Rapport Sequencin

by Tyler Durden
After I convey value, I move to building rapport.. This is like a coal-train that has to be fueled.. I
pump them more and more with rapport..
However, unlike conveying higher-value, I try to EAE her into it. This results in not coming off
as one of those guys who wants to be !deep! "all the time", and disarms any thoughts that she has
that I#m messing with her, since the convo builds and builds.. It#s very natural that way, and I also
en$oy it more myself.
Initiate playful kino, non-stop, so that the kino boundary is ET as %&'(A). %ormali*e the kino,
or even play the kiss-game variation early in the +,- phase of the sarge .not relating to this post,
as this is the earlier stuff/.
0/ light rapport
1/ medium rapport
2/ heavy rapport
)I3HT 'A44&'T5
-short vital stats thread .name6age6work6school6background/
-upbeat stories .friends 6 cute anecdotes 6 feel good stories 6 $okes 6 humour 6 show that you can
be easy going/
-fun reads such as 'ing -inger pattern, if done more as a routine than a nuclear pattern .'-
pattern can also be a nuclear bomb used in heavy rapport, if done don-$uanish, not $ust out of fun-
interest/
(E7I8( 'A44&'T5
-childhood regressions, how they felt
-finding commonalities
-e9ploring philosophies
-+8:E
-insecurities 6 vulnerabilities
HEA;< 'A44&'T5
-<E )adder
-4'E; .pre-researched E;, triusms, etc.. see separate post/
-rather than E.;., I study the female psyche, and use the #truisms# idea to discuss ideas that
convey that I am the perfect man.. I am not like other guys, and convey that the problems that
they had in past relationships won#t happen with me, through the #truisms# discussion
-Instant connection pattern 6 transition to )ove vs. Attraction pattern
-TA+= and associate types of connections.. create massive yes-ladder, and then get her saying
#yes, yes, yes# to all your comments about connections, until you can draw the similarity between
4H<I+A) and E(&TI&%A) connections
-'E-'A(E physical connections as simply a 7I--E'E%T brand of connection, but still a
")E3ITI(ATE" connection.
-natural woman pattern
-implicit idea that you and her are "&%" comes across, playful kino escalates
-E78+E.
""%ow if I can#t close the deal right there .logistical/, then I 'E>I%7 and go back to )I3HT
'A44&'T.
This is ;E'< important, because if you leave her as your last conversation being all !deep! and
shit, then she feels weirded out by it since she feels like she has to 'E-I%ITIATE this mentally-
draining deep convo the ne9t time that she sees you.
o the solution is to go back to $ust fluff talk for a few minutes before parting ways, so that she
that it is natural when you see eachother again.
-T7
;ery (&%E< rapport se?uencing. I#ve also noted that many of the deeper levels of rapport are
also seduction techni?ues. Afterall, deep rapport is pretty much the same as seduction is...e9cept
seduction focuses more on sensual conversation with se9ual state pro$ection.
+heers,
4apa