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It is also said the Imam Buzaydi (may Allah be pleased with him) was
relating his own states
He had many students including Ibn Ajibah (may Allah be pleased with
him)
The root of Tasawwaf is Adab with Allah and if we don’t have this, we
don’t have any Adab with anything
The second station of Adab is with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah
bestow peace and blessings upon him)
He was born in the tribe of Bani Salam from the clan of Ghumari. In the
middle of the 12th century
Imam Buzaydi (may Allah be pleased with him) travelled for many years
and spent many years in seclusion
Sheikh Darqawi (may Allah be pleased with him) wasn’t content with
the progress of his students
Imam Buzaydi (may Allah be pleased with him) spent sixteen years of
training with the sheikh
Sheikh Darqawi (may Allah be pleased with him) said that Imam
Buzaydi reached even higher levels than him and that him he was
unique
Adab has infinite levels and stations, we don’t stop there, we keep
building
The relationship of the Sheikh and the Murid is like the relationship of a
father and child
Its like the sheikh is like washer of the dead body. (If you don’t give
yourself to the Sheikh, then how can they be washed.)
Someone who wants to travel through a jungle and he doesn’t know the
tracks, they will try and find out a way by trail and error. They may
never reach the other side. If there is a guide, unless you take the hand
of a person who knows the way then you’ll find your way easily. The
rule of thumb is to take the hand of the sheikh.
Imam Tirmidi said that all the companions thought that they where the
special one
The companions have levels, it was because of their Adab with him
Second session.
Sheikh Da’bar was blind but he was able to recognise the Quran, hadith
and Qudsi hadith because he used to see light in the words.
1. The Murid should not visit the sheikh unless he has a gift for him.
It applies:
* If you haven’t seen him for a long period of time
* What you can afford
The first hadith that a student should hear from his sheikh is the hadith
of mercy.
If people can’t see him, then its because they have been veiled form him
It’s from the signs that Allah Subhanu wa ta’ala loves you that you are
the company of the Sheikh
Be mindful of that
You want to maintain the yearning of the Sheikh and then you’ll think
that you are sitting with anyone
3. The Murid should not laugh too much with the Sheikh, this should
be kept within reasonable limits
Be mindful you don’t reduce the standing of you and the Sheikh
4. Do not speak too much in his presence – worse still to raise your
voice in his presence
Some bedions came calling for the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon
him) with bad manners. And the Quran was revealed, “don’t raise your
voice above the voice of the Prophet.”
When we raise our voice it is because we want to impose our opinion
It is a type of tyranny
5. Do not sit on the right or the left of the Sheikh, even if he wishes
for you to do so.
When you enter into the gathering of the Sheikh, you should observe the
Adab of the Masjid.
You sit down facing the sheikh, face to face, eye to eye, heart to heart
and the last is the highest level
Allah Subhanu wa ta’ala doesn’t get bored of giving until you get bored
of taking
It’s an amazing mercy that Allah has given us different types of creation.
So we don’t get bored with him – what a mercy!
Be mindful of details
Steadfastness
The companions don’t need to know why; the fact he (peace and
blessings be upon him) used to do it is enough for him
There was a companion who came to the Prophet (peace and blessings
be upon him) with his top button of his shirt open. For the rest of his life
that companion used to wear his shirt like this.
Excellent character
This is the whole reason for the creation of the Prophet (peace and
blessings be upon him)
Ahmed ibn Ajibah (may Allah be pleased with him) said that this book
was the most specific book at this time
Our knowledge should make us better – if it doesn’t then it’s the fault of
the learner
This may decrease your shyness of the Sheikh in his presence – except
with a yearning and desire for him
Abu Hanifa (may Allah be pleased with him) would not extent his feet in
the direction of his Sheikh, even when he was at home
Be mindful of Adab, it can do amazing things for us. Something that may
seem pointless to us, may be great in the sight of Allah
9. Do not walk on the right, the left or alongside the Sheikh. You
should walk slightly behind him. He is like the leader of the Prayer
and you are the follower, if you go ahead the prayer is broken.
