Survey on Youth Experiences in Bosnia and Herzegovina Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
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We express our special thanks for this survey to the Nest centre staff members, as well as to all pedagogues, psychologists and teachers in high schools throughout Bosnia and Herzegovina who assisted in and made possible conducting this survey.
In foundation, the foundation for promoting social inclusion of children and youth in Bosnia and Herzegovina (B&H), with the financial support of the Kinderpostzegels from the Netherlands, conducted a survey on B&H youth experiences concerning various forms of violence and trauma endured in childhood.
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Contents
Survey Goals .......................................................................................................................... 6 Methodology ........................................................................................................................... 6 Sample ................................................................................................................................... 6 Survey Results ......................................................................................................................14 Conclusions ...........................................................................................................................30 Recommendations.................................................................................................................33 List of References .................................................................................................................34
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4 4 Introduction
The survey on youth experiences concerning various forms of violence and trauma in childhood in B&H has emerged as a part of the interventions linked to the activities financed by Kinderpostzegels Nederlands in cooperation with In foundation, a foundation for promotion of children and youth social inclusion in B&H, while relying on the project Todays Children Are Tomorrows Parents. This project has activities through six centres established in B&H offering support and empowering children that come from dysfunctional families, and amongst them, many children experienced some forms of violence within and outside family. In cooperation with the staff members of the centres for children at risk, the need has been identified to acquire the specific knowledge relating to the recognition and support offering to children who potentially may have certain negative experiences or could become victims of sexual abuse or some other form of abuse and neglect. For that purpose, a training was conducted under the title Child Sexual Abuse, Recognition, Interview and Criteria for Confirmation, led by Gordana Buljan Flander, Teacher, Psychologist and Psychotherapist, Director of Polyclinic for Child Protection of City of Zagreb. The training was held in February 2012, for the staff members of the centres for children at risk who come from multi-problem families, their associates and representatives of relevant institutions in B&H. After the education has been conducted, we initiated this survey with the goal to obtain a more comprehensive picture of the presence and prevalence of various forms of violence against children in B&H. Violence against children varies depending on their age, developmental status and the fact if, and to which extent, the child realizes the interaction with the outside world. Thus younger children are more exposed to the violence of their family and household members, and as they grow up and spend more time outside their homes, it is more likely that they will be more exposed to the violence of people outside their household or family. Based on the definitions comparison and determining the common elements of those definitions related to the child abuse and neglect, in 1999, the World Health Organization proposed the definition of child abuse or misuse as all forms of bad conduct from aspect of body and/or emotions, sexual abuse, neglect or negligent behaviour, economic or other exploiting inflicting real or potential harm to childs health, survival, development or dignity, within the context of relation of responsibility, trust and power (Krug et al. 2002, World report on Violence and Health, Geneva, World Health Organization). According to this definition, we can say that there are various forms of violence against children. For a better systematisation and for practical reasons, they can be divided into: physical, emotional and sexual abuse and child neglect. Lately, witnessing to domestic violence is considered as a separate form of emotional abuse. It is important to highlight that numerous surveys exploring the children as the victims of violence show that children often experience multiple types of abuse. The statistics also show a considerable presence of child abuse and neglect in a large number of countries worldwide.
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5 5 The data coming from the European Union countries indicate that every fifth child is the victim of some form of sexual abuse. Every fourth girl and every sixth boy had some experience relating to sexual abuse. Also, it is estimated that in 70-85% of cases, the abuser is someone the child knows and whom the child trusts. The sexual violence against children can have various forms, such as sexual violence within the family circle, child pornography and prostitution, sexual violence by means of the Internet, as well as the sexual abuse from peers. The Council of Europe has prepared the Lanzarote Convention Council of Europe Convention on Protection of Children against Sexual Exploitation and Sexual Abuse. The Lanzarote Convention represents the first international instrument to establish the sexual abuse of children as a criminal offence, regardless of where and by whom it was committed in home, the institutions taking care of children, by means of organized crime network or by the means of the Internet (ETS 201, 2007). At the same time, this is the first universal convention providing recommendations on the procedures in situations of all forms of child sexual violence. The convention came into force on the 1 st July 2010 and is open to the EU and non EU Member Countries for signing. Bosnia and Herzegovina signed this Convention on 12 th October 2011 in Strasbourg. In April, 2012, the Council of Ministers of B&H has established the proposal of decision on ratification and the ratification procedures implementation. In Bosnia and Herzegovina, neither systematically collected, neither consolidated statistical data exist, nor any corresponding, valid and representative surveys, which could give the real insight into these problems. In practice, the sporadic cases and data on various forms of abuse are increasingly visible in the media, or through police reports, which makes us to approach this issue with a greater importance. A similar survey conducted in the neighbouring countries motivates us to obtain the figures for B&H as well. We believe that this survey will provide a better insight and offer the data on the factual situation and the presence of violence, especially concerning the child sexual abuse, and thus based on the obtained results, it will be possible to respond more objectively and adequately to the problem of violence and trauma in children in B&H, the consequences of which are serious and far- reaching.
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6 6 Survey Goals
The main goal is to asses a general situation and incidence of violence and abuse of children in B&H, as well as to define the frequency of its forms.
Methodology
The test battery prepared by Gordana Buljan-Flander, Teacher, Psychologist, Psychotherapist and Director of Polyclinic for Child Protection of City of Zagreb, is used for collecting the data for this survey. The same battery of tests is adjusted linguistically to our sample. We have left out the scales for which we did not have any reliable data on their metric characteristics. The test battery consisted of questionnaires on the basic demographic characteristics of respondents, questionnaires pertaining to various forms of violence (for mother, father and others), special questionnaire which identified forms of sexual abuse by the father, mother and others, questionnaire measuring the level of anxiety, scales of optimism-pessimism and scales of self- confidence. The test battery was applied at several locations in B&H. The respondents were the students of final, fourth grade in high schools in B&H. During the selection of high schools, we made efforts to take care to select approximately an equal number of students from all high school. Filling in the questionnaire was anonymous. The researcher would read the instructions on the first page of questionnaire before the students start to fill in. Also, the respondents were told that the names and phone numbers of organizations having the possibility to offer the expert assistance are on the last page of questionnaire. Respondents could take that page and keep it for themselves, if they consider such information being important for themselves. Filling in the test took on average one school class. The students were told to put filled questionnaires into envelopes, in order to insure the confidentiality. We took care that, on the occasion of data collection, the respondents feel safe and they were told that obtained data are confidential. The survey was conducted by staff members of the Centre for Children at Risk and trained researchers, volunteers associates in schools.
