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Experiencing Grace
By Wayne Houk Christ Presbyterian (or Christ Prez as I like to call it) is the safest church I have ever attended. That might seem like an odd term to use in describing a church. The dictionary confirms for me that the word safe encompasses many descriptors that I would use for my experience of this church: secure from injury, danger, or risk; dependable; trustworthy. My story involves many years of experiencing the very opposite of these things. Church had been a place of great injury for me that involved tremendous legalism, church splits, and the belief that God was very angry with me. Church was not a stable place for unstable people, nor were its leaders to be trusted with caring for weak, failing, or vulnerable souls. Wrestling as I was with an extremely legalistic conscience, yet continually failing to keep myself from sin, I lived a very tortured spiritual life that resulted in severe anxiety and despair. When the Lord brought the leaders of Christ Prez into my life, I was adopted into a family that loved and lived out the good news of the gospel of grace. I was invited into a new world of honestly wrestling with real sin, and experiencing the incessant, pursuing love of God in the midst of that struggle. The grace I was taught at Christ Prez was not cheap. I understood how serious my sin was that it required the death of the Son of God. But, in that truth, I finally had access to a gospel that was big, deep, and wide enough for my big, deep, and wide sin. The gospel was brought by real people, giving up real time and giving me real love, not only in the preaching, teaching, and worship, but also in the kitchens, living rooms, and back porches of life. Christ Prez is perfectly named. Without hesitation, it is first on the list of most significant spiritual influences on my life. And because of it, I am so thankful to know Christ more fully, accurately and personally.
Gospel Everyday
By Larissa Lisk I am delighted to tell you how Christ Presbyterian Church has impacted my family and me! Three years ago I was struggling with significant depression and anxiety as I tried to cope with caring for a newborn without the support of family, nearby friends, or an established church family. My husband, Matt, was very busy, trying to balance family with a demanding work schedule as a medical student. So, our marriage began to suffer. When my husband was on call for whole weekends at a time, my dear brother, Wayne Houk, and my pastors wife would come pick up my son and me in York, PA, so we wouldnt have to be alone. These were desperate times for me, but God caused something powerful to take place in the midst of such distress! During one of my visits to Grove City, I sat in on a Gospel Transformation study led by Barb Duguid. The Holy Spirit impressed upon me, finally, something I had been hearing from Wayne for a long time... the gospel was not merely for my conversion, I need it every day! I began to learn and believe that God is more than a just Judge, He is also truly a loving Father, and as such, welcomes me into His loving, forgiving arms, even when Im stained and messy. My words cannot relate to you how marvelous a revelation this all was to me. Nor can I explain how God used all this to affect my relationships, my marriage, and my parenting. Matt was blessed by the grace that I was showing him and also learning new things about God himself. This prompted him to select a medical residency in western PA so that we could attend Christ Presbyterian Church. As members, we have continued to enjoy the privilege of being blessed by this churchs ministry. We have the support of loving friends and people who are like family to us. What a joy it has been to
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learn more about grace-centered parenting and what it looks like to practice the gospel toward one another! Matt is now about to finish his residency and begin his career as a hospitalist. We are thriving as a young family with a busy almost-4-year-old son and beautiful baby girl. We plan to move to Grove City this summer and are eager to become more involved in the church. Thank you for this opportunity to share our story and express our deep gratitude to the members and leadership of Christ Presbyterian Church. To God be the glory! Build trusting friendships. I had the privilege of befriending a nurse in her 30s who was willing to come to my office. Over a period of nine months, I got to know her lifes struggles, before she embraced Jesus. I asked questions and waited quietly for her answers. Along the way I told her the gospel, without moving quickly to close the deal. She knew that my wife and I cared about her as a person as she joined us for Christmas. Here are some ideas for building trusting friendships: Communicate by texting or email, or meet at a neutral place for coffee. Invite them to a family meal with a group of new and old friends. One of our friends reaches young men by asking them to go hunting. Learn the unbelievers world. Over the years at Back Creek, my wife, Jane, and I and many other church members have had the privilege of building friendships with Ph.D. students. Many are from mainland China. These students grew up without any notion of God. We invite them to our home on a regular basis. They celebrate holidays with us like members of our family. As we ask them questions about their culture, and how they view life in the United States, we begin to understand their world. Some have become believers and some have had the seed of the gospel sown. May God cause it to germinate! Lay a gospel foundation. To help a person begin to understand who Holy God is and what He has done requires time, patience, and unconditional love. A genuine conversion requires information: the gospel story; mental assent to the historical truth of that story; and trusting Jesus alone for salvation. Broken people who do not trust anyone can learn to trust again, because they see the work of Jesus in us. Find resources to help. For example: Timothy Kellers, The Reason for God Rosaria Butterfields, The Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert The greatest resource is prayer. Faithfully rely on the love of the Triune God who is always seeking the lost! We may be the only Christian someone knows today. That is a privileged station the Lord has assigned to us! Lets be an unconditional friend, as Jesus has been to us! Look for Rev. Fraziers longer article soon in ARP Magazine!