Imam Shafi’s mother looked after him and she would send him to study,
with different scholars. She would ensure he would wear the best
clothes to the circles of knowledge, this instilled into him a great respect
for knowledge.
How was angel Gibril (upon him peace) when he came to be taught? He
presented himself well to illustrate this point
Imam Shafi would walk with his mother, slightly behind her, later on in
his mother’s life
As the Murid of the Prophet (Peace and blessings be upon him) used to
do
Allah Subhanu wa ta’ala loves you to come close to him and satan hates
that
Some people might want to pull you down to the level by discouraging
you, even though he knows its good for you
If we practice Islam according to others, we wouldn’t be able to do
anything
If you please people then you are displaced from Allah Subhanu wa
ta’ala
Fourth session
(principles cont)
Fourth Principle
Don’t try to pierce the wall of destiny, go with the qadr of Allah
Subhanu wa ta’ala
Allah Subhanu wa ta’ala doesn’t place a burden more then we can bear
Use the blessings that Allah Subhanu wa ta’ala has blessed us with and
use it in a way that he would be pleased with us
There are those who want another chance even they had their chance
What state will we be in? (On the last day)
Should we risk not doing what we should, why are we wasting our time
Some spent a short time and progress and others take years to progress
Imam Shadhali (may Allah show him mercy) said, “There are two
categories of worship. 1. One benefits ourselves. 2. Sending the reward
to others."
If there is someone spending their nights in Nafl worship, then the one
spending their time in worship is greater than worship
The people of the raised platform are still producing scholars, they
served the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)
What would Allah Subhanu wa ta’ala do to that person who would look
after his house?
4. Don’t leave something half way, complete the task, see it through to
the end
A scholar who was young and before his Islam, met a friend who had
changed, no swearing, dignified and then the said to him, “We want
what you got.” The friend said he had accepted Islam in jail. The young
scholar was Dr Abdul-hakim Jackson
You never know what you conduct will achieve
6. The Murid should not sit in the physical position of the sheikh
The protocol of the king dictates that people shouldn’t sit in the place of
the sheikh
7. The Murid should not eat with the Sheikh, as a matter of normal
practice
Imam Zain Al Abideen (may Allah show him mercy) would refrain from
eating with his mother. When he was asked why, he said, “I might reach
for some food that my mother may have wanted.”
If this is the Adab of someone who brought you into the world, what
about the one who brought you to Allah Subhanu wa ta’ala
8. Do not sleep in the same room of the Sheikh, you may disturb him
9. Do not call out to the Sheikh if you are near his home
Some bedions called out, “Ya Muhammad,” and the ayah was revealed, if
they were patient, he would’ve come out
Like not having the nickname Abu Qasim during his lifetime (peace and
blessings be upon him)
10.Do not sit facing the house of the Sheikh, except with his
permission
11.Its important to follow the sheikh even if you might disagree with
him
After a while you will get used to the Sheikh and what he likes and be
mindful
Once you take someone as a Sheikh you have to obey and there are
consequences of disobediences
You disagree with him and start to backbite – some may have had a bad
ending
The Murid should honour the sheikh when present as well as absent
Wird al-Amm is the king of the wirds, which opens the door to
spirituality
When you enter you keep the key, you don’t throw it away. Like a car
key once you arrive somewhere you don’t throw the key away, you need
it to go back.
There can be two Murids, one in Damascus and one in the UK but the
one in the UK is closer to him
Ibn Ata’llah (may Allah show him mercy) said, “Actions are lifeless forms
but it is the presence of intention that brings it to life.”
Empting the vessel of our body, so we can fill up what the Sheikh gives
Imam Shafi (may Allah show him mercy) said, ”There is not a breath we
take, except by the divine decree.”
Do not expect to proceed too much, if you don’t take the path
Should you tell your parents about Bayat? Not if it will cause harm.
You took Bayat? Are you an extremist? What next? (Joking about the
possible parents reaction) (End of notes)