Sample
The survey sample was planned for 1000 respondents of 18 and 19 years of age from the B&H high schools fourth grade students. Given the sensibility of the issue, one of the criteria for the selection of respondents was their adult age, due to two reasons: a) age of maturity of the respondents, b) ability to fill in the questionnaire without consent by parents/tutors. While collecting the information, our goal was to make the sample as representative as possible. The data were collected in municipalities and cities at 16 locations in B&H (graph 1).
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Graph 1: Sample of respondent
The table 1 shows that the sample frequency does not correspond to the real situation and planned number of respondent territorial representation. The largest Banja Luka and Sarajevo, followed by Tuzla, Trebinje and Zenica as the citi with a larger population. Such a representation of access the individual schools by competent ministries to carr time of the survey, late April/early end of the school year for the high school graduates. The survey was conducted in the hig schools lasting four years with different courses, At the end of survey, 975 questionnaires (N=975) were statistically processed, which indicates decrease in number of sample (25 out of
Gender Structure of Respondent The sample comprises 54% of
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respondents by place of residence 1 shows that the sample frequency does not correspond to the real situation and respondents for individual locations, although making sure that there is territorial representation. The largest number of respondents is from two biggest cities in Banja Luka and Sarajevo, followed by Tuzla, Trebinje and Zenica as the citi . Such a representation of respondents is partly a result at the time of the survey. One of the reasons is the lack of approval by competent ministries to carry out the survey in individual schools. The second reason is the early May, when the schools arrange intense activities school year for the high school graduates. The survey was conducted in the hig schools lasting four years with different courses, mindful of the gender structure of At the end of survey, 975 questionnaires (N=975) were statistically processed, which indicates decrease in number of sample (25 out of the planned 1000, which is 2.5% of Respondents of female and 46% of male respondents, graph 2 28 58 29 82 24 32 46 135 88 City/town where survey takes place s Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
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1 shows that the sample frequency does not correspond to the real situation and the making sure that there is from two biggest cities in B&H - Banja Luka and Sarajevo, followed by Tuzla, Trebinje and Zenica as the cities that are bigger and s is partly a result of impossibility to survey. One of the reasons is the lack of approval y out the survey in individual schools. The second reason is the intense activities for the earlier school year for the high school graduates. The survey was conducted in the high the gender structure of respondents. At the end of survey, 975 questionnaires (N=975) were statistically processed, which indicates a which is 2.5% of the planned sample) graph 2. 88 100 62 City/town where survey takes place
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Graph 2: Gender structure
Representation of Respondent The number of male and female
Age of Respondents The students aged 18 and 19 group is that they were born during the war time and their early development is marked, m less, by growing up in the war and close family members (graph 3) Graph 3: Age of respondents Female 54% Gender 1 2 0 100 200 300 400 500 600 1986 1989 Survey on B&H Youth Experiences Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
espondents by Gender female respondents is represented nearly equally 18 and 19 are the majority in our sample (92%). The characteristic of this age group is that they were born during the war time and their early development is marked, m war and the post-war milieu. Some of them have (graph 3).
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8 8 s is represented nearly equally (8% more girls). The characteristic of this age group is that they were born during the war time and their early development is marked, more or have lost their parents or
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Basic Characteristics of Family The largest number of respondent incomplete families: 10% of them live with extended family member and 5% with someone else (graph Graph 4: Family structure Most respondents have one brother or only one child are at the third place (9.6%). brothers or sisters in the family four members, one or two children (graph 5). These data changes in the society, similar to other transitional countries in Eu making a transgenerational complicated.
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amily Status of Respondents respondents lives with both parents (79%), while of them live with the mother, 2% with the and 5% with someone else (graph 4).
e one brother or sister (52%), 27.2% have two brothers/sisters, third place (9.6%). An insignificant number of respondent family, indicating that the majority of the average one or two children (graph 5). These data are in line changes in the society, similar to other transitional countries in Europe where families are transgenerational transfer of knowledge, skills and mutual help and support s Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
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ave two brothers/sisters, those being respondents have several erage families have three or line with global transitional rope where families are smaller, skills and mutual help and support
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Graph 5: Number of brothers and sisters
Characteristics of Sample M Graphs 3-6: Characteristics of the sample
Almost 40% of respondents respondents development and their family functioning Given the fact that the respondent 80% were indirectly involved battlefield). This has significantly characterized left many families incomplete (17% war casualties) and according to 18% suffer from direct war consequences, These data indicate that 35% of indicators can point at these respondent forms of exposure to violence and negative influences no 61% yes 39% Refugee Survey on B&H Youth Experiences Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
Graph 5: Number of brothers and sisters Marked by War Developments 6: Characteristics of the sample relating to war developments were refugees or displaced persons, which could reflect and their family functioning (graphs 3 to 6). respondents of this survey were born during the war time period in war developments (fathers and close family has significantly characterized the family structure and dynamic left many families incomplete (17% war casualties) and according to respondent direct war consequences, either as a physical or psychological dysfunction. that 35% of respondents families suffer from the war consequences. respondents vulnerability and their possible predisposition to forms of exposure to violence and negative influences, i.e. risk factors. no 17% yes 83% Someone was in war no 83% yes 17% Someone from the family got killed in the war s Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
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, which could reflect on the the war time period, more than developments (fathers and close family members were in the structure and dynamics. The war has respondents statements, r psychological dysfunction. families suffer from the war consequences. These possible predisposition to various no 82% yes 18% Disabled in war of PSP in family
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Educational Status Graphs 7 and 8: Educational status of The respondents with better school very good students, 20% of them results below the average. The 84%, while a small number of st Potential Risk Factors in Family Graphs 9, 10 and 11: Family r In the sample of our respondent that percentage asked for expert assistance family members when under the inf cases, which can certainly be connected to various forms of
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status of respondents s with better school results prevail in the sample, around 60% are excellent and , 20% of them have average results, 20% of the overall average. The respondents motivation to further continue number of students do not intend to continue their education. Potential Risk Factors in Family
Family risk factors respondents, 13% of family members have alcohol pert assistance or received treatment. It is important to note that family members when under the influence of alcohol are prone to aggressive behaviour be connected to various forms of domestic violence. s Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
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e sample, around 60% are excellent and the overall sample has poor or to further continue education is among education.
alcohol problems; only 18% of It is important to note that the are prone to aggressive behaviour in 58% of violence.
