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ALSO BY M. J. RYAN
Trusting Yourself
A Grateful Heart
AdaptAbility
How to Survive Change
You Didn’t Ask For
M. J. Ryan
Broadway Books • New York
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BF335.R94 2009
155.2'4—dc22
2009003320
ISBN 978-0-7679-3262-2
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Contents
CHANGE TRUTH #1: Change Is the One Thing You Can Count On 13
CHANGE TRUTH #2: It’s Not Personal 16
CHANGE TRUTH #3: Your Thinking Is Not Always Your Friend 19
CHANGE TRUTH #4: Change Isn’t the Enemy, Fear Is 24
CHANGE TRUTH #5: There’s a Predictable Emotional Cycle to Change 27
CHANGE TRUTH #6: You’re More Resilient Than You May Think 30
CHANGE TRUTH #7: Your Future Is Built on Bedrock That Is Unchanging 33
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Welcome to
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over, now what? They expect to bounce back and are able
to see the opportunities that change presents. Fortunately,
once you become conscious of how the process of adapta-
tion works, you, too, can face future changes with greater
confidence and swiftness rather than getting hung up on
the rocks of denial, anger, or helplessness.
Want further incentive to learn AdaptAbility? Experts
in mind-body medicine have shown that people who are
master adapters live longer and healthier lives than others.
How come? Because they counterbalance the stress hor-
mones that wear down our bodies with positive attitudes
and behaviors that release feel-good hormones, which re-
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9. going it alone
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