The idea of virginity was once believed defnitive, as something witnessed by

the divine made between two partners. but with the acceptance of new
ideals and more than just heterosexuality the word and meaning has
changed. the old school defnition was rooted in patriarchal and divine
traditions that know longer hold true to most. the concept of virginity turns
into a personal relative pertaining only to time and circumstance with no
relevance in any moral/reasonable human venture. So why hold on to an
deal, and mindset which has only proven worth in creating oppressive
double standards and unhealthy relationship cultures! " culture that shames
girls for having sex, while shaming boys for not having sex, a culture that
shames people for natural and healthy things, pushing them to dwell on it as
if an eternal sentence to misfortune from a higher power, " culture that
condemns sexual ideas as #flth# while simultaneously sexually objectifying
its members. t just doesn$t make sense when you line up the realities, The
unreasonable double think that %eorge &rwell so famously warned us about
has become adopted in our relationship culture, and the e'ects are
detrimental. The dea of virginity has put goals into sex, a male dominated
battle ground of saving and taking virginities as if they are badges on a
uniform. (ost people defne sex as penetration with a penis, and the ideas
have evolved into sex being something given instead of shared )the
di'erence between *we had sex+ and * fucked her+,. -ith e.uality ideals
and homosexual acceptance arose a problem with our defnitions. s sex
something di'erent for a boy and a girl, is it shared, is it given, what about
homosexuals! The truth is sex like love is an action, not a goal. there is no
defnitive point when sex was successful and virginities were taken. Sex is
about more than a goal, it is about a pleasure and happiness that humans
fnd through health understanding, and loving relationships. deals need to
change, and an acceptance and openness between all people needs to be
found in our culture be for we are to fnd understand each other and live
peacefully. This openness is love, love for all humans well being, love for all
life that makes our world so magical, and love for the self. t sounds radical,
how can we change things so rooted in our existence! can humans really fnd
peace with each other, and what would it mean for us and the world! The
ideas radical, but history has proven over and over that ideals change, and
the change is real. all over the world the roots love and acceptance hold
there grip on waking communities destined for the future.