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Graph 12: Average period of alcohol consumption by close relatives The average period of alcohol consumption by close relatives of our their statements, lasts between 1 and 5 years. it is about male family members and primarily these are abusers. Graphs 13 and 14: Mental problems
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Average period of alcohol consumption by close relatives period of alcohol consumption by close relatives of our respondent their statements, lasts between 1 and 5 years. The largest number of respondent about male family members and primarily these are their fathers and grandfathers as alcohol
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respondents, according to respondents mentioned that their fathers and grandfathers as alcohol
no 82% his person was medically treated or still is
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Graph 15: Length of duration of family members' mental illness
A total of 9% of family mem mainly of psychotic and manic treatment (graphs 14-17). The different forms of dysfunction according to respondents statements, Graph 16: Types of mental disorder
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Length of duration of family members' mental illness 9% of family members have been identified in the sample to have manic-depressive nature; 72% of them are under some sort of medical The mental illnesses of the family members ent forms of dysfunction at a personal and family level. The psychological problems are, s statements, more common in female members, disorder 33.3% 8.3% Depresija/Manija Psihoi!ni poreme!aj "n#sio$ni poreme!aj !hat she/he was treated for" Depressive/manic Psychotic Anxious Something else s Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
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in the sample to have mental problems, under some sort of medical illnesses of the family members carry a certain risk of sychological problems are, female members, primarily mothers.
28% %eso &r'(o Something else
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14 14 Survey Results
Of the total number of respondents in the sample (975), 74% (722) answered to a question if they had any experiences of violence. Out of this number 65% gave a positive answer: once (8,2), twice (18,8%), three times (19,7%), four times (12,4%) and five times (5,7%). A total of 90 respondents or 9.2% had no experience of violence. These data are similar to some other surveys results with this topic. The fact that this question was not answered by 26% or 253 respondents clearly shows the presence of prejudice amongst our respondents when it comes to speaking out about this issue, as well as the feeling of shame or fear to reveal, lack of trust in possible help and others. It all means that cultural and social factors, as well as traditional characteristics have influenced the attitude towards this issue. A total of 74% of respondents had a traumatic experience outside the family, while 55% of them had a traumatic experience directly related to family functioning, which means that some respondents had multiple trauma in and out of the family. These data indicate that violence outside the family is more frequent, it is most probably related to violence committed by peers, especially because they are adolescents. There are the data which underpin these results and explain that the children who experience some form of abuse are more liable to other forms of domestic violence as well as outside the family. It may as well be the case that the respondents feel more comfortable to talk about their traumatic experiences outside the family in order not to reveal the family secrets, since the family life is still a private matter in our society. Types of violence: Emotional violence 62% Physical violence 58% Witnessing to violence 43% Neglect 27% Sexual abuse 23,4% The largest number of respondents (62%) has the experience of emotional abuse by mother, father and others which implies: mockery, taunting, insulting, shouting, intimidation, criticizing, prohibition and other. It is followed by physical abuse by frequency and it is at the second place (58%); it implies: physical punishment, hitting, hurting, slapping. All of this indicates the fact that this form of violence is present in our society. Being a witness to domestic violence comes at a third place (43%), which makes a basis of a secondary traumatisation. The neglect in the family is at the fourth place (27%) by frequency. It entails inappropriate care and inappropriate and untimely response to the respondents needs. The last but not the least frequent is a sexual abuse which is present in 23,4% of respondents, which means that nearly every fourth respondent has the experience of some sexual abuse forms. Only 12% of respondents, according to their statements, did not have any experience of violence, 11% of the respondents were exposed to one type of violence, while large number of respondents had a multiple abuse, - 25% were exposed to two types of violence, 27% were exposed to three
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types of violence, while 17% of respondents were exposed to all kinds Most commonly emotional and physical violence come together, as well as emotional abuse and witnessing violence, and neglect Graph 17: Perception of abuse in childhood Out of the total number of respondent stated that they are uncertain, which shows A total of 59% of respondent respondents were exposed to respondents who were exposed to respondents had multiple trauma that those who have the experience of abuse and trauma inside and prone to various traumatic experiences outside the family. Graph 18: Forms of abuse Survey on B&H Youth Experiences Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
while 17% of respondents experienced four types of violence. were exposed to all kinds of violence which we explored by this questionnaire. Most commonly emotional and physical violence come together, as well as emotional abuse and and neglect and witnessing domestic violence. tion of abuse in childhood respondents, 6% stated that they were abused in their childhood, 8% , which shows respondents ambivalent attitude respondents had a traumatic experience within a family to a traumatic experience outside the family. T were exposed to a traumatic experience is 86%, which means that some trauma inside and outside the family. We can ex have the experience of abuse and trauma inside family become more vulnerable traumatic experiences outside the family. s Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
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that they were abused in their childhood, 8% s ambivalent attitude (graph 17). a traumatic experience within a family, while 76% of outside the family. The total percentage of , which means that some and outside the family. We can explain this with the fact family become more vulnerable
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16 16 Table 1: Forms of abuse behaviour of the father Fathers behaviour Never Once or twice Many times Often Shouted at you for no apparent reason. 52.7% 25.3% 15.3% 6.7% Mocked without reason. 91.9% 4.8% 2.4% 0.9% Told vulgar words, swore at you. 81.7% 9.3% 6.5% 2.5% Intimidated you, threatened he would do something to hurt you. 89.1% 6.6% 2.7% 1.6% Harshly criticized you, compared you with other children. 62.2% 21% 9.9% 6.9% Insulted you. 86% 6.8% 4.4% 2.8% Prohibited a lot and imposed restrictions. 70.4% 15.8% 8.7% 5.1% Slapped you. 65% 23.7% 8.1% 3.2% Hit you with a hand. 68.5% 21.6% 7.2% 2.7% Beat you with an object. 85.8% 9.3% 3.7% 1.1% Beat you with a hand. 74.2% 16.7% 7.2% 1.9% You had bruises as a consequence of beating. 89% 7.9% 2.2% 0.9% Threw you down. 97% 2% 0.7% 0.3% Physically hurt you so you needed intervention of a doctor. 98.9% 0.7% 0.2% 0.2% Did not provide you with food and clean clothes on a regular basis. 98.2% 0.7% 0.6% 0.6% Did not take you to a doctor in time. 98.2% 1.3% 0.4% 0% Locked you up alone in a room for a long period. 97.4% 2.1% 0.3% 0.1% Did not pay attention to you, ignored you. 90.8% 5.8% 1.7% 1.7% Did not want to talk to you. 82.3% 10.3% 4.8% 2.6% Criticized, insulted, threatened or shouted without reason at others in the family. 81.8% 10.2% 5.8% 2.1% Beat, hit or hurt others in the family. 89.5% 7.4% 1.9% 1.2% Quarrelled with other parent. 65.1% 20.2% 10.8% 3.9% As the most frequent ways of expressing violence by a father and which our respondents experienced are the following: shouting without reason, harsh criticism and comparing with other children, quarrel with other parent, slapping, saying vulgar swearwords, insulting.
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17 17 Table 2: Forms of abuse behaviour of the mother Mothers behaviour Never Once or twice Many times Often Shouted at you for no apparent reason. 52.7% 25.3% 15.3% 6.7% Mocked without reason. 91.9% 4.8% 2.4% 0.9% Told vulgar words, swore at you. 81.7% 9.3% 6.5% 2.5% Intimidated you, threatened that she would do something to hurt you. 89.1% 6.6% 2.7% 1.6% Harshly criticized you, compared you with other children. 62.2% 21% 9.9% 6.9% Insulted you. 86% 6.8% 4.4% 2.8% Prohibited a lot and imposed restrictions. 70.4% 15.8% 8.7% 5.1% Slapped you. 65% 23.7% 8.1% 3.2% Hit you with a hand. 68.5% 21.6% 7.2% 2.7% Beat you with an object. 85.8% 9.3% 3.7% 1.1% Beat you with a hand. 74.2% 16.7% 7.2% 1.9% You had bruises as a consequence of beating. 89% 7.9% 2.2% 0.9% Threw you down. 97% 2% 0.7% 0.3% Physically hurt you so you needed intervention of doctor. 98.9% 0.7% 0.2% 0.2% Did not provide you with food and clean clothes on a regular basis. 98.2% 0.7% 0.6% 0.6% Did not take you to a doctor in time. 98.2% 1.3% 0.4% 0% Locked you up in a room for a long period. 97.4% 2.1% 0.3% 0.1% Did not pay attention to you, ignored you. 90.8% 5.8% 1.7% 1.7% Did not want to talk to you. 82.3% 10.3% 4.8% 2.6% Criticized, insulted, threatened or shouted without reason at others in the family. 81.8% 10.2% 5.8% 2.1% Beat, hit or hurt others in the family. 89.5% 7.4% 1.9% 1.2% Quarrelled with other parent. 65.1% 20.2% 10.8% 3.9% The mothers shouted the most frequently for no reason, harshly criticised, compared with other children, embarrassed and slapped children. The fathers more often impose restrictions, while the mothers refuse to talk to children.
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18 18 Table 3: Forms of abuse behaviour of others Behaviour of others Never Once or twice Many times Often Shouted at you for no apparent reason. 62.1% 21.3% 13.1% 3.5% Mocked without reason. 65.8% 21.5% 9.7% 2.9% Told vulgar words, swore at you. 69.1% 18.1% 9.4% 3.5% Intimidated you, threatened that s/he would do something to hurt you. 81.8% 11.5% 5.2% 1.5% Harshly criticized you, compared you with other children. 79.5% 11.8% 6.3% 2.4% Insulted you. 68.6% 16.7% 10.9% 3.9% Prohibited a lot and imposed restrictions. 92.4% 4.9% 1.8% 0.8% Slapped you. 88.7% 8.3% 1.8% 1.2% Hit you with a hand. 87.2% 8.3% 3.3% 1.2% Beat you with an object. 94.9% 2.8% 1.4% 0.8% Beat you with a hand. 93.2% 3.9% 1.7% 1.2% You had bruises as consequence of beating. 95.1% 3.4% 1.2% 0.2% Threw you down. 97.9% 1.8% 0.1% 0.2% Physically hurt you so you needed intervention of doctor. 98% 1.3% 0.6% 0.1% Criticized, insulted, threatened or shouted without reason at others in family. 92.9% 5.1% 1.5% 0.5% Beat, hit or hurt others in family. 96.8% 2.4% 0.6% 0.1%
The other persons outside the family the most frequently, according to respondents statements, do the following: shout, mock without reason, insult, say vulgar words and swearwords, harshly criticize and compare with other children.
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19 19 Table 4: Sexual abuse - father
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Never Once Twice 3 and more times Had sexual intercourse in front of you. 99.3% 0.5% 0.1% 0% Kissed you on the mouth. 99.3% 0.2% 0% 0.4% Showed you pornographic material. 99.3% 0.3% 0.1% 0.2% Masturbated in front of you. 100% 0% 0% 0% Touched your different parts of body in embarrassing manner. 99.9% 0.1% 0% 0% Touched you on genitals. 100% 0% 0% 0% You had to touch his/her genitals. 100% 0% 0% 0% Kissed you on intimate parts of body. 99.9% 0.1% 0% 0% You had to put his genitals into mouth. 99.9% 0.1% 0% 0% You were forced to have a sexual intercourse with that person. 100% 0% 0% 0% Touched you on breasts. 99.8% 0.1% 0.1% 0% Kissed you on breasts. 99.9% 0.1% 0% 0% You saw that person naked (or intimate parts of the body). 99.4% 0.3% 0.1% 0.1% Told you about embarrassing sexual things. 99.4% 0.3% 0% 0.2%
The most frequent ways of expressing sexual abuse by the father include: kissing on the mouth showing a pornographic material being a witness to sexual intercourse exposing a naked body or intimate parts of the body in front of respondents telling embarrassing sexual words
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20 20 Table 5: Sexual abuse - mother
The most frequent ways of expressing sexual abuse by the mother include: ) exposing naked body or intimate parts of the body to respondents ) kissing on the mouth ) witnessing a sexual intercourse ) touching of breasts
Mothers behaviour
Never Once Twice 3 and more times Had sexual intercourse in front of you. 99.5% 0.4% 0.1% 0% Kissed you on the mouth. 97.8% 1% 0.1% 1.1% Showed you pornographic material. 99.8% 0.1% 0.1% Masturbated in front of you. 100% 0% 0% 0% Touched your different parts of body in embarrassing manner. 99.9% 0.1% 0% 0% Touched you on genitals. 100% 0% 0% 0% You had to touch his/her genitals. 100% 0% 0% 0% They kissed you on intimate parts of the body. 99.9% 0.1% 0% 0% You had to put your mouth on her genitals. 100% 0% 0% 0% You were forced to have sexual intercourse with that person. 99.9% 0.1% 0% 0% Touched you on breasts. 99.6% 0.3% 0.1% 0% Kissed you on breasts. 99.9% 0.1% 0% 0% You saw that person naked (or intimate parts of her body). 97.3% 1.4% 0.5% 0.8% They talked to you about embarrassing sexual matters. 100% 0% 0% 0%
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Table 6: Sexual abuse - others Behaviour of others Never Once Twice 3 and more times Had sexual intercourse in front of you. 97.1% 1.5% 0.6% 0.8% Kissed you on the mouth. 87.6% 3.2% 0.8% 8.3% Showed you pornographic material. 88.4% 4.7% 1.4% 5.4% Masturbated in front of you. 96.1% 1.6% 0.3% 2% Touched your different parts of the body in embarrassing manner. 95.9% 1.6% 0.7% 1.7% Touched you on genitals. 94.9% 0.9% 0.7% 3.5% You had to touch his/her genitals. 97.8% 0.8% 0.3% 1% They kissed you on intimate parts of the body. 95.4% 1.2% 0.8% 2.7% You had to put his/her genitals into mouth. 99.2% 0.3% 0.5% 0% You were forced to have a sexual intercourse with that person. 98.8% 0.3% 0.2% 0.6% Touched you on breasts. 94.8% 2.2% 0.5% 2.5% Kissed you on breasts. 95.9% 1.3% 0.3% 2.4% You saw that person naked (or intimate parts of the body). 91.2% 3.2% 1.2% 4.4% They talked to you about embarrassing sexual matters. 94.1% 3% 1.9% 1%
The most frequent ways of expressing sexual abuse by the others include: ) kissing on the mouth ) showing of pornography material ) exposing a naked body or other intimate body parts to respondents ) touching on genitals ) kissing on intimate body parts
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Graph 19: Undesired sexual experiences with others The respondents, who had undesired sexual experiences mention as perpetrators the number of cases these are close family members. These are the persons who are close to and known by respondents, and they these data are not in accordance fact that respondents feel more comfortable to someone else outside the family. It may be perhaps attributed also to some fo and huge vulnerability when the perpetrator respondent feels s/he does not have anymore any source respondent can also contribute to some partial explanat more directed to the interaction outside the family in broader social milieu. Graph 20: Age of perpetrator 13 12 17 Male *amily mem+er Female *amily mem+er Male mem+er o* e,en&e& *amily #ndesired se$ual e$perience with others Survey on B&H Youth Experiences Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
Undesired sexual experiences with others had undesired sexual experiences with someone the friends, acquaintances, extended family members, and in a small number of cases these are close family members. These are the persons who are close to and s, and they are mentioned in the largest number of cases. accordance with the findings of other surveys, which can be explained by the feel more comfortable to locate such traumatic developments or to blame someone else outside the family. It may be perhaps attributed also to some fo nerability when the perpetrator comes from close family circle and when the oes not have anymore any source of support and protection. can also contribute to some partial explanation of these data in the way that they are more directed to the interaction outside the family in broader social milieu.
10 52 65 24 36 mem+er e,en&e& Female mem+r o* e,en&e& *amily Male *rien& Female *rien& -n#no.n male -n#no.n *emale #ndesired se$ual e$perience with others no 55% yes 45% %s that person an adult" s Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
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with someone, the most frequently extended family members, and in a small number of cases these are close family members. These are the persons who are close to and the largest number of cases. Some pieces of , which can be explained by the locate such traumatic developments or to blame someone else outside the family. It may be perhaps attributed also to some form of suppression comes from close family circle and when the of support and protection. The age of a ion of these data in the way that they are more directed to the interaction outside the family in broader social milieu.
38 50 -n#no.n *emale Male yo' #no. Female yo' #no. #ndesired se$ual e$perience with others
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23 23 The persons with whom the respondents had undesired sexual experiences are adults in 45% of cases.
Table 7: Violence outside family Violence outside family
Never Once Several times Someone hit/attacked me with an object (stick, stone, gun, knife, something else) 76.4% 16.7% 6.9% Someone attacked me physically (with hands, legs) 65% 22.2% 12.8% Someone hurt me and I had to visit doctor 93.6% 4.9% 1.5% Someone insulted me, called me names, told me bad words 52.1% 26.1% 21.8% Someone I went out with (boyfriend/girlfriend) hit me 93.3% 4.6% 2.1% Someone forced me to have sexual activities 98.1% 1.3% 0.6% Someone raped me 99.5% 0.3% 0.2% I witnessed someone being beaten by someone else 36.8% 22.4% 40.8% Someone I know was murdered 81.5% 12.3% 6.2% I experienced bomb explosion 93.7% 4.3% 2%
Table 8: Traumatic experiences within the family Development Percentage Average age when development occurred My parents divorced 7.0% 8.34 A person close to me died 52.0% 12.51 A parent is severely ill 7.0% 14.28 A parent had severe accident 6.0% 9.68 A parent consumes a lot of alcohol 5.0% 9.69 I failed a class 3.0% 16.32 I had severe accident 3.0% 12.86 I am severely ill. 2.0% 12.40
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Graphs 21 and 22: Conversation This topic is seldom discussed with someone in 45% of cases. As to their friends/peers, family members, mother, respondents who contacted the expert person negligible and this can be explained by the fact that the the experts due to the fear of being labelled in rejection. In some cases, it is po reasons why they did not seek the help from others, the they did not think it was necessary to contact someone, then they did not know who contact and from whom to seek the help, then they mention shame and fear of consequences as the reasons (graph 24). It is visible from graph 25 that in 193 cases nothing changed for the respondent rather immediate effect of relief (friendly conversation). Not contacting the expert persons for help occurred due to the lack of information, non Graph 23: Persons who are usually contacted for help no 54% yes 46% % talked to someone about my e$perience Survey on B&H Youth Experiences Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
Conversation on experiences faced and issue of help discussed as it is expected, but our respondents shared their exp cases. As seen in the graph number 23, the most commonly to their friends/peers, family members, mother, father and relatives. s who contacted the expert person for help after having experienced the violence is can be explained by the fact that the respondents do not have confidence in the experts due to the fear of being labelled in society, as well as due to . In some cases, it is possible that there is the fear of perpetrator. While explaining the reasons why they did not seek the help from others, the respondents mention the following: firstly, they did not think it was necessary to contact someone, then they did not know who contact and from whom to seek the help, then they mention shame and fear of consequences as the reasons (graph 24). It is visible from graph 25 that in 193 cases, after confiding in someone, respondent, which can be explained by the fact that the conversation had rather immediate effect of relief (friendly conversation). Not contacting the expert persons for help occurred due to the lack of information, non-existence of services and inadequate service. are usually contacted for help no 54% % talked to someone about my e$perience no s're 12% yes 4% Do you feel you need help now" s Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
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s shared their experiences most commonly, they talked relatives. The percentage of experienced the violence is s do not have confidence in as well as due to the shame and fear of the fear of perpetrator. While explaining the s mention the following: firstly, they did not think it was necessary to contact someone, then they did not know whom they should contact and from whom to seek the help, then they mention shame and fear of consequences as , after confiding in someone, by the fact that the conversation had rather immediate effect of relief (friendly conversation). Not contacting the expert persons for help existence of services and inadequate service.
no 84% Do you feel you need help now"
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Graph 24: Reasons of not seeking help
Graph 25: Expectations from The fact that 114 (13,7%) of male indicative piece of information unexpected in comparison to larger number exposed to sexual abuse. by this question or the girls are traditional values (religion, customs, social control) and status of women in our society.
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seeking help from confiding in others about violence The fact that 114 (13,7%) of male respondents experienced some form of sexual abuse is highly ormation when compared to 80 female respondents ( comparison to the results of similar surveys which indicate that the girls are in a larger number exposed to sexual abuse. It is questionable what the male respondent by this question or the girls are less ready to share their experiences related (religion, customs, social control) and status of women in our society. s Concerning Various Forms of Violence and Trauma in Childhood
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some form of sexual abuse is highly s (10%). This result was veys which indicate that the girls are in a respondents understood related to sexuality due to (religion, customs, social control) and status of women in our society.
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26 26 The physical abuse, according to Kocijan-Hercigonja, which is the most commonly used definition of physical abuse, is the one that entails activities towards the person under 18 years of age which result in a risk of serious injuries, death or severe physical consequences caused by the persons who are responsible for the protection of a child under 18 years of age (Buljan Flander, G. and Kocijan Hercigonja, D. (2003); Abuse and Neglect of Children, Zagreb). This form of abuse is at the second place by frequency, but it makes most of cases, it is closely related to other forms of abuse. The most significant connection exists between the physical and emotional abuse by the father. The respondents abused by the father are to a somewhat lesser degree abused as well by the others outside the family and by the mother. The physical abuse by parents is correlated also to the neglect primarily by the father, and then by the mother, too. The data also indicate that the physical abuse by the parents can be linked to the sexual abuse by the father. The respondents who are neglected in the family and physically punished by the mother are to a significant extent neglected by the mother, and then by the father. The children who are neglected by both parents in the family are very often abused physically and emotionally by the side of others outside the family. The children who endure the physical abuse in the family go through that as traumatic experience inside the family, so they become more prone to and vulnerable to all the types of abuse and traumatic experiences outside the family. As far as the emotional plan is concerned, the most difficult experience for the respondents is the physical abuse by the father, then at somewhat lesser degree by the mother, and by intensity, at even lower extent by the others, which can be explained by the authoritative and patriarchal role which marks the traditional role model and significance of the role of father in the family. The abuse in the family decreases the optimism in the respondents, while increasing the pessimism significantly, which could explain the fact that the respondents basic confidence in his/her parents is decreased, and thereby they lose the feeling of confidence in the other adults generally. Very often that is why they do not seek help, since they do not expect they can get it. The parental role in such situations is significantly disturbed and the children in the function of time lose confidence in the protective role which the parents should offer to them and thus it influences the increase of pessimism. Anxiety in our respondents is considerably connected with the physical abuse first by the father, then by the mother and at to a lesser degree by the others. The respondents self-respect is negatively correlated to a physical abuse by the father, mother and others. Subjectively, children are rather affected more by the physical abuse by the father than by the mother, as seen in a deeper anxiety and lower self-esteem. The abuse by others is to a lesser degree also related to anxiety and self-esteem. The emotional abuse according to Kocijan-Hercigonja - in the widest sense encompasses a destructive behaviour of adults toward the child, including hostile behaviour and the absence of a positive approach (Buljan Flander, G. and Kocijan Hercigonja, D. (2003); Abuse and Neglect of Children, Zagreb). These are usually the children having low self-esteem and they become as such because of their emotional abuse, treatment in a destructive manner without paying attention to their needs, feelings and desires. By frequency, the emotional abuse is at the first place in our survey and it is not significantly connected with school result or aspirations towards academic accomplishments.
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27 27 The alcoholism in the family is considerably related to the emotional abuse by the father (.225**), to a lesser extent, but however significantly, it is related to the emotional abuse by the mother (.147**), and to an even lesser extent to the emotional abuse by others (.112**). The traumatic experience in the family is related to emotional abuse by the mother (.204**), and with emotional abuse by the others outside family (.159**), but not with the emotional abuse by the father. Emotional abuse by the father is significantly related to emotional abuse by the mother, as well as to emotional abuse by the others (.418**). Respondents who described their fathers as emotional abusers perceived them also as physical and sexual abusers. This pattern of father behaviour is considerably related to physical abuse, neglect, but also to sexual abuse by mother. There is also a weak, but statistically significant connection between the results in the respondents who perceived the father as the emotional abuser and a sexual abuse by the others. There is statistically significant connection of the results for the mothers whom the respondents marked as abusing them emotionally and neglecting them, sexual abuse by the father, as well as sexual abuse by the others. The emotional abuse is related to other forms of violence, most commonly to neglect which indicates that, in these families, the child needs are neglected or inadequately answered to by both parents but to different varying degree. These results imply the assumption that the parents who abuse emotionally the children have mutually dysfunctional relationship which results in their weaker support and protection of a child by the parents. The patterns of negative parental behaviour which are formed in such a way become the model for behaviour of children in the partner relations, as well as outside the family. The respondents having in their family milieu the experience of alcohol abuse and mental diseases and if the parents are disabled or have PTSP are more vulnerable, they are more prone to emotional abuse by the others outside family. The respondents who have some traumatic experience inside family are more subject to the emotional abuse. The results of the optimism scale are in a negative relation to emotional abuse by the mother and the father. The pessimism scale is more and positively related to an emotional abuse by the father, mother and others. The anxiety scale is considerably statistically connected to an emotional abuse by the father, mother and others. The self-esteem is negatively correlated to an emotional abuse by the father, mother and others. The test results indicate that the respondents who were emotionally abused are more anxious and have a lower self-esteem. The neglect can be defined as a lack of an adequate care and attention of adults towards the child. It significantly influences a normal physical and psychological development of a child. We can differentiate between the physical, emotional, health and educational neglect.
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28 28 The neglect of children in the family is significantly linked first and foremost to emotional and physical abuse by the father, then to emotional and physical abuse by the mother. If the physical and emotional abuse by one parent is present in the family, then also the physical and emotional abuse by the other parent is present, which indicates the interdependence and abuse between the parents, creating an unfavourable general ambience for the growth and development of children. The respondents who experienced the neglect by the side of the father exhibit poor school results compared to the peers, which can be explained by the fact that the role and the involvement of father influences more academic achievements, level of inspiration and motivation for further education than the role and involvement of the mother. The predisposition for traumatic experiences outside family is somewhat more probable in the respondents who were neglected by the father and mother. The respondents who were physically and emotionally abused by both parents carry a greater subjective feeling of traumatic experience. The pessimism is significantly positively related to a neglect by both parents, while the optimism is in a negative correlation. The children neglected by their mothers are more anxious than when neglected by the fathers. The neglect by the fathers is more significantly related to a level of self-esteem which implies that, although children are more anxious when neglected by the mothers, they have a more stable self- esteem than when neglected by fathers. According to these results, the contribution of the father to building the self-esteem in children is more important than mothers contribution. Witnessing to violence as one of the forms of violence is at the third place by frequency and represented in 43% of cases. This form of violence is related to all other forms of violence in the family and it refers to both parents. The female respondents are in a larger number the witnesses to violence within the family which comes from a father, to a lesser extent coming from a mother and mutually coming from both of them. Although they are not physically directly exposed to the violence, they perceive witnessing as significant emotional abuse by the father as well as by the mother and are more vulnerable when it comes to emotional abuse by the others. The children who witness the violence very often get physically abused themselves more frequently by the fathers, and somewhat less often by the mothers, and then by the side of others outside family. The correlations also indicate that the respondents who witness the violence inside family are statistically significantly more neglected by the side of their parents. Being a witness to violence is also linked to traumatic experience outside family, and they perceive it as the personal traumatic experience. Witnessing the violence in family is related to alcohol abuse and to a lesser extent to mental disorders. Being witness to violence by the father in family is related to pessimism, a bit more to level of anxiety and it is in a bit lower correlation with self-esteem. When being a witness to violence coming from the mother is also linked to pessimism and anxiety, but at significantly lesser extent than in relation to the father and it does not influence significantly the self-esteem of respondent.
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29 29 The sexual abuse according to Buljan-Flander is defined as any form of sexual contact between a child and adult or a teenager above 5 or more years of age and a child victim (Buljan Flander, G. and Kocijan Hercigonja, D. (2003); Abuse and Neglect of Children, Zagreb). Thereat the adult persons can be parents, members of close and extended family, teachers, coaches and others. The sexual abuse is at the last place by its frequency in our respondents and it is related to all forms of abuse. According to the obtained results, the age at which our respondents had unpleasant sexual experiences is between 8 and 16, which is in line with the results of other surveys dealing with this issue. Within the frame of sexual abuse, there is a higher connection primarily with emotional abuse, neglect and physical abuse by the father. When it comes to the sexual abuse by the mother, it is to significantly lesser extent connected to physical abuse, while the connections to the other forms of abuse are minor ones. If one parent abuses sexually the child, also the other parent is connected to that in some specific way. According to the other surveys, very often the parent who is not the perpetrator is involved in the way that s/he tacitly supports the abuse by keeping the family secret in such a way. There is the link which indicates the fact that the children who were abused sexually by the side of the father have greater odds of being abused by the side of others, outside family. If a child is sexually abused outside family, at a subjective level, a traumatic experience is more pronounced than when it is a matter of sexual abuse within family. Also, all the types of sexual abuse within family are transferred to a wider social milieu in terms of vulnerability to all the forms of abuse outside family. Personal traumatic experience, as well as a feeling of traumatic experience outside family is related to all the forms of sexual abuse, primarily by the others and then by the father. The pessimism is deeply related to sexual abuse, while that is not the case with the optimism. Sexual abuse of children by the father is insignificantly more related to anxiety in relation to sexual abuse by the mother. The sexual abuse by the father has a greater influence on the decrease of self-respect in respondents than when it is done by mother. The studies show that children who were the victims of sexual abuse are at an increased risk of suffering from mental diseases since that act leaves them very little control over what happened and creates the situation of helplessness which then has the effect of a stressor, which then influences the childs mental development and in women it can lead to suicide, or eating disorders, while in men, it can lead to delinquent behaviour and alcohol abuse. According to Gordana Buljan-Flander, the experiences in childhood deeply influence the parenthood. It is very difficult for the parents to give to the children what they themselves, as children, did not get. The victims of abuse did not get enough love, respect, acceptance and protection, thus they do not know how to give all of that to their children. They did not have the chance to learn how to be a parent. Depression, anxiety and anxious attachment with low self- respect are important predictors of transgenerational transmission of abuse. The circle of abuse is transferred in such a way and it is repeated from generation to generation Buljan Flander, G. and Kocijan Hercigonja, D. (2003); Abuse and Neglect of Children, Zagreb).