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Supper Sixes
Good Shepherd Church, League City, TX Rev. Jan Sattem Breaking through complacency is hard. At Good Shepherd Church, we are a very friendly smaller church. Yet, the church has remained fairly small. Now theres nothing wrong with a smaller church - unless you are surrounded by a lot of lost people and you believe that you have been called to reach them! So how are we starting to reach them? We have initiated Supper Sixes (3 units or couples) that meet once a month for a meal. The important thing is for the host to invite an unchurched friend, neighbor or nearby relative. The agenda? Learn about each other; ask questions; listen well; discover common ground; dont talk church or churchianity; set up the next meeting. When the Supper Sixes started, we had hosts tell us just how well it went. One couple attending had a background in the specic religion which the invited neighbors were questioning. Without being judgmental, the difference between a belief and a religion was claried. The neighbors want to come again! At another dinner meeting, an unchurched individual had been raised in a spiritually dark part of the world where Christianity does not have an inuence. Once again, in a comfortable setting, Gods people had the opportunity to have some great God talk. Sometimes, when you have great people in a church, it is up to the leadership to nd a structure that showcases their gifts and abilities. For us, at GSC, we are off to a good start and look for an even better nish. Pray that God will use us mightily in the transformation of this area of our country and world.
Gospel Friendships:
Trust to Span the Divide
Rev. Wayne Frazier Back Creek ARP Church, Charlotte, NC We live in an age of connectivity. Yet, we are disconnected. Do you find it hard to connect with church visitors, unbelieving friends or neighbors? Church guests are unwilling to sign the guest pad. Many weeks may pass before they give a name and even longer for contact information. They wonder, Can I trust them? Unbelievers fear the unknown, which is increasingly what the church and Christians are to them. Certainly preaching is a priority, but how do we preach in such a way to reach the hearts of those who believe, as well as those who do not? On Easter, I preached a sermon on Thomas, Doubters Welcome. By Gods grace, this facilitated two amazing conversations: one with an opera student and another with an atheist who told me he was part African-American, Japanese and Scottish. He suggested we were distant relatives!
A growing portion of Americans see the church and Christians as a fearful unknown.
Today, it may take a year or longer of friendship before they trust us to talk about the gospel and longer to join us at church. In fact, an early invitation or gospel presentation may end a budding friendship. In 2013, how can we do this?
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Dr. Alan J. Avera, Executive Director At the end of June, after nine years of service with ONA, I will be leaving to become the senior executive for North America for Christianity Explored. I hope to continue serving ARP churches through this new position. Rico Tice, minister of evangelism at All Souls Church in London, England, developed the Christianity Explored evangelistic Bible study in the late 1990s under the tutelage of the late Dr. John Stott. Christianity Explored aims to help people love, live, and tell the good news of the gospel. I will rent an office at the ARP Center and will continue helping ARP churches through Christianity Explored. Thanks for your support. Rev. Brandon Barrett, Grace Presbyterian Church At Grace Presbyterian Church we have done three Christianity Explored (CE) groups. One with my neighborhood, one in another neighborhood in our target area, and one of our men did it at his workplace during lunch hours. All three of those groups bore fruit in different ways. Through the group that met at our house, our retired neighbors across the street, who have had some church involvement in the past but none for years, have gotten plugged into our church. The group that met in the workplace became the stimulus for many folks to think more seriously about their faith. Were hoping to offer more CE groups in the future. www.ceministries.org
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