I searched th e internet and found all these hororscope articles on the compatibility. Reading all of them, all i had to do is to actually remove the word scorpio and add my own, and hers where it said aries. It was just unbelievable how spot on the situ ation got. So here's my story. 1 month and a week ago, i met this girl in a club. By the way i'm 31, and she's 30. Anyways, i've had a rather crazy lifestyle before without a g/f, like for ex ample clubs, drinking, going out, i have a great job, i have a good wage, i'm in dpendent ect. But when i met her i went crazy. I wanted change in my life, and i knew that if i was to be with this girl, i need to be straight up with her, and be honest as possible, and change my lifestyle. See i'm telling you all this fo r a reason, which will come up later on. Anyways, so from day one , i knew i was going to go out with her. Don't know wha t it was, but i really liked what i saw, and after speaking a bit i just was ent husiastic. So basically we eventually go to our first date, it was just great, i never sat down in a restaurant for over 3 hours!! EVER!..i was far from bored. 2nd date, we had the same thing, with a movie, GREAT time! and the 3rd we kissed , and it was just amazing...she even told me the same thing. See all was good, u ntil i brought my caring and opening up a little too soon. See what it was was t hat ARies was giving me a hard time for me reading her, so i became weak, trying to win this situation this love battle this passion battle. Once she jumped at me for my lifestyle when i explained to her how i wanted change in my life...and she's the only person i would love to make that change for, and i don't mind! s he doesn't believe me though, even though i proved to her i'm cool in chilling i n, or doing all the things she likes doing. i find them interesting and besides that i enjoy her company. So i coudn't understand why she was getting into argue ments with me. So the first one started, didn't go that well, i was about to lea ve, but then she showed some kind of care...and kinda stopped me. The second tim e around, i got frustrated cause again, she started to point out stuff at me fro m my past AGAIN...and that pissed me off, she saw the mad scorpio, you know thos e piercing fearfull eyes..well i got those..and then again , another 3rd fight, and now it has to do with how i analyze things, how i patronize her, ect ect...w hen i was doing nothing like that! i was just merely showing, how much i care, h ow much i want to be with her...that the reason we fight has no reason at all... that its a waste for us being sad and angry, ect ect.. So many fights in such a small period of time. The last fight we had, i told her look, we need to chill a bit and take a week apart so we can cool the air. But i got worried, that she m ight forget me, in those days, so i wrote her an apologetic letter explaining th e reason i wanted us to be apart for a week, cause i wanted her to actually miss me...cause she stopped showing me affection 2 weeks ago...i was doing it she wa s doing it a little, but then she took one step backwards and then got me to wor ry again! how annoying!! feeling like you don't know where you belong in the rel ationship! and that's how i exactly felt. So the next day, i called her telling her its not a good idea to actually not se e each other for a week, but soon! she took it the wrong way again, saying no th at's what you said, i put it in my head to do so, and i think its best this way. I asked her, since she mentioned how she makes her decisions easy, how come she

's still with me!? why doesn't she let me go? its still early in the relationshi p,...anyways, she keeps on avoiding that question! WHY??? Anyways, i really don't know what to do, other than wait for a couple of days, i mean i called it, but she bought my bluff...so there...i'm in pain, my stomache is in knots...don't know how to win her back. I know i'm good when i sweet talk to her, its down to earth, and i mean everything i say. But i've done it over a nd over again, and not too sure where this is goin.. Any idea Aries women out th ere? i mean i didn't do anything wrong, expect maybe show her a little too much care and love. But that comes with the action that i'm not recieving anything fr om her sometimes which in turn freaks me out. What to do??