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30 30 Conclusions
In Bosnia and Herzegovina, the violence is still little discussed and many forms of abuse in the general population are not recognized as violence, especially those taking place inside family. The information that upon individual questions, which could be marked as sensitive, a total of 26% of respondents (N253) did not respond, tells about the presence of shame, fear and prejudice when talking about this topic in public. The respondents who answered the question on experiencing violence earlier in life (65%) report that they experienced the following forms of violence by frequency: emotional abuse (62%), physical abuse (58%), witness to violence (43%), neglect (27%) and sexual abuse (23,4%). Younger children are more often exposed to physical violence within family, whereas older children are more exposed to sexual violence. The respondents who stated that they suffered violence have been in most cases abused multiple times during a long-term period, which indicates the tendency of repetition and that it was chronic, thus the individual forms of violence rarely appear in isolation, but they are intertwined with other forms. The findings of this and similar surveys indicate that children are commonly threatened by the closest family members or the people that are close and familiar to children. Over 80% of respondents suffer indirect consequences of war developments, which is also reflected in the family structure (17% incomplete families), and it is even more important for its functioning in terms of addiction problems, mental disorders, post-trauma disorders, which altogether contributes to various forms of violence inside and outside family, as confirmed by our survey results. The survey shows that incompleteness of family does not jeopardize its functionality and that such families are not necessarily dysfunctional or with issues. None of the forms of violence is statistically significantly represented in the incomplete families compared to the complete ones. The most common forms of violence perpetrated by the parents, which the respondents experienced, are primarily emotional, physical and then witnessing violence. Similar patterns of violent behaviour are manifested by both parents; the only difference noticed is that the mothers emotionally punish children by silence, while the fathers do it by imposing restrictions. The survey results indicate that the usual communication in some families is marked by various forms of violence, thus these patterns of repetitive behaviour are learned by model and are transferred also to the other partner relations. The violence in the family is the most commonly committed by the father and/or mother and it is manifested through reasonless shouting, harsh criticism, comparison with other children, cursing, insulting and slapping. The emotional abuse is the most common form of abuse by the side of others outside family, and it is manifested in the form of mockery, insult, swearwords, harsh criticism, shouting and inappropriate comparisons.
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31 31 The results indicate a significant mutual connection between the individual forms of violence. The physical abuse is most commonly associated with the emotional one, while the neglect is significantly connected to being a witness of violence. Also, the emotional abuse and being witness to violence have a significant correlation. This additionally confirms the fact that the isolated forms of violence appear rarely, but they are mutually intertwined and connected in specific ways. All of that additionally confirms the fact that the children who are the victims of violence in most cases suffer multiple abuses. According to our information, sexual abuse is least present compared to the other forms of violence. In our survey, the results show that not a single case of explicit sexual act was identified, but the respondents mainly reported exposure to pornographic contents, being witness to intimacy of others, listening to unpleasant sexual words and exposure to parents nakedness. Some inappropriate and reported forms of behaviour are related to inappropriate touching of intimate body parts by parents. The interesting information of this survey is related to a large number of male respondents who stated they were sexually abused (30,6 %) in relation to female respondents who had negative sexual experience (17,5 %). This information can be explained by age of respondents and need to exaggerate first sexual experiences (boasting), by question of perception of what is traumatic at their age, and it can also be consequence of imprecisely defined questions, as well as of fact that the open conversation on this topic is less present in the public compared to western societies. Significant number of respondents did not respond to this question either, which can indicate lack of readiness to talk openly about this topic. When it is about the others outside family, there was insignificant number of explicit sexual contacts, then exposure to pornographic material, showing intimate body parts by others. Something that is in accordance with the other surveys is the fact that the largest number of undesired sexual contacts with others was experienced with persons outside family who are known to or close to respondents. Nearly half of those perpetrators were persons of age (45 %). The largest number of respondents had the traumatic experiences in the period from 8-16 years of age. In most cases, inside family, these experiences are related to death or severe disease or divorce of parents. The data indicate that the respondents who were exposed to traumatic experiences in the family were more subject to experiencing violence outside family. The data from our survey indicate that the traumatic experiences are little discussed, which is shown by the data that 54 % of respondents did not speak to anyone about their traumatic experiences. The majority of respondents (84 %) thinks that they do not need any type of help, which can be explained by not recognizing how difficult and far-reaching consequences such behaviour has on normal growth and development, as well as by the lack of readiness to talk about violence in our society. The traumatic experience outside the family is more represented from aspect of percentage and more present in our respondents, while the traumatic experience which occurs inside family is emotionally deeper by its strength and more important for the development of personality of a child. The anxiety and pessimism, as well as mental diseases and alcohol abuse in family are in a positive correlation with all the forms of abuse. The respondents who experienced any form of violence exhibit a higher level of anxiety and are more pessimistic for the future and have lower
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32 32 self-respect. Personal traumatic experiences are also in positive correlation with anxiety and in negative correlation with self-respect. We can presume that there are more objective data on violence in B&H than the results obtained. Certain number of marginalized children, such as the Roma children or children with special needs, are not comprised by this and similar surveys. On their educational path, these groups of children very often do not reach the final grade of high school, but they interrupt their education and finish it earlier, and, due to their vulnerability and specific life circumstances, they are often highly exposed to all forms of violence. Although the role of family should be protective in the process of growth and development of a child, the privacy and autonomy of family often hides dark secrets which jeopardize the child basic needs and rights. Domestic violence often takes place under the guise of disciplining the children. Regardless of the form, violence has the crucial influence on child psychological development, especially when it comes from adults important and close to the child. The parents themselves often do not have knowledge or skills how to substitute such forms of disciplining. From the mentioned results, we can conclude that some forms of violence are generally accepted forms of behaviour and are considered socially acceptable, which indicates that cultural and social factors, as well as settled traditional characteristics significantly influence the relations, understanding and acceptance of violence in the society.
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33 33 Recommendations
Informing the public and raising awareness of social community members on all types of behaviour treated and recognized as violence with an aim of reducing and suppressing violence through educational programmes through different media. Encouraging changes in the perception of society that violence is not a private matter of an individual and family. Training media staff on the protection of children when reporting on them, especially when it comes to children who are victims of sexual violence. Initiating policies and procedures and establishing referential system for protection of children against violence. Advocating adequate and consistent enforcement of laws that treat the issue of violence. Informing society members on the legislative framework. Promoting capacities for monitoring and establishing a systematic collection of data on violence. Ensuring data exchange and cooperation between all the stakeholders with aim of prevention and reduction of violence. Offer the parents educational programmes that provide models of nonviolent disciplining of children, adequate communication, better understanding of their needs and learning about appropriate ways of meeting their needs. Establishing social support and prevention programmes for families at risk. Timely and adequate informing of youth by parents, teachers and community members on the recognition and protection against various forms of violence. Development and implementation of programmes for prevention of violence amongst children and youth. Encouraging the establishment of zero tolerance to violence in schools and amongst peers